Post: #1

got this date set-up with a 21yo attention-whore of a fake tittied blonde and last night as we were making plans I gave her the "wear heels" line (text).

She responded "Ok. Why heels if I may ask? "

"They suit you"

"Then I'd really like to not have to walk far"

I got a bit irritated at her lack of trust, then realized she's probably only ever known stupid men, so was about tease her (A&A) but passed out instead (was exhausted).

Should I go ahead and tell her:

"Yeah, I was planning on a 4-hour hike. That's why I asked you to wear heels"

or just leave it. I can't tell if I should assuage her feelings and pass a shittest or ignore.

Post: #2

leave it.

u can tease her about it on the date tho.

Post: #3

completely forget it ever happened

yes guys are dumb

Post: #4

My favorite is to combine the "wear heels" line with the "skirt no panties" line. Of course this only works on freakier girls.

Post: #5

If you respond in text any further then you have fallen into her frame. Don't answer her questions directly. And I learned the hard way that less is more.

Post: #6

As a little guy, i had to use the "wear comfy shoes, we're gonna walk around bit" line for my last date lol

Post: #7

"They suit you" is where you lost her.

You played into her frame.

Just drop it and forget you said anything.

Post: #8

(05-23-2012 09:37 PM)Gmac Wrote:  "They suit you" is where you lost her.

You played into her frame.

Just drop it and forget you said anything.

Would something with the jist of "Because I dig heels" be a suitable alternative in a similar situation, or would you have just ignored it completely?

Post: #9

Went out last night. She didn't wear heels, but I got a good make-out and she wants to see me again. Am on the fence about that, though... not only did she not wear heels, but in her convo she really came across as a dumb bitch.

@ Gmac: offer an alternative

Post: #10

What is her nationality?

Post: #11

I'll give you three guesses

Post: #12

Scandinavian women can be stubborn. Its almost as if by telling her to put on heels, she will throw on her Chucks instead.

I have yet to find a way to get Swedish women to do exactly what I want them to do, when I want them to, without triggering the stubborn part of their brain.

Post: #13

(05-21-2012 11:27 PM)ElJefe Wrote:  got this date set-up with a 21yo attention-whore of a fake tittied blonde and last night as we were making plans I gave her the "wear heels" line (text).

She responded "Ok. Why heels if I may ask? "


"No you may not ask"

Post: #14

Must be a complex

Post: #15

Used it too early last night in the stack during the ramble phase and it backfired. It came off like I was a fetishist who'd be sniffing her shoes or some shit instead of banging her. But that's jaded San Francisco for you.

Post: #16

I can't understand why you are so obsessed about saying what a girl should wear.
"Wear heels." Going out on a date, is this not required already? Put some damn make up (a lipstick at least), brush your hair, clean your nails in case you couldn't go to manicure/pedi service such men shave the bear (or clean it), take shower...

OMG.

And this is why when a man ask me out I ask him which kind of clothes should I wear (casual or elegant). Some just answered other asks me why and I say: "Because I want to wear the proper outfit".

Case Closed.

Post: #17

(05-21-2012 11:43 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  leave it.

u can tease her about it on the date tho.

Agreed, make a little fun of her about it on the date, but don't act like you were mad about it. If you text that back to her, you may lose your date.

Last weekend I text a girl I met in NY asking, "You have any plans for tonight?" She text back, "I'm just hanging out with my friends right now." I'm thinking, "Bitch, that's not what I asked you." I decided with that response my chances weren't very good, so I wrote back, "Really? I'm hanging out with my friends too..." I knew that was the game killer, but I didn't give a shit, I just wanted her to that that wasn't a proper response to my question.

Post: #18

(05-24-2012 08:45 AM)ElJefe Wrote:  Went out last night. She didn't wear heels, but I got a good make-out and she wants to see me again. Am on the fence about that, though... not only did she not wear heels, but in her convo she really came across as a dumb bitch.

@ Gmac: offer an alternative

Sounds like a waste of time to me.

Her: "Ok. Why heels if I may ask?"
Me: "You serious...? Nevermind."

Then you can take it any number of ways once her hamster goes crazy and she responds. This is only going to work on high maintenance cunts like in your scenario. This way you make her feel dumb (or ignorant about the venue's dress code) and reinforce your expectations. She will qualify herself or go apeshit (shit-testing) on you. You pass (in person), she spreads her legs.

Post: #19

When chicks say things that annoy me, I don't respond.

Your problem with this one chick is that...she's ONE chick.

You will never see true players asking questions about one chick.

Because if there's an issue with her, move on.

If a chick were a famous porn star, celebrity, or some other special case, sure, it'd a fun game.

But this is just garden variety chick annoyances.

As to the first question, I would have said, "Because it's hot," or, "Because I won't be seen in public with dumpy girls."

Too many of you guys are overgaming.

Why DO you want her to wear heels? Just fucking tell her what's up.

Post: #20

Plus, by telling the truth, I'm going to blow out crappy girls.

"Wear heels."

"Why?"

"Because I believe a man should look like a man, and a woman like a woman." (Just don't be the guy wearing flip flops and cargo shorts.)

If that pisses her off, fine, bye.

Get into the mindset that YOU are rejecting HER.

My "text game" is now basically being direct and honest.

"Do this." "Why?" "Because that's what I like."

I know what I like, and if a girl doesn't offer that, then oh well. Plenty of girls out there who will do what I like.

Post: #21

(05-25-2012 06:48 PM)Gmac Wrote:  Her: "Ok. Why heels if I may ask?"
Me: "You serious...? Nevermind."

Then you can take it any number of ways once her hamster goes crazy and she responds. This is only going to work on high maintenance cunts like in your scenario. This way you make her feel dumb (or ignorant about the venue's dress code) and reinforce your expectations. She will qualify herself or go apeshit (shit-testing) on you. You pass (in person), she spreads her legs.

Great line.

What sort of apeshit shit tests have u found generally follow this line?

For example, she's going to bring up the stupid heels again....

Post: #22

Gmac is a good way, but MikeCF's is the same thing with less thought involved. I prefer MikeCF's, because it allows the girl to reject you.

When a girl rejects you after suggesting to her to wear heels, she's doing you a favor.

Post: #23

I remember G Manifesto talking about using this line when scheduling dates: "I'm coming straight from a business meeting so throw on some heels and a dress and lets meet at X." So you want to let her know that you are dressed up so that she will fit your style.

Post: #24

I've used the heels line forever and when they ask "Why?" I respond with one of these;

"Because I'm tall. Duh."
"Because you're short."
"Because I like a woman to dress like a woman."
"Because I don't like bending at the waist to kiss you."

or something along those lines. Generally works very well and if it blows them out oh well.