Post: #101

Henny, you are right, but I thought to not start a new thread with a simple question , following the instructions of the forum.
Do you suggest I should do that? Because it is a specific advice what am l looking for, so I didn’t find a thread more similar to it.
Thanks

Post: #102

(06-11-2016 12:07 PM)WannaBang Wrote:  ChickenLover9T9

Amazing answer Thanks a lot! Ultimately my weakness is in fact dates. Of course I am getting numbers from approached and numbers that translate to dates. Of course the quality of the approach itself will set the tone for the date - I prefer to go for more direct approaches (not hiding my dick) to ensure the girl knows what I am after as indirect was just disastrous for me. But yeah, ultimately what will motivate me is results. If I got a 50% success ratio with dates I'd be pulling 15+ girls a month. Of course being realistic I would even be happy with 20% success rates because then I'd still be getting a new girl from cold approach a month which is really all I am shooting for. And then cultivating a loose circle of plates

seniol

Why those cities?

NerdyNomad

I'm not in Asia man haha - never been there and probably won't be going there anytime soon. I tried setting my tinder to Manila and got 240+ matches in under 24 hours (I have tinder plus unlimited). About 45 girls opened me and of course a good chunk of them said they were lady boys in their profiles (and who knows how many of the others are). I have to say I'm not that impressed with the talent at all and the climate/environment of the Philippines seems like somewhere I could endure for a week or 2 max.

I should note most people think I am 5'10 as I wear insoles in my shoes (no-one notices and no-one who does know cares. My ex who was 5'10 flat-foot didn't even notice and she was equal in height to me when I wore these - when we were flat foot she towered over me)

Ultimately I WILL go to another European country (because I don't want to become a tax resident here I have no choice) - just a question of which one is best for a man of my standing. So far I am getting some very good feedback on this thread)

Just saw this thread....as an introvert who has upped his first-date game to at least 'acceptable' levels I think it's helpful to scout your date location wisely. Some points to shoot for:
- spend time at cafes with friends/by yourself during the day to find a place that 'fits'. Go back repeatedly to that place to build comfort, even become friendly with the staff
- ideal place is interesting, sets a mood, and is not too loud. The right location can do half the work for you. Esp. at night, a place that is dim with good lighting will help if you are self-conscious with your looks
- have the place be near a park with benches / a view of some kind. Perfect place to escalate to a kiss

Post: #103

Which part of Poland were you living in?

I would suggest going to cities in the East, which are generally poorer and where foreigners are generally scarcer (except Warsaw). That should help. My favorite city is Bialystok.

Post: #104

Was that question for me Pokerbaby? I don't live in PL, I just visit Warsaw still because my girl (who is now more than a FB - somewhere in grey area now) lives there. Once that ends I think I'm probably gonna stick a fork in Poland. Having said that I never visited Bialystok, Lodz and a handful of smaller cities (been to most though).

In the end I think its going to be 2nd/3rd tier cities in Ukraine (my recent trip to Kiev confirms it is nothing like what it was during my glory period in 16). But maybe a final few efforts in new Polish cities might be worth it before it comes to that (and my Russian is not great yet)

Post: #105

What kinds of places were you going to in Prague to meet women? What sort of game were you running and what were you doing with these girls on dates?

In my experience Prague is still one of the best places (despite how much things have worsened over the last few years) in Europe for ONS and quick sex, so I'm surprised by the lack of results you saw here.

Post: #106

I can't quite recall as it was over 2 years ago now but at least 3 different districts (1 of which was old town). Game was direct london daygame model style. I was there for 2 weeks and did around 80 approaches so the fact I got no dates might be down to bad luck and possible burnout having already done several hundred approaches in Poland not long prior. I did bang the only girl I can ever truly consider an 8 plus from Slovakia (from tinder of all places) in Prague though, even though it took 4 dates and I didn't get the bang till I took another weekend trip to Prague later in the year. Not pursuing things with that girl is a major regret of mine though it was inevitable as I had already booked my grand adventure to South America by the time I had banged her.

Funny you mention that, I sometimes meet guys who praise Prague and still do well. I think your SMV needs to be high though (mine is borderline despite having fully maxed out at least in terms of looks)

Post: #107

(12-29-2018 04:53 AM)WannaBang Wrote:  Was that question for me Pokerbaby? I don't live in PL, I just visit Warsaw still because my girl (who is now more than a FB - somewhere in grey area now) lives there. Once that ends I think I'm probably gonna stick a fork in Poland. Having said that I never visited Bialystok, Lodz and a handful of smaller cities (been to most though).

In the end I think its going to be 2nd/3rd tier cities in Ukraine (my recent trip to Kiev confirms it is nothing like what it was during my glory period in 16). But maybe a final few efforts in new Polish cities might be worth it before it comes to that (and my Russian is not great yet)

You were reminiscing about a "glory period" that was only two years ago. Although I agree that Kiev is fast changing, the city hasn't been nuked since then and still has a population of 2.8 Million. There were probably other variables in play; weather, season, money, wingmen etc

Post: #108

(12-30-2018 07:18 AM)Hydrae Cube Wrote:  

(12-29-2018 04:53 AM)WannaBang Wrote:  Was that question for me Pokerbaby? I don't live in PL, I just visit Warsaw still because my girl (who is now more than a FB - somewhere in grey area now) lives there. Once that ends I think I'm probably gonna stick a fork in Poland. Having said that I never visited Bialystok, Lodz and a handful of smaller cities (been to most though).

In the end I think its going to be 2nd/3rd tier cities in Ukraine (my recent trip to Kiev confirms it is nothing like what it was during my glory period in 16). But maybe a final few efforts in new Polish cities might be worth it before it comes to that (and my Russian is not great yet)

You were reminiscing about a "glory period" that was only two years ago. Although I agree that Kiev is fast changing, the city hasn't been nuked since then and still has a population of 2.8 Million. There were probably other variables in play; weather, season, money, wingmen etc

Yeah I think you are right. What is funny is that glory period in 16 resulted in 3 daygame bangs out of 150 or so approaches (in a 4 week period). When I returned in 17 for 7 weeks I did another 150 approaches during that time and got nothing. I still haven't quite worked out what happened but yeah it definitely wasn't nuked haha

Post: #109

WannaBang, have you tried "online dating" in these countries? (not Tinder but 'serious' dating sites)

If so how does it go, what do you think?

I think it may suit you better, as it filters for women that are into your look, single and interesting in dating, rather than random approaches to girls with boyfriends, not into you etc.

Possibly a more efficient return on investment.

Where are you based now?

Post: #110

Hey RatintheWoods! Yes, I had decent success with tinder in 16 and to a lesser extent in 17. In 18 it all turned to shit probably due to the jiggery pokery going on with algorithms and whatnot. 26 of my 34 notches have come from online dating and I was hitting it hard concurrently with cold approach. Clearly the ROI was far superior. That was then however, now I would say it is even worse than cold approach, at least for me.

I'm not based anywhere at the moment, I spend half my life on a ship working and the other half between my home country (UK where I do not game and have 0 desire to), Warsaw, where my girl is and various new places every now and then. Will definitely replace Warsaw as my main 'foreign base' if things don't work out with this girl with somewhere else in Europe though no idea where that will be (this whole thread is about trying to work that out haha!)

Post: #111

Kiev is best by far. Absolute foolishness to go anywhere else