Post: #1

Ok guys, i need help with something…
In my job I got promoted to a different department(with a nice paycheck, about to buy a house for myself here), and a girl came to fill my place, I trained her while I was being trained and she open herself about her bf and that she was going to be married soon but her bf was away in his country, but seems like he didn’t went anywhere and was just hidding, and seems like she has daddy issues too(daughter of a single mom) …so I just listened to her, she is into anime, sci fi and kpop shit.

Since I am the prankster/joker of the office everybody (or most people love me) I like to tease people and sometimes they come to tease me to hear a snappy comeback( even my boss says I should do some sort of stand up comedy).

One day I made a joke to this girl and everybody laughed, I didn’t said anything else but people keep the joke , I said something else and she came to me almost in tears saying: STOP IT…STOP IT NOW!!! I stopped, everybody in the office was mad at her because she wasn’t a good sport(even females), she even complained later to one of the managers( an american male, thanks God who was in the military, the one thats says I should be a commedian), he told her to just relax and let it go and then they if she wanted can speak a few days later when she cools down, which never happened.

Some female co workers told me to avoid her, so I kept a professional attitude with her and only that, but thing is that we have the same lunch break, and since people come to the cafeteria and tease me or to get teased she looked at them and then to me and every time we are alone she was like: “what happens to you, you aren’t like that” and then she begins to tease me over and over again, but no reaction on my part, some people say she is childish, immature and crazy, a female friend at the office said that she is almost sure the girls likes me, an old guy who is about to retire says that she isn’t mentally or emotionally healthy , even a lesbian co worker told me : just avoid her..

The thing is that her Bdate is coming and she came to me asking me to give her a gift, even though she has a nice athletic fuckable body (she is tinto martia arts and fitness) and isn’t bad looking at all(body is like an 8.5-9, face probably a 7-7.5) I don’t want to be rude, and I am kind of scared that she may be crazy for real…what would you all do?

Post: #2

She seems emotional, fit, she's asking you for a present so any excuse to talk to you. I would go for a ride with her, see where it goes, without investing too much.

Why not have some fun?

Post: #3

Quote:The thing is that her Bdate is coming and she came to me asking me to give her a gift,

Buy a pair of handcuffs and a ball gag.
Package above items in shiny paper.
Invite her home to receive her special birthday present.

Post: #4

This is a workplace in the US emasculation zone. She seems into you, but even if she wasn't crazy the other broads in the office make shitting where you make your bread dangerous.

Get her a joke gift. Skittles, a $2 big towel, or a whole salted pork belly. Leave the price tag on the big towel if you go that route.

Also be looking for your next employer. Even if the other broads in the office chase her out, you still have to wait a while before the peril dial back (but never leaves) your current employment situation. She's likely down for some fun, but the environment you know her through presents sunstantial economic danger to you.

Alternately try to get her fast tracked to a promotion above you and take that sexual harassment money from your employer.

Either way keep detailed notes of your interactions for eventual legal counsel.

Post: #5

(11-26-2018 10:38 AM)Jefferson Wrote:  She seems emotional, fit, she's asking you for a present so any excuse to talk to you. I would go for a ride with her, see where it goes, without investing too much.

Why not have some fun?

Agreed, a 7 is worth it. Perhaps a date before her birthday so you don't seem like a Beta Orbiter buying gifts.

Post: #6

(11-26-2018 12:24 AM)Rubenc16 Wrote:  ...she even complained later to one of the managers( an american male, thanks God who was in the military, the one thats says I should be a commedian), he told her to just relax and let it go and then they if she wanted can speak a few days later when she cools down, which never happened.

She was a snitch. No one likes that.

(11-26-2018 12:24 AM)Rubenc16 Wrote:  Some female co workers told me to avoid her, so I kept a professional attitude with her and only that, but thing is that we have the same lunch break, and since people come to the cafeteria and tease me or to get teased she looked at them and then to me and every time we are alone she was like: “what happens to you, you aren’t like that” and then she begins to tease me over and over again, but no reaction on my part, some people say she is childish, immature and crazy, a female friend at the office said that she is almost sure the girls likes me, an old guy who is about to retire says that she isn’t mentally or emotionally healthy , even a lesbian co worker told me : just avoid her..

If 2 people tell you you are drunk - go to bed.

(11-26-2018 12:24 AM)Rubenc16 Wrote:  The thing is that her Bdate is coming and she came to me asking me to give her a gift, even though she has a nice athletic fuckable body (she is tinto martia arts and fitness) and isn’t bad looking at all(body is like an 8.5-9, face probably a 7-7.5) I don’t want to be rude, and I am kind of scared that she may be crazy for real…what would you all do?

First - You don't owe her anything. You can flat out tell her that she is harassing you. Tell her that you both are on professional terms and wish to stay that way. Complain to HR if she stays on course.
Second - if you don't want to go that path, tell her that what happened changed the way you feel about her. Therefore you could never be close friends. That is why. If she keeps pushing you tell her you may need to complain about "hostile work environment".
Third and most important - NEVER DIP YOUR PEN IN THE COMPANY'S INK. Don't bang, just don't. This may have an epic backfire - based on everyone's observations.

Post: #7

*UPDATE* Ok girl kept messing around over and over, birthdate came, since she asked for an apple pie, I bought one from Mc Donalds on my way to the office, put a red ribbon on it and a greeting card with this written on the outside of the card:

From: R
To: D
I wish ....

Then on the outside:

you to leave me the F. alone and stop the harrasement or ill complain ...HBD!

I wasnt there when she opened the card, but she read it out loud, everybody laugh at her she only said smiling...: what an asshole.

She have been more peaceful though...

Post: #8

(12-07-2018 11:27 PM)Rubenc16 Wrote:  *UPDATE* Ok girl kept messing around over and over, birthdate came, since she asked for an apple pie, I bought one from Mc Donalds on my way to the office, put a red ribbon on it and a greeting card with this written on the outside of the card:

From: R
To: D
I wish ....

Then on the outside:

you to leave me the F. alone and stop the harrasement or ill complain ...HBD!

I wasnt there when she opened the card, but she read it out loud, everybody laugh at her she only said smiling...: what an asshole.

She have been more peaceful though...

Thanks for the help to all

Post: #9

(12-07-2018 11:27 PM)Rubenc16 Wrote:  *UPDATE* Ok girl kept messing around over and over, birthdate came, since she asked for an apple pie, I bought one from Mc Donalds on my way to the office, put a red ribbon on it and a greeting card with this written on the outside of the card:

From: R
To: D
I wish ....

Then on the outside:

you to leave me the F. alone and stop the harrasement or ill complain ...HBD!

I wasnt there when she opened the card, but she read it out loud, everybody laugh at her she only said smiling...: what an asshole.

She have been more peaceful though...

Dude
That was a great plan.
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