Post: #1

So a couple months ago I hooked up with this girl during nightgame. We exchanged numbers and then she flaked a few days later after we agreed to hang out soon.

Fastforward to this morning, where she randomly texts me and starts flirting with me. I play along, and when she asks if I'm free after school I said no, as I don't find her hot enough to be worth pursuing after I got flaked on, plus a couple friends were watching which I must admit influenced my responses. I'll copy+paste the rest here.

Her:"Dayum when are you free?"
Me: "When hell freezes over"
Her: "You were pretty keen on me at ______ (where we met). I miss you, want to meet up?"
Me trying to impress my friends: "You a stupid hoe."
Her:
Then half an hour late she goes: "Fucking waste of semen, your mum should have swollowed (sic) you and snow balled it with your dad"

I had to Google what snow balled was, urban dictionary defines it as: "when the man cums in the womans mouth and she pretends to swallow and then when she goes to kiss him she spits it into his mouth." Yikes.

Then 5 minutes ago (six hour later) she calls my mobile, I answer but don't say anything. She doesn't either for 20 seconds till she hung up.

What the fuck..

Post: #2

Haha you burned her pretty well with the "when hell freezes over" reply. Sounds like she had a typical female meltdown after getting banged out and rejected. Most of these girls think they have golden pussies and you'll be sprung after hitting it.

Post: #3

She's ready for rough sex. Go for the Hail Mary pass just for the fuck of it (pun intended).

Text her saying she was "a royal byatch for flaking" and that the only way to make up for it at this point is to come over and "take her punishment like a woman" (i.e., tonight).

No skin off your back either way.

Report back.

Post: #4

Hahahahaha "you a stupid hoe"

Post: #5

Why'd you call her a stupid hoe instead of meeting up?

Post: #6

(03-06-2012 12:14 AM)P Dog Wrote:  So a couple months ago I hooked up with this girl during nightgame. We exchanged numbers and then she flaked a few days later after we agreed to hang out soon.

Fastforward to this morning, where she randomly texts me and starts flirting with me. I play along, and when she asks if I'm free after school I said no, as I don't find her hot enough to be worth pursuing after I got flaked on, plus a couple friends were watching which I must admit influenced my responses. I'll copy+paste the rest here.

Her:"Dayum when are you free?"
Me: "When hell freezes over"
Her: "You were pretty keen on me at ______ (where we met). I miss you, want to meet up?"
Me trying to impress my friends: "You a stupid hoe."
Her:
Then half an hour late she goes: "Fucking waste of semen, your mum should have swollowed (sic) you and snow balled it with your dad"

I had to Google what snow balled was, urban dictionary defines it as: "when the man cums in the womans mouth and she pretends to swallow and then when she goes to kiss him she spits it into his mouth." Yikes.

Then 5 minutes ago (six hour later) she calls my mobile, I answer but don't say anything. She doesn't either for 20 seconds till she hung up.

What the fuck..

You're young and having fun and probably don't give a F, but you shouldn't have blew her off. I guess you felt she wasn't cute enough to get away with flaking the first time around?

Post: #7

(03-06-2012 01:51 AM)Samseau Wrote:  Why'd you call her a stupid hoe instead of meeting up?

(03-06-2012 01:53 AM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  You're young and having fun and probably don't give a F, but you shouldn't have blew her off. I guess you felt she wasn't cute enough to get away with flaking the first time around?

You guys are sounding like grandpas (not that I disagree, by the way):

"Kids today. Wasting perfectly good pussy. When I was your age you didn't just throw unspoiled pussy in the garbage. Pussy was hard to come by, and you ate every last bit of it, because you didn't know when you'd come across some again. Or, you'd save the rest for later. Kids today."

Post: #8

Meh, I'm indifferent to why he basically treated her like garbage. But since he's asking us "why did she snap", I think the answer is pretty obvious.

Post: #9

(03-06-2012 12:21 AM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  She's ready for rough sex. Go for the Hail Mary pass just for the fuck of it (pun intended).

Text her saying she was "a royal byatch for flaking" and that the only way to make up for it at this point is to come over and "take her punishment like a woman" (i.e., tonight).

No skin off your back either way.

Report back.

Thats some damn good advice... i like your style... no homo

Post: #10

She sounds crazier than most girls.

It's weird that she got back to you out of the blue. I think the thing to do is to act like she never flaked on you and just make plans to meet her. Flake or not, crazy or not, if a girl is responding to your texts quickly, that means she's ready for a meet up. In this case, I'd do a perfunctory meet for a drink and then just get her back to your place.

Post: #11

(03-06-2012 01:59 AM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

(03-06-2012 01:51 AM)Samseau Wrote:  Why'd you call her a stupid hoe instead of meeting up?

(03-06-2012 01:53 AM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  You're young and having fun and probably don't give a F, but you shouldn't have blew her off. I guess you felt she wasn't cute enough to get away with flaking the first time around?

You guys are sounding like grandpas (not that I disagree, by the way):

"Kids today. Wasting perfectly good pussy. When I was your age you didn't just throw unspoiled pussy in the garbage. Pussy was hard to come by, and you ate every last bit of it, because you didn't know when you'd come across some again. Or, you'd save the rest for later. Kids today."

Post: #12

Not hating or anything, because I run asshole game too.

I would have said "no" and dont reply as she texts you a few more times. finally when shes at the height of her bitching or whatever I would bring up that she flaked on you, not angrily but make it clear that she disrespected you in that way and you want nothing to do with her. eg. "I have more self-respect than to bend to your will whenever you're horny. Your behaviour (flaking) is unforgivable in my books, have a good one" and don't reply or if you can see youreself banging her invite her over.

I think that route of assholishness plays to her feminine "logic" better than straight up being a dick. You have implied that there is something wrong with her and you are the one who decides the direction of the interaction.

There is a finesse to running asshole game, there is also a fine line between a verbal slap that will keep her in check and give you control over the interaction and straight up being a dick which will cause her to act like this.

Regardless if she follows the Crazy Bitch Cycle if you hold out on her long enough she will eventually text you again wanting to bang/apologizing.

Post: #13

You where pretty rude there man. If you didnt want anything to do with her, just dont answer her texts. No need to be a dick.

Post: #14

(03-06-2012 02:02 AM)Samseau Wrote:  Meh, I'm indifferent to why he basically treated her like garbage. But since he's asking us "why did she snap", I think the answer is pretty obvious.

Yeah, I really don't get the OP. He calls her a "stupid hoe" and then wonders why she responded the way she did?

I really don't understand this type of "game". Maybe it is just my personality, but I don't see the point in randomly insulting someone. She flaked on you. When that happens to me, I am extremely direct in making sure the woman understands the value of my time, or I just don't bother contacting her. Insulting her does NOTHING for me. When a woman flakes on my I either a) move to put myself in a position of dominance, or b) drop her and never call again.

Post: #15

(03-06-2012 02:14 AM)germanico Wrote:  You where pretty rude there man. If you didnt want anything to do with her, just dont answer her texts. No need to be a dick.

@germanico: Not to derail this thread, but who is that in your avatar? Is that you? For some reason, I've always found it to be hilarious.

   

Post: #16

(03-06-2012 02:02 AM)Samseau Wrote:  Meh, I'm indifferent to why he basically treated her like garbage. But since he's asking us "why did she snap", I think the answer is pretty obvious.

I'm not asking why she got pissed, but the extent of her anger and the phone call especially caught me off card. Also, I added the disclaimer at the start that my "boys" sitting around watching the whole thing influenced my replies. They fed me the "When hell freezers over" line, but I chose to name drop You A Stupid Hoe (it's a horrible Nicki Minaj song).

I admit I cared more about showing off to them than gaming her.

Fact is, I don't really give a fuck about this girl, especially after she flaked on me before hand. She rejected me once, I wasn't going to let her reject me again.

Post: #17

(03-06-2012 12:21 AM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  She's ready for rough sex. Go for the Hail Mary pass just for the fuck of it (pun intended).

Text her saying she was "a royal byatch for flaking" and that the only way to make up for it at this point is to come over and "take her punishment like a woman" (i.e., tonight).

No skin off your back either way.

Report back.

I would go with this. And yeah, I think you were a dick for saying that to her for basically no reason. I like your posts usually, but think that was disrespectful to someone who didn't deserve it and extremely childish.

Post: #18

(03-06-2012 02:32 AM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

(03-06-2012 02:14 AM)germanico Wrote:  You where pretty rude there man. If you didnt want anything to do with her, just dont answer her texts. No need to be a dick.

@germanico: Not to derail this thread, but who is that in your avatar? Is that you? For some reason, I've always found it to be hilarious.

Ha- that's got to be a pic of him

Post: #19

That was harsh, but I believe it's only more proof of how fragile female ego is. If they had to take 1% of rejections that men face (sometimes in similarly harsh words, because it's "socially acceptable") they would all go nuts.

Post: #20

No reply. Deleted her number again (took me a couple messages to infer who it was when she texted). Fact is, if she flakes on me and then reinitiates contact two months later saying she misses me, then bad luck to her. I'm not a little puppy dog that would come running back eagerly to her the second she calls on me. She had her chance with me and she blew it.

I remember now Roosh made a post back when he was in Denmark about never letting a girl reject you twice. Same principle applies here.

Post: #21

It sounds like P Dog was just looking to get a chuckle at a girl's expense. This can be as satisfying as a successful hookup sometimes. Plus, he's got this girl right where he wants her for a Tuthmosis-style retro-bang in the future.

Post: #22

Calling people names and DIRECT insluts is childish and a way of instant gratification. All it does is makes you feel good for a moment, then afterwards you realize how dumb you really were and the damage you did. I think your posting this story is kind of an admission that you know you were retarded. Note she responded to you by sending a stupid insult back. Completely brainless interaction.

Mature people aren't focused on instant gratification or saying what they think will feel good to themselves for a brief moment. Remember... words last. People REMEMBER the feelings you give them, and that shit can come back to haunt you when you say the wrong thing to the wrong person. Not her, but somewhere down the line you will fuck up if you have not gotten into the habit of NOT doing this.

Make a habit of not insulting people or trying to impress your buddies, who will respect you less for what you did. Ignore a girl if you want, or respond succintly. But calling people names isn't "ass-hole" game. It's 5yo anger management. If you are an important, desirable guy, you don't have TIME for this shit - like you don't have TIME to argue, insult or be a baby.

Unless of course you actually are trying to start a physical fight so you can beat their ass. In which case go for it!

PS: Just realized you're a T from the MB personality types, haha... an F would not do this stuff. I'm a T too, by the way, so I'm naturally inclined to say and do the same things. You just have to learn not to.

Post: #23

Pdog,

You said in another post that you are 17 years old, is that correct?

Enough said.

Post: #24

(03-06-2012 01:51 AM)Samseau Wrote:  Why'd you call her a stupid hoe instead of meeting up?

im wondering the same thing

Post: #25

(03-06-2012 06:41 AM)ElJefe Wrote:  Calling people names and DIRECT insluts is childish and a way of instant gratification. All it does is makes you feel good for a moment, then afterwards you realize how dumb you really were and the damage you did. I think your posting this story is kind of an admission that you know you were retarded. Note she responded to you by sending a stupid insult back. Completely brainless interaction.

Mature people aren't focused on instant gratification or saying what they think will feel good to themselves for a brief moment. Remember... words last. People REMEMBER the feelings you give them, and that shit can come back to haunt you when you say the wrong thing to the wrong person. Not her, but somewhere down the line you will fuck up if you have not gotten into the habit of NOT doing this.

Make a habit of not insulting people or trying to impress your buddies, who will respect you less for what you did. Ignore a girl if you want, or respond succintly. But calling people names isn't "ass-hole" game. It's 5yo anger management. If you are an important, desirable guy, you don't have TIME for this shit - like you don't have TIME to argue, insult or be a baby.

I'm with Eljefe on this.