RE: Plenty of Fish New Policy: No More Dating Younger Women
Plenty of Fish is the bottom of the dating barrel for the most part. I have used POF over the last 10 years off and on. I experienced many horror stories and had very few positive meet ups with POF.
I have talked to about 150 girls online and or over the phone. my face to face meet ups are about 40- 50 different Women over the last ten years from the POF site. It is rare to meet any chicks on POF that where better quality in looks and or attitude, when comparing them to the ones I would meet in a straight forward way at the bar.
The bottom line is POF is a dating site for chicks who need a gimmick to bamboozle Men, or too lazy to make any efforts like loosing weight or any other type self improvement.
I have found that several basic types of women frequent online dating sites like POF
1.The stuck-up, snooty women who think they are God’s gift to men. With the tons of e-mail they get from hopeful adoring beta men, they acquire both swelled heads and a wildly unrealistic opinion of their market value in the dating world.
Women like this are clearly suffering from what I call ‘Princess Delusion ’ With a laundry list of ‘requirements’ and ‘standards’ only a Arab Prince could ever afford to pay for. These chicks are always in the low 7s they see themselves as a 10 plus.
They may actually take great photos, and will look much better in their photos than they do in real life.
They are usually anorexic thin with big fancy salon hair, fake nails with sparkles on them, color of orange spray tan, tons of globed on make-up, sometimes they have fake tits.
You will hear a non stop chirping vibrating Smartphone,
she will be driving her ex husbands SUV.
she will be secretive and subversive when you ask about current or previous employment, these kind of questions will be treated as if its a national security state secret. Don’t expect any truthful answers. Anything she tells you, make sure she hears you laugh out loud.
she toots around a massive purse, sometimes and a little dog lives inside of it.
This type of chicks is on more than 3 or more prescription for her depression anxiety, sometimes has a secret coke habit that she will try and hide from you.
she will never give you any solid eye contact and can never hold a conservation of any depth or intelligence.
Yet she believes that some dude should fly her around in a private jet, provide free flowing champagne.
Give her a black American Express card for her to use, in exchange this dude will get a passed around vagina and a bad attitude in return.
Sometime she comes with a pack of idiot friends one of then being a flaming twink gay dude. That will be all up in your business, with comment like ‘you better take good care of her because I luv Her’ then you say ‘she’s all yours buddy!’
2. Attention junkies. These chicks main goal is not to date or even meet up they just want to fill their Smartphone with a pipeline of beta male friends so they can “like” every picture they post, and feed their ego addiction with adoring beta males to text messages non-stop 24-7.
The main aim in life for this type of chick is to get approval and recognition for everything she posts online via the Smartphone, because her life is so fascinating and every bit of its needs to be document for everyone, and for the whole world to witness.
In her photos they may appear to be a trendy hipsters, wearing big fake glasses,. her POF profile will have some kind of clever headline line
“Can you say facial recognition! ” or “I would be McJuicy ”
This is the same kind of idiot chick that will photograph and pose with everything she eats, especially if the foods is cooked in hipster foodie Truck with flames painted on the side of it, that sell burritos made from Tibetan yak meat. OMG! so trendy! I better take a picture and post it!
3. Gold-diggers (Hookers) No explanation needed here!
4. Professional daters, her photos will be about ten years old. these are the true bottom of barrel scum bags on POF, she will use you for free meals, booze or nights out to the movies or what ever else they can leech out of you.
The worst part is that these chicks are always in the low 6s , with a very bland boring personalities and always seem to smell funny and dress real bad, and live with a bunch of stray cats.
But there will always be a desperate beta-males just a few computer clicks away to ready and willing feed her ego and waste their time and money on these dirt bags.
5. The Fema-Nazi Sociopath. Who gets off on rejecting men for sport, She enjoys baiting you into a argument.
Sometimes she will play possum and will wait to for a public show down, or shut you down in a dramatic way just when you think things are getting cozy, just to show you who’s boss.
These sociopath main aim in life is to crush a man confidence and humiliate. Once in while they might be a solid 8 and know how to lure you in with sex appeal and can be highly flirtatious just to mess with your head more.
At the end of the day its only be about her having a emasculation victory of you.
6. Sad single mothers. looking for a new baby Daddy. Sometime they lie, and or downplay about having a kid until you meet you. Sad and depressing shit move along as fast as you can.
7. Women from foreign countries where poverty and crime is rife. Probably half of these women are allied with fraudsters seeking to fleece lonely men. or even worst looking for a old man for marriage then she will slowly poison him to death, so she can liquidate everything he owns post mortem.
8. Drunks, druggies, other assorted psychopaths that might be HIV POSITIVE. BE WARNED these chicks come with a psycho ex boyfriend. Whom she will tell all about you, if she feels rejected by you, because you cant hide your disgust, because of the rotten fish breath, and the yellow/brown corn meth teeth.
She will post pictures from her high school days. She might demand a meet up right away “I’m DTF!”
without the usual talking on the phone or endless emailing. This should be your first red flag.
This is one you truly don’t want having your real cell number, you might have to change it afterward. (just like I had too, because of a POF Psycho.)
9. Fat Chicks with head only shots. Sometimes they claim to be a ‘Curvy BBW. and ‘Real Men like Curves!
You might think a big booty might be tempting offer especially after viewing big wet butts online and tapping that big booty might be a fun way to spend the evening.
Unfortunately these chick come packing more just that a big booty, its going to big everything else too. Unlike the Girls in the big booty movies.
If you do dare to move forward always add 50 - 100 pounds on top of what you think the estimated body mass on this these land whales She will always weigh more than you expect.
For a first date Offer to take her out for Twinkies deep-fried wrapped in bacon and pancakes smothered in maple syrup. Yummy!
If you do still decide to use POF, especially now with more BS POF rules.
This how I would processed after 10 years of my many trials and errors of using this site, and meeting a lot of crazy damaged bitches.
1.) Get a pay as you go cell phone. This help you weed the chicks that only want be text message chat friends and the psychotic crazies from having your real number.
2.) Set up a new email address never give out your main email especially one you might use for business or Work. (Yes! I was once so stupid.)
3.) Make more than one profile, a fake one with a picture that kind of looks like you the more it can pass as you the better. This so you can target chicks that like your looks, for example if you are a black dude, don’t use a Nordic blond dude as your recon profile. It defeats the purpose of your screening.
4.) Hide your real profile. be a very selective when revealing it. Only after you run your screening process.
Its worth noting; I have meet girls from my recon profile because it was close to the way I look, and they where pleasantly surprised because I looked better than the posted recon pictures.
With your fake recon profile. You can be bunt, ask the hard questions. Shake them up. Weed out the loser.
Keep your eye on the just added accounts, this has best potential on the whole site.
I have found some real gold in this section, like foreign girls just move into the city who are lonely and horny.
(I have gotten lucky a few times with this section)
Or attractive foreign backpacker staying at some shitty hostel. If you don’t creep her out, she could be staying with you during her visit. If you work your magic right.
This my system after 10 years that I perfected for myself. I’m going to share what works best for me, when comes to meeting up live for the first time.
Most important it will save you the time, money and bullshit that I have suffered though.
Daytime coffee date only for the first meet up
Meet mid to late afternoon and not in your neighborhood.
If you live in large urban centre, as I do, (I live in Vancouver, Canada)
But if you live in a small town or in rural setting this wont work for you.
Be late on purpose, 10-15 mins.
You don’t want to look like a loser sitting by yourself eyeing every chick walking into the place giving off a desperate vibe.
This not the first impression you want to give to her.
Believe it or not this is a easy way to break the ice.
Its gives you something to talk about right away, you can make a up funny bullshit story about why you are late.
Make a killer first impression when you walk in.
Be on you’re A+ game
look sharp you want to surprise her by looking better than your photos.
Hit the gym before the meet up, wear a fresh sharp looking outfit.
But be natural, don’t look your trying hard to impress her. Show relaxed confidence with good eye contact, smile lots.
Are the other chicks in the coffee place are checking you out ? If you can answers yes! Then your doing good.
See if you can get her to laugh.
If she doesn't laugh or even crack a smile, she just your failed the “bitch test’ and if you feel any coldness from her cut the coffee date short, trust me the rest the date is not going to go well. Go and enjoy the rest your day.
The whole point of the coffee date. is a chemistry test and way to test how good is your bullshit detector. How well you can screen through the mob of online POF loser.
When you walk by and if you see she is 100 pounds of extra blubber or just fugly as hell.
I look straight a head and then keep walking don’t even waste your time. Be ruthless with these kind of creepy bitches.
Remember this POF, most meet ups will not go past the coffee round.
In my experience even with good profiling 3 out of 5 chicks will lie and are simply not what they seem to be online or the phone, You are very disappointed when you meet them. I been fooled by many chicks that have a very sweet sounding phone voice.
If she a solid 7 and she giving you a some wood and not a psycho, then at this stage I suggest a change of scenery, I will take her for a drink to upscale hotel lounge in the area with a really good chill vibe, this will be almost magical transition from the boring coffee shop.
It will also feel like a second date psychologically to her.
I avoid the chain restaurants or any new trendy hipster spots, the staff and atmosphere can be a bad distraction and poorly trained moronic staff have ruin the mood when they messed up my orders or just a being a douche to you or your Date.
Its worth the few extra bucks to have the guaranteed smoother experience. Plus the upscale surroundings will make her feel good about you and she is special, it wont cost that much more.
Because it will be still early in the day still these place will be mellow and have relaxing vibe to chill her out. This stage is to put a put her at ease, let her do most of the talking, make her smile, tell her jokes, be light and playful.
Soon the place slowly will fills up with the happy hour crowd, the room will start to get louder, Now I will have to sit in closer to so I can hear her talk, I will put my arm around as tell her a joke and we are both laughing a lot by this stage. I will order a round shots to get the party started and to ramp things up.
Mission almost accomplished now soon it will be time for a cab ride to my place with a quick stop at the liquor store and best part still only early evening. Now its time close the deal. And if doesn't work out for you even at this stage. You still have time to go out back to the bar because you all warmed up. and the night will be young.
(This post was last modified: 06-13-2013 02:48 AM by Marco 93.)
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