Post: #1

I keep getting these lines when I escalate, "I have to go home", or "I have to get up early".

After some time during escalation they throw this out and kinda push off and demand to go home. Do I keep escalating or should I just drive them home and try again next time?

I hear this very often now.

Post: #2

What exactly are you doing leading up to this? Maybe you're skipping to some kino that is way too heavy or acting "weird". Seems like its something you might be doing.

Post: #3

Either your game isn't strong enough, you aren't persistent enough (and are giving up too early), or she's extremely devoted to whatever might be important to her (i.e. work/school)... or a combination of the three.

I usually just smile and say "me too" while I continue to escalate.

Post: #4

"Good, I have to get up early too. Now I won't feel bad when I have to kick you out in a little bit." Then keep going.

Post: #5

So this is pretty much like the "we're not having sex" line? She's just slowing me down and I need to keep escalating?

Post: #6

(04-12-2012 02:01 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  What exactly are you doing leading up to this? Maybe you're skipping to some kino that is way too heavy or acting "weird". Seems like its something you might be doing.

I don't know.

Post: #7

I mean what are you saying, how are you touching her when leading up to the interaction etc.

Post: #8

(04-12-2012 05:47 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  I mean what are you saying, how are you touching her when leading up to the interaction etc.

I'm rambling about nothing, they usually bring this crap up when i start kissing them or i'm taking their clothes off/have their titty out.

Post: #9

(04-12-2012 06:31 PM)wolf Wrote:  

(04-12-2012 05:47 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  I mean what are you saying, how are you touching her when leading up to the interaction etc.

I'm rambling about nothing, they usually bring this crap up when i start kissing them or i'm taking their clothes off/have their titty out.

Yes, that's the exact same thing as "we're not having sex," hamster's famous last words. Just agree with it to avoid engaging her logical brain and keep escalating.

Post: #10

Agree and ignore. "ok, you have to get up early. Cool." and keep right on going.

Post: #11

2 steps back 1 step forward.

if you're just rambling then kissing, that's a problem.

you have to be a little more meaningful that just rambling before going for the makeout. Talk pimp game, what turns you on, what you like about women, and don't forget the kino.