Post: #51

(10-06-2018 09:12 PM)Noir Wrote:  Fuck outta here with that shit, you went to a website, found your stock meme image and spent the time to come up with a slogan, you make me wish I was a blacksmith to cast a gold fucking medal

Thank you for chiming in as the police of masculinity and all that is manly. I know I can rely on you as the ultimate barometer on what's masculine.

I ripped the most bitter quote from Hank's meltdown for cheap laughs.

...and that's it, because this thread is hilarious.

...and it's not much else.

Some of you guys are taking forum life way too seriously, Hank as much and more than anybody, especially if he's imagining the alleged Facebook collusion.

Post: #52

You'd think it was a slow news day...

Post: #53

Hank moody always drops the strong statement making moves and drops the kind of stuff that the forum used to be about. Dont stop man i look forward to your posts coming around here every once in a while. I can see how your posts piss off the people who are stormfront troopers who spend to much money on game books without cutting their teeth in the game.

Yeah hes just rehashing old knowledge but theres only so much to say when it comes to this stuff and not everyone here writes about it in a new way with a new take. Its better than getting into qauntam mechanics semantics that arent even applicable or how geopolitics and the jews effect getting phone numbers.

Post: #54

2/10 meltdown, would not read again.

Post: #55

This thread smells like a bag of pussy. Lots of subtle validation seeking by a few members today. Not a proud moment for the forum. Sad!

Post: #56

OP you make a thread bitching about getting neutral rep points, followed by some long-winded "me me me" diatribe that no one asked for as if that helps your case.

Most of the dudes that gave you neutral reps replied in this thread with straight up reasons for why, and all you had was more "me me me" excuses for how you don't think their statements apply to you.

PT and realologist both gave incredibly succinct responses in this thread, as did Noir. Even your response to realologist just 100% proves his point. Count how many times you said "I" in that post and referenced all the shit you do and all the shit you know about. Hell, this entire damn thread is a testament to it: "me me me"

You easily could have just pm'd all the dudes you gave you bad marks and had a good personal discussion with them and maybe hashed some shit out and grown from it, but instead you make this thread airing out the laundry and propagating a bunch of needless drama drawing more attention to yourself.

You like talking about yourself and you can't take criticism. Thats the long and short of it.

Post: #57

(10-06-2018 09:12 PM)Noir Wrote:  I am just trying to streamline the process of getting my dick sucked on a long enough timescale that the chick adds value and that the smartest thing to come out of her mouth is not her dick.

Please tell me my dick math is wrong here Noir

P.S. Cosign.

Post: #58

Look, I'll bottom line this...

I came to this forum years ago because I had no idea what to do when I was 30 years old and single, after being in a monogamous LTR since I was 19. When I first found the RVF, it used to be mostly men helping other men with advice on women. I took a lot of the advice and figured out what worked for me, and what didn't. For years, I've never had any beef with any other user, because I like to think we're all simply here to better ourselves and convey our experiences. It's literally never been an issue.

Eventually I created an account and started writing about my own personal experiences. The reason I waste my time with this, as I'm not a "game blogger" or a PUA, is to try and give a little guidance to men who were similarly situated. But, what works for me might not work for someone else. These are simply my experiences -- the good, the bad, and the ugly.

My background in writing is all first person; I use narrative and dialogue to express thoughts. My law blog is done in exactly the same format. It's simply how I write -- stories and dialogue to convey personal experiences and often a point. Maybe I read too much Hemingway growing up, who knows.

In terms of content, if you guys want to read about one date bangs, threesomes from random girls picked up at the bar, and snorting coke off the asses of Instagram models in Vegas, that's not what I'm into. It's not my life. I don't even have Tinder.

Personally, my goal has never been to bang through hundreds of women, it's just to have a normal sex life with quality women who I enjoy being around. Pardon my candor, but I've achieved that. If your goal is hundreds of one night stands, I'm probably not the best person to hit up for advice, just like I'm not the guy at the gym benching 400lbs.

I have neither the time nor inclination to break down game like Mystery did, and frankly, I don't think it needs to be that complicated for most of us. Go out, talk to girls, have a social circle, be charismatic, don't dress like a slob, have activities outside of Tinder, watch that YouTube video "How to Have a Conversation Like a Man." Then go out and practice all of it, because it's one thing to read and write about game, it's another thing when you're live in person, from the opening to the closing. I go out because I like to. Sometimes it results in women, sometimes I just eat crab legs. If you want to devote your life to "advanced" game, have fun. There are books on the internet. I've read them.

However, in my observation, all this "advanced" game isn't necessary for most guys who just want a decent sex life or a girlfriend. It's a total waste of time, too complicated, and the returns are diminishing.

For instance, I got flack for writing about cooking steak. But you know what? It's an easy meal, it's an easy cleanup, and it tastes delicious. I can spend all day preparing doro wat or something more complicated, but I've never had anyone come over to my house complain that the steak and green beans wasn't "elaborate" enough. Again, ROI -- return on investment. Why waste all day shopping and cooking, when a good steak takes like three ingredients to make? Salt, pepper, garlic, thyme, sear, and then cook at 250 degrees in the oven maybe in butter. Eat; drink wine. Wash your skillet. Easy peasy.

Game is the same for most of us. It doesn't need to be complicated to be effective.

I've been writing here for three years. There is only so much I can say about the subject. I'm never going to write about "advanced" game because it's not what I want out of life, just like I have no desire to become giant and bench 400lbs. I have randomly dated strippers and some really hot women, but for the most part, I prefer "regular" girls. My job prevents me from living overseas, so that is another subject I don't write about. I'm lucky to get out of Philadelphia for a week.

What concerns me is that (a) now we're using this forum to try and attack other men; and (b) game has become Biblical to some of you. There is a "cannon" of game that shall not be deviated from. This is the first time in three years of writing here I've ever had personal "beef" with other forum members. Even though I've never met any of you in person. Some of the masculine men who took issue with my writing picked up the telephone. The females decided to leave neutral rep points and make personal insults in a concerted effort. That shit is straight out of Mean Girls, and you're goddamn right I'm going to call it out in public.

And yes, I was doxxed (note the "rotund") comment, which was also said to me by a different user in a PM. (C'mon boys, at least use my recent pictures; they're on Facebook.) Someone also sent something to my girlfriend.

The good news is I'm self employed, and my friends / FWBs know I'm involved with this forum. My clients would just think I'm a dork for posting on internet forums, no matter what the content. But doxxing another man? That is downright female shit.

In any event, it's my hope and expectation that we can go back to helping each other better ourselves, and put this petty nonsense behind us. Having personal beef with other forum members because you don't "like" their posts isn't productive. If you don't find a post helpful, someone else might. If you think a post is bad advice, it costs nothing to submit your own thread or reply thoughtfully.

This personal drama makes me feel like I'm writing on a forum filled with catty females, not masculine men. If you think my posts are terrible, I challenge you to write better ones.

Anyway, feel free to send me a PM and give me a call.

Post: #59

I would like to take partisan stance on the this issue but I need a fair estimation of the aggregate whiteness of Hanks detractors as compared to Hank himself and where the Jews come into it. PMs appreciated.

Post: #60

I think we are going in circles here. Let’s just let this thread die.

Post: #61

(10-07-2018 03:37 AM)HankMoody Wrote:  .
And yes, I was doxxed (note the "rotund") comment, which was also said to me by a different user in a PM. (C'mon boys, at least use my recent pictures; they're on Facebook.) Someone also sent something to my girlfriend.

You keep playing the victim yet there are at least 30+ people that could have actually doxxed you far before you made it even more clear who you are (actually more like who you are not). Nobody is on Facebook trying to chase you down. That's a complete fantasy.

Post: #62

(10-06-2018 08:13 PM)JackinMelbourne Wrote:  What this is really all about is PASSIVE GAME vs ACTIVE GAME. From what I've read over the years, Hank's approach to game is clearly passive lifestyle game.

Still game... peeps need to chill out. Noobs will make up their own mind and use what works for their current situation, lifestyle, personality and mind set. If one style doesn't work after testing, people are free to switch it up and try something else, that's the beauty of the forum. Therefore, Hank's contributions are as valid as anyone's.

p.s. I don't know the guy but can back up that some of what he writes works. Women always melt when they see my dog. Don't have a big truck tho...

Nobody else noticed this? Well said, Jack. I think this distinction is important. This is why Hank's writing rings true with me- it's what works for me and what I enjoy, both in terms of lifestyle and girls.

That doesn't mean, as alluded to in this thread or another similar recent thread, that girls won't drop their pants for the right guy with the right game at the right time. I've read some total gems from PT and other Hank haters- red pill nuggets of truth that hit hard and really make you understand how girls work.

Post: #63

(10-07-2018 04:46 AM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

(10-07-2018 03:37 AM)HankMoody Wrote:  .
And yes, I was doxxed (note the "rotund") comment, which was also said to me by a different user in a PM. (C'mon boys, at least use my recent pictures; they're on Facebook.) Someone also sent something to my girlfriend.

You keep playing the victim yet there are at least 30+ people that could have actually doxxed you far before you made it even more clear who you are (actually more like who you are not). Nobody is on Facebook trying to chase you down. That's a complete fantasy.

Eh, I don't really care. It happened. It speaks more about them than it does me. Frankly, I'm grateful to be in a position that it doesn't affect my personal or professional life, although I'm not sure why anyone felt the need to do that. I'm in a good position where I don't need to be all that guarded with my identity. All my social media is public anyway.

Pardon my candor, but you ladies are cowards hiding behind a computer. At least I've put it all out there. If you girls want to get personal, let's level the playing field. Out your own identities, or hide behind the keyboard. If you're unwilling to put it all out there, it speaks volumes. You're not, because you're a coward.

And if you're going to call me a "fatty", at least refer to pictures from the last six months.

I'm not sure what's making you girls cry and feel the need for a baba. Maybe I write in first person too much, I think "advanced" game is a waste of time, and the notion of going out every night to fuck loose women bores me. That is the lifestyle I choose to live. And it's fun as fuck.

So, if my posts make you cry, write better posts. Write about how you went out last night, got an IOI, negged her, threw out some DHV, changed venues, batted down LMR, froze her out, built more comfort, escalated, and got the bang. All in one night. With like ten of her friends, and then did the same thing an hours later, while snorting coke off an Instagram model's ass. Then you flew to Eastern Europe and lived there for a year living off the revenues from your website.

Me? I live in the real world.

Post: #64

(10-07-2018 05:07 AM)roberto Wrote:  

(10-06-2018 08:13 PM)JackinMelbourne Wrote:  What this is really all about is PASSIVE GAME vs ACTIVE GAME. From what I've read over the years, Hank's approach to game is clearly passive lifestyle game.

Still game... peeps need to chill out. Noobs will make up their own mind and use what works for their current situation, lifestyle, personality and mind set. If one style doesn't work after testing, people are free to switch it up and try something else, that's the beauty of the forum. Therefore, Hank's contributions are as valid as anyone's.

p.s. I don't know the guy but can back up that some of what he writes works. Women always melt when they see my dog. Don't have a big truck tho...

Nobody else noticed this? Well said, Jack. I think this distinction is important. This is why Hank's writing rings true with me- it's what works for me and what I enjoy.

That doesn't mean, as alluded to in this thread or another similar recent thread, that girls won't drop their pants for the right guy with the right game at the right time. I've read some total gems from PT and other Hank haters- red pill nuggets of truth that hit hard and really make you understand how girls work.

This I will actually address without snark...

Yes, my game is passive. I go out because I enjoy it, not with any specific goal in mind. Last night I went out for crabs with some of my buddies to talk about fantasy football, and, well, eat crabs. Why? Because it's fun and I enjoy spending time with them. We drove the convertible and played the music real loud. If we run into a group of girls, cool, if not, we eat crabs and make roster moves. We met no girls but had a blast.

I would rather build my lifestyle around doing the things I enjoy rather than having to spend time in bars trying to bring home one night stands, and breaking down game into quantum physics. That's way too much work, and downright not fun for me.

Just like cooking, the basics of game are more than enough for what I'm trying to accomplish. Personally, I don't need a new girl every weekend for validation. Honestly, I like having a few in my rotation who are cool and do my laundry.

I'll throw parties at my house, and sometimes cute ladies will show up. I go to the pool, and sometimes there are nice looking women there. I go to bars and sometimes chat up a group of women. The results don't matter, because I'm just out to have a good time and enjoy myself. If I meet girls, cool, if not, it doesn't matter.

Actively going out every night to for the sole purpose of meeting women just doesn't excite me anymore. I spent a few years doing that, and found my entire life revolved around women. Most of those women were shallow and vapid.

Now my life revolves around me and my happiness.

Again, if people want to devote all their time to banging hundreds of smuts a year, I'm not the right person to get advice from. My game is long term, passive, and mostly about building a lifestyle that happens to result in surrounding myself with decent ladies.

That is what I write about.

Post: #65

7 day ban for Hank for starting drama yet again.