Post: #26

(08-09-2010 05:39 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  Honestly, I don't expect that men pay me a cab. I he does, I would like, of course. But is not his obligation.
Maybe I think this because taxi is very expensive around here. However, a man around here should give to the girl a ride home (not all the way, but leave her in at least in a spot that she can go home easier, I subway station for example) depending on how late the date ends, because is not okay walk by yourself during the night. I mean, after the 00:00 there is no way to go home (by public transport) and a ride is highly necessary.

I'd let her just stay the night. Plenty of space in my bed.

Post: #27

Let's assume that you didn't reach that point.
And traditional girls don't sleep over.

Post: #28

(08-09-2010 07:39 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  Let's assume that you didn't reach that point.
And traditional girls don't sleep over.

Sleeping over at my place is nicer than those hotéis solteiros.

Post: #29

Have you been in a motel?
Can be nicer, but sometimes the girl just can't stay over. (In Br, for example... Most of the mid 20's still live with parents and yadda, yadda.)

Post: #30

(08-05-2010 08:26 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  Dude, she just spread her legs for you, at least help her get home. Sheesh...Would you rather pay for a prostitute? $6 is a small price to pay for some poon, really.

That is a direct reality, she spent the night with you and you even consider that you should or should not pay taxie costs. What planet are you from, most of those girls want to have a good time and then be on their way. So 6$ is nothing to pay for having a good time. Eidoos77.

Post: #31

(08-13-2010 10:19 PM)eidoos77 Wrote:  

(08-05-2010 08:26 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  Dude, she just spread her legs for you, at least help her get home. Sheesh...Would you rather pay for a prostitute? $6 is a small price to pay for some poon, really.

That is a direct reality, she spent the night with you and you even consider that you should or should not pay taxie costs. What planet are you from, most of those girls want to have a good time and then be on their way. So 6$ is nothing to pay for having a good time. Eidoos77.

Yeah, this whole thread is Pick up Artist mentality gone off the deep end.

Post: #32

(08-05-2010 08:19 PM)Scipio Wrote:  I live in medellin, colombia, and often i have the problem that the girl tells me that she doesn´t have the money to pay for a taxi. Mostly it´s just about ~6$. But also i don´t believe that most girls don´t have the money, they just don´t want to spend it (what´s totally fine if you just earn 300$ a month). The problem is that also girls want that the man pays their cab if she has rich parents or a higher income. The girls usually sleep with me but i don´t hear any "Thanks" for paying the cab. And very fast i am the rich gringo for them. They sleep with me because i have money and they want to get her dinner. So it´s a little bit like paying for the Sex.

What´s your mindset in this case?

Thanks!

I live in the US and in Cali, Colombia and it is hard to imagine a guy letting six bucks get in the way of a good fuck.

I have been to Medellin on a number of occasions and met many hot young women that have their own cars and super hot model types that just won't date guys that don't own a car.

Some thing tells me that you haven't quite moved up to that catergory of Paisas yet.

So if you want to fuck the poorer ones you have to pay the taxi fare or you'll have to wait until they have enough taxi fare to get to your place and get home before they come over again. Is that what you want?

I really don't know what is going on here....but if you are feeling used because she asked for $6 you need to get a hotter girlfriend that leaves a bigger wet spot in your bed or forget about the abuse you recieved from women in years gone past.

Post: #33

(08-06-2010 04:11 PM)hydrogonian Wrote:  

(08-06-2010 10:53 AM)DevoLach Wrote:  There needs to be a line though. Im in Santa Marta Colombia right now and have a few chicks that seem to take the whole provider thing a bit too far. For example theres one chick im with whose putting the pressure on me to take not only her but her friend too to Taganga for what I expect will be an "all expenses paid weekend..." for them.

Your overthinking it.

Two girls want you to take them on vacation. One is already having sex with you. There is not a more perfect scenario for a threesome.

How much can a three person weekend in Colombia be? If your broke, then skip it. If you have the cash, you'll be kicking yourself in your older years that you didn't take two young non-pro colombians up on their offer to spend the entire weekend with them in a private room, when they are in the vacation mindset. They sure as hell arent going to pay for it, and no Colombian women will. If you want the experience, then crack that wallet.

This is a crazy thread. You guys are way over-thinking the provider thing. Not buying girls anything is not what it means to have good game or not pay for sex. Your shooting yourselves in the foot.

There's a difference between paying for things in the provider role, and paying for things so that the girl doesn't feel like a total ditch pig for having sex with a unflinchingly cheap and un-fun bastard.

The truth is, the better your game, the more you can getaway with not paying things for a while. But it wont last. Eventually, every girl at least wants to know that her man is willing to pay for a baseline level of fun, convenience, and safety. As long as it isn't usurious, then you have nothing to worry about.

Girls want to go on vacations.

Girls want to go to dinners.

Girls want you to pay for rounds of drinks, within reason.

Girls want to feel safe in Taxis.

If your looking to get the most out of every woman, then you need to open that wallet on occasion. If your not sticking with them, fine. But theres a sweet spot of exchange of sex, game and money that you can reach if you aren't cheap, that you wont feel bad at all for paying for things, because she will make it totally worth your while. Its not paying for sex, its about showing respect in a way that has been the social norm since the caveman days.

Take it from me, I've had women pay for everything, over a number of months, several times. Its way overrated in terms of the return that you get. Show her some baseline respect, pay for some fun, and make the most of that notch.

Honestly, if you don't pay for shit, you deserve to have every woman that you date ripped away from you by a guy with equivalent game and some cash to spend. And its very rare that there isn't a guy within your girls circle with equivalent game.

Hydro

I think you are being too optimistic.

If this guy's girl was really hot and her friend was smoking hot as well.... he wouldn't be here complaining about being pressured into a threesome. jajaja!!!

But I have to admitt, there are plenty of cute calenas that I bang here in Cali that I wouldn't take on vacation with me. A girl really has to blow my mind in bed before I feel like taking sand to the beach.

Post: #34

Interestingly enough I did find myself in a threesome situation a few days after hydros post with these two chicks. Didn't completely pull it off but did manage to switch from the one I was with to her hotter friend. (And finish her off while her friend slept in the bed next to us

My post was early on in my trip. After, I learned that there are plenty of Colombianas that arent just using you for your wallet, and learned to except that its just part of the culture (amongst the poorer) with the ones that do. It is definitely a class thing.