Post: #751

(05-14-2013 06:46 PM)little wing Wrote:  You should try to be wittier.
Facial expression and prosody is also really important. You need to make her feel comfortable around you quickly.
It's very hard to get a girl's number when you have not once made her laugh or smile

She did smile! The only reason I am not comfortable with indirect is because deep down I feel like I'm not being honest, and I'm beating around the bush. I'm gonna stick to direct game. I wanna be like Johnny Bravo without being rejected as much.

Post: #752

I came into the airport last week and was standing outside waiting for my ride. A fine as sister was standing next to me. She just now called. We're meeting for dinner this weekend. She'll be my 4-5 black chick here in the ATL.

Best part is, I have no recollection of what she looked likes, or how I gamed her. I came into the ATL belligerent drunk. My friend that picked me up said she was thin and fine as fuck. That's the only reason I agreed to meet her.

I have so much game I can do it on autopilot.

Post: #753

Instant Application of RVF Game material in reality, Here are the details.....

I was reading the Older Guys 40+ thread on my phone at a University's Starbucks and specifically IKE's post on Eye Contacts and kinda agreed to what he was saying " If a Girl looks at you twice , Game's on".

here is a little bit of excerpt from his post.

Quote:To summarize and quote R. Don Streele "If she makes eye contact twice, it's not an accident."

This is American-specific--I believe women are highly socially alert and control and limit their eye-contact cuing very strictly. The vast majority of eye contacts are not accidental.

To American girls, making eye contact feels like they're exposing themselves emotionally, they feel as if they are giving away a lot. Maybe it's because of the time-is-money culture.

I am increasingly under the impression that in coffee-shop day game ( the only kind I do now) if a young woman makes eye-contact more than one time she is interested and is cuing. She at least wants your approval, whether she would accept sexual attention and date you is another matter. It seems only moderately related to her level of attractiveness, although 6-7+ blonds AND 8+ brunette whites under 25 rarely cue me (50+) as they are the most valued in America. I myself am targeting Asians much more as it seems I get a 1-2 point bump. I suspect they actually think about and want hybrid babies to try to get into a higher class (in their mind) in America.

Men are fertility detectors, women are status detectors.

To oversimplify, because it is more fun here is my current hypothesis:
Makes Eye contact Once = EC1

EC1 - Does not find you disgusting
EC2- Like something about you, will talk after shyness or initial bitch shield is disarmed.
EC3 ( very rare) is actually thinking about the logistics of getting talked to by you.
EC4- is considering or fantasizing about dating, fucking you. (<1/100 girls do this with me)

Pure gold above and I am nodding my head and agreeing with IKE that if a Girl looks at me twice, It's on and I will pay close attention to this phenomenon and ............................

I see a Brunette with exotic look 7.5 coming down the stairs and at the bottom of the stairs she looks at me once, Our eyes meet for a second and linger for just a fraction longer then normal and she looks away and I'm puzzled, was there something ? she goes to order her coffee, I look in her direction about a min later and she turns around and looks at me, our eyes meet each other, No smile, nothing, This time I look away smiling that it's on.

With all my Calculations I time the delivery of her coffee by Barista and get up & go ask her as she moves away (Almost Perfect Timing)

Me: Excuse me, What kinda scrubs are those ?

Her: They are Dansko

Me: Oh no I meant what dept they are from ?

Her: I am in Dental College

Me: I thought Dental college wear the same color as --------

Her: True, I bought these at a medical fair, we are allowed to wear whatever color we like.

Me: I just moved here from Florida and don't know much about the shops, where can I find a store that sells scrubs.

Her: One is on such & such road, another one is on -----

Her: Do you work around here

Me: Yes, I am a consultant for -----

Her: Great , How did you get into consulting in your field...

Me: Call me non-conformist, I hate the 9-5 Grind, Basically I only have to commit 3-6 months and I get to travel on company's dime. Most Importantly I only work 8-9 months in a year and travel the rest of time.

Her: (Getting excited) I can't wait to start traveling , Where have you travelled to ?

Me: This year has been Carribean heavy, DR, Bahamas, Jamaica, last year was Europe, next planned trip is to Brazil and colombia.

Her: (Pupils dilated) where are you from ?

Me: Guess

Her: Middle East or Turkey

Me: wrong and tell her......

Her: I would not have thought so

Me: Listen I have to be back in that building by 1:00 Pm and would love to carry on the conversation with you.

Her: I would like that too but I have an exam to take later.

Me: lets exchange numbers and we will get together at a good time

Number close and as I am moving away she is still standing there watching me go and says " It was really nice meeting you" , I turn around and say likewise.

Post: #754

Did my first approach last night in a few weeks. I've had some problems with my stomach, stress related and probably IBS, and finally got some meds this week and feeling normal again. I was feeling shit for about 3 and a half weeks, really bloated, my state was down, depressed, but now I'm back.

Last night on the DLR (kind of like a metro) home, I'm sitting opposite a girl and we lock eyes for a few seconds. Then later on in the journey, we lock eyes again for a few seconds. The train is packed, and I'm not feeling gutsy enough to chat to her in front of loads of people, especially since I hadn't opened a girl for a while. I say to myself that if she gets off at my stop, then I'm gonna chat to her.

She's a small little mouse, just my type. If we're giving points, I'd say a 7. Not the best, and certainly not the worst, and I really liked her ass.

We're walking down the stairs to the ground, her in front of me and some ugly girl behind us. I'd heard her speaking Spanish (I thought) on the phone to someone on the train so I opened her in Spanish.

Me: Perdon, senorita?

She turns around and looks at me smiling.

Me: Es usted espanol?

I catch up with her now and am walking side by side down the stairs.

Girl: Nooo! Italiano
Me: Oh, okay. I heard you on the telephone and I thought you were Spanish
Girl: No no, I was talking to my friend in Italian
Me: I should've known really. I have an ex girlfriend who is Italian and know other Italians.

We're at the bottom of the stairs now and I've stopped her.

Me: It's because you talk so fast, I don't know which language is which
Girl: Yes, I've been here for 5 months. My English is not so good
Me: Well, you understand me, so that is good
Girl: Yes, I try
Me: My name's Matt (hold out my hand)
Girl: I'm Monica (she takes my hand is smiling massively at me)
Me: Monica? That's a nice name. You're the first Monica I know
Girl: Well it's nice to meet you
Me: And what have you been doing with yourself today?
Girl: I have just finished at work, I work at Jamie Oliver's
Me: The restaurant?
Girl: Yes, I'm the pastry chef!
Me: Sooo...you bake cakes and pies all day?
Girl: Yes!
Me: YOU bake cakes and pies all day?
Girl: (smiling more) Yes!
Me: .....cakes and pies?

She's laughing now. I grab her face with both of my hands.

Me: I am already in love with you.
Girl: (laughing still) Ohh stop it!
Me: What is the best dessert you make?
Girl: Tiramisu! It's my favourite
Me: Of course
Girl: Yes, in Italy, we love it.
Me: I love it too, let's make a deal. You have to make one for me
Girl: Okay then! (really enthusiastic)
Me: Okay, in England when we make a deal, we shake hands

(we shake hands)

Girl: Okay, I promise!
Me: Do you live around here?
Girl: Yes, I live that way (she points and it's the same direction as me)
Me: Oh, that's the same way as me. Let's start walking

We're walking back just chatting to each other casually when we get to a point where we're heading in the opposite direction.

Me: Well, I'm going this way
Girl: Oh , I live over there
Me: Alright well listen, do you have a boyfriend? (nice one, Jabba)
Girl: (crosses legs) no!
Me: Okay well I'm going to take you out for a drink some time, and you have to make me Tiramisu, remember?
Girl: Yes, it'll be the best one you ever have!
Me: Put your number in my phone and I'll text you some time

(I hand her my phone)

Girl: Maybe it is better to add each other on Facebook?
Me: I don't have Facebook
Girl: Oh you don't have Facebook?
Me: Nope, deleted it months ago
Girl: Okay then (she types her number in my phone)
Me: I'll text you some time then, alright?
Girl: Alright. You know you can get back to your apartment through here?
Me: I didn't, show me the way

She walks me through this scabby council estate and to the road near mine. Again, we stop.

Me: Well, it was nice meeting you
Girl: And you!

We do the cheek kissing thing, then a bit more talk, then the cheek kissing thing again. We're just about to walk away and I grab her hand and say "wait, which way" and she starts point for me and telling me (I live next to a supermarket so she knows the way). All the time she's holding my hand. I tried to read her for a proper kiss but it wasn't gonna happen, that's what rustiness does to you. We parted ways and she had a massive smile on her face. I'll text her tomorrow and try get her round for drinks next weekend.

Post: #755

I went out with a forum member yesterday. It was a Sunday, a slow gaming day for me, I'm not too aggressive on Sundays..

But, I wanted to demonstrate a few proper day time approaches for this forum member who came to hang out with me.

We went to a Trader Joes, I did 2 approaches:

The first one was a "Soft Approach".

Young Asian girl, maybe a 6, nothing special. I saw her holding a bag of salad..

me: excuse me, where is the organic spring mix?
her: oh, its right over there.

She physically walked over about 5 steps to show me where it was. I really had no interest in the salad, I was just using the salad as a way to "Soft Open" her.

me: awesome, thanks
her: you're welcome

Smile, smile, eye contact. Good eye contact. I got a good vibe from her.

The forum member and I discussed the concept of a "Soft Open". At this point, the girl is now warm to me and I am in a good position to re-open her. This is a good little move to use in grocery stores.

We move on.

10 minutes later, as we are leaving, I see her again. I walk right over to her..

me: hey, thanks for your help with the salad
her: your welcome
me: i wanted to ask you something else
her: uh-huh
me: well, its a little random but, are you single? You look nice today, I want to call you sometime and flirt with you?

She sort of blushed. She smiled and looked a little confused. She probably has never been approached like that in a grocery store.

her: oh, umm, I have a boyfriend.
me: oh, really?

She didn't respond. I started to walk away and she turned her head and maintained eye contact. Almost like she didn't want me to walk away. I stopped and asked her again..

me: did you just say you have a bf?
her: yes
me: ok, nice to meet you anyways

I eject.

I think she was a little shocked that I was so forward, that, or, she was considering cheating on her bf. Maybe, a little of both.

In any case, NEXT!

-----

We are leaving the store. I see a gorgeous girl entering the store. Half Asian - half White, one of my favorite mixtures. I love that look!

I turn around to go approach her. I notice her body and outfit, not quite as attractive as her beautiful face but I proceed anyways. I wanted to demonstrate an aggressive day time cold approach in the grocery store.

I walk right up to her shopping cart..

me: excuse me
her: yes
me: i was just walking out and I noticed you walking in

She turned her head and looked back at the exit.

her: ohh?
me: I thought you looked really nice and I wanted to come introduce myself, my name is gio
her: hi gio, im lisa
me: can i call you sometime and flirt with you for 5 minutes, i want to see how our chemistry is.
her: oh, i'm flattered but im married with a baby
me: oh no, really?
her: ya, are you part asian?
me: no, but i get that sometimes
her: i was getting that vibe
me: are you part asian
her: yes, japanese and german
me: its a nice mixture
her: thanks for saying hi,
me: ok, sweetheart, have a good day
her: you too

Whatever, NEXT!

0/2 on day approaches but, both girls were warm and receptive. I'm glad I was able to show the forum member what a cold daytime approach in the grocery store looks like.

It's very simple, harmless, non-threatening, and nothing bad ever happens!

There is nothing to be scared of!

"The only thing we have to fear is fear itself" -- Franklin D. Roosevelt

Post: #756

I have been getting hella complacent with my regular lays that I have been neglecting day game altogether. Which is unfortunate, since I love socialising during the daytime.

I decided to try something different today... My mindset was to "[b]go out and be social"[/b]

Basically the goal was to allow girls to experience unique, fun, flirty interactions through me.

So on we go...

Football Girl

I am walking down a street and I see this beautiful blonde girl with a great ass standing texting on her phone. I decide to soft open, but probably a soft opener that has never been mentioned on here before.

*I pretend to be on my phone and am “talking to a friend about meeting up”.

Me: (while still talking to my “friend”) Excuse me, do you know the name of this street?

Her: Yeah it’s bla blab la

Me: (*smile) Cool thanks! (then I wrap my “phone call up” while still standing beside her)

Me: Hey thanks for the help. I find it near impossible to pronounce some of these streets.

Her: Haha no worries it can be tricky.. Are you here for the football match?

Me: What match?

Her: It’s a huge match of country X versus country Y

Me: Oh yeah, actually I am super upset that you guys beat us last week. Not pleased at all. (smiling)

Her: yeah sorry about that

Me: Ah you just got lucky … Are you waiting for someone?

Her: Yeah me and my friend are going to the game… (good to understand who she is waiting for to plan ahead)

Me: Gotcha.

Her: So what are you doing here in this city?

Me: blab la blab la bla the usual

The usual back and forth with more joking around.

Me: Hey listen I gotta go meet my friend but do you want to hang out sometime? Maybe we can grab a drink or something.

Her: Yeah sure… (enters number)

Me: Well it was nice meeting you, good luck in the match

*One thing that is good with the phone opener is that you can build a story about yourself before you even say a word to her.

*You can convey yourself as a really funny and outgoing guy.

*I have done this dozens of times and the girls always mentioned how they “noticed” me on the phone.

*FYI I am an experienced ex-actor (tv, film, theatre) so with the flick of a switch I can make the fakest of a situation seem real to anyone. So it may take some practice for you guys. But it’s worth a shot.

Post: #757

Mall Girl:

I see a tall blond girl walking towards the mall so I try and take some advice from that dope thread on timing and time the approach perfectly.

We get onto the escalator and she is behind me. As we get off I let her walk up right beside me, make eye contact and say:

Me: Hey, do you know if that store is around here? (as I point at her bag)

Her: Yeah but it’s closed

Me: Ah too bad, did you get some summer shopping done at least?

Her: Haha yeah I tried my best

Me: Are you (nationality) by the way?

Her: Yeah I am

Me: I guess I can tell from the ___ and the ___. My name is gandt

Her: I am Sara, nice to meet you.

My usual banter, asks where I am from, etc… She seemed very nervous and awkward the whole time but none the less I still went for the close.

Me: Hey you seem like a cool girl, we should hang out some time.

Her: Yeah you too, but the guy version ☺

Enters number.

*Just goes to show you should always be closing and practice timing.

*I think these situational openers are the way to go

Post: #758

Random Question Girl:

I am walking home and I see this girl walking with the most amazing ass I have seen in a long time. The one that makes you want to invite her to sit on your face.

We are walking on the sidewalk, I catch up to her as we stop at the corner (AGAIN TIMING IS KEY)..

Me: Excuse me (smiling), do you have a sec?

Her: Yeah, but I am not from here! (PERFECT TRANSITION!)

Me: Oh really? Where are you from?

Her: xyz location but I moved here a few months ago so I am new to the city

Me: Okay, nice! Yeah I moved here not too long ago also. What are you doing here?

Small talk ensues about what she is doing here, what I am doing here. Her hobbies and interests and how they align with mine, etc...

Me: Cool, well I gotta run but how about we grab a drink sometime this week?

Her: Yeah that'd be great (enters number)


*So far situational openers have been money for me. I have 3 different confirmed meet-ups with these girls, so I am batting 100% with this method so far.

Post: #759

(05-20-2013 03:50 PM)gandt Wrote:  Random Question Girl:

I am walking home and I see this girl walking with the most amazing ass I have seen in a long time. The one that makes you want to invite her to sit on your face.

We are walking on the sidewalk, I catch up to her as we stop at the corner (AGAIN TIMING IS KEY)..

Me: Excuse me (smiling), do you have a sec?

Her: Yeah, but I am not from here! (PERFECT TRANSITION!)

Me: Oh really? Where are you from?

Her: xyz location but I moved here a few months ago so I am new to the city

Me: Okay, nice! Yeah I moved here not too long ago also. What are you doing here?

Small talk ensues about what she is doing here, what I am doing here. Her hobbies and interests and how they align with mine, etc...

Me: Cool, well I gotta run but how about we grab a drink sometime this week?

Her: Yeah that'd be great (enters number)


*So far situational openers have been money for me. I have 3 different confirmed meet-ups with these girls, so I am batting 100% with this method so far.

A friend of mine once picked up a girl by slapping her ass without saying anything first.
Caveman game 101

Do you sometimes feel stupid with this smalltalk? I don't like talking to girls about such trivial things, sarcasm kinda suits me more

Post: #760

(05-20-2013 08:03 PM)little wing Wrote:  

(05-20-2013 03:50 PM)gandt Wrote:  Random Question Girl:

I am walking home and I see this girl walking with the most amazing ass I have seen in a long time. The one that makes you want to invite her to sit on your face.

We are walking on the sidewalk, I catch up to her as we stop at the corner (AGAIN TIMING IS KEY)..

Me: Excuse me (smiling), do you have a sec?

Her: Yeah, but I am not from here! (PERFECT TRANSITION!)

Me: Oh really? Where are you from?

Her: xyz location but I moved here a few months ago so I am new to the city

Me: Okay, nice! Yeah I moved here not too long ago also. What are you doing here?

Small talk ensues about what she is doing here, what I am doing here. Her hobbies and interests and how they align with mine, etc...

Me: Cool, well I gotta run but how about we grab a drink sometime this week?

Her: Yeah that'd be great (enters number)


*So far situational openers have been money for me. I have 3 different confirmed meet-ups with these girls, so I am batting 100% with this method so far.

A friend of mine once picked up a girl by slapping her ass without saying anything first.
Caveman game 101

Do you sometimes feel stupid with this smalltalk? I don't like talking to girls about such trivial things, sarcasm kinda suits me more

Kudos to your friend but I don't think I would be comfortable doing this and having a sexual harassment charge slapped on me. How did he does this? Break it down.

Re: Small talk - I view it as a necessary evil. I always get asked about it because I stand out so much where I live due to a variety of factors. It is impossible for me to avoid the "so why are you here?" question.

Furthermore, I feel that it makes the girls I talk to (who are extremely shy otherwise) become comfortable with me.

How would you have added more flirting into the 3 interactions above? Can you give examples?

Post: #761

He'd get away with slapping a girl's ass because he's 16/17. Try that when you're over 18 and you'll be in trouble.

Post: #762

(05-21-2013 06:06 AM)MattC Wrote:  He'd get away with slapping a girl's ass because he's 16/17. Try that when you're over 18 and you'll be in trouble.

Exactly. I couldn't imagine this shit going down without some chick in my area freaking out.

It's kind of like that Vitaly video where he instantly tries to make out with girls. One in 100 might work. But for the rest you'll be getting slapped with a sexual harassment charge.

Post: #763

(05-21-2013 06:33 AM)gandt Wrote:  

(05-21-2013 06:06 AM)MattC Wrote:  He'd get away with slapping a girl's ass because he's 16/17. Try that when you're over 18 and you'll be in trouble.

Exactly. I couldn't imagine this shit going down without some chick in my area freaking out.

It's kind of like that Vitaly video where he instantly tries to make out with girls. One in 100 might work. But for the rest you'll be getting slapped with a sexual harassment charge.

I see what you're getting at, but 1 in 100 is low if you're calibrating. I can absolutely see this working in a social/bar type situation with the right interaction beforehand and with the girl being very open to flirting.

I'm not saying I'd recommend it, but with the right calibration it would be unlikely to get you a sexual harassment charge. Worst case, you get thrown out of wherever you are. I'm talking about places where girls are open to dance/grind on dudes, that kind of stuff.

Post: #764

(05-21-2013 12:41 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

(05-21-2013 06:33 AM)gandt Wrote:  

(05-21-2013 06:06 AM)MattC Wrote:  He'd get away with slapping a girl's ass because he's 16/17. Try that when you're over 18 and you'll be in trouble.

Exactly. I couldn't imagine this shit going down without some chick in my area freaking out.

It's kind of like that Vitaly video where he instantly tries to make out with girls. One in 100 might work. But for the rest you'll be getting slapped with a sexual harassment charge.

I see what you're getting at, but 1 in 100 is low if you're calibrating. I can absolutely see this working in a social/bar type situation with the right interaction beforehand and with the girl being very open to flirting.

I'm not saying I'd recommend it, but with the right calibration it would be unlikely to get you a sexual harassment charge. Worst case, you get thrown out of wherever you are. I'm talking about places where girls are open to dance/grind on dudes, that kind of stuff.

An ass slap on a girl you have already verbally established a sexually dominant frame with? Sure.

An ass slap on some girl walking down the street you have never met before? Jail, pepper spray, lawsuit.

Post: #765

It puzzled me as well. I wouldn't do it, not my style

Post: #766

There's something about nerdy girls that I like. There's a nerdy girl in my photography class that's probably a 6 to most guys but that I find more attractive for some reason. She doesn't dress that well, but she's obviously way into music, is self-conscious, and I think could be really fun. She has a thin body and an epic rack hiding under her mediocre clothing. I'm not going to the last week or two in my photography class, so I am basically done with the class early.

In lab I sat next to her and made some idle chit chat here and there until we got to commenting on each other's photos and which we'd decide to print for our last assignment. I couldn't go too far as the other girl in class who I'm also interested in sat on the other side of me after I'd come in. She finished before me and I asked her if she was going and she said yes, but after she finished cutting up her prints. So after a couple minutes, I walked over to where I knew she'd be cutting up her prints all alone in a separate room and commented on all the horses she'd been taking pictures of for her assignment. She said she goes and feeds them, so I segued into wanting to go have some fun together, maybe visit the horses and we flirted for a bit after I took her number, then I got back to lab.

I feel like this is an easy one, but at the same time I still got some nervousness. I pushed through it and got the number and the flirtation back I was looking for. I look forward to motorboating that rack.

NOTE: At least half of my class are significantly younger than me, I think both of these girls are maybe 20 to 22 max. Not complaining. I'm going to take more photo classes, maybe a guitar class too.

Post: #767

(05-22-2013 02:52 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  There's something about nerdy girls that I like. There's a nerdy girl in my photography class that's probably a 6 to most guys but that I find more attractive for some reason. She doesn't dress that well, but she's obviously way into music, is self-conscious, and I think could be really fun. She has a thin body and an epic rack hiding under her mediocre clothing. I'm not going to the last week or two in my photography class, so I am basically done with the class early.

In lab I sat next to her and made some idle chit chat here and there until we got to commenting on each other's photos and which we'd decide to print for our last assignment. I couldn't go too far as the other girl in class who I'm also interested in sat on the other side of me after I'd come in. She finished before me and I asked her if she was going and she said yes, but after she finished cutting up her prints. So after a couple minutes, I walked over to where I knew she'd be cutting up her prints all alone in a separate room and commented on all the horses she'd been taking pictures of for her assignment. She said she goes and feeds them, so I segued into wanting to go have some fun together, maybe visit the horses and we flirted for a bit after I took her number, then I got back to lab.

I feel like this is an easy one, but at the same time I still got some nervousness. I pushed through it and got the number and the flirtation back I was looking for. I look forward to motorboating that rack.

NOTE: At least half of my class are significantly younger than me, I think both of these girls are maybe 20 to 22 max. Not complaining. I'm going to take more photo classes, maybe a guitar class too.

Yet another great example of social circle game from AneroidOcean.

Where do you find these kinds of classes posted?

Post: #768

Supermarket Approach: I am dressed Nice coming back from work had to stop at the Grocery Store, I walk in it's 5:30 PM and I had to be back home by 6:00 PM, I see shit ton of targets, I say to myslef, I look good , feel good I am not leaving the store till I approach a few.

I see a 40ish Women, Good Figure, in Black Dress and Heels, Nice Legs, No ring on the finger, coming towards me, I make eye contact , she doesn't break it, I smile and she responds back with a smile as if saying what's up, we pass each other ........... not saying a word ..... Partial Approah per Gio Done

I go get what I had, put it in my bucket and head back towards where I saw her and see her in the Drinks Asile, I circle around and time my collission into her where she would be exiting the Aisle and say looking in her Eye

Me: Nice Dress by the way.....

Her: Thank you.

Me: Goes well with your heels, You must not work at the Hospitals around here where every body wears Scrubs.

Her: No I don't have the luxury of wearing comfortable Scrubs.

Me: Atleast you get to look nice whereever you work.

Her: That's true.

Me: (Looking at the Beer in her Cart) Getting ready to have a party

Her: No just winding down at the end of the day.

Me: Oh yeah, I wind down with Wine at the end of the day, I notice there are a lot of Local Wineries around here, We don't have that in FL.

Her: Oh yeah, you should check out ------- by the river.

Me: I moved here recently and don't know much, but I have been to one at ---------

Me: I am going to Guess you are a Red Wine kinda Girl .

Her: laughing true... during the summer days I like white though.

Me: So tell me again where is this winery you were talkkig about

Her: She startes giving me directions and complimenting the place

Me: You Know I should take you there sometime, How about it .....

Her: Ahhhhh That would be fine

Me: Ok let's exchange numbers

Her: (Getting embarassed and red) Right here in the store, I have never done this, Ok I will give you my Business card, hands me the card.

I knew she is still not sold yet and decide to put few more minutes into the Interaction.

Me: looking at her card, So did your Job brought you here too.

Her: No my Parents retired here and I needed to take care of them.

Her: You are a Pause (Thinking) -------

Me: Good Guess but these days I work as a consultant only, giving me the flexibility to work only 7-8 months and travel around the world rest of the time.

Her: wow...I wish I could do that

Me: Do you have a Cell phone, I don't want your business number

Her: Getting her cell phone from her purse ( I have never done this in a store) her hands are fumbling enetring my number , I take the phone form her and enter my name and a Store's name. and then give myself a call.

Me: Here the store's name will give you a little reminder since you are embarassed by a good looking gentleman trying to compliment you in a STORE.

Her: Laughing ..... Thank you..

Me: Listen I will call you next week and we will go to that winery.

Her: OK

I am out of the store feeling like a boss.

Post: #769

(05-22-2013 03:12 PM)gandt Wrote:  Yet another great example of social circle game from AneroidOcean.

Where do you find these kinds of classes posted?

Thanks. Right now there is a huge amount of potential in the junior college near me that I'm not unlocking because I'm hardly ever on campus outside of night time for the night classes. This junior college is known to have a lot of girls and obviously the younger hotter ones are on campus during the day and during daytime classes. Until I change up my work situation my schedule only allows for late night classes (7PM or later).

The main reason I'm attending the school is not only because it actually has a great photography program, but because the school is a really good JC in general and has a number of good programs for areas of study that I'm interested in. Finally really learning guitar is going to be a huge boon in social game as well.

The secondary reason to attend that campus is the location, and the third reason is of course the ability to meet girls.

These classes are cheap too, in the sense that for a few hundred dollars I feel that I got more than my money's worth. In addition, you're not supposed to, but I've printed out a number of pictures in the laboratory on their really high end printers and given them as gifts or hung pictures I took up on the wall in my place.

In fact, I've given pictures to two of my good female friends as well as two as gifts to girls I'm dating. All were very happy to receive them.

Finding a good local junior college is easy as most of them have good information up online as to what programs are offered and if not, a simple visit to the right office will usually get you the information you're looking for. Junior colleges are GREAT bang for the buck, no pun intended.

(05-23-2013 10:27 AM)Lothario Wrote:  Me: Do you have a Cell phone, I don't want your business number

Look, I'm not trying to jinx you or anything, but you will be fucking this chick.

Post: #770

Description of experiment approach I did at a busy bar last night (maybe amateur but it's something I came up with on the spot):

Setting: Very busy bar downtown at 2am, an hour before closing.

Where: At a bottle-neck bar area close to the entrance where you can stop and chat ppl up as they either leave or enter the rest of the bar.

Who: Me and a few friends standing around bar, drinking and having a merry good time. I have already talked to a bunch (5-6) of girls that night at another venue and was in a very social mood.

Target: 2 very good looking girls (8s?) dressed in fashionable clothing on their way out of the bar. Girl I apporached was wearing tight ripped jeans with small holes in them (ripped on purpose).

Approach:

Me: Excuse me, not sure if you've noticed but you have a hole in your jeans. [pointing my finger to her ripped jeans]

Her: Oh... Uhm... where?

Me: Well, right here [putting my finger inside the ripped part of her jeans]. I can make *your* hole bigger if you can't see it [smiling]

Her: Ha ha [laughing and blushing at same time, my friends got the joke and started laughing as well.]

Me: No, *seriously* I can. [serious look and putting my finger in her ripped jeans' hole]

Her: [walking away, being dragged by her friend, then coming back to me and saying:] I think the tighter the hole the better, don't you think?"

Me: Definately. Stick around, where are you guys going?

Her: I have to go. You are cute, but I gotta go now. [being dragged away by her friend.]

Should have number-closed at this momement but I was being cocky, there were so many girls around and we just go to the bar that I didn't seize the opportunity fully and was just having some fun at this point.

For me, that says that in a bar setting, an apporach based on sexual innuendo can go a long way if you do it right by no overdoing the sexual part, saying something that can legitemately be taken in different ways, and being confident and cocky. Alternating between having a smile and a serious face. Having good body language. And having your girl-target get the innuendo. Making the interaction sexual (disguised as an innocent observation of course) in a pick-up bar setting, has the potential to lead to a quick close IMO.

Post: #771

Saw a Latina chick sitting on a bench at the train station last night.

I was looking for food, but everything was closing down for the night. So I walked up to her used that for my opener:

Me: Hey, you live around here?
Her: No, I'm just waiting for my friend. Why?
Me: I want food, but everything over here is closing. I was gonna see if you knew of any places.
Her: nope I don't live over here. Just waiting.
Me: you look like you want some company...
Her: (laughing) I guess...(and some more stuff I couldn't hear).
Me: I'll take that as a yes. You're cute, what's your name?

Introduction, and some fluff talk. She tries to number close me, but I get her number instead and call it. Out of nowhere she mentions just getting her nipples pierced, so of course I said "show me", she just laughed and shook her head.

I find out she's 18, and tease her for being a child, she starts qualifying herself (textbook stuff). She mentions being cold, so I offer to warm her up (I should've just grabbed her and pulled her next to me).

After about 15mins of flirting, joking, and talking about weed, I tell her I'm off to get food, and I say I'll hit her up. She says "yeah, hit me up soon". I bring her in for a hug, then go get the best chicken sandwich ever from this local bar. Damn that sandwich was good. It deserves its own thread.

I want to work on pushing for insta-dates. I actually did invite this girl to smoke with me, but it's something I want to do with every interaction. Push it as far as I can go.

Things I've gotten good with:

-body language
-frame control
-down talk/tone control
-eye contact is A+
-being high risk (saying things that the normal guy thinks would get you slapped)
-blocking out the spectators (I did this approach at night in front if 2 cops and a bunch of people standing around).
-finding good food (damn that chicken sandwich).

Post: #772

Junior college campus. Hot blond. Short shorts. Really short, I could basically see her butt cheeks.

She was in the little campus store, I wait for her to come out because I don't want to open inside the store, it's small and there are a lot of people around. She walks out and starts heading for another building, she goes into another building and I time it so that just as she enters, I am right behind her. She walks in and walk in right behind her so she has to hold the door for me:

me: thanks
her: sure
me: are your legs cold today?
her: oh, no not really, walking fast helps
me: the weather is not cooperating with your outfit (its was sunny but very windy)
her: I know, it looked so nice this morning.
me: how are your finals going
her: oh my gosh, last one is tmw
me: thank god, almost done
her: im so ready for summer
me: me too

We get to the lobby area and she turns to go inside a classroom. I don't want to let her get away.

me: hey, excuse me, can I ask you something else?
her: sure
me: i know this is random but i think you look really nice today. are you single? would you be interested in getting a drink or something after finals?
her: ummm, ya, whats your name?
me: gio, you?
her: leslie
me: nice meeting you
her: you too, do you want to take my number?
me: sure

We'll see what happens.

*****

10 minutes later I am in the library. I see a sexy latina sitting and studying on a couch. I have to approach her. My confidence was high from the previous approach:

me: excuse me, how is the wifi connection in here?
her: its okay
me: i know, it kind of sucks sometimes

I sit down on the couch right across from her.

me: i actually don't care about the wifi. i've seen you around a few times (lie). i always thought you were really pretty. whats your name?
her: haha im karina
me: hi karina, im gio
her: hi
me: i knew if i didnt say hi to you today, i would probably never see you again, how are finals going?
her: okay, got one more in a few hours.
me: well, i'll let you study
her: thats ok
me: would you be interested in grabbing a drink or something sometime?
her: ya, do you want my number
me: yes, what is it?
her: 123-4567
me: cool, good luck on your final, i'll text you later
her: okay

I like going more direct like this. It's more fun

Post: #773

(05-26-2013 02:23 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  I like going more direct like this. It's more fun

It's definitely efficient as hell and is my method of preference as well.

When I first started out this is all I would do. Now I find that I am much better able to gauge the environment and girl to pick and appropriate course of action.

Going direct gives me more of a thrill though.

Good job!!

Post: #774

(05-26-2013 02:23 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  I like going more direct like this. It's more fun

Watching Steve Jabba has really helped me with this. It basically cuts out a lot of the bullshit and saves you from potentially fucking up if they're already interested in you, and you don't go overboard with it.

However, you have to have a solid frame and your inner game to a level where you can pull it off confidently for it to work. When you ask the girl "do you have a boyfriend?" and she says no, game on.

Here's a video I really liked from Jabba, she was practically saying to him "I want you to be my boyfriend".





Notice the way she was walking in one direction before the approach, and after Steve speaks to her she walks the opposite way. Completely disorientated her.

Post: #775

(05-26-2013 02:48 PM)MattC Wrote:  

I love this video. Steve is so calm. I need to study this guy.

He reminds me of myself, only a little better. I am not quite as smooth as this but I will be in another few months.

MattC, your advice had helped me alot.

Thanks.