Post: #1

What do you guys do in this situation?

I usually respond with "I don't have Facebook, I had to delete it since it took up way too much of my time."

Last night in the club was interesting, some girl responded with "guys that don't have Facebook always have girlfriends. Are you being shady?"

In which I responded with "In that case, how about you and my imaginary and non existent girlfriend have a threesome then?"

Post: #2

sounds the way a girl who doesn't like you acts. Anything but yes is no. Difficult women remain difficult.

Post: #3

(12-24-2012 07:59 PM)Indyone Wrote:  What do you guys do in this situation?

I usually respond with "I don't have Facebook, I had to delete it since it took up way too much of my time."

Last night in the club was interesting, some girl responded with "guys that don't have Facebook always have girlfriends. Are you being shady?"

In which I responded with "In that case, how about you and my imaginary and non existent girlfriend have a threesome then?"

"I don't have time for Facebook"

I have a girlfriend. I never deny it. Yet I still get women who at first claim they don't go for guys with girlfriends. I don't think that hurts, except with very few women. [Pre-selection]

Post: #4

Sounds like she is trying to to beta-orbite you. You can try some cocky lines, but my sense suggests that it would not help much.

Post: #5

- I don't give out my number, Facebook me
- What? You're too immature for me, get the hell out of my face

Post: #6

It means "Get into my online orbiter army."

Say "forget it", but not in a frustrated way. More in a slow, relaxed but disappointed manner. Then politely excuse yourself without explanation. 8 out of 10 times, she comes to you after that, so make sure you are talking with another girl when she does.

Also, show from the beginning that you are not a fan of online bullshit.

Post: #7

I have noticed this happening more and more in the last year or so. I used to say something like "You still use facebook?" but now i usually just laugh and engage the closest girl in the vicinity. Especially if it was preceded with something as condescending as " I don't give out my number"

Post: #8

(12-24-2012 07:59 PM)Indyone Wrote:  What do you guys do in this situation?

Next

Post: #9

Forget this chick she is not even worth your time. Facebook=not going to bang you.

Post: #10

living in a small city of 120,000 people (student city) means that most girls have never met a guy without a Facebook account. They are so sure that i will join her online army that when i tell them i don't have an account the look on their face's is pure shock and are completely thrown off balance.

Post: #11

"I don't give out my number, Facebook me"

"Oh? That's very interesting because I don't go out to clubs to meet people on Facebook, and here's my chewing gum in your hair..."

Post: #12

i agree with everyone else. Facebook is the beta orbiter nest. She's trying to put you there with the rest of them. I only accept Facebook depending how we met, or if I'm going indirect like say with a classmate/co-worker or something along those lines (eventually pushing for the #).

Post: #13

Facebook = Friendbook. Don't add hot girls you've just met to it. If a girl counters an attempted number close with trying to swap Facebook's instead, I tell her that I deactivated it a couple weeks ago because of all the bullshit on the newsfeed. As a precaution I also keep my privacy settings so that people can't search me without us having mutual friends which stops girls I've told that to from looking me up later on.

Post: #14

I'm on the verge of just purging all traces of my facebook from the internet, but at the moment I have it set to super privacy settings that allow girls to search for me but not to see anything but my profile picture, which is of me with two attractive girls on my arms, them laughing and with shit-eating grins and me with a smile half-smile half-smirk. It does the trick, usually. I also never, ever, request a girl on FB, and when I get her request, I wait at least a few days before accepting it, if I do at all. I've gotten a couple repeat bangs from facebook, and it's great for getting the word out about parties I'm throwing (I'm still in college), but otherwise it's got much more potential to fuck you up than to help you.

Post: #15

Translating what she meant by the topic title:

"I do not want anything to do with you, just leave it like in my pictures when I post!"

Post: #16

It doesn't matter how she says no, or what shape the rejection takes, but it still means no

Don't waste a second of your time with a no, go find a yes.

Post: #17

-My corporate job does not allow it
- I am a contractor with military intelligence, it is not allowed

Post: #18

(12-24-2012 08:12 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  sounds the way a girl who doesn't like you acts. Anything but yes is no. Difficult women remain difficult.

No means maybe. Maybe means never.

If she doesn't want to give you her number, she's not interested. Do more comfort routines or bounce.

Post: #19

(12-24-2012 08:12 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  sounds the way a girl who doesn't like you acts. Anything but yes is no. Difficult women remain difficult.

This. Looking back, girls who said things like I don't give out my #, Snapchat/IG/FB me generally meant "I am not gonna fuck you, I am being nice and you can be a beta follower and like my pics".

Post: #20

You still use Facebook? Cool , so does my Grandmother (under 28 this works), let me guess you are on Instagram? So is my mom. Look I know you are kind of not up on that fresh shit but at least you ain't lame so is does it like this way - the cool kids text, and then I will add you to my Snapchat and see what you are about. Bet that up then (pass her your phone)tell her " call yourself." After you get the digits -bounce and work the club -she will be watching to see how you hold frame with everyone.

Post: #21

It sounds like a soft rejection to me, I've had a girl give me her Instagram after I asked for her number but nothing came of it.

Post: #22

(12-24-2012 07:59 PM)Indyone Wrote:  I responded with "In that case, how about you and my imaginary and non existent girlfriend have a threesome then?"

I am curious how she reacted to that. I'm guessing it didn't go so well.

Maybe just take the Facebook on the off chance that she is a paranoid freak who feels the need to screen your profile before meeting you on a date? But that seems unlikely. In my experience, if a girl wants to bang, she doesn't care if I have a girlfriend or not, and doesn't bring it up. Also, you best believe she gives out her phone number, oftentimes without being asked. I have taken a few girls' social media accounts and sent them DMs, but it never led anywhere.

If a girl is genuinely interested, I've found, she'll make it easy to communicate your instructions for when and where to appear so that she can receive your manhood, and won't raise any topics that would tend towards discouraging a hookup. That's different than shit-tests, which are actually an indication of interest and can hasten the bang if you hold fast to your strong, masculine frame. In this case, the girl knows that it's inconvenient to organize a date via DMs, and easy to ignore such threads.
She isn't stupid, although she might act that way because she doesn't have the power to overtly reject you. If my goal is to bang, I don't waste time with somebody who is putting up obvious roadblocks. Investing time in a girl like this is like buying stock in Arthur Andersen. Better to keep looking, trying different strategies and locations, until you see a girl that gives IOI.

As far as using social media to get laid... The only actual value I've found in Facebook is to join groups and find events IRL where you can run game on women and expand your social circle. Once, back in the early days of Facebook, when the platform still only supported a few colleges, I did clean up with a handful of college girls that I found directly on the platform. But these days attractive girls won't even read the flood of DMs that land in their inbox on a daily basis. For many girls, social media is nothing more than a funnel for receiving the male attention they instinctually crave without having to do anything or put themselves at risk for rejection in the physical world. Every girl that's above a 5 is receiving dozens of messages a week from thirsty suitors that she will never bang. Again, social media is not a tool for communicating with women that you have already met in person.