Post: #1

I sent a message to a girl on OKCupid because she was hot and she did ziplining, which I enjoy doing. She messages me back, then I message her back. This is the latest message from her and I didn't even ask her out at that point yet.

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Jan 13, 2013 – 11:35am
Well I'm a direct person (my name) so first I will say that I already have a few guys in the pipeline. More interested in just connecting with people on here for friendship. If that is cool, you can tell me about your trips. If not, then I respect that and best wishes.

I don't gamble. The hottie I was with most of my vacation (not a bf, just met him there) does, though.

I like variety as far as activities and working out- more into high impact or intense stuff than that dancing crap (zumba) or yoga type stuff (although could be high impact too slow). I like to move it, move it haha
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Am I able to salvage this or should I move on? Did I ask her too many questions?

Post: #2

She mildly shit tests but continues to tell you all about herself. I interpret her hamster as " i like what i see but you arent dicking around enough."

I see a future bang for you if you suggest you both go to a mma gym. Just pretend like you train all the time. Plus, she won't balk at that idea because she seems to pride herself on "extreme" sports.

Post: #3

Lol next

Post: #4

Quote:I don't gamble. The hottie I was with most of my vacation (not a bf, just met him there) does, though.

She's riding the cock carousal and freely telling you about it. Go for the bang but drop her as LTR material.

The worst one I got as a girl I'd met on OKC and made out with a few times texting me 10 minutes before we were supposed to meet at my place:

Quote:I've been on a lot of dates this week, is it ok if we hang out tonight as just friends?

Should have gone for the bang earlier.

Moral of the story: meet girls from OKC as quickly as possible, go for the bang, then forget about them.

Post: #5

Ask her to meet you for a drink in your next message. If she won't- drop her. She's the online attention whore type so your odds of ever meeting her are low.

Don't ask a lot of interview type questions in your messages, that's what the typical online failure does. Be cocky, funny, flirty, a bit crazy- girls like that.

Next time you have a question like this just post it in the OKCupid thread

Post: #6

Moral of the story : Women get so much attention that it's not worth your time to be on this site.

Post: #7

(01-13-2013 03:46 PM)Grit Wrote:  She mildly shit tests but continues to tell you all about herself. I interpret her hamster as " i like what i see but you arent dicking around enough."

I see a future bang for you if you suggest you both go to a mma gym. Just pretend like you train all the time. Plus, she won't balk at that idea because she seems to pride herself on "extreme" sports.

What would be the best response to that message to enable getting a bang without coming across as needy or what not? I've had these types of situations happen before, but I always did the beta response.

Post: #8

"Sounds fun. Let's meet at <local bar with good logistics> on <weeknight> at <hh:mm> and see if there's any connection."

Any response other than "sure" or a reschedule results in a next.

Post: #9

(01-13-2013 06:27 PM)pghGame1234 Wrote:  

(01-13-2013 03:46 PM)Grit Wrote:  She mildly shit tests but continues to tell you all about herself. I interpret her hamster as " i like what i see but you arent dicking around enough."

I see a future bang for you if you suggest you both go to a mma gym. Just pretend like you train all the time. Plus, she won't balk at that idea because she seems to pride herself on "extreme" sports.

What would be the best response to that message to enable getting a bang without coming across as needy or what not? I've had these types of situations happen before, but I always did the beta response.

"Come train with me I'll kick your butt. Going on ___ day. Text me ur number and ill call you with details."

If she doesn't bite , on to the next

Post: #10

(01-13-2013 08:07 PM)Grit Wrote:  

(01-13-2013 06:27 PM)pghGame1234 Wrote:  

(01-13-2013 03:46 PM)Grit Wrote:  She mildly shit tests but continues to tell you all about herself. I interpret her hamster as " i like what i see but you arent dicking around enough."

I see a future bang for you if you suggest you both go to a mma gym. Just pretend like you train all the time. Plus, she won't balk at that idea because she seems to pride herself on "extreme" sports.

What would be the best response to that message to enable getting a bang without coming across as needy or what not? I've had these types of situations happen before, but I always did the beta response.

"Come train with me I'll kick your butt. Going on ___ day. Text me ur number and ill call you with details."

If she doesn't bite , on to the next

I just sent her a message. We'll see if she bites or not. Thanks for the help dude.

Post: #11

(01-14-2013 06:46 AM)pghGame1234 Wrote:  

(01-13-2013 08:07 PM)Grit Wrote:  

(01-13-2013 06:27 PM)pghGame1234 Wrote:  

(01-13-2013 03:46 PM)Grit Wrote:  She mildly shit tests but continues to tell you all about herself. I interpret her hamster as " i like what i see but you arent dicking around enough."

I see a future bang for you if you suggest you both go to a mma gym. Just pretend like you train all the time. Plus, she won't balk at that idea because she seems to pride herself on "extreme" sports.

What would be the best response to that message to enable getting a bang without coming across as needy or what not? I've had these types of situations happen before, but I always did the beta response.

"Come train with me I'll kick your butt. Going on ___ day. Text me ur number and ill call you with details."

If she doesn't bite , on to the next

I just sent her a message. We'll see if she bites or not. Thanks for the help dude.

Going on a date with an okc slut without alcohol is a waste of time.

Post: #12

'We'll meet tomorrow night at ....bar, you'll drink some cocktails whilst I sip on fine whiskey, then we'll go to mine and you can add me to your list of mistakes'

I'd send that just for a laugh.

Post: #13

(01-13-2013 02:26 PM)pghGame1234 Wrote:  Well I'm a direct person (my name) so first I will say that I already have a few guys in the pipeline. More interested in just connecting with people on here for friendship. If that is cool, you can tell me about your trips. If not, then I respect that and best wishes.

I don't gamble. The hottie I was with most of my vacation (not a bf, just met him there) does, though.

1. Tells you she has other sausage lined up.
2. Lavishes praise on other guys based on looks ("hottie").
3. Tells you you can pretty much fuck off if you don't want to be friendzoned.

You're done. Move on.