Post: #1

Hey all .. Looking for an opinion on closing an fb's friend. We'll call them girl-a (target) and girl-b (fb). Here's the situation in a nutshell:
* Met girl-a 1 year ago - She initiated a date through a mutual friend - date was nothing special, made out a club but no close
* I dropped her for 11 months and recently started hanging with her friends again
* Recently closed one of girl-a's friend, girl-b
* Girl-a found out and last couple times i've seen girl-a she's shown strong ioi's - initiating conversation, asking if i was ignoring her, etc
* I decided to re-initiate with girl-a and suggest we go for a drink - she confirmed immed but on the day of, asked to reschedule. I didn't reply
* Saw her amongst friends a couple days after. She initiated conversation and insisted she didn't flake. But hasn't rescheduled yet

To me this reads as a flake. What do you guys think ? Should I drop or push through ?

Post: #2

Tell her when you'll next see her and if she tries to flake you'll kick her ass.

Post: #3

do you even read roosh? have a plan b and have a fucking great time whether she shows or not.

Post: #4

To be clear, she messaged me well ahead of time asking to reschedule.

Post: #5

To be clear myself, that should be completely irrelevant.

Give her a time where SHE is ALLOWED to enter YOUR world.
If you have nothing better going on, make something better going on.

Bring a good book.

You WILL get flaked on, so don't be the dopey guy who is "aww shucks" with his hands in his pockets. Be the guy where she fucking missed out by choosing not to associate with you.

Post: #6

Your life should be so awesome that when a chick flakes on you you're relieved because now you have more time to do all the cool shit you've got going on. Your life should be so full that fitting girls in is kind of a hassle. This will increase the quality of chick you try and smash because only the hot ones are worth giving time to.

Also asking to reschedule but not suggesting a time is a flake. When a girl is interested in you and has something legit come up she will suggest another place/time/etc.

Post: #7

(04-28-2013 07:42 PM)EisenBarde Wrote:  do you even read roosh? have a plan b and have a fucking great time whether she shows or not.

Post: #8

(04-28-2013 07:07 PM)akfalcon Wrote:  * Met girl-a 1 year ago - She initiated a date through a mutual friend - date was nothing special, made out a club but no close

Why would you bring sand to the beach!? imo this is just as bad as going to a movie with a girl on your first date.

* I decided to re-initiate with girl-a and suggest we go for a drink - she confirmed immed but on the day of, asked to reschedule. I didn't reply

You should have texted her and said, "what times are you available to reschedule?" If a girl flakes, but asks to reschedule always try to reschedule (if you like her enough, sounds like you do).

* Saw her amongst friends a couple days after. She initiated conversation and insisted she didn't flake.

Please tell me you didn't make yourself look like a chump in front of her friends by "calling her out" on the flake.

But hasn't rescheduled yet

Well, of course not. You were rude to her by not messaging her back when she tried to reschedule.

Should I drop or push through ?

drop her

Post: #9

Unlike you "ice-cold players", I generally don't have 2-3 girls lined up in a night. My flake rates are also super low. Go figure.

If I feel like a girl is flakey, I will insist on having the girl meet me at my spot and we can take 1 car. This way if she is late or flakes, its no big deal. I will just do whatever I was doing before.I won't tell her this, of course. But I will say, yea theres this cool spot yada yada yad. Roll by.

Hell, I could take a girl to smoke jays in a parking lot with no view, then get ice-cream cones at mcdees and still do work.

Post: #10

What do you have to lose? She said she wants to reschedule, she wouldn't do that just to be polite (unless she did). Proceed as normal until she gets cold, fuck it.

Or if you're seeing her out a lot and her social circle knows y'all know each other, it should be easy to extract her right? Include her in whatever awesome thing she sees you doing, including being on a date with a less hot girl, and proceed with instadate.

Post: #11

After being in SEA, shit is hard out here. I am stepping up my online game and will begin my day gaming but I wouldn't let this oppertunity pass. Women are stupid but she seemed to be interested. I would hit her up every three or four days just to not seem thirsty but make sure she is reminded that you are there.

In the mean time you need to continue to step up your daygame, nightgame, and online game. If you are worried about one girl then you aren't approaching enough. Approach, approch, approach. Check the approach thread and the I just got laid thread for inspiration. Something can come from nothing all the time. I've blasted over fifty messages online and got 5 responses, one of which is probably dtf this week. You got to step up so you aren't trippin off one girl.

Carry on.

Post: #12

(04-28-2013 10:30 PM)Moreless Wrote:  

(04-28-2013 07:07 PM)akfalcon Wrote:  * Saw her amongst friends a couple days after. She initiated conversation and insisted she didn't flake.

Please tell me you didn't make yourself look like a chump in front of her friends by "calling her out" on the flake.

--> Nope didn't mention it. She brought it up out of the blue. Thanks for the advice .. helpful