Post: #1

Hey I've been running into a brick wall with the past few girls I've been with so you guys shoot me some ideas on this.

I'll have her over on a day1 at my place with a movie or something. I get her comfortable, escalate from touching to rubbing to kissing and eventually end up either messing around on the couch or in bed. And trust me, I get her going and I can tell she's into it, everything is smooth. And then all of a sudden she puts her clothes on and says "I have to go." I'm the type that I don't pressure it if the vibe isn't there, so I play it off cool and tell her I wanted her out anyways. Then I end up texting her to come over the next day or a few days later and we fuck. But what's going on on that day1. Am I pushing too hard..not pushing enough?

I just got out of a long and intense relationship so I lost that "plow through" reflex. What are you guys doing when you run into this. Someone throw some alpha vibes over.

Post: #2

She may had felt insecure to have sex with you in the day 01 and gone away with "no reason".
Then she regreted and acepted your invitation. But it wasn't for you. Just for her "curiosity". I doubt that she felt bad for going away all sudden.
I guess if you had insisted a bit, saying something like, "hey, don't..." and hold her tighter, not pressuring, but more firm she may had stayed if she was that into as you told.

Post: #3

(08-06-2010 03:05 PM)feomuerto Wrote:  Hey I've been running into a brick wall with the past few girls I've been with so you guys shoot me some ideas on this.

I'll have her over on a day1 at my place with a movie or something. I get her comfortable, escalate from touching to rubbing to kissing and eventually end up either messing around on the couch or in bed. And trust me, I get her going and I can tell she's into it, everything is smooth. And then all of a sudden she puts her clothes on and says "I have to go." I'm the type that I don't pressure it if the vibe isn't there, so I play it off cool and tell her I wanted her out anyways. Then I end up texting her to come over the next day or a few days later and we fuck. But what's going on on that day1. Am I pushing too hard..not pushing enough?

I just got out of a long and intense relationship so I lost that "plow through" reflex. What are you guys doing when you run into this. Someone throw some alpha vibes over.

I always go with the flow, some days women are aloof and other days they can not get enuf sex. As long as you do not pressure them they will give you what you need. Eidoos77.

Post: #4

feomuerto,

Technically, this isn't "same night lays", this is more, "first date swoop". But that is neither here nor there.

I think the issue is "I'll have her over on a day1 at my place with a movie or something." It is not exciting enough to get the blood pumping for a swoop. The pendulum isn't swinging enough.

Try to go out with her and have fun, and booze more.

After you have swooped her then shift into the "I'll have her over at my place with a movie or something."

Post: #5

Thanks for the replies fellas. I wrote this because I was kind of frustrated and I wasn't sure why this girl just up and left right in the middle of a great time. A couple days after I wrote this I bedded the girl in question and found out that she was a virgin. I'm pretty sure that had something to do with it, but I'll take the pendulum effect into account next time.

Post: #6

Course it does. But again, It was her "curiosity" more than ever. Not you. ;D

Post: #7

If by "curious" you mean jocking my cock, then yea she is definitely "curious".

And her housemate added me on facebook and has been texting me behind girl1's back. She isn't as good looking but she's a lot naughtier. I'm trying to be a good guy but I can't run fast enough when the pussy is chasing me.

Post: #8

Dont go for her friend. Maybe is not behind her back, a shit test to see if you are "loyal" after had taken her virginity.
Is she really virgin? She didn't hesitate at all in the second time? Hun... Interesting

Post: #9

That's what I thought at first too, but she's been sending some pretty suggestive texts for the past week. I'm trying to figure out a way to get her over to my place and still maintain plausible deniability if I'm reading things wrong. I'm probably just going to go direct but I'm open to ideas.