Post: #26

Enjoy your best time with Colombian girl. LOL!

Post: #27

I live in Medellin for about 5 months now. I would say be extremely careful. Going to Colombia you are literally entering the jungle. Laws are questionable. Cops are corrupt. And you're entering a country where people are so disperate to obtain money. You'll be suprised what lengths they will go to obtain dinero jaja. En general, Use every precaution as possible. Dont get drunk/ wasted and put yourself in a bad predicament. you'll end up getting robbed. Learned that lesson the hard way. Also watch out having 3 somes because one chick is fucking you and another is robbing your ass. Then watch out of the scheme where they take you to "their club" and its a full scale setup. Ive had friends lose up to 25,000 dollars. The most important thing is, if you got a bad feeling then bail. A good buddy system is great but not the ideal. i had a friends get drugged by some girls and everybody in the house got robbed.

Personally, i wouldnt recommend Colombia because the currency exchange rate is in your favor but when you add up all the variable costs. You are better off going to Vegas. Another fact that people dont realize, all the good looking chicks who are 8s and above. A good majority of them are escorts or prepaids in some way of form. What i mean by that, you go out to the Clubs/bars. She is most likely a working girl and if she isnt and you take her home. she will most likely ask you for money because she needs food, rent, etc etc. That's literally a huge downside to Colombians that most dont realize or know. Colombians have this mindset since we are Tourist that we should just givrnthem money. Here's a short story:

Ive been dating this chick for a couple months she works at a bank. I have friends who are workd travels or poker players. i ask her to invite some friends for my 2 buddies. We were clear we didnt want any prepaids. She incites then, their pictures looked better then what they actually looked like. And we just said fuck it, lets just have a good night. An hour in, we are bored. we politely try to excuse ourselves from these 2 chicks. And my girl goes, "both my friends want like 2-300,000 pesos." She then says, "My friends got dressed up so they expect money to come out since we are tourists." Literally by default Colombian (men and women) mindset is that we are cash cows. moral of all this. Get straight tonthe point of what her mindset is. And if you do tell her you're not paying her. STILL watch your shit. jaja

Colombia is best summed up : Is the juice worth the squeeze jaja

Post: #28

Just tell those kind of chicks to fuck off, my friend on a date with some chick he said she was being so annoying he got up, paid for just himself then told her to deal with it and left.

The people that ask for money are fucking annoying, I've had random older women in their come up to me and ask for money even students, they were all dressed decently and weren't homeless. Whenever you see someone begging with chicklets or whatever shit they have they always harass the foreigners more, a lot of the time if there is a bunch of people they will skip the locals and go right to the foreigners.

Post: #29

I get what you are saying by just walking out but morally these chicks on the most part dont have money to come out. By leaving her out high and dry would be morally fucked up. If you do tell a chick to kick rocks, i would hope you have 20,000 to 30,000 pesos to get her home.

My advice spend as much time as possible. Video chat and have her send current pictures. Figure where her head is at But the downside to that is you'll have to spend 100,000 to 1,000,000 pesos depending on Value of said chick. And that is before you even met her. Im Not trying to scare guys away but in the long run its better to date a colombian from Miami then going out Medellin. You're costs add up quick.

OR...

As my friend say, "date a chick who has money or a great job" jaja. But if she is at that status. you loose your rare/ tourist factor and now you're status needs to be on point. Those chicks know they can have any guy they want.

Post: #30

It is true factor in all the costs of going to Medellin to game and it is very hard to justify it. Now if your going for the experience of Colombian culture, visit and sight see, maybe go hiking, then it is worth visiting, and yes day gaming in malls, streets and at night too would complete the experience and of course scoring with an 8 or 9. Which again will be tough though considering most of those women won't give you the time if they know your only there for a few days the high quality ones I am referring too.

Post: #31

(02-17-2019 09:10 PM)TheOklahoman Wrote:  I get what you are saying by just walking out but morally these chicks on the most part dont have money to come out. By leaving her out high and dry would be morally fucked up. If you do tell a chick to kick rocks, i would hope you have 20,000 to 30,000 pesos to get her home.

My advice spend as much time as possible. Video chat and have her send current pictures. Figure where her head is at But the downside to that is you'll have to spend 100,000 to 1,000,000 pesos depending on Value of said chick. And that is before you even met her. Im Not trying to scare guys away but in the long run its better to date a colombian from Miami then going out Medellin. You're costs add up quick.

OR...

As my friend say, "date a chick who has money or a great job" jaja. But if she is at that status. you loose your rare/ tourist factor and now you're status needs to be on point. Those chicks know they can have any guy they want.

(02-17-2019 04:28 PM)TheOklahoman Wrote:  Ive been dating this chick for a couple months she works at a bank. I have friends who are workd travels or poker players. i ask her to invite some friends for my 2 buddies. We were clear we didnt want any prepaids. She incites then, their pictures looked better then what they actually looked like. And we just said fuck it, lets just have a good night. An hour in, we are bored. we politely try to excuse ourselves from these 2 chicks. And my girl goes, "both my friends want like 2-300,000 pesos." She then says, "My friends got dressed up so they expect money to come out since we are tourists." Literally by default Colombian (men and women) mindset is that we are cash cows. moral of all this. Get straight tonthe point of what her mindset is. And if you do tell her you're not paying her. STILL watch your shit. jaja

You are not filtering well if you are sending girls that amount of money before you even meet them. In fact I'd say its downright stupid. I've never sent a girl money I haven't met before. The two girls I've done western union for I had spent months of time on the ground with them and they were living with me. I also sent them fuck all money when I did.

If you are sending girls money without meeting them your game is horrendous or you are just doing terrible filtering. Theres no ifs buts about it. A normal girl thats your girlfriend bringing some prepagos to meet your friends? and them demanding 200-300k just for showing up tells you your girl isn't so normal or she just thinks you and your friends are idiots. I'm going to assume you guys must not speak spanish.

Im baffled you still think this after 5 months on the ground. A girl could look like Adrianna Lima in her prime and I wouldn't be sending her money prior to meeting her. How many guys you think shes running that scheme on lol. One of my wifes family members is a chubby girl in her mid 30s and she has 3 guys sending her money who she has never met. She thinks they are a bunch of chodes as well as she should.

The only way I could've misunderstood this is if you are flying girls to meet you which has some merit.

"Abre tus ojos" - Open your eyes.

Post: #32

(02-17-2019 04:28 PM)TheOklahoman Wrote:  I live in Medellin for about 5 months now. I would say be extremely careful. Going to Colombia you are literally entering the jungle. Laws are questionable. Cops are corrupt. And you're entering a country where people are so disperate to obtain money. You'll be suprised what lengths they will go to obtain dinero jaja. En general, Use every precaution as possible. Dont get drunk/ wasted and put yourself in a bad predicament. you'll end up getting robbed. Learned that lesson the hard way. Also watch out having 3 somes because one chick is fucking you and another is robbing your ass. Then watch out of the scheme where they take you to "their club" and its a full scale setup. Ive had friends lose up to 25,000 dollars. The most important thing is, if you got a bad feeling then bail. A good buddy system is great but not the ideal. i had a friends get drugged by some girls and everybody in the house got robbed.

Personally, i wouldnt recommend Colombia because the currency exchange rate is in your favor but when you add up all the variable costs. You are better off going to Vegas. Another fact that people dont realize, all the good looking chicks who are 8s and above. A good majority of them are escorts or prepaids in some way of form. What i mean by that, you go out to the Clubs/bars. She is most likely a working girl and if she isnt and you take her home. she will most likely ask you for money because she needs food, rent, etc etc. That's literally a huge downside to Colombians that most dont realize or know. Colombians have this mindset since we are Tourist that we should just givrnthem money. Here's a short story:

Ive been dating this chick for a couple months she works at a bank. I have friends who are workd travels or poker players. i ask her to invite some friends for my 2 buddies. We were clear we didnt want any prepaids. She incites then, their pictures looked better then what they actually looked like. And we just said fuck it, lets just have a good night. An hour in, we are bored. we politely try to excuse ourselves from these 2 chicks. And my girl goes, "both my friends want like 2-300,000 pesos." She then says, "My friends got dressed up so they expect money to come out since we are tourists." Literally by default Colombian (men and women) mindset is that we are cash cows. moral of all this. Get straight tonthe point of what her mindset is. And if you do tell her you're not paying her. STILL watch your shit. jaja

Colombia is best summed up : Is the juice worth the squeeze jaja

This sounds retarded.

Post: #33

(02-17-2019 09:10 PM)TheOklahoman Wrote:  I get what you are saying by just walking out but morally these chicks on the most part dont have money to come out. By leaving her out high and dry would be morally fucked up. If you do tell a chick to kick rocks, i would hope you have 20,000 to 30,000 pesos to get her home.

My advice spend as much time as possible. Video chat and have her send current pictures. Figure where her head is at But the downside to that is you'll have to spend 100,000 to 1,000,000 pesos depending on Value of said chick. And that is before you even met her. Im Not trying to scare guys away but in the long run its better to date a colombian from Miami then going out Medellin. You're costs add up quick.

OR...

As my friend say, "date a chick who has money or a great job" jaja. But if she is at that status. you loose your rare/ tourist factor and now you're status needs to be on point. Those chicks know they can have any guy they want.

That is their problem and unless it's really late they can use a colectivo or whatever. Just con't date ghetto chicks that don't even have $10 to their name.

You are really overcomplicating things, if you want to bang some hoodrat meet her at a bar near where you are staying, slide a drink or two down her throat then drag her back to your place.

Why are you sending girls money? A quality girl would never ask for money, you are getting fucked, how many other guys is she milking? This is 90 day fiance type shit.

Post: #34

Swordfish1010...

We can meet up any time in Medellin or i can fly out to any location that you are at. And you can see my game first hand.

Im telling people who are outsiders that a colombian mindset is that they receive money from Tourist. Its that simple.

Also, we didnt pay the 2 girls 200-300,000 pesos that IS crazy however, i mentioned that because i wouldnt want people to visit colombia and be shocked by the experience.

Lasly, the girls i date or go hang out with are some of the best of the best. And we can gladly go out together. Take out the head shots and display the pictures on the website. I have no problem there either. It be quite fun actually.

Post: #35

Sydney Crosby

Let me tell you the economics right now in Colombia and Venezuela. There are many people who are without jobs. Even people that have a RN license. Then the people who do work, they make 700,000 pesos a month but they actually need 1,200,000 pesos a month. In that month they got to figure out how they are going to make up that 500,000 pesos. The good ol saying goes in Colombia. You literally work all your life to just work and die. Whereas in America, Europe you could actually retire and have a decent living.

Once again, im not meeting any Hood rats that cracks me up! And i would love for us to go out any place and anywhere. On my Spanish im conversational. But that will soon change. But my COMMENT was reflected to what you highlighted in bold letters. "if you are going to video chat or invest some time in chatting her up way beforehand you coming to colombia. She will ask you to help her out in some way or form. If she is 7/8 and above she is going to ask. The hotter or more value she has she is going to expect it. Because Pablo Escobar said it best, "every chick has a price" and no dumb Colombian is going to skip out on easy cash.

En general these are the FACTS of colombia. Yes, you can meet women that wouldnt need help with taxi fare and such and like i mentioned above. you better have status and some good coin. They dont come cheap.

Then if she falls at an 8 and above. She will ask you at SOME point for money either for rent, groceries, her kid, etc etc... OR else she will just drop you as a bad habit and go to the next guy BECAUSE all colombians know that some tourist will pay for xxx ordeal.

Now im not telling people to go pay for a chick. Im just letting people know that from start to finish. Most colombian women arent cheap when you sit down and add it up. And when you do meet a cute girl, she doesnt ask you flr money and she is into you. Then keep her because that chick being all innocenr and cute dont come often.

Post: #36

(02-17-2019 11:51 PM)TheOklahoman Wrote:  Swordfish1010...

We can meet up any time in Medellin or i can fly out to any location that you are at. And you can see my game first hand.

Im telling people who are outsiders that a colombian mindset is that they receive money from Tourist. Its that simple.

Also, we didnt pay the 2 girls 200-300,000 pesos that IS crazy however, i mentioned that because i wouldnt want people to visit colombia and be shocked by the experience.

Lasly, the girls i date or go hang out with are some of the best of the best. And we can gladly go out together. Take out the head shots and display the pictures on the website. I have no problem there either. It be quite fun actually.

They are prepagos obviously. Why else would you be sending them money in advance of your trip and in some cases you suggested you are sending a months wage for a poor colombian prior to even meeting them.

Might as well just message them on facebook and agree to a price for sex. They certainly aren't giving you a discount cause you sent them the money upfront.

The only thing that makes sense is if you are a much older guy trying to date girls who are way out of your league in looks and trying to basically buy pussy. I mean you are sending these girls all more money then the price you could bang a nice hooker for prior to even meeting them. I'm totally dumbfounded.

a WW2 vet with one leg and eye patch can bang a 9/10 hooker for like 50 USD. This reads as though you are doing straight pay for play though perhaps in something more resembling sugar daddy arrangements.

I have no issue with that but the advice regarding all this money that needs to be sent in advance is just downright fucking stupid for anyone who isn't 60 years old and /or 300+ pounds and even then I'd say its stupid.

I mean I'm just trying to picture the conversation.

Mi amor, I need money for food. Could you send me 300k COP. Sure mi amor. The problem with all this is you haven't even met her. Shes busy fucking Pedro the Colombia, Jorge the Mexican, The Canadian guy in town, 7 other guys on Colombian Cupid regardless of whether you send her money. I have no issue with giving a girl who I'm dating some money for stuff that benefits me as well, nails, clothing, hair etc. No issue with that. I've done it before and will continue to do so because I don't care about the spare change and if she looks better I like it. But thats after I've slept with them a bunch of times and there is some level of commitment on her end.

Improve your spanish thats the most important thing you can do. If you speak it fluently a ton of these issues will disappear because they won't think you are bobo anymore.

Post: #37

We know the sob stories and yes most of us on here are lucky to have been born in western countries.

Look, there are plenty of beautiful girls in Colombia waiting to be banged and they don't require anything more than a guy with half decent game and a cheap date. The top tier girls with the high end social circles are different, but that is the same as any country.

Post: #38

Lavia....

Actually im very good looking! Athletic build. i got enough money. Etc etc.

Then you're message doesnt make sense. If i pay for a Prepago? why would i sent her money in Advance when a good quality chick i can just go to one of the 2 escort clubs. pay my 68 bucks and just have her for 2 hours.

Anyways...
Yes, i have fucked some prepaids. Who hasnt in Colombia.

But you arent getting my point! I never said you NEED to spend that much. I DID say that these colombian women dont come cheap especially if they have Status.

I ALSO said that you can meet hot women with status and not be helping them in some way or form. However if she has enough Status. your game better be tight because that chick isnt going to fuck with some average Joe. Now you can meet a colombian that just wants a good guy. But dont be suprised if she asks you for help along the way. groceries, a phone bill etc etc and IF you say No... You might have literally lost that good, humble chick.



AND Lavia...

I, my buddies get tired of prepaids because its always the same shit. But i date models, lawyers, restaurant managers, bankers, any chick really.

We can gladly go out to your city or you can come to mine and we can go out. and a Forum member can vouch the type of quality i date.

Post: #39

(02-18-2019 12:21 AM)TheOklahoman Wrote:  Lavia....

Actually im very good looking! Athletic build. i got enough money. Etc etc.

Yes, i have fucked some prepaids. Who hasnt in Colombia.

But you arent getting my point! I never said you NEED to spend that much. I DID say that these colombian women dont come cheap especially if they have Status.

I ALSO said that you can meet hot women with status and not be helping them in some way or form. However if she has enough Status. your game better be tight because that chick isnt going to fuck with some average Joe. Now you can meet a colombian that just wants a good guy. But dont be suprised if she asks you for help along the way. groceries, a phone bill etc etc and IF you say No... You might have literally lost that good, humble chick.

Well how fucking obvious is that, Colombia isn't Mars or some shit. Are you trying to act like this info is specific to Colombia?

Post: #40

(02-18-2019 12:21 AM)TheOklahoman Wrote:  Lavia....

Actually im very good looking! Athletic build. i got enough money. Etc etc.

Yes, i have fucked some prepaids. Who hasnt in Colombia.

But you arent getting my point! I never said you NEED to spend that much. I DID say that these colombian women dont come cheap especially if they have Status.

I ALSO said that you can meet hot women with status and not be helping them in some way or form. However if she has enough Status. your game better be tight because that chick isnt going to fuck with some average Joe. Now you can meet a colombian that just wants a good guy. But dont be suprised if she asks you for help along the way. groceries, a phone bill etc etc and IF you say No... You might have literally lost that good, humble chick.

I don't disagree with helping a girl if you are dating and fucking her and you are in a poor country. No issue there. I just don't like the idea of help before commitment. I don't deny that I 100% support my wife and daughter. I have no qualms about it. I send them a good deal more than most people in their Country make. But I didn't send her money prior to meeting her and it was close to a year of being together before I started sending remesas.

No girl of any sort of quality will ask you for money prior to you having been in a sexual relationship with her. There's not a country in the world where that's the case. By quality I'm not only referring to looks I'm referring to the total package. Plenty of beautiful putas.

Just improve your spanish. Once your fluent these problems you are running into will probably happen very rarely if at all and if they do just walk away.

Post: #41

Sidney Crosby...
You arent getting the point! Im informing you of a colombian woman mindset. You're not grasping the overall message. Please re read all my messages and in some time in the future. You will thank me.

Lavia...
I can garantee you that by you helping your daughter and girlfriend that you have spent way more then 20-30 dollars. Now if 20-30 dollars is too much to help some chick out then you shouldnt be dating Colombians BECAUSE most know the exchange rate and they understand if you cant send them money then why would they waste their time.

LET ME say this again. if you meet a cool, good looking colombian with value . and they dont ask you for money. They are wholesome girls then settle down with them. Those are the ones you want. They dont come often.

The girls with value in Colombia come with a price tag. In the overall ordeal they dont come cheap. But my best friend lives in Miami who is well off says it best, "you can find hott ass girls in Colombia with value at 25 percent of cost [compared to americans, Europeans, etc etc ].


I NEVER once said you NEED to pay girls. I DID say that dont be suprised if you are helping some chick in some way financially. Yes, you can meet girls with value that just want a good guy. BUT most Colombians come in some form of PRICE TAG....

Post: #42

(02-18-2019 12:37 AM)TheOklahoman Wrote:  Sidney Crosby...
You arent getting the point! Im informing you of a colombian woman mindset. You're not grasping the overall message. Please re read all my messages and in some time in the future. You will thank me.

Lavia...
I can garantee you that by you helping your daughter and girlfriend that you have spent way more then 20-30 dollars. Now if 20-30 dollars is too much to help some chick out then you shouldnt be dating Colombians BECAUSE most know the exchange rate and they understand if you cant send them money then why would they waste their time.

I have sent them more then that. Way more. But we were a couple first and for a long time. Her pussy wasn't getting passed around like a hooker at a gangbang. Its not the amount. I don't care if its $30 or $300 the range which you suggested you are sending in advance... Its still ridiculous.

Again no girl who should be in your life for more than just a fuck would ever ask you to send her money in advance. Its just not normal behaviour.

I don't doubt you are dating hotties if you are sponsoring them. I don't have an issue with that whatsoever. Whatever floats your boat.

My dad is old as a martian. I'm sure I could have him bring down 30,000,000 COP a month and he'd find his way into some hot pussy too. There isn't no secret that many girls can effectively be bought or better described as leased. That doesn't mean hes some great looking guy with spectacular game. It just means he can pay to get pussy.

There's no benefit in explaining to guys how they can "lease pussy".

The other fact is that given you are sending them money in advance you are meeting them online probably via some dating site. So you must know you are one of many Joes doing the same thing.

Anyways thats my 2 cents. If your getting what you pay for who am I to argue.

Post: #43

(02-18-2019 12:37 AM)TheOklahoman Wrote:  Sidney Crosby...
You arent getting the point! Im informing you of a colombian woman mindset. You're not grasping the overall message. Please re read all my messages and in some time in the future. You will thank me.

Lavia...
I can garantee you that by you helping your daughter and girlfriend that you have spent way more then 20-30 dollars. Now if 20-30 dollars is too much to help some chick out then you shouldnt be dating Colombians BECAUSE most know the exchange rate and they understand if you cant send them money then why would they waste their time.

LET ME say this again. if you meet a cool, good looking colombian with value . and they dont ask you for money. They are wholesome girls then settle down with them. Those are the ones you want. They dont come often.

The girls with value in Colombia come with a price tag. In the overall ordeal they dont come cheap. But my best friend lives in Miami who is well off says it best, "you can find hott ass girls in Colombia with value at 25 percent of cost [compared to americans, Europeans, etc etc ].


I NEVER once said you NEED to pay girls. I DID say that dont be suprised if you are helping some chick in some way financially. Yes, you can meet girls with value that just want a good guy. BUT most Colombians come in some form of PRICE TAG....

You're exaggerating or using bad sites or ways to meet chicks. Don't paint all the chicks with the same brush as the prepagos you talk to on cupid.

I've gone out with a decent amount of chicks in Colombia that I met on the street, at a bar or from tinder. The times I've had chicks ask for money was after banging them and they wanted money for a taxi, I'd give them 15-20k for a taxi or when the condom broke and I blasted inside her and she wanted money for the pill.

The only other time is one chick from tinder was complaining about not having money to fix her car, I told her not to ask me about money ever again or suggest it, she denied that she was even asking but never mentioned it again.

Oklahoman if you are older like 50+ then I can understand how all these girls see you as a piggy bank and are ripping you off. You really need to stop giving girls money and stop giving advice about Colombia.

Post: #44

Lavia...

You are killing me...

I meet women at restaurants, social settings. Any place any where. i go out and hire a Salsa instructor and go out and dance. I love it actiually! When i go out, i easily meet women and turn down the Prepaids. like i mentioned above when you LIVE in colombia you get tired of the Escorts. My game isnt JUST online (it is a nice tool) in fact i prefer to meet girls out and about. I prefer a woman with a job. I could care less if she works at the mall or if she is a lawyer. Most are waitresses or they work at the mall, they go to school. they are bankers or lawyers those are my type. Once again, let me say this again to you. When you live in Colombia you get tired of Prepaids.

The truth, im too good looking to go pay for sex. Now have i, yes of course. But i also understand the economics of the chicks in colombia. Still, when i sit down and add up all the costs. My buddy says it best, a good colombian chick (no prepaid) is till costing me at 25 percent of the cost compares to American chicks. Im from the USA fyi.

From what ive told you, these are the facts of Colombia....

Post: #45

(02-18-2019 01:03 AM)TheOklahoman Wrote:  Lavia...

You are killing me...

I meet women at restaurants, social settings. Any place any where. i go out and hire a Salsa instructor and go out and dance. I love it actiually! When i go out, i easily meet women and turn down the Prepaids. like i mentioned above when you LIVE in colombia you get tired of the Escorts. My game isnt JUST online (it is a nice tool) in fact i prefer to meet girls out and about. I prefer a woman with a job. I could care less if she works at the mall or if she is a lawyer. Most are waitresses or they work at the mall, they go to school. they are bankers or lawyers those are my type. Once again, let me say this again to you. When you live in Colombia you get tired of Prepaids.

The truth, im too good looking to go pay for sex. Now have i, yes of course. But i also understand the economics of the chicks in colombia. Still, when i sit down and add up all the costs. My buddy says it best, a good colombian chick (no prepaid) is till costing me at 25 percent of the cost compares to American chicks. Im from the USA fyi.

From what ive told you, these are the facts of Colombia....

But you said you send or used to send chicks money online before even meeting them.

You wrote this, "My advice spend as much time as possible. Video chat and have her send current pictures. Figure where her head is at But the downside to that is you'll have to spend 100,000 to 1,000,000 pesos depending on Value of said chick. And that is before you even met her."

Post: #46

Yes Sir Lavia...

I was stating that if you going to chat up a chick beforehand (online) which most guys do here on this forum. That there will
be a majority of chicks that will ask you for some kind of financial aid.

Now there are chicks that domt ask for that but that is highly unlikely... Right now, Colombia is in a huge financial situation. And if i(aka a woman of value) was chatting you up Lavia and you did not help me out with groceries or something like that. I would just stop talking to you. Simple as that! If you dont get it already, there is an income stress test that women of value do. In some way of form they preform that. You see with Colombian women MOST will ask you for cash because the whole country is in a financial crisis. Now if you cant grasp this then its a lost cause.

Also, if im some 8 or 9 and we where chatting. again im a chick of value. I would either want to see some form of money or PROVE that you are a man of value. You have nice cars, you go on trips. What is your job. BUT then when we meet. i (this chick of Value) wants you Lavia to take her out and spend that time of money on her. Majority of colombians like flash, they want all the nice things they cant afford but every Colombian DREAMS of having... Therefore, as i just told you. These women in the long run dont come cheap like what most people thing because there are A LOT of variable costs.

Now you may meet a chick where its all things are good but please dont expect that often in colombia.

Post: #47

@TheOklahoman

I understand the costs thing but the spending similar leads to a way better lifestyle.

As an example when I go with buddies here I might get 10 drinks plus some snack food. Some I drink, some I buy who knows. My total spend that night might be $100. Sometimes more sometimes less. When I go out in Cuba I go to a concert to see a world class band. My cover for two is $20. I get a bottle of whisky $60 and a couple of taxis and I'm out $100 total and I went to an elite level bar / nightclub venue for the location.

But I went to a concert and had bottle service, paid for a beautiful girl to accompany me rather than go out and buy drinks on my own at a local bar and also probably got laid.

My costs in Cuba were historically in line with what I spent in Canada. The difference is in Canada I worked, sat home, went to the gym and went out once a week with the odd meal here and their. In Cuba I'm out 5 times a week, dining out at nice restaurants a 10 times a week, hitting the beach, pool parties etc.

So while I spent the same my money went miles further. The chicks I have been with their are also significantly better looking than the ones in Canada. I'd say a couple points higher.

If you wanted to I'm sure you could spend a 1/3 and enjoy a similar life to what spending 3x that gets you in the States. You could still have a reasonable looking young chick.

Economic arbitrage is the best thing in the world. Enjoy it.

Learn spanish. I can't even imagine running any sort of game in a language I don't speak. I realize a lot of guy on here have had success without speaking the same language. I'm joe average in looks, but know how to have a good time and getting latinas laughing as well as have an obviously very good bankroll relative to them. Thats been enough for me. I never will be Chad Thundercock or Barry the Hedge Fund guy. I ain't going to ever be confused for a super athlete either.

Most of the girls you are dating in a poorer country are going to be thrilled to meet a guy who takes them out to do stuff that they don't get to do often in order to escape their repetitive mundane lives.

In the end the key is that you enjoy yourself and try to give people smart advice. You are obviously a smart enough guy in order to make the money to be abroad but the advice which I highlighted previously was simply bad advice.

Enjoy your trip / or move.

edit: based on your most recent post. Girls are testing to see if your an idiot not if you can provide for her. You are preselected. You are an American with presumably a decent job and photos showing as such. Any American is going to be presumed to be wealthy enough to a girl in the 2nd or 3rd world unless she herself is in the upper class. You are thinking like an American not like a Latino. Barry the Ibanker is on similar status to the manager at Denny's when you arrive in the 2nd / 3rd world. Both are assumed to be well off comparatively. I'd drop any girl that asked me for money before meeting her faster than a speeding bullet.

If thats happening to you a lot in a country its on you not them.

One of my best buddies has the mind set regarding money as though its the solution to everything. My 2 cents it isn't. I could go out with one of my friends on a $30,000 a month budget in Cuba while I'm on a $3,000 a month budget. The reality is we are both rich as fuck there so it becomes borderline irrelevant. You are a foreigner and are assumed well off. Only a low class girl will ever ask for money before meeting.

Post: #48

(02-18-2019 01:30 AM)TheOklahoman Wrote:  Yes Sir Lavia...

I was stating that if you going to chat up a chick beforehand (online) which most guys do here on this forum. That there will
be a majority of chicks that will ask you for some kind of financial aid.

Now there are chicks that domt ask for that but that is highly unlikely... Right now, Colombia is in a huge financial situation. And if i(aka a woman of value) was chatting you up Lavia and you did not help me out with groceries or something like that. I would just stop talking to you. Simple as that! If you dont get it already, there is an income stress test that women of value do. In some way of form they preform that. You see with Colombian women MOST will ask you for cash because the whole country is in a financial crisis. Now if you cant grasp this then its a lost cause.

Also, if im some 8 or 9 and we where chatting. again im a chick of value. I would either want to see some form of money or PROVE that you are a man of value. You have nice cars, you go on trips. What is your job. BUT then when we meet. i (this chick of Value) wants you Lavia to take her out and spend that time of money on her. Majority of colombians like flash, they want all the nice things they cant afford but every Colombian DREAMS of having... Therefore, as i just told you. These women in the long run dont come cheap like what most people thing because there are A LOT of variable costs.

Now you may meet a chick where its all things are good but please dont expect that often in colombia.

I talk to or go out with girls usually between 20-25, they almost always live with their parents. They don't have bills outside of their phone or whatever, they don't have kids.... why would you want to date a girl with a kid? Most of them have pretty comfortable lifestyles, either they are students or they have half decent jobs and they have enough money to shop, go out and go on the odd vacation, mostly within Colombia.

As far as Colombian girls being "expensive" I can go out with one and pay for absolutely everything and it would be the same price or cheaper than if I did the same thing in Canada and only paid for myself.

What is it that you don't think I'm grasping?

You are delusional and you must be talking to broke barrio chicks. You are spreading bad information on here, I don't know why I am or Lavidaloca are even replying to you.

Post: #49

What's your definition of a "woman of value"?

She should not only have a cute face and a nice body, but also have her shit together, a career and some family values. That said, the typical "Colombian woman of value" wouldn't:
a) Game online; and
b) Ask money to guys she hadn't ever met

I believe you're chasing the wrong girls, pal...

Post: #50

Lavia...

You are still not getting it. We are talking about Colombian girls and im informing of SITUATIONS that can be brought up. And most that i have said will happen quite often.

Also you are proven my point once again. Not sure why you are throwing up a debate.

The moral of all this, most guys come to Colombia to meet women of 7/8 quality and above. They come at a price. Everybody has said that and its well documented. i hope we can agree here.

Also, im dating women from some of the richest areas in Medellin. However, i could care less if she is wealthy or not. i care if she has a job or some form of goal in life.

There are 2 types:
1) they make their money on their own. And they definitely want you to have Value. And most of these women dont come cheap like what MOST people think here on the boards. YES, the exchange rate is favorable to us Americans/ Europeans however because of all the VARIABLE costs associated with dating women of value in Colombia. IT all can add up. The moral of all this, Colombian women ARE expensive and they want/crave expensive taste. And i dont blame them.

Examples of type 1;

The worst kind. she is hot aF and she asks u up front to start paying shit or mentions she dont date a guy unless he pays rent or pus for things. And if you have an issue with that she says goodbye BC she KNOWS her value and knows that guys WILL pay for her things

The Other type. she has value as well. She doesnt want money up front. But she will have talks about going out of her country. She definitely wants to know what you do for a Living. She wants to know where you are staying at or what Neighborhood you are from. Then she decides if she wants to fuck with you are not BECAUSE... there are a lot of men who are 5/6s that could never date a hott 8 or 9 but when they cash in their Euros for Pesos. Now these guys can come and play. And they dont pay for just sex... They prefer to Sponsor a chick that is where the term comes from its been going on for decades now. Therefore, these colombians know all this! This isnt no secret to Colombians.

ONCE you will find hot women who just care for a good men because either they are tired of being bought or They are tired of being cheated on Or they just want a good, loyal men. believe me, whennyou live in colombia it is very difficult to be loyal when you have gorgeous women all over. Especially if you are a man of value, you will constantly get flirty hints from women. No, you dont need to look like Brad Pitt. However, just being an Ex-par brings a lot of value. But just dont think being an Ex-pat is the ONLY thing you need. Maybe 10-20 years ago buts its a whole no ballgame now. Actually there are tons of guys now who spoil the market!

Now,

Type 2); You will meet girls that have a good job and they arent hookers that are just short on meeting ends meet. They just cant overcome the hardships of Colombia. In Colombia the money is all kept in the top class. And they just watch the poor suffer. its quite sad!!! Anyways back on topic.

For instance right now im chatting up a cute RN. she cant find a job and she asks me to help her financially. Now, if i want to get serious with this chick, i need to MAKE a decision if i want to invest or not. BUT if i dont, she is will most likely stop talking to me. And i dont blame her. Colombian women just assume money grows on Trees.

Another Example;
She is a banker, super sweet, caring and very humble and everything. she is hott AF. but she takes care of her mom and her son. she just cant make meets ends. just like how PayDay Loans are fucking up poor people's lives in America. Its the same ordeal but at a worse Scale. Now once again, you need to decide if you want to help her or not if you want something serious BUT if you dont then she will eventually get her phone turned off. and Bam all that time wasted.


Yes there are more types. Yes, you can call me an idiot investing in some of the women here. no Bullshit lies, Ive spent 800 dollars on a chick that i have been dating for 3 months now. She is totally in love with me. Wants to marry me already. She is a 100 percent in love with me. Compare 800 dollars to dating s chick in USA or Canada. Hell, you're just barely making any progress. i know guys who've gone through 800 dollars in a night easy for a good looking 8/9... And im not talking about Paying for sex either.

Moral of all this, When you are in Colombia. You'll most likely be dating 2/3 plus girls a week. All these VARIABLE costs add up. Not trying to discourage anyone but those are the facts. The big plus here is you can meet quality women at 25 percent the costs.

Then when you do find a good looking woman that is a low investment then settle. The Smart route.

Most Dummies well they keep dating and we all know that right around the corner. at a mall or a night club or workong some restaurant or attening college there is a hotter girl
then your Main chick. Then Viola... you are really burning through some cash!