Post: #10276

BANGED.

So i was nervous at the start of date because she's white and I'm black and I hate having attention on me. Saw her come into the bar and she looked good. She's more Arab looking than Germanic. Had a platter to share and a drink. She came to the UK from Milan last October. I then invited her to mine for a "tour." Watched five mins of good-fellas before I made moves.

She mentioned how most Italian women don't like black guys but shes different. She kept playing with my nose and lips, saying she loves it.

Probably a fetish but i got the impression she actually finds me very attractive. She said I have a strange personality but she likes it.

Not gonna lie. I do like Mediterranean looks. She had big tits. fat ass and extremely passionate kisser. Would never, ever have guessed she would be the type of girl to drop them draws for me.

Italian flag captured.

TDK

Post: #10277

Good job. What’s next with for you two? One and done?

Post: #10278

Her parents are staying with her for the next two weeks from Italy. And she straight up said, we can’t meet during that time. Listen. Italians are almost as bad as Indians/ Arabs regarding black bf taboo.

No way. Am I having non-black gf. Not worth it for me.

Tbh I don’t do GF/BF. Either wife or fuck buddy. She ain’t gonna be my wife .

Fuck buddy it is or good bye.

But there you go, Italians, with their dark looks, can find brothers pussy dripping wet.

TDK

Post: #10279

Nice work thedarkknight. Mediterranean girls are sexy. Regarding Italian girls and black men, when UK garage was at it's peak and Ayia Napa was the holiday place for UK garage back in like 99-2002, Italian girls on holiday there were well known among black lads and many were getting fucked out, spit roasts and all sorts, it was a known thing.

Post: #10280

Keep the momentum up and get another notch.

Last thing you want to do is put this girl on a pedestal.

Post: #10281

(04-24-2019 06:16 PM)thedarkknight Wrote:  BANGED.

So i was nervous at the start of date because she's white and I'm black and I hate having attention on me. Saw her come into the bar and she looked good. She's more Arab looking than Germanic. Had a platter to share and a drink. She came to the UK from Milan last October. I then invited her to mine for a "tour." Watched five mins of good-fellas before I made moves.

She mentioned how most Italian women don't like black guys but shes different. She kept playing with my nose and lips, saying she loves it.

Probably a fetish but i got the impression she actually finds me very attractive. She said I have a strange personality but she likes it.

Not gonna lie. I do like Mediterranean looks. She had big tits. fat ass and extremely passionate kisser. Would never, ever have guessed she would be the type of girl to drop them draws for me.

Italian flag captured.

TDK

My brother you really gotta put more respect on your own name. You should leave the house every morning under the mantra that all these bitches want you. You would have to be reeking of garbage swill to think otherwise. Stop over thinking shit my high IQ friend. You are a member of the 1% and i don't mean financially I mean wholly. It should never be about race. Why, because no matter if a bitch has been with 0 Black men your attitude should be that you're such an exceptional man/human being she would uncontrollably open up to your lure.

I have been told native Italian women don't really get down with brothers as well, but guess what I ain't a brother I'm THE brother. As a result, i walk through life knowing that I will be the exception no matter the woman. She could have the most rigid racial preferences, she's gonna bend to my will because when juxtaposed with the men surrounding me she won't have a choice but to give in to her own carnal nature.

Post: #10282

I totally get where TDK is coming from. I've gone through long phases (particularly college) of thinking my race holds me back.

Give him time. He'll be dropping gems himself soon enough.

Post: #10283

That racial stuff does not matter. If you are an attractive man (Fit, high status, good looking, tall, rich, game, etc.), she will find you find attractive no matter what your race is.


She can hear all the racist thoughts in the world, all that goes out of the window when she is in the presence of an attractive man. All of a sudden she is like "hmm he is cute. maybe I should get to know him more."

The only thing that racial stuff is intended to do is keep you away from white women. That's why most Black men think they don't have a shot. Because they are looking at her from far away. If you have access to her, you will realize all of that racial BS doesn't matter in attraction.

If you get her 1 on 1, and can spit good game, and she is single, you have a shot with almost any woman in the world.

Post: #10284

(04-25-2019 03:08 AM)Kieran Wrote:  Nice work thedarkknight. Mediterranean girls are sexy. Regarding Italian girls and black men, when UK garage was at it's peak and Ayia Napa was the holiday place for UK garage back in like 99-2002, Italian girls on holiday there were well known among black lads and many were getting fucked out, spit roasts and all sorts, it was a known thing.

Whats the modern day equivalent of this now? girls going to the caribbean ?

Post: #10285

@TDK, what kind of game did you run to get this chick? More specifically, where/how did you meet her? cold approach at a coffeeshop? it’s al about the story!

Happy for you brotha!

Post: #10286

@Iso

Well said my man.

Sadly, many of us have a limited mindset.

That's why travelling to different countries and interacting with different people, did wonders for my self confidence. I met people that were dying to know about me and why I chose to visit their country.

Girls that move to certain countries are looking for a better life and too have fun with different men. As I have stated before, the U.K.is a great place to meet these types of women.

Can we change this tired topic!

Post: #10287

Any one know of any good erotogenous zones?

Ear
Navel
Neck
Inner thigh
Upper back


Any others

TDK

Post: #10288

Hips / hip bones

Collarbones (run your fingers across, or grab "under")

Hand on her knee in the right way while outside of the bedroom (i.e. sitting next to her, just enough grip)

Natural touching that signals "ownership" can have erogenous effects ... (mentioning since many of the obvious "while in bed" spots are known)... so maybe these are more tingle spots

Post: #10289

For the brothers that regularly date Black women in their mid to late 20s. How do y’all disqualify yourselves as a boyfriend early to get the smash on the first date instead of a month later? I work in a very technical field so when it comes up I feel like they inevitably put me in that box despite being polarizing with the dress, demeanor, and body language. This isn’t as much of a issue with the young chicks, but that late 20s demo is a real sticking point for me.

Post: #10290

(04-26-2019 04:30 PM)Joga Bonito Wrote:  For the brothers that regularly date Black women in their mid to late 20s. How do y’all disqualify yourselves as a boyfriend early to get the smash on the first date instead of a month later?

She ultimately decides that. Focus more on seduction upon first meeting the woman. Use sexual innuendos, what you are going to so her sexually, etc. Pass the shit tests and escalate. It's risky in that you may turn off some commitment-oriented women that you could've poked the 2nd thru 4th date.

Post: #10291

(04-26-2019 04:30 PM)Joga Bonito Wrote:  For the brothers that regularly date Black women in their mid to late 20s. How do y’all disqualify yourselves as a boyfriend early to get the smash on the first date instead of a month later? I work in a very technical field so when it comes up I feel like they inevitably put me in that box despite being polarizing with the dress, demeanor, and body language. This isn’t as much of a issue with the young chicks, but that late 20s demo is a real sticking point for me.

College educated or not?

WIA

Post: #10292

(04-26-2019 02:44 AM)thedarkknight Wrote:  Any one know of any good erotogenous zones?

Ear
Navel
Neck
Inner thigh
Upper back


Any others

TDK

Grab her fanny, bruv!

Post: #10293

Quick theory

You think more full bodied ( not fat!) non black women are more attracted/ into brothers than the chicks who worry about their weight, and carry a water canister like a newborn?

Just thinking about my own experiences. Non black women with ass and tits (not fat) have shown way more love than the prissy non black chick who probably has, or had, an eating disorder.

I think it shows their desire to fit in with main stream / white beauty standards aka white male preferences. Doesn’t bother me because I can’t stand toddler bodied women.

TDK

Post: #10294

Another Arg girl post bang telling me it’s been her desire to be with a black man, but she’s yet to do it.. which makes me wonder - what the hell have they been waiting for?

Surely it’s been enough black men who’ve gone their way and tried to smash. There may be some local dating/cultural norms I’m just not aware of yet.

Post: #10295

(04-26-2019 05:04 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

(04-26-2019 04:30 PM)Joga Bonito Wrote:  For the brothers that regularly date Black women in their mid to late 20s. How do y’all disqualify yourselves as a boyfriend early to get the smash on the first date instead of a month later? I work in a very technical field so when it comes up I feel like they inevitably put me in that box despite being polarizing with the dress, demeanor, and body language. This isn’t as much of a issue with the young chicks, but that late 20s demo is a real sticking point for me.

College educated or not?

WIA

Almost always college educated, often times professional school or advanced degree.

Post: #10296

(04-26-2019 04:55 PM)RougeNoir Wrote:  

(04-26-2019 04:30 PM)Joga Bonito Wrote:  For the brothers that regularly date Black women in their mid to late 20s. How do y’all disqualify yourselves as a boyfriend early to get the smash on the first date instead of a month later?

She ultimately decides that. Focus more on seduction upon first meeting the woman. Use sexual innuendos, what you are going to so her sexually, etc. Pass the shit tests and escalate. It's risky in that you may turn off some commitment-oriented women that you could've poked the 2nd thru 4th date.

Yeah I figured that was the case, just never found a reliable way to do that outside escalating via touch.

Post: #10297

Also, don't lead with your expensive car, Rolex, expensive clothes, extensive resume/education, expensive house/condo. That'll up her slut guard . She doesn't want you to think she's a slut if she's considering you for the potential long-term. Let her find out by happenstance.

Post: #10298

@TDK

I haven't been around here too long, but I feel like all your lay reports are written with self-depreciation. It's like, you're doing the damn thing but afraid to fully own it. Which is odd because it looks like you've been with more than a few dimes through the years. You need to fully own it, brother, it's more fun that way. Also, while I've never lived in the U.K., you write as if it's the Jim Crow South. Out here in LA and NYC, I'll walk around with any girl without any fear. Most people don't give a shit. I had one white waiter try to cockblock and some sisters every now and then give me attitude when ordering or something, but again, it's not that serious. Just have fun man. This should always be fun.

Post: #10299

I never really understood how some guys would take that long to get the bang with a chick. If you're gaming her right you should be able to get the bang in 3 hours. Patience is key, women don't like when you rush sex.

Ive heard stories of guys taking months to get the bang because the woman thinks hes a player and hes trying to smash and dip

A good line to remember is the guy who doesnt know whats going on more than the chick ends up getting friendzoned, vs the guy who knows more of whats going on than the girl gets the one night stand and she doesn't care because he went after what he wanted

you gotta understand the interaction better than she does and keep her fear of abandonment under control

Post: #10300

(04-27-2019 11:52 AM)newandimproved Wrote:  @TDK

I haven't been around here too long, but I feel like all your lay reports are written with self-depreciation. It's like, you're doing the damn thing but afraid to fully own it. Which is odd because it looks like you've been with more than a few dimes through the years. You need to fully own it, brother, it's more fun that way. Also, while I've never lived in the U.K., you write as if it's the Jim Crow South. Out here in LA and NYC, I'll walk around with any girl without any fear. Most people don't give a shit. I had one white waiter try to cockblock and some sisters every now and then give me attitude when ordering or something, but again, it's not that serious. Just have fun man. This should always be fun.

We've been telling him this repeatedly. Inner-game is the only thing that'll change that. It'll come eventually. And to your question TDK, IMO, ALL women are, at the very least, sexually curious of black men on some level. Some are just more willing to act on it than others. You can probably thank porn and sexual stereotypes for that.

As to JB's question, I've struggled with this immensely. My personal and professional successes are intertwined with my personality. Maybe in my younger years, I dumbed myself down to fit stereotypes associated with lover status as opposed to provider status. And honestly, my lover attributes were probably far superior to my provider attributes.

Now, chicks in my city just have to google my name (and they do) and they'll know instantly who I am and what I do so there's no point in trying to hide it. Of the successful sex-only relationships I've had with professional black women, talking about sex and getting them to tell me about adventurous sexual rendezvous early on was the key. If not, I'm hubby material and they hold out like a broken vending machine. Admittedly, its the reason I've been banging so many NBG's. They just wanna phuck, and it's obvious (to further add to TDK's inquiry). Averaging roughly 60% same day lay(up)'s.
However, I'm only checking for black women for LTR's and I don't necessarily mind taking things slow.