Post: #1

As a semi-reformed beta, am only now starting to see how having options can only be a good thing
Am in ltr with a good girl, we get on great and things are fine mostly but she's no great shakes in the sack
In recent weeks, i've met another girl, and i'm amazed at how relaxed I am now, no more pedastalling
tonight I elected to go home early as I have a busy day tomorrow, even though the lay was on
New girl is cute, with some nice curves, am leaving her wanting more for now rather than jumping in straight away like the desperate beta I was

Post: #2

(08-31-2012 08:05 PM)amity Wrote:  As a semi-reformed beta, am only now starting to see how having options can only be a good thing
Am in ltr with a good girl, we get on great and things are fine mostly but she's no great shakes in the sack
In recent weeks, i've met another girl, and i'm amazed at how relaxed I am now, no more pedastalling
tonight I elected to go home early as I have a busy day tomorrow, even though the lay was on
New girl is cute, with some nice curves, am leaving her wanting more for now rather than jumping in straight away like the desperate beta I was

Exactly.

Been with my main for 3 years. The only time the beta backside starts to rears its ugly head, is when the numbers in my rotation start to drop. The amount that this happens is inversely proportional to the previously mentioned numbers.

Post: #3

(08-31-2012 08:05 PM)amity Wrote:  As a semi-reformed beta, am only now starting to see how having options can only be a good thing
Am in ltr with a good girl, we get on great and things are fine mostly but she's no great shakes in the sack
In recent weeks, i've met another girl, and i'm amazed at how relaxed I am now, no more pedastalling
tonight I elected to go home early as I have a busy day tomorrow, even though the lay was on
New girl is cute, with some nice curves, am leaving her wanting more for now rather than jumping in straight away like the desperate beta I was

Exactly.

Been with my main for 3 years. The only time the beta backside starts to rears its ugly head, is when the numbers in my rotation drop to just her. The amount that this happens is inversely proportional to the previously mentioned numbers.

Post: #4

hmm.....
speaking of beta backslides, am starting to show signs of it in the last couple of days towards the new girl, not good
i did that 'staring at the phone waiting for her text' thing earlier(pretty beta i know), til she got in touch and suggested we meet later this week
she's not a stunner but she is cute, probably a 6, which is fine
but it's her WHR that's got into my head
i fell hard for a girl a few years ago, who had a similarly impressive WHR, took ages to get that chick out of my head..
thoughts/suggestions?

Post: #5

(09-04-2012 10:28 AM)amity Wrote:  hmm.....
speaking of beta backslides, am starting to show signs of it in the last couple of days towards the new girl, not good
i did that 'staring at the phone waiting for her text' thing earlier(pretty beta i know), til she got in touch and suggested we meet later this week
she's not a stunner but she is cute, probably a 6, which is fine
but it's her WHR that's got into my head
i fell hard for a girl a few years ago, who had a similarly impressive WHR, took ages to get that chick out of my head..
thoughts/suggestions?

Same thing we tell, the oneitis struck. Go get some MO FOR SHO!

Mo approaches, mo numbers, mo pussay = less fucks given baby.
(plus practice )

Post: #6

(09-04-2012 11:22 AM)TheMan Wrote:  

(09-04-2012 10:28 AM)amity Wrote:  hmm.....
speaking of beta backslides, am starting to show signs of it in the last couple of days towards the new girl, not good
i did that 'staring at the phone waiting for her text' thing earlier(pretty beta i know), til she got in touch and suggested we meet later this week
she's not a stunner but she is cute, probably a 6, which is fine
but it's her WHR that's got into my head
i fell hard for a girl a few years ago, who had a similarly impressive WHR, took ages to get that chick out of my head..
thoughts/suggestions?

Same thing we tell, the oneitis struck. Go get some MO FOR SHO!

Mo approaches, mo numbers, mo pussay = less fucks given baby.
(plus practice )

This happened to me and it's a hard lesson. Using game I banged more girls in 1 year than I had in the 10 previous. But I got lazy. I thought the last one was good enough. Because she wasn't' a stunner, I thought she would be happy to be with me, and plus she was turning 35. I stopped looking at other girls to show her loyalty.

Disastrous mistake. She cheated on me and then just switched to the new guy. I was like Akaki Akakiavitch! My mouth agape in the the cold. It's not the first time I let down my guard to bad results but it's the first one I had active explanations for since studying game and men's issues in general. Painful but necessary lesson for me.

Post: #7

(10-04-2012 11:25 AM)Rudiger Wrote:  

(09-04-2012 11:22 AM)TheMan Wrote:  

(09-04-2012 10:28 AM)amity Wrote:  hmm.....
speaking of beta backslides, am starting to show signs of it in the last couple of days towards the new girl, not good
i did that 'staring at the phone waiting for her text' thing earlier(pretty beta i know), til she got in touch and suggested we meet later this week
she's not a stunner but she is cute, probably a 6, which is fine
but it's her WHR that's got into my head
i fell hard for a girl a few years ago, who had a similarly impressive WHR, took ages to get that chick out of my head..
thoughts/suggestions?

Same thing we tell, the oneitis struck. Go get some MO FOR SHO!

Mo approaches, mo numbers, mo pussay = less fucks given baby.
(plus practice )

This happened to me and it's a hard lesson. Using game I banged more girls in 1 year than I had in the 10 previous. But I got lazy. I thought the last one was good enough. Because she wasn't' a stunner, I thought she would be happy to be with me, and plus she was turning 35. I stopped looking at other girls to show her loyalty.

Disastrous mistake. She cheated on me and then just switched to the new guy. I was like Akaki Akakiavitch! My mouth agape in the the cold. It's not the first time I let down my guard to bad results but it's the first one I had active explanations for since studying game and men's issues in general. Painful but necessary lesson for me.

f&ck, that's not good man, and it's a sign that you've gotta keep your options open, always have two (or at least one) in the kitty
one thing i've noticed lately is that i'm less emotionally involved now when i'm with a girl, this is a complete turnaround from where i was a few years ago where i would fall for any woman that showed any interest in me
i guess you've got to find a balance between being present and in the moment when you're with a woman, yet also not allowing the emotional part of your brain to get too involved, as that's where neediness and oneitis can rear their ugly heads