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RE: When your mom is with an alpha
(08-30-2017 07:00 PM)YoungBlade Wrote: Yeah, my dad.
Then she had me, so she's got another alpha in her life.
Slow down. They're saving this plotline for the final season of Game of Thrones.
Hidey-ho, RVFerinos!
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Svoboda
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RE: When your mom is with an alpha
(08-30-2017 07:25 PM)sgg Wrote: (08-30-2017 07:19 PM)Svoboda Wrote: Quote:Any of you guys have experiences where your mom is with an alpha and loving it?
(08-30-2017 07:07 PM)sgg Wrote: I had a beta Chinese dad, then after the divorce, my Chinese mom fooled around a bit and now is with this white Alpha guy and he's really influencing her lifestyle
What's the problem exactly?
Just a bit confused on how to feel. Like he's a pretty great chap and I talk to him about game and girls a lot, at times I almost want to fist bump him. However, I also know that my mom is just part of his stable of ladies and I don't know how to feel about that. She's getting pretty attached too, like she wears high heels at home now just for him and he literally just comes over and fucks her whenever he wants. Its kinda wierd, almost like he's getting all the benefits of a stable relationship without any of the commitment. If it was with some stranger, I'd probably congratulate him but it's my mom...
And your mom is fully aware of this?
If that's the worse he influences her (wearing high heels more often, and probably changing her style to more feminine). It's really not that bad.
About them being in a relationship or not.
You can't change your mom. It's not this man that made your parents divorce. It's not this man that made your mom fool around.
The only thing this man did was to make her stop fooling around and focus all her attention on him.
If she wasn't with him she might not be in a stable relationship either, or maybe with a man you really don't like.
That being said, I can imagine not liking the idea of your mom being emotionally invested, while he probably isn't.
For what it's worth, enjoy the free education.
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RE: When your mom is with an alpha
This thread shows why fathers are important.
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RE: When your mom is with an alpha
(08-30-2017 07:56 PM)Svoboda Wrote: (08-30-2017 07:25 PM)sgg Wrote: (08-30-2017 07:19 PM)Svoboda Wrote: Quote:Any of you guys have experiences where your mom is with an alpha and loving it?
(08-30-2017 07:07 PM)sgg Wrote: I had a beta Chinese dad, then after the divorce, my Chinese mom fooled around a bit and now is with this white Alpha guy and he's really influencing her lifestyle
What's the problem exactly?
Just a bit confused on how to feel. Like he's a pretty great chap and I talk to him about game and girls a lot, at times I almost want to fist bump him. However, I also know that my mom is just part of his stable of ladies and I don't know how to feel about that. She's getting pretty attached too, like she wears high heels at home now just for him and he literally just comes over and fucks her whenever he wants. Its kinda wierd, almost like he's getting all the benefits of a stable relationship without any of the commitment. If it was with some stranger, I'd probably congratulate him but it's my mom...
And your mom is fully aware of this?
If that's the worse he influences her (wearing high heels more often, and probably changing her style to more feminine). It's really not that bad.
About them being in a relationship or not.
You can't change your mom. It's not this man that made your parents divorce. It's not this man that made your mom fool around.
The only thing this man did was to make her stop fooling around and focus all her attention on him.
If she wasn't with him she might not be in a stable relationship either, or maybe with a man you really don't like.
That being said, I can imagine not liking the idea of your mom being emotionally invested, while he probably isn't.
For what it's worth, enjoy the free education.
I'm not sure if she's fully aware of it. I think she at least suspects. Yeah, I like the guy. It's just the fact that he basically comes over and fucks my mom's brains and then doesn't emotionally commit myself that I feel I should have an issue with. I mean, he's made my mom way more sexual too which I don't know what to feel as a son.
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h3ltrsk3ltr
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RE: When your mom is with an alpha
You're way too focused on your mom's sexuality, dude. This is one of those things that require much, much less thought because dwelling on it is unhealthy and unhelpful.
If he's not hurting your mom then get the fuck on with your life and stop paying so much attention to what's going on in her panties. If he's a good guy then hang out with him if you want but god help you if you fist bump him after he hits it.
This seems like one of those things where a guy gets caught up in, at the best, jealousy and at the worst major faggotry with a guy who's an exemplary alpha. If it's the latter I doubt you'll be around very long. If the former, don't worry bro, you can get past it.
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RE: When your mom is with an alpha
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RE: When your mom is with an alpha
(08-30-2017 08:47 PM)shotgun Wrote: (08-30-2017 08:26 PM)realologist Wrote: You are worrying about the wrong problem. You should focusing on how to stop your sister from having sex.
Coming up tomorrow: what to do when you catch your daughter masturbating to gangbang porn.
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RE: When your mom is with an alpha
(08-30-2017 08:24 PM)sgg Wrote: (08-30-2017 08:14 PM)h3ltrsk3ltr Wrote: You're way too focused on your mom's sexuality, dude. This is one of those things that require much, much less thought because dwelling on it is unhealthy and unhelpful.
If he's not hurting your mom then get the fuck on with your life and stop paying so much attention to what's going on in her panties. If he's a good guy then hang out with him if you want but god help you if you fist bump him after he hits it.
This seems like one of those things where a guy gets caught up in, at the best, jealousy and at the worst major faggotry with a guy who's an exemplary alpha. If it's the latter I doubt you'll be around very long. If the former, don't worry bro, you can get past it.
Yeah, just need to treat it as if my mom is just another chick i guess. haha, sometimes its hard when it's so in your face at home though but no choice i guess.
No sir, that's not correct either. I'm going to suggest you ignore your instincts entirely. Treat your mom like your mom, stop trying to be all clever with it.
If it were me:
example: I'm at home, focused on a Udemy course because fuck college I can do that shit myself. My mom's dude comes over and socializes with my mom.
I don't pay any attention other than common courtesy because A: I don't want to think about my mom in that way because I'm not a GOT character. B: The dude who's banging my mom probably wants to just pretend his girlfriend doesn't have a fucking 19 year old kid EDIT: WHO STILL LIVES AT HOME AND FANTASIZES ABOUT HIM CUMMING ON HIS MOM LIKE A FAGGOT ASS WEIRDO BITCH.
Furthermore! I don't get involved with my mom's love life other than to politely be a good son who's so busy trying to move out of his mommy's house he can't really be bothered with shit like that but he does anyway because he's not an asshole.
In fact, I'm so busy trying to improve my own game that my mom's love life isn't even on my radar thank god.
Finally, I'd be aware that my mom is dating and that it's a little weird. But because I can be resilient in the face of life I just move along because there's nothing to see here and those aren't the droids i'm looking for.
My two cents, hope it helps.
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RE: When your mom is with an alpha
(08-30-2017 09:25 PM)h3ltrsk3ltr Wrote: (08-30-2017 09:13 PM)sgg Wrote: (08-30-2017 08:26 PM)realologist Wrote: You are worrying about the wrong problem. You should focusing on how to stop your sister from having sex.
yeah, that's a similar issue i guess. When you hear a relative getting fucked and cum on, it just screws with your mind
What the goddamn fuck.
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RE: When your mom is with an alpha
How I'm picturing OP and his mom's boyfriend:
Hidey-ho, RVFerinos!
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