Post: #1

Ive always had a girlfriend, pretty much. sincce highschool either I was dating a girl or hooking up with one regylarly. lots of the girls I would hook up with wanted to be my girlfriends, they asked me to be my girlfriends, but I thought they were too hoish.

Recently I havent had a girlfriend, just trying to get a lil harem going. with foreign girls I still build emotional connections. they want to date. they want to be close with me. with the american girls, nothing. these are girls I meet during daygame mostly, not drunken onss. seems like american girls are really losing the normal ability to emotionally bond with someone.

are any of you guys meeting american girls that are worth keeping around, who actually show affection and can develop emotional bonds? im chill w foreign girls but its just sad to see these american girls becoming so withdrawn and stunted emotionally.

Post: #2

(09-28-2012 08:35 PM)Sonsowey Wrote:  Ive always had a girlfriend, pretty much. sincce highschool either I was dating a girl or hooking up with one regylarly. lots of the girls I would hook up with wanted to be my girlfriends, they asked me to be my girlfriends, but I thought they were too hoish.

Recently I havent had a girlfriend, just trying to get a lil harem going. with foreign girls I still build emotional connections. they want to date. they want to be close with me. with the american girls, nothing. these are girls I meet during daygame mostly, not drunken onss. seems like american girls are really losing the normal ability to emotionally bond with someone.

are any of you guys meeting american girls that are worth keeping around, who actually show affection and can develop emotional bonds? im chill w foreign girls but its just sad to see these american girls becoming so withdrawn and stunted emotionally.

I've noticed this kind of sick thing with not only American women but the men too. Everyone feels so compelled to go go go, they feel like they can't slow down and appreciate either their friends or their lovers.

I've noticed my friends are always distracted now, even the ones that try to be present and alert. But they also sense that there's something wrong, they don't want to be this way but feel compelled.

I think the problem is the "always on" digital crap.

It scales perfectly for the people who want to control our minds for their economic benefit, and they've got "agents" ( cell phones and now tablets) in everyone's homes.

If you think about it, it makes a perfect triumvirate for constant control of your attention.

Sitting? You're at your computer
Lounging? Tablets don't need a table.
Walking or in a car, restaurant, ANYWHERE? Your cell phone is really your friend.

I think there will be a backlash in the next 2-3 years, I already met a hip young co-worker ( about 24) who's an alpha with a GF and he told me once he had gone on a "media fast" the weekend before which means ELECTRONICS OFF.

The problem is right now is that except for the tiny minority like the guy above, the predominant tide is of people trying get ON the destructive bandwagon which alienates-- and they are truly lost and forlorn, and don't know they're going to have to rebel against The Machine's machines to connect with each other again.

I never get tired of the quote from an old friend who died a while ago:

"The goal of capitalism is to reduce all human interaction to the cash nexus."

Hey, you can post that on your Facebook!....

Post: #3

Funny I just wrote something that may be related to this but I feel you!

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Post: #4

You can, but the bigger question is why would you want to? American women really don't deserve much than the dick. Not when there are many other countries filled with women who would treat you much better, because they recognize that their happiness depends on having a man in their lives. And certainly not when American women have the default attitude that they don't need men.

Post: #5

This reminds me of what a local comedian saidonce.

"Young women are fucking horrible people who lack any form of empathy. My 19 year old daughter got a lock and a doorbell in her room in my house when I suggested she get her own place"

So no I don't think you can build an emotional connection, they are supremely selfish and lack the ability to form one and give to another person.