Post: #51

(09-10-2011 12:26 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(09-10-2011 08:05 AM)tenderman100 Wrote:  

(09-07-2011 09:14 PM)guey Wrote:  As far as sex goes, ALL girls like to be pushed a little. No way do you start out rough, but you should push the envelope more and more and learn her body language. You'll get an understanding of what's too much and what's just right.

Always push the envelope, little by little. Eventually, you'll have yourself a trained little whore. Some sooner than others.

Another quoted for truth.

Yesterday, I was banging one of my two married babes, and I started doing the dominance thing. Throwing her around putting her into positions when I wanted to, a bit of choking from time to time, a bit of face slapping, really exerting my superior strength -- but nothing that would injure her (I would of course never injure any female, ever).

It was a wild afternoon of tremendous sex.

After it was over, she said..."I love how you dominated me. I know you'd never hurt me, but I got lost in the possibility."

There it is, gentlemen. The sweet spot.

When I first started doing stuff like this, I was afraid that I might scare away a few girls. Chocking them, slapping them, tying them to the bed, gagging them, taking pictures of it, etc. I thought I might be pushing the envelope a little to far?

I was wrong! Only 2 girls complained out of about 20. One said..."I dont like it when you call me a bitch", but everything else was cool. And the other one didn't like me pulling her hair and slapping her ass, so I toned it down a little.

All the other girls were into it. Some more then others. Some were new to it and just experimenting with it. Others literally got off on it.

The funny thing was that a few of them sort of gave me power over them. I remember one girl in particular, we were sort of having a power struggle in the relationship. She wanted to control the relationship and so did I. She was used to bossing guys around but I wasn't having that. One night we were in bed, I starting telling her to call me daddy, I started slapping her and being rough with her. I swear to god, as soon as I slapped her the whole relationship changed. She gave me the power. It turned her on. Once I showed her that I was masculine enough to slap her, she gave me the power in the relationship.

I actually have it on video. Its crazy because as soon as I slap her you can see her whole body language and voice change. She submitted to me right then and there.

My gf is of the same caliber. She's annoyingly dominant, works in finance, etc. I tell her she has a speck of masculinity in her head and I don't like it.

She always gives the, "and what are you going to do about it?'

Rough house the shit out of you until you start acting like a good little woman. Women with that spec of masculinity in them want a man to over power that. They'll submit easily.

I always go for the power fuck, ass slapping, and dirty talk. I had one girl though who didn't like it rough. Basically i had to go very slow and gentle. It was, interesting and as much as I hate to say it i liked the gentle nice sex.

But i'll hate screw every chick i run into. I love the dominant game.

Post: #52

(05-07-2013 10:59 AM)MrXY Wrote:  Being alpha with her from the start is important though- you can't come across a nice guy and then go caveman on her in the bedroom. I'm not saying go all sexual on the date- I'm saying she should be able to surmise from your persona on the date what you will be like to fuck so she can make a decision about whether that's something she wants or not.

I agree. When i got my most recent notch i showed verbal dominance in the bar, then in the bedroom and in the morning she was lost in the frame that was set the previous night:

She asked to exchange numbers and quickly follow up with "we don't have to if you don't want to, but i think you would say so anyways"

In all of our later interactions she also seemed overly compliant.

Post: #53

(05-07-2013 11:14 AM)frenchie Wrote:  She always gives the, "and what are you going to do about it?'

Yup, when they say stuff like that, you know she is looking for some discipline.

My girls likes to make me mad on purpose just so she can get "punished".

They like to play around with the whole "power", "discipline", "little girl", "authoritative man", fantasy.

It's all in good fun, and sex.

Post: #54

read the book "say it again" by alan roger currie, it's all about talking dirty.

Post: #55

(05-07-2013 10:59 AM)MrXY Wrote:  Being alpha with her from the start is important though.

Personally I make a point to come in a girl's mouth or on her face on our first sex together. She'll never again ask herself if I think of her in a sexual way and never wonder who is the dominant player in the relationship. Maybe it's a mute point, but I personally think it sends the right message. Not all girls like that initially, but they adapt with remarkable speed...

Post: #56

(05-21-2013 09:47 AM)Prosal Wrote:  

(05-07-2013 10:59 AM)MrXY Wrote:  Being alpha with her from the start is important though.

Personally I make a point to come in a girl's mouth or on her face on our first sex together. She'll never again ask herself if I think of her in a sexual way and never wonder who is the dominant player in the relationship. Maybe it's a mute point, but I personally think it sends the right message. Not all girls like that initially, but they adapt with remarkable speed...

I don't do this nearly enough. I find that I much prefer cumming inside my girl. It seems like the most dominant form, biologically, if you ask me.

But the couple time I have given facials they have been fucking awesome and intensified the sexual dynamic hugely.

I will experiment!

Post: #57

Anyone ever get down like this? Nacho Vidal and Rocco are good to watch if you want to learn how to be more dominate in the bedroom/

Post: #58

Off in search of a bunny mask....

Post: #59

(05-21-2013 09:51 AM)gandt Wrote:  

(05-21-2013 09:47 AM)Prosal Wrote:  

(05-07-2013 10:59 AM)MrXY Wrote:  Being alpha with her from the start is important though.

Personally I make a point to come in a girl's mouth or on her face on our first sex together. She'll never again ask herself if I think of her in a sexual way and never wonder who is the dominant player in the relationship. Maybe it's a mute point, but I personally think it sends the right message. Not all girls like that initially, but they adapt with remarkable speed...

I don't do this nearly enough. I find that I much prefer cumming inside my girl. It seems like the most dominant form, biologically, if you ask me.

But the couple time I have given facials they have been fucking awesome and intensified the sexual dynamic hugely.

I will experiment!

Cumming inside a girl is more biologically dominant I agree-since she could get pregnant- but her swallowing or at least receiving a facial is far more psychologically dominant.

Moreover-it's an indication of how much she feels like you have dominated her sexually. I see guys on this board, and have heard guys in person complain, that their girl won't swallow or take a facial. I think this is a sign that they are being insufficiently dominant if it keeps happening with different girls.

The last 9 girls I have gotten blowjobs from have ALL swallowed the first time, without me telling them to, asking them to, bringing it up in any way, or physically trying to force them to. I will often grab a handful of hair while they're blowing me, but I'm not forcing their head down at that point.

But this is after I've pulled their hair, dragged them around the room, grabbed the back of their neck and bent them over, choked them, pinned them so they can't escape, sometimes slapped them,pushed their face into the mattress, dirty talked them, shoved them face first against the wall so I can fuck them from behind, and so on.

By that point they are like a puddle of warm jello. Super turned on, very sexually compliant, and happy to take a load in the face.

Post: #60

Heres a link the full movie of that bunny mask GIF. Its Skin Diamond and Nacho... just skimmed threw it, shits pretty raw and awesome.
http://www.cliphunter.com/w/1150408/Skin...s_by_Nacho

Post: #61

(05-30-2013 08:34 PM)houston Wrote:  Anyone ever get down like this? Nacho Vidal and Rocco are good to watch if you want to learn how to be more dominate in the bedroom/

LOL

Post: #62

That's London Keyes, not skin diamond.

Post: #63

(05-30-2013 09:36 PM)MrXY Wrote:  

(05-21-2013 09:51 AM)gandt Wrote:  

(05-21-2013 09:47 AM)Prosal Wrote:  

(05-07-2013 10:59 AM)MrXY Wrote:  Being alpha with her from the start is important though.

Personally I make a point to come in a girl's mouth or on her face on our first sex together. She'll never again ask herself if I think of her in a sexual way and never wonder who is the dominant player in the relationship. Maybe it's a mute point, but I personally think it sends the right message. Not all girls like that initially, but they adapt with remarkable speed...

I don't do this nearly enough. I find that I much prefer cumming inside my girl. It seems like the most dominant form, biologically, if you ask me.

But the couple time I have given facials they have been fucking awesome and intensified the sexual dynamic hugely.

I will experiment!

Cumming inside a girl is more biologically dominant I agree-since she could get pregnant- but her swallowing or at least receiving a facial is far more psychologically dominant.

Moreover-it's an indication of how much she feels like you have dominated her sexually. I see guys on this board, and have heard guys in person complain, that their girl won't swallow or take a facial. I think this is a sign that they are being insufficiently dominant if it keeps happening with different girls.

The last 9 girls I have gotten blowjobs from have ALL swallowed the first time, without me telling them to, asking them to, bringing it up in any way, or physically trying to force them to. I will often grab a handful of hair while they're blowing me, but I'm not forcing their head down at that point.

But this is after I've pulled their hair, dragged them around the room, grabbed the back of their neck and bent them over, choked them, pinned them so they can't escape, sometimes slapped them,pushed their face into the mattress, dirty talked them, shoved them face first against the wall so I can fuck them from behind, and so on.

By that point they are like a puddle of warm jello. Super turned on, very sexually compliant, and happy to take a load in the face.

Great post.

But for current girls.. how do you transition from being just average dominant to super dominant?

For instance, I know that I am being dominant enough that I lead and control what happens during sex. She asked me to tie her up a couple times - once I tied both her hands behind her back and fucked her from behind while pushing the side of her face into the bed and biting her neck.

Despite that, I still haven't finished on her mouth/face. I wanted to once but she said she doesn't like cum and didn't let me. I didn't push for it as I am satisfied by finishing on her tits.

I'm not too bothered by it because although I could probably be more dominant, I'm enjoying how it is with the current girl now. But I want to know for future reference, how can I add to this dominance so that girls that don't like cum on their face/mouth end up loving it because it's me that is doing it?

Post: #64

(06-01-2013 01:11 PM)Gopher Wrote:  That's London Keyes, not skin diamond.

Yea I later after posting that realized it wasnt even the same movie from the GIF. I failed

Post: #65

Regarding finding out a girl's limit:

There's always some risk involved, I like to feel things out as I go along.

One of the most submissive women I had, was in her 40' 50's, and had only found out she liked being submissive recently when I asked her about it.

She said her former BF was fucking her up the ass and she didn't like it at the time and asked him to stop.

He wouldn't/ didn't stop, and she said that totally turned her on, and then figured out she wanted to be dominated. So technically I guess she could have filed a rape complaint about that.

She was pretty off the hook. Once I beat her bare ass with the bristle side of a hairbrush and the bristles started to raise tiny drops of blood. I was freaking out that I had really hurt her and she just grinned and didn't care at all.

I sort of calmed myself down, but her reaction seemed really incongruous to me and sort of alarmed me more, like "holy shit she doesn't care HOW crazy it gets if she survives." It seemed there was something demonic about it to me, she seemed possessed, now I'm more cynical.

Post: #66

I was watching a porno where the guy held the girl down and covered her mouth with his left hand and fingered her (the proper way, with the full arm action, middle fingers, and heel of palm on pubic bone). She writhed in pleasure and squirted all over. Have found this is a good move to initiate a girl into rough, dirty sex - this and pushing her down to her knees to undo your pants and suck your dick.

Post: #67

I say/do some crazy shit. Especially when I've been drinking.

Last night I spit in a girls mouth.

Fell asleep with the condom on last night too. That was a first. Woke up and had a fucking condom still on my dick. Slept the whole night with the thing on. Scary. Gotta stop drinking so much.

Post: #68

Lol. I wanna try one of his moves next time.

Post: #69

Recently took out a nice little Russian brunette to a shooting range. Before hand, we joked around about BDSM. I anticipated showing her how to shoot would make her panties wet, which emboldened me to proceed with the next step...

We made a bet that I wouldn't bring rope with me to the date, as our running joke was that I end up tying up all my dates.

After we were done shooting, I tell her to sit down while I put my firearms away in the trunk. As I'm doing this, I pull out a 30 foot coil of hemp bondage rope and a ball gag. I open up the rear door and throw the bondage implements on her lap from behind to surprise her. I get in the car and simply say 'I win.' She gives me this look indicating its on.

I tied her hands together in the parking lot of the shooting range, drive down some side streets until it gets dark so I can park in front of some house. I finish tying her up in the backseat of my car and proceed to fuck the shit out of her and administer some spankings that she earned previously.

It is indeed better to err to much on the bold side.

This was also our first time meeting in person.


I wonder what would've happened if a cop pulled me over and decided to search my trunk. Two hand guns, rope, and a ball gag possessed by an active duty member of the armed forces? Someone's going to jail!

Post: #70

(06-01-2013 02:56 PM)Nascimento Wrote:  But for current girls.. how do you transition from being just average dominant to super dominant?

If she's been drinking this can be a good thing. You need to introduce it in steps and gauge her reaction. If she liked it when you tied her up, then tie her up and finish on her stomach or her tits or her ass/back and gauge her reaction. Amp up the roughness and see how she reacts.

If she won't take it on her face she better be swallowing it.

(06-01-2013 06:26 PM)MidniteSpecial Wrote:  I say/do some crazy shit. Especially when I've been drinking.

Last night I spit in a girls mouth.

Fell asleep with the condom on last night too. That was a first. Woke up and had a fucking condom still on my dick. Slept the whole night with the thing on. Scary. Gotta stop drinking so much.

Spitting in a girl's mouth is not as crazy as you would think. I've realized that if you dominate a girl in bed, they are more likely to accept you putting fingers in their mouths, lightly choking them, and spitting in their mouths than they will take a facial.

Post: #71

That guy is clearly letting out the stress from the day lol

Post: #72

Kinda sad how I have to relearn how to have sex.

And here I was going all emotional on a girl with soft kisses and tender touches when I was having sex with chicks back in the day. No wonder they ran off like a Negro caught at a Ku Klux Klan rally.


So done...

Ahab

Post: #73

(06-04-2013 05:35 PM)Captain Ahab Wrote:  Kinda sad how I have to relearn how to have sex.

And here I was going all emotional on a girl with soft kisses and tender touches when I was having sex with chicks back in the day. No wonder they ran off like a Negro caught at a Ku Klux Klan rally.


So done...

Ahab

I still enjoy this part of being intimate with a woman so I haven't cut it out completely, but keeping it to a minimum and using it to mix things up has made it WAY more effective and appreciated. Especially if you do it when they're least expecting it, like right in the middle of you pounding them from behind, standing them up, spinning them around and kissing them passionately, touching them lightly, getting them to melt even more, then turning them around, shoving their face down, and fucking them even harder.

Sounds a little psychotic, but women interpret it as passionate and caring and intense this way. If you just have soft sex with them and always are trying to please them and be gentle they will eventually sour to your advances. Sprinkling it in here and there can be pretty powerful on her psyche and bond her hard to you.

Post: #74

I've recently been amazed at how many girls are willing to rim you on the first date. So, yeah, be aware that the girl you picked up at the bar probably was licking another dude's ass not too long ago.

Post: #75

(06-04-2013 05:03 PM)alphaspiraton Wrote:  That guy is clearly letting out the stress from the day lol

Him and Rocco (I think Rocco is Nacho Vidal's porn mentor or some shit lol) fuck the shit out of them and are rough as hell but they also slow down and whisper in their and kiss on them. gotta go back and forth like a swing.