Post: #126

(07-16-2012 11:18 AM)thedude3737 Wrote:  How to do this? Well, I gotta bust my ass on my career, which I'm currently doing. This shit better pay off. It's never been a better time to be a chef, this celebrity thing is blowing up. They're casting for that show Chopped in L.A... fuck it, maybe i'll go for it...

Are you banging out all the social media stuff for yourself?

Post: #127

(07-16-2012 11:18 AM)thedude3737 Wrote:  To me, game is a balancing act of working on the CORE, the body, the personality, the mind, the financial situation, the place in society, but it's also about reaching out and going beyond your comfort zone, doing things that you would normally say, "I don't do that!"

Exactly!

All the the things you are scared to do. You have to say "fuck it" and do them.

Game, to me, has been about conquering all my fears. Not only with women but with life in general.

Fearlessness is powerful and they can smell it.

Post: #128

All the the things you are scared to do. You have to say "fuck it" and do them.

Notice a trend! I should just change my signature to "I don't give a fuck"

Fearlessness is powerful and they can smell it.

You reach a point where being turned down in public doesn't even matter! This is extreme levels of I don't give a shit. On Saturday I was turned down 3 times before success, girls were just as interested because they were wondering "why didn't he have a reaction?!"

Girls can smell "game" from a mile away.

Again game is "I don't give a fuck!"

Post: #129

(07-16-2012 11:55 AM)WestCoast Wrote:  All the the things you are scared to do. You have to say "fuck it" and do them.

Notice a trend! I should just change my signature to "I don't give a fuck"

Fearlessness is powerful and they can smell it.

You reach a point where being turned down in public doesn't even matter! This is extreme levels of I don't give a shit. On Saturday I was turned down 3 times before success, girls were just as interested because they were wondering "why didn't he have a reaction?!"

Girls can smell "game" from a mile away.

Again game is "I don't give a fuck!"

Westcoast,

Ever read this one:

The Real Secret of Game and Swooping Mass Amounts of Girls

Post: #130

(07-04-2012 09:55 AM)Giovonny Wrote:  you can bartend at a hot club/bar in town..

Can someone explain how working on the nights that you could be out looking for SNL's is a great way to increase access to quality girls? Why is bartendering a job with status? Not doubting, just don't understand how it works.

Post: #131

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Post: #132

@ G manifesto. Yes read it the only issue with the post that I have is again it is tailored to 28+ people. Young guys should not wear a custom suit unless they are already famous. It's not economical or smart. I know I am the wealthiest guy by a mile when I walk into some venues but I wear young guy style.

Second thing I would add to the post is a large difference between. Not giving a fuck because of success and not giving a fuck because you are bitter. Number 2 is a game killer. I don't give a fuck because I know the next will come. Some guys don't give a fuck because they "gave up". These guys don't get laid, ever. Bitterness is not confidence.

@ bacan - this one is easy. The girls must go through you to get something they want. Everyone must go trough you to get what they want. This is like being the guy who throws private parties "if you are not cool with me you get nothing". Direct status. This is why you need to live a sick life or move on outside of the USA. I'll say it again both Men and women should WANT to be around you

He makes me happier
He makes me feel good
He is different
I want to be with him!

Where are you on the call list of someone wants to have fun? You better be #1

Because I want to be with him! HE MAKES ME BETTER

Post: #133

(07-16-2012 12:52 PM)WestCoast Wrote:  @ G manifesto. Yes read it the only issue with the post that I have is again it is tailored to 28+ people. Young guys should not wear a custom suit unless they are already famous. It's not economical or smart. I know I am the wealthiest guy by a mile when I walk into some venues but I wear young guy style.

Second thing I would add to the post is a large difference between. Not giving a fuck because of success and not giving a fuck because you are bitter. Number 2 is a game killer. I don't give a fuck because I know the next will come. Some guys don't give a fuck because they "gave up". These guys don't get laid, ever. Bitterness is not confidence.

I didn't think that post was about "bitterness".

And the essence wasn't really about going Suited Down either.

Post: #134

(07-16-2012 12:40 PM)bacan Wrote:  

(07-04-2012 09:55 AM)Giovonny Wrote:  you can bartend at a hot club/bar in town..

Can someone explain how working on the nights that you could be out looking for SNL's is a great way to increase access to quality girls? Why is bartendering a job with status? Not doubting, just don't understand how it works.

The club/bar is a cool place, and since they hired you, you are perceived as "cool". You have power, authority, influence within this "cool" place. You control the flow of alcohol. You wear a uniform. There are horny girls around. The fact that you're working lets them view you with much more trust, comfort, credibility. It not hard to take advantage of these factors if you have a little game.

I did it for a year and it was great for pussy but bad for everything else.

Post: #135

(07-16-2012 11:32 AM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(07-16-2012 11:18 AM)thedude3737 Wrote:  How to do this? Well, I gotta bust my ass on my career, which I'm currently doing. This shit better pay off. It's never been a better time to be a chef, this celebrity thing is blowing up. They're casting for that show Chopped in L.A... fuck it, maybe i'll go for it...

Are you banging out all the social media stuff for yourself?

Somewhat. I hate self promotion but I have to get used to it. I've got some good PR on me out there, was on a "30 chefs under 30 to watch" list in L.A. a year or two ago and have done some high profile special events. Thing is, is my sense of pride got in the way and I've dealt with the whole PR thing kicking and screaming until very recently. At some point I realized people don't get picked to be famous, not really. They make it happen themselves or at least facilitate it to some extent. Not sure how far I'll be able to take the fame route but it's worth a shot.

Post: #136

(07-16-2012 11:28 AM)WestCoast Wrote:  Yeah you get the idea then no worries. Once you get that drop dead girl to hook up with you I want to hear the PM deets of the aftermath... You know like:

1. All apartment windows opened "permanently"
2. Calls your boss to see if you are at work
3. Sends a spy out to cockblock you if you don't call her back
4. Breaks your car window
5. Hacks your computer
6. Tries to get into your bank account

You know the good things about having a 9 like you.

I had that same mentality where I wanted that 9 so badly. Then she almost hit me with her daddy's paid for escalade... Thanks but no thanks.

Totally worth it. If I have a point where I'm reviled, pursued, chased, despised by an army of gorgeous women, I will consider myself successful in life.

Post: #137

Yeah I agree with all the stuff in the post. Your boy basically was out of the scene and didn't have that swagger from multiple swoops over and over and not caring.

You did that guy a huge favor. If you see success in person it's impossible to deny game.

This is why keeping any girl around can be fickle, as your post points out the effect is it can hurt your game.

(07-16-2012 01:07 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(07-16-2012 12:52 PM)WestCoast Wrote:  @ G manifesto. Yes read it the only issue with the post that I have is again it is tailored to 28+ people. Young guys should not wear a custom suit unless they are already famous. It's not economical or smart. I know I am the wealthiest guy by a mile when I walk into some venues but I wear young guy style.

Second thing I would add to the post is a large difference between. Not giving a fuck because of success and not giving a fuck because you are bitter. Number 2 is a game killer. I don't give a fuck because I know the next will come. Some guys don't give a fuck because they "gave up". These guys don't get laid, ever. Bitterness is not confidence.

I didn't think that post was about "bitterness".

And the essence wasn't really about going Suited Down either.

Post: #138

Totally worth it. If I have a point where I'm reviled, pursued, chased, despised by an army of gorgeous women, I will consider myself successful in life.

Shit you may care even less than me! Good work, the email hack almost fucked my entire life over when she started sending my
Boss emails and trying to get me fired. Assuming I do well on the street in about 3 years I should have enough $$$ to get to that level of not caring.

Post: #139

Game involves communication.
Most of you are talking about aspects of self improvement.

• Self improvement makes the product (you) look more desirable at face value.
• Game is making the sale through good salesmanship.

Post: #140

How easy is it to go home with girls as a bartender? Don't you stay an hour longer after last call to clean up and stuff? Or is it just a good way to get phone numbers from hot girls? Nice answers so far, thanks

Post: #141

(07-16-2012 04:37 PM)bacan Wrote:  How easy is it to go home with girls as a bartender? Don't you stay an hour longer after last call to clean up and stuff? Or is it just a good way to get phone numbers from hot girls? Nice answers so far, thanks

I don't know any bartenders so i'm kind of interested in knowing this too. I don't think a (possibly drunk) girl is gonna wait for you an hour while you mop the floor. It would be a massive DLV. She would lose her good vibe and just leave you behind.

Post: #142

(07-17-2012 03:38 AM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

(07-16-2012 04:37 PM)bacan Wrote:  How easy is it to go home with girls as a bartender? Don't you stay an hour longer after last call to clean up and stuff? Or is it just a good way to get phone numbers from hot girls? Nice answers so far, thanks

I don't know any bartenders so i'm kind of interested in knowing this too. I don't think a (possibly drunk) girl is gonna wait for you an hour while you mop the floor. It would be a massive DLV. She would lose her good vibe and just leave you behind.

We used to let the girls stay after the doors were locked and drink until leaving. With a good crew things can get lively and to the girls it's like an after hours party. Plus they get to see what goes on behind the scenes. In one bar we had a "gentlemen's rule", where if you pulled quality you were allowed to leave at 2.

Post: #143

But what about cleaning up and stuff. In Holland I sometimes see them clean the tables,toilets, take away the tables and chairs.

Post: #144

Interesting yeah.. Either way, it would be impossible to crack into some of these high social value bars (college bars, hot clubs, etc) without already being an experienced bartender. Might be a nice gig to start getting into though, especially because every city in the world has bartenders and might be a way to make some cash while traveling.

Post: #145

(07-17-2012 07:42 AM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  But what about cleaning up and stuff. In Holland I sometimes see them clean the tables,toilets, take away the tables and chairs.

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Here's some info for each side of the bar.

Working in the right bar with some swag can land you 8's. College towns are good, and even in high end venues, broke girls sometimes go in to troll around, even if just to be seen. They like to hook up with the staff for free drinks, ect. They're stressing the checkbook even to be in there, and it's like your floating them chips on the roulette table to stay in the game.

Don't get taken advantage though. Parlay free shit into a bang, before they hook up with some dude with cash. College girls like being in the "status" with the staff. That one is easy.

Post: #146

I'm gonna bump this thread.

I don't know what it was, maybe a "straw that broke the camel's back" type thing. The lifestyle vs. game thing just got thrown in my face really hard lately, and yesterday it came to some sort of apex.

I'm at work, and I take the elevator up to the rooftop with this girl that has a near perfect face. Body is a little heavy, maybe 15 lb, but she's gorgeous. Would pound her for days, we smile at each other.

See her again at the rooftop and start chatting her up, she's being polite but I can tell she's not super interested. Not getting any serious IOIs, just pleasant, polite conversation. She's sitting at a cocktail table waiting for a friend. Well, her friend shows up and I watch everything. Here goes:

This guy is dressed like a trust fund baby, not sure how to describe but there's a style in L.A. now, kinda like "rich kid yacht club" look, polo shorts and shirt, bright colors, loafers. He might as well been wearing a sweater tied over his neck He's holding a shopping bag. His voice is weak and he pays her little attention.

She, on the other hand, lights up. She looks like a little girl in a candy store, immediately rests her chin on her palm and gazes at this guy like he's the biggest stud in the universe. Her body language is ridiculous. Pretty sure she would have boned him right then and there.

He's totally aloof, answering all her rapid fire questions, I mean, she reminded me of an overexcited guy that has no game, and this guy was just treating her like wallpaper. He was even a little effeminate. But in listening to his quiet, reserved responses, he revealed shit like how he got back from his boat that's parked in the Mediterannean, hopped over to London, yadda yadda yadda.

But make no mistake, this kid had no game. I promise you that. I've seen rich cats with game. This kid was born into it and was used to a lifetime of women offering themselves at him because of his lifestyle.

Conclusion? I'll never argue the merits of game. It's gotten me more and better quality lays than I'd imagined previously. But for this next level shit? It's all about lifestyle. I can chat up 8s and 9s for days, I can play the mind games, getting them to talk about fantasies, make them feel good, hell, even buy a nice bottle of sparkling to share with them, venue change, dates, I can BUST MY ASS to bang the occasional 8 or 9. But this guy? He doesn't even give a FUCK, and these girls probably THROW themselves at him.

I want that. My new goal before the end of the year is to start clearing 6 figures and start making some lifestyle changes. I don't know that I'll ever have a boat parked in the Mediterannean, but goddamn I gotta start climbing that ladder, and fast. Game has taken me to an intermediate level, the only way I think I could get drastically better is if I quit my job. Or I can take the game knowledge I have and start working on the lifestyle, so I'm choosing that.

Post: #147

"This guy is dressed like a trust fund baby, not sure how to describe but there's a style in L.A. now, kinda like "rich kid yacht club" look, polo shorts and shirt, bright colors, loafers. He might as well been wearing a sweater tied over his neck He's holding a shopping bag. His voice is weak and he pays her little attention."

You just got played by Basil Ransom

Post: #148

Well shit. Guess I'll have to be a rich kid orbiter then.

Post: #149

(08-05-2012 01:43 PM)thedude3737 Wrote:  I can chat up 8s and 9s for days, I can play the mind games, getting them to talk about fantasies, make them feel good, hell, even buy a nice bottle of sparkling to share with them, venue change, dates, I can BUST MY ASS to bang the occasional 8 or 9. But this guy? He doesn't even give a FUCK, and these girls probably THROW themselves at him.

So true right!?!

1. Game
2. Fame
3. Money
4. Status
5. Attractive Lifestyle

Having one or two if these things is good. Having all of them is even better. The more you have, the more girls you will get.

Once you have obtained one, try to obtain the others as well.

Post: #150

Yeah, that is one thing I did not like about Colombia.. All the super hot hot girls were usually with guys with money.. The guy that I heard who supposedly banged the most girls in the shortest amount of time was a guy who either banged girls by selling them the dream of his riches or just by straight up paying regular girls as if they were hookers.. The foreigners that went out with the prettiest girls were also the ones who had reputations for having money and throwing it around..