(10-27-2010 12:35 AM)spinaroonie Wrote: My only caveat is all the girls these guys seem to get with in the day are FOREIGN. Would this style of game work on American/Canadian women? Not that I don't like foreign women, but I'm not in Europe so I'm stuck with the talent here.
Comments?
I think there's a paradoxical vacuum effect forming due to what I would call the "defeminization of women" in the US:
The bitchier the woman-guys act, the more scared guys are and the less attention healthy feminine women get.
There's a significant, but very vocal and assertive, minority of women who are basically paranoid about men. They suppress their signaling behavior, and combat their natural impulses to gain male attention by being tense, avoidant and bitchy.
The bitchy ones injure foolish betas/omegas (BOs) who hit on them, (I was one of the betas).
Most of the BOs then proceed to be scared of hitting on women at all, greatly reducing overall attention available for all chicks, maybe even more so the 8-9-10's-- viewed as unreachable.
You can see it in the bewildered looks of perfectly fine 8's wandering around looking lost. Why is no one paying attention to them?
Gunwitch takes issue with the idea 8-9-10's are hit on all the time. You might see it in a club, but we've agreed here clubs are lame with roiders, yes?
Try watching a 9-10 in a cafe or bookstore. My experience is in an hour or so, typically no one approaches them at all. If she cues with eye contact, she won't bite your head off.
Somewhere I read--was it Roosh? -- that if she makes eye contact with you more than once, it's not an accident. She's cueing. The catch is they can't believe we're as dumb as we act, and if you don't approach they feel insulted or think less of you. They're def giving us a chance , but they're pretty demanding about what you do with it. MY experience as a hesitating beta is if there's a woman you see repeatedly in your environment, if you don't make a move the third time you see a woman, she's written you off. They can usually tolerate you waiting for the second meet-- if it's a situation where it may happen.
That Justin Wayne videos opened my eyes. He's just straight up with "I want to make out with you" or even " I want to have sex with you."
All the girlfriends that stuck with me (7-8's) were masturbating a lot for quite a while between boyfriends. That kind of supports they're wishing for more attention.
Curiously, the girls I slept with that were incapable of masturbating ( "It makes me feel like a loser") were the most unreliable lays-- found some reason to move on etc.