NYC subways flight attendant pickup thoughts:

Big transfer stations which connect many lines always have lots of travelers passing through. Looong escalators are great.

When you see that cutie with her form-fitting business-suit that's a little "too" classic, and then you notice her luggage and her gait [airport pun?], you can surmise that she's a flight attendant separated from the pack, probably going back to her crash-pad.

I'm on the escalator in back of her, and I slowly and casually ask at her "What time's the flight?" with an all-knowing "we've all been there, trying to make the flight" semi-smirk.

She smiles back warmly and says "ah I just got off the flight! It was long! I'm headed home now... how's your night going?"

It's on -- and her response made me think another Q could be "How was the flight?"

[I didn't end up asking for her number as I was on my way to a bang, and was just happy to throw out some approaches en route while feeling myself.]

The take-aways:

- recognizing she's a FA even when not in a big pack, away from the airport, somewhere semi-captive like the looong escalator

- making a friendly, casual statement, confidently, even before she has noticed or made eye contact -- as if remarking "the bagels look nice today" while on line at the store

- don't even talk about her being a flight attendant; just "know" it and get at her on a human level

- if she's post-flight en-route to her crash-pad, it could be a great instadate opportunity as she may not be ready to go to sleep just yet

I've had a few interactions like this -- never on purpose (to single out FA's) but I'm going to start doing this on the regular as I live near several such transfer subway stations.

I have closed the deal here before. This is how I do it:

1. Bring a prop, bag, or item to potentially leave on the airplane. I use poster tubes with complicated engineering posters in the tube with my burner contact info on it. Or, with a business card attached to the object with fancy job title/credentials.

2. First class helps as you will have more of the flight attendants attention.

3. Sit in an isle or single seat if possible.

4. Immediately smile, introduce yourself and break the touch barrier when boarding the aircraft (even if she is old, skanky, or fat to help build social capital or if he is gay)

5. Immediately engage them (entire crew) in small talk and ask them what they are doing when they land once raport has been established. The crew typicaly parties together or engages in other social activities after the flight. This is why is helps to befriend the crew.

6. Isolation helps for the target. She does not want to look slutty in front of crew mates. If isolated, get her number and establish a plan to meet up with her and the crew and bar close her.

7. If isolation does not occur, then leave the prop item on the airplane when you deplane.

8. The attendants will call you about the item you left on your cell phone about the time you reach baggage claim. Typically, your target is the one who will call you.

9. Have them meet you outside the airport as they leave or make arrangements to meet at the hotel or bar.

10. Proceed with game as usual.

As a poster above said, Emirates Business class on the A380 is the way to go.

I always make sure the plane I'm travelling on is one of these because it means the bar is open for business.

There have been times I've been one of only maybe 5 BC passengers in a cabin or two crewed for 50!

You can chat up the bar girl, who is always bored out of her brains anyway or if you manage to get the DXB-LON evening flight there are always hordes of businessmen in the bar getting seriously pissed. The atmosphere is like a boys club and the women on the flight stay the fuck away.

Can be good for networking as well as practicing your game on the hostesses.

I don't see why you have to be on a plane to game airline hostesses. When they get off work they all go to certain hotels near the airport to crash for the evening. A lot of them want to blow off steam and hit up the hotel bar in the evening... I believe most of them are trying to fuck the pilots... which is why I hear airlines are putting the pilots up at different hotels. Anyway... I'd hit them up after work. Maybe ask around and see what airline uses what hotels. If you want some girls from Emirates... find out where the hostess sleeps. That would be my thinking anyway. It's just too damn hard to get attention from one on the plane.

Closest I came was a flight attendant on Tinder that had some time off in Ibiza.

Was good until she asked me for money.

(06-09-2018 12:42 PM)EndsExpect Wrote:  I don't see why you have to be on a plane to game airline hostesses. When they get off work they all go to certain hotels near the airport to crash for the evening. A lot of them want to blow off steam and hit up the hotel bar in the evening... I believe most of them are trying to fuck the pilots... which is why I hear airlines are putting the pilots up at different hotels. Anyway... I'd hit them up after work. Maybe ask around and see what airline uses what hotels. If you want some girls from Emirates... find out where the hostess sleeps. That would be my thinking anyway. It's just too damn hard to get attention from one on the plane.

Exactly! game recognized.

They always go to the same hotels close the airports certain chains depending on what contract their airlines has. On the plane they get thirsty dudes all the time but most dudes only flirt to scared to be direct. But the floors for airline employees are usually on the high floors where you need a key card to put into the elevator to access to those floors.

I used to hang out at hotel close a undisclosed airport that all the puerto ricans flight attendants have to stay at for 3 weeks during training. Crazy times.

They are just like normal chicks nothing really special most are on tight budgets. They don't make much. some are tramps, most are just boring. and few married and just treat it like a normal job not looking adventure.

Most of the pilots on majors are old they not fucking nobody, the attendants are fucking the other male attendants that aren't gay.

Also they usually share apartments with about 4 of them they called hot pads or something like that i forget the name.

Its basically a apartment with couple bunk beds in each bedroom. so in a 2 bedroom might be 8 chicks splitting the rent since they always on the go. And the ones there are bored out their mind, so easy to get some crazy shit started.

Don't need to spend extra to be in business class etc, most wealthy people do not fly commercial so you not really impressing anyone in business/first class they know better than anyone how people can fly with miles upgrades, or for business. Just dress cool and be cool, ask about first class and they usually will invite you up there for free.

(06-09-2018 01:25 PM)txbeachbum Wrote:  Exactly! game recognized.
They always go to the same hotels close the airports certain chains depending on what contract their airlines has. On the plane they get thirsty dudes all the time but most dudes only flirt to scared to be direct. But the floors for airline employees are usually on the high floors where you need a key card to put into the elevator to access to those floors.
I used to hang out at hotel close a undisclosed airport that all the puerto ricans flight attendants have to stay at for 3 weeks during training. Crazy times.
They are just like normal chicks nothing really special most are on tight budgets. They don't make much. some are tramps, most are just boring. and few married and just treat it like a normal job not looking adventure.
Most of the pilots on majors are old they not fucking nobody, the attendants are fucking the other male attendants that aren't gay.
Also they usually share apartments with about 4 of them they called hot pads or something like that i forget the name.
Its basically a apartment with couple bunk beds in each bedroom. so in a 2 bedroom might be 8 chicks splitting the rent since they always on the go. And the ones there are bored out their mind, so easy to get some crazy shit started.
Don't need to spend extra to be in business class etc, most wealthy people do not fly commercial so you not really impressing anyone in business/first class they know better than anyone how people can fly with miles upgrades, or for business. Just dress cool and be cool, ask about first class and they usually will invite you up there for free.

I lifted this info off a Points and Miles website to provide examples of what I'm talking about:

"Ever wonder where flight attendants stay on their layovers? A lot of factors go into this decision, when the airline choose the hotels including price, and if the hotel provides transportation to/from the airport, of if they have to arrange their own.

Generally speaking, most airlines will have multiple hotels in a city that they can put their crews up. Some break it down on arrival time, so all crews arriving in the morning stay at X hotel, and those arriving in the evening at Z hotel. Often, it’s split up by how long the overnight is. If it’s a shorter overnight, they’re more likely to stay closer to the airport, and if it’s a longer one, then you’ll probably find the crew at a downtown location.

Below are some examples of where flight attendants stay in different cities:

In Las Vegas, American Airlines stays at the SLS Las Vegas."



In New York City, Delta stays at the Roosevelt Hotel.



In New York City, Emirates stays at the Sheraton New York Times Square.



In Boston, Southwest Airlines stays at the Renaissance Boston Waterfront.



Knowing this... if I get the sense that a flight attendant is feeling me, I stand up and go to the back of the flight where they hang out. I usually say I want to stretch my legs and ask for a drink or something... then strike up a conversation. My goal is to find out what city her shift ends in... and what hotel they put the flight attendants up in. If I'm going to Chicago and her shift ends in Dallas... I'm going to just ask for her number, but I will always ask what hotel the airline usually puts her up in when she stays in Chicago.

Note... This is only worthwhile for airlines that have consistently hot flight attendants. Southwest is shit, Delta is shit.... Emirates is fucking GOLD. In poll after poll Emirates flight attendants average a 7 in looks. Where else can you guarantee yourself access to women who are 7's on average?

My brother dated one for a while (2y). They can be neat and good-looking but terrible to date. They're away often and bet your ass they cheat on you while away.

He met her thru a friend who happens to be a pilot. His advice was to bang but NOT DATE her.

Would be cool to game the flight attendant during a flight but its hard to do it in front of a crowd and I don't know how smooth you can be to make her risk her job, which is likely to happen if you try to bang her in the toilet (which is the target of this thread I suppose). I don't recommend to date them unless you keep them as a rotation FB.

(06-09-2018 04:46 PM)joost Wrote:  My brother dated one for a while (2y). They can be neat and good-looking but terrible to date. They're away often and bet your ass they cheat on you while away.

I don't recommend to date them unless you keep them as a rotation FB.

I don't think most guys in this section are looking for a GF.

You know how women tend to be loose on vacation? Flight attendants are kind of always on vacation. I know this shit because my best friend is a pilot, and my cousin was a flight attendant. Used to hang out with these bitches from time to time. They have an easy fucking job, but most women can't handle upset customers and airlines practically manufacture pissed off people. So, every night a lot of these flight attendants want to relax and forget their day. A shot a whiskey and some dick often does the trick. My point is that with a little effort YOU can provide the dick if not the whiskey.

Typical flight attendants from Emirates



I think Lufthansa



China Southern



My personal favorite... Vietjet. This airline ALWAYS has hot girls.

I flew AirAsia a couple of times. Once the girls were wearing jeans. Maybe casual friday or something. Was effective.

The only hot flight attendant I've seen on a Canadian airline was on Porter a few years back. Young, blonde and hot. The exact opposite of what you see on Air Canada.

(06-09-2018 01:25 PM)txbeachbum Wrote:  Don't need to spend extra to be in business class etc, most wealthy people do not fly commercial so you not really impressing anyone in business/first class they know better than anyone how people can fly with miles upgrades, or for business. Just dress cool and be cool, ask about first class and they usually will invite you up there for free.

What are you talking about, brother?

I've just got off the first leg of an Emirates flight across the world in First. Do you have any comprehension of how much money it would cost to travel from Asia to Europe on a fucking private jet??

I'm sure there are plenty of people who do it but this attitude is akin to looking down your nose at a self made multimillionaire because Bill Gates exists.

So you think that these cabins full of shiny shit and totty pottering about, making my bed and shit are there just as a favour from the airlines to people "with points"?

I don't think so.

People who imply that the reason someone would spend the ticket cost on Business/First is to "impress people" are the same morons who say that people only buy nice cars/nice clothes/etc for the same reason.

They're usually inverse snobs who haven't got any money anyway.

I can't say that the thought of impressing some bimbo trolley dolly was high up my list of priorities when I decide to fly in First...it is the 6'6" bed, the food on demand and the ability to get off the planes feeling ready to get on with my day and not physically wrecked for a week, having squeezed my 6'4" frame into an economy seat for 16 hours (the Dom Perignon on tap is a bonus selling point haha).

Is that worth a couple of £k to me? Damn fucking right it is. That is the only thing that matters and is purely an individual decision.

Also, my ticket tells the staff on the plane whether I'm an upgrade, a cash buyer or a points queen. I'm sure you know this though, right?

As for your claim that all you have to do is ask to see First class and they'll let you just plonk your poor ass down up there? Get the fuck outta here. Utter nonsense.


Back on topic. I was the only 1st passenger tonight on my flight. 3 decent 7/10 girls scheduled to the cabin so I had 3 bitches attending to my every need. Dude behind me in business was all alone too and he had 2 girls to himself.

If I wasn't super tired and wanting to sleep and lived in Dubai I can promise y'all...it'd be just super easy to chat them up. They ain't got nothing else to do!

Sounds like you’re living the dream Saweep.

With so few men in business class, would the staff discriminate between cash buyers, points queens and upgradees?

Would geting a charge card with points such as an American Express platinum charge card be counter productive?

Air hostesses have been on my bucket list for ages. I met a Virgin air hostess through tinder a couple of years ago but she was nothing like her main picture and this went down as my worst catfish experience.

Looking through this thread suggests that positioning dating app fake-GPS locations near air crew hotels offers better ROIs if you’re patient.

(06-09-2018 06:55 PM)Saweeep Wrote:  

(06-09-2018 01:25 PM)txbeachbum Wrote:  Don't need to spend extra to be in business class etc, most wealthy people do not fly commercial so you not really impressing anyone in business/first class they know better than anyone how people can fly with miles upgrades, or for business. Just dress cool and be cool, ask about first class and they usually will invite you up there for free.

What are you talking about, brother?

I've just got off the first leg of an Emirates flight across the world in First. Do you have any comprehension of how much money it would cost to travel from Asia to Europe on a fucking private jet??

I'm sure there are plenty of people who do it but this attitude is akin to looking down your nose at a self made multimillionaire because Bill Gates exists.

So you think that these cabins full of shiny shit and totty pottering about, making my bed and shit are there just as a favour from the airlines to people "with points"?

I don't think so.

People who imply that the reason someone would spend the ticket cost on Business/First is to "impress people" are the same morons who say that people only buy nice cars/nice clothes/etc for the same reason.

They're usually inverse snobs who haven't got any money anyway.

I can't say that the thought of impressing some bimbo trolley dolly was high up my list of priorities when I decide to fly in First...it is the 6'6" bed, the food on demand and the ability to get off the planes feeling ready to get on with my day and not physically wrecked for a week, having squeezed my 6'4" frame into an economy seat for 16 hours (the Dom Perignon on tap is a bonus selling point haha).

Is that worth a couple of £k to me? Damn fucking right it is. That is the only thing that matters and is purely an individual decision.

Also, my ticket tells the staff on the plane whether I'm an upgrade, a cash buyer or a points queen. I'm sure you know this though, right?

As for your claim that all you have to do is ask to see First class and they'll let you just plonk your poor ass down up there? Get the fuck outta here. Utter nonsense.


Back on topic. I was the only 1st passenger tonight on my flight. 3 decent 7/10 girls scheduled to the cabin so I had 3 bitches attending to my every need. Dude behind me in business was all alone too and he had 2 girls to himself.

If I wasn't super tired and wanting to sleep and lived in Dubai I can promise y'all...it'd be just super easy to chat them up. They ain't got nothing else to do!

Not sure where the fuck exactly you misread what I was saying.

Someone mentioned about flying first class JUST to meet flight attendants. MY POINT was it's not worth it if that's your main motive. As flying upgraded to business class or first class or whatever doesn't impress anyone into assuming your rich.

So not sure where a nerve got hit and you go off on a rant talking about flying Asia to Europe on private jets etc.

"As for your claim that all you have to do is ask to see First class and they'll let you just plonk your poor ass down up there? Get the fuck outta here. Utter nonsense."

Just because you THINK it can not be done. Does not mean other's are not doing it.

Flying up front to hit on the staff is dumb. Most of em are post wall.

The reason you fly there is because a 12 hour flight crammed into an economy seat makes men who've seen war cry.

(06-09-2018 05:03 PM)EndsExpect Wrote:  China Southern

I fly China Southern frequently. Their flight attendants don't look anything like that.

Seems like British Airways always has male FA when I'm on board. LAX Crowne Plaza has many FA on layover. The DoubleTree in Torrance is another one with many Asian airlines. It's across from the Del Amo Mall. At the OC airport (John Wayne) you can sometimes see them walking across MacArthur Blvd. going to/from hotels. If you happen to be in the area that might give you a chance to approach.

When I was in college on a club trip once we stayed at a hotel near LAX on Century Blvd. A classmate of mine picked up two BA flight attendants in the lounge who were staying at the hotel and had a threesome with them. I saw them the next morning. One was a 7 and one was a 5. That was in 1993. I got my FA flag when I was in the military. She worked on a charter airline that flew the military-contracted "freedom bird" between the US and the far east. She was on her layover and I approached her in the base officer's club. One of her FA coworkers had already banged a friend of mine so it gave me an easy in. I asked her if passengers hit on her and she said, "All the time." I asked what made the difference between them and me and she said that she was usually preoccupied when she was working, so approaching FAs when they're off duty and relaxing is 100 times better. That hasn't stopped me from hitting on FAs since, but I haven't had anymore hookups except drinks and food. One FA tried to hook me up with one of her less attractive coworkers on a long flight once, but I wasn't interested.

Anyway, some international airlines that fly into the US give their crews 36 hours to rest before their return trip, so they'll try to locate them in a four-star business hotel that is near a shopping or restaurant area, not necessarily close to the airport. So, hit the bars of those hotels and make friends with the bartender and find out which airlines put their crews up there. Or, like other posters have said, ask the FA's on their flights where they stay.

Also, don't forget the women working at the ticket/luggage desks, gate desks, and airline lounges. I once had a ticket agent drop an obvious approach on me that I normally would have followed-up on, but I wasn't expecting to return to that airport. She was a solid 7 so I regret not being able to connect on that one. I think they are often better prospects because they're a little jealous of the attention and status the flight crews get and they don't get hit on as often, even though they're often as attractive as the FAs.

(06-11-2018 11:50 AM)C-Note Wrote:  When I was in college on a club trip once we stayed at a hotel near LAX on Century Blvd. A classmate of mine picked up two BA flight attendants in the lounge who were staying at the hotel and had a threesome with them.

#goalsAF

(06-11-2018 12:09 PM)Jetset Wrote:  

(06-11-2018 11:50 AM)C-Note Wrote:  When I was in college on a club trip once we stayed at a hotel near LAX on Century Blvd. A classmate of mine picked up two BA flight attendants in the lounge who were staying at the hotel and had a threesome with them.

#goalsAF

By the way, he used karaoke game on them. He had practiced several country songs with which he could showcase his baritone voice and could sing to perfection with some charismatic body language. I wasn't there but another classmate told me that when he sang the songs, standing/squatting right in front of the two FAs while crooning the song to them, you could practically see their pussies start to drip. He told us later that it was actually the 5 who really liked him and wanted to take him to her room, but for whatever reason she asked the 7 to come along and so he got to bang both of them.

I'm older and don't have much game, but I'm a pilot for a major airline and I can give some pointers on meeting FAs. When they are home, not working they're pretty much like any other women. If you want to know where they live, look in the mid priced areas of large cities (that have a crew base). The layover hotel is where you should concentrate, as has been alluded to already. Go to the hotel bar around dinner time or later and look for a group that includes one or more gay guys with a few moderately attractive ladies. I don't like to fly as a passenger on regional airlines, but they are more likely to employ young fun crews. Try to find where they're staying. It probably won't be the downtown 4 star property. The airport Holiday Inn or Best Western is more likely.

My airline has a stellar safety record. To get hired here as a pilot you must have acquired thousands of flight hours. Our pilots and FAs skew older. A young attractive FA at my company will stand out and get a lot of attention. A young attractive FA at Horizon Air will just be another face in the crowd. That's my impression.

On my way back home from Asia. Struck up a 5 minute conversation with an attractive stewardess from S.Korea while waiting to use the toilet. Actually I was just trying to get her to give me a couple free shots of whiskey. I asked if she had to eat the same food as the passengers... made fun of the terrible food a bit. Turns out she just doesn't eat because she hates the food so much. I asked if she is stopping in my city for the day or moving on. She says they are staying the night. I told her that I would like to show her the food of my city. She said she wanted to rest first, but then agreed after I pressed a bit. She uses some weird app called Kakao, I don't have it, but got her WeChat instead. Landed a couple hours ago and have been making a few jokes back and forth.

I'm 95% sure this won't turn into a bang anytime soon, but will be fun anyway. Just wanted to share this info in case it might give ideas. By the way... turns out the whiskey is free anyways on that airline.

I have had a couple of occasions in the terminal where I was eyefucked by MILFy air crew. The most memorable was when I was walking through the terminal as the flight attendants were all coming off the plane, with my girl with me. She made eye contact and looked me up and down then glanced over at my date for the weekend, nodded at her and smiled coyly. My date punched me in the arm and said "That stewardess was totally checking you out!"

On a flight this Fall I struck up a conversation with some guys across the aisle and we had quite a banter going among 2 rows. As the drink cart rolled up, I announced drinks were on me for the 4 of us, and the attendant said "Nope guys, I got this..." Comped us 4 drinks and came back with seconds on the house. I asked her as we deplaned if she was spending the night in town and she nodded happily. I was too rushed to get contact details. Looking back I should have done that when she came back with the second round with a whisper drowned out by the jet engines...

I tend to dress distinctly so I stand out from most other passengers. I also make sure to make eye contact as I board and say hello. I watched one poor motor mouth sap try to run game on a flight attendant and he crashed and burned...too try hard.

One would have a much better chance on a nearly empty flight as the flight attendants will be much more relaxed. Been on an Air Baltic flight like this where there was one flight attendant and three passengers. Two of them were gaming her hardcore by complimenting her safety demonstration.

If you re in Seoul generally the area around Kimpo airport is a great place to game to meet flight attendants. A lot of them live in apartments alone near there or go shopping at the lotte mall.

(06-07-2018 08:09 PM)spydersuit Wrote:  I have closed the deal here before. This is how I do it:

1. Bring a prop, bag, or item to potentially leave on the airplane. I use poster tubes with complicated engineering posters in the tube with my burner contact info on it. Or, with a business card attached to the object with fancy job title/credentials.

2. First class helps as you will have more of the flight attendants attention.

3. Sit in an isle or single seat if possible.

4. Immediately smile, introduce yourself and break the touch barrier when boarding the aircraft (even if she is old, skanky, or fat to help build social capital or if he is gay)

5. Immediately engage them (entire crew) in small talk and ask them what they are doing when they land once raport has been established. The crew typicaly parties together or engages in other social activities after the flight. This is why is helps to befriend the crew.

6. Isolation helps for the target. She does not want to look slutty in front of crew mates. If isolated, get her number and establish a plan to meet up with her and the crew and bar close her.

7. If isolation does not occur, then leave the prop item on the airplane when you deplane.

8. The attendants will call you about the item you left on your cell phone about the time you reach baggage claim. Typically, your target is the one who will call you.

9. Have them meet you outside the airport as they leave or make arrangements to meet at the hotel or bar.

10. Proceed with game as usual.

Some pretty interesting points here. A couple I fully agree with bolded. The thread focusses a lot on the free hotel perks of being with a flight attendant. I would say the main perk is if you are looking for a easy bang who visits you in your city for a night of fun, or if you want to go on some cheap vacations, but then you have to get to girlfriend level.

For me the "In Flight" Flight Attendant pickup is what I like. There is something about being bored on a flight looking at that same babe walking up and down the aisle that gets me going.

It is a difficult pickup in some ways. My thoughts are as such
(1) Create instant repore, good eye contact or initiate a small conversation when boarding. If there is chemistry she will help you out because work is boring, and the vast majority of passengers too.

(2) Wear decent clothes when you fly, its hard to pull much off when you are a bum

(3) One opportunity is when they come around for basic service, coffee etc. I closed a beautiful African girl once just by ordering my coffee black and looking at her. We laughed about it later.

(4) Make fun of another passenger or make light of something on the flight. Ask her where shes from, chat her up, basic stuff.

(5) Go for the number fairly quick, and casually, so that you have it in the bag. Sometimes they get busy with their work believe it or not. You can meet up with them also, but some flights are day flights, and often they have to continue working.
>> I made this mistake once: I was on an overnight flight from Bogota to Toronto recently and blew it with a flight attendant. She was really keen, but I waited and waited and then tried to pull her number de boarding. It didn't work out too well. Too much rush, social pressure of people around, I basically gave her my card but didn't hear back. Felt like she was in the bag around 3am that flight, but at 6am we were all tired and cranky, and the plane smelled, maybe me too.

(6) I lost a flight attendant once (off plane) by making a comment about how she fit the "beautiful flight attendant stereotype". I can't speak for all airlines, but many of these girls are programmed to believe they are not their to give you coffee and fluff their pillow, they believe they are there for the safety of the flight.