Post: #1

I met a 20 yr old girl on POF who is fluent in German. I shot the shit with her for a few messages and asked if she would tutor me, because my cousin had a great time in Germany last year (lie). She said ok and gave me her number. Texted a little and found out she's lonely and wants a boyfriend. She lives on the other side of town, but wants to meet at Starbucks somewhere in the middle this Saturday. How do I work this? She actually sounds excited about tutoring me but I just want to hear her talk dirty in German on my sex couch

Post: #2

Personally I don't throw things up like "can you tutor me" as a way to meet someone because your intentions are not clear from the get go. It's going to make a harder transition into sex if it's based a "business relationship" at the beginning. I would have asked her out and then used the German tutoring as a way to keep the conversation going and playful. But now you are either going to have to pretend to really be interested in German or your intentions will come out very quickly and you are taking a 50/50 gamble on whether she will be receptive or not. Plus star bucks isn't the best translation spot either.

Since you are already in the situation though, I would game her like any other girl. Enjoy the time at Starbucks and then invite her out for a drink. When she reminds you that she is still underage, invite her back to your place because you have some drinks there. She may or may not be receptive so you might want to do one or two venue changes before making that move and judge interest along the way.

Since she seems interested to tutor she might be like you and is using that as a way to meet with you...Or she is excited to add a new client. Girls love money.

I'd take my chances, meet her, transition from learning to a date and invite her back.

Post: #3

I'm gonna disagree with Clearwaterkid here. Providing you've done the groundwork and "had your game hat on" online and texting, things like asking for tuition can be fantastic. It gives her that plausible deniability that she can use to rationalise her actions later.

I had this recently with an old girlfriend (from when I was 13, didn't bang). I invited her dow to "show her around campus". Fucked her. She insists she didn't expect that to happen because she was just coming to look around.

Anyway, if I were you I'd go to starbucks as late in the afternoon as possible then try and transition to a bar. Standard procedure from there.

Post: #4

Fuck the tutoring. My POF game is pretty weak but fishes aren't there to be cool. 90% are looking for a man, probably higher. My POF response rate is maybe 20% in my town, but out of those responses I knocked off about half. To me, the fact that she responded means shes interested.

I would do the Starbucks thing, wouldn't bring up the tutoring, and transition to another venue. If she actually brings the tutoring up then shes probably not interested in you, but I doubt she will push the tutoring. The tutoring is an excuse for her not to feel like a slut for meeting you so quickly ha.

Post: #5

I would never bother with POF ever again. What a horrible site. Sure I had some hot chicks initiate contact with me, but maaaaan, the quality is so much lower than if you go to parties..

Post: #6

Nice. I found out she moved here last summer from another state, doesn't really know anyone or have friends, lives with some family and hasn't gone clubbing or really been out

Post: #7

(03-29-2012 12:20 AM)houston Wrote:  Nice. I found out she moved here last summer from another state, doesn't really know anyone or have friends, lives with some family and hasn't gone clubbing or really been out

Smash it man. You've got the upper hand: you're on home turf and you are the tour guide. Definitely try and meet up with some booze or for drinks, when you tell her that her response will tell you if she's down to fuck. Just say it's a light and informal get together to see if she's the right tutor for you.

Post: #8

Let us know how this goes, I wanna bone some Spanish chicks who are tutoring me.

Post: #9

I thought this thread was going to be about banging a girl who looked like she belongs 1400s England.

   

Post: #10

She flaked on me. Number has been deleted.

Post: #11

(04-01-2012 03:48 AM)houston Wrote:  She flaked on me. Number has been deleted.

What a bitch! Care to explain even more?

Post: #12

Probably talked to a friend who clued her in to the fact that you don't meet tutoring clients on a dating site. I still stand by my comment that if she knows what up up front she will either go with it or not, but you know before you waste your time getting flaked on.