Post: #1

Long story short, being dating this Filipina nurse who’s just moved to London. For the past 4 weeks , banged her 4 times maybe , no oral , condom used every time.

Banged her last Sunday and on Tuesday had burning on urination. DNA PCR test came back positive today for chlamydia.

I’ve only ever had sex with this girl in the past 4 months, so the doc said it’s rare for the infection to lie symptom free in men so long then co incidentally present after you have sex. He’s 99% sure I got it from her. So even though I wore a comdom I still got it ! caveat empour !

First question , I’m meeting her in 24hrs , how do I tell her in a way that doesn’t make me look like I’ve given it to her , but without embarrassing her and sounding harsh.

Also she’s a cool girl , so I wouldn’t mind seeing her again. Have any of you stayed with a girl after both got treatment?

Apparently, Chlamydia is rampant over in the Philippines and a lot of girls are a-symptomatic…

Post: #2

^ Do you have a discharge coming out of your dick?

Incidentally, the one time I caught the clap was also from a Pinay.

Dirty, dirty whores.

Post: #3

wait so condoms dont prevent stds? but man id just tell her straight up she needs to get tested because u got tested and u have it and that she is your only sex partner. simple



edit: oh and u didnt have it before this week.

Post: #4

(07-19-2017 05:54 PM)Rhyme or Reason Wrote:  ^ Do you have a discharge coming out of your dick?

Incidentally, the one time I caught the clap was also from a Pinay.

Dirty, dirty whores.

Yup - its clear discharge though , and small amount - went to see an expensive private GP and testing on Harley Street, NHS here are shit . I once got a bacterial infection from a blow job , blew up my entire urinary system ; prostate , balls , dick . Took years to get back to normal. I must have some sort of fucking weakness down there. I don't take any chances these days, I'm the only person I know who gets stuff from blow jobs and using condoms !

Post: #5

Better hope its not that antibiotic resistant type. . .

Also, does your doctor think its a good idea to see her? Sounds like a good way to stay sick to me.

Post: #6

(07-19-2017 05:54 PM)Rhyme or Reason Wrote:  ^ Do you have a discharge coming out of your dick?

Incidentally, the one time I caught the clap was also from a Pinay.

Dirty, dirty whores.

The absolute truth.

Over the years I've just stop banging them. Some can be cute and probably worth a wrapped up bang but in the end there's too much risk if things go wrong. Most will want to keep the baby if you knock her up.

To the OP, there's a chance you could've been without symptoms for as long as 12 months and then a weakened immune response could've brought it out.
Another way could be if she is fingering her self and then touches your dick before you put the condom on.


This has happened to me before...the girl was my type and i just wanted to bang her out raw but after i fingered her the smell down there was kinda bad so i opted to put on a condom.
I fucked up and stroked my dick for a bit with her juices still on my fingers.
Post fuck the condom didn't break and my sperm was all accounted for. Fast forward about 2 weeks later and im starting to have symptoms. I go get checked out and surprise i got something from her. I call her up and tell her what the doctor said. She admitted that she got tested a week earlier and was gonna tell me but forgot etc.

@miggyme1

They only prevent "some" STD's and that's if they are used properly, which is rarely the case.
If you have little cuts around the base of your dick from shaving your pubic hair AND get her pussy juice on those cuts you can contract whatever she is carrying.
Try to use an electric bread trimmer to man scape. It will reduce the chance of nicking yourself down there and reduce the chances of getting anything these dirty sluts are carrying.

Post: #7

(07-19-2017 06:39 PM)kinjutsu Wrote:  

(07-19-2017 05:54 PM)Rhyme or Reason Wrote:  ^ Do you have a discharge coming out of your dick?

Incidentally, the one time I caught the clap was also from a Pinay.

Dirty, dirty whores.

The absolute truth.

Over the years I've just stop banging them. Some can be cute and probably worth a wrapped up bang but in the end there's too much risk if things go wrong. Most will want to keep the baby if you knock her up.

To the OP, there's a chance you could've been without symptoms for as long as 12 months and then a weakened immune response could've brought it out.
Another way could be if she is fingering her self and then touches your dick before you put the condom on.


This has happened to me before...the girl was my type and i just wanted to bang her out raw but after i fingered her the smell down there was kinda bad so i opted to put on a condom.
I fucked up and stroked my dick for a bit with her juices still on my fingers.
Post fuck the condom didn't break and my sperm was all accounted for. Fast forward about 2 weeks later and im starting to have symptoms. I go get checked out and surprise i got something from her. I call her up and tell her what the doctor said. She admitted that she got tested a week earlier and was gonna tell me but forgot etc.

@miggyme1

They only prevent "some" STD's and that's if they are used properly, which is rarely the case.
If you have little cuts around the base of your dick from shaving your pubic hair AND get her pussy juice on those cuts you can contract whatever she is carrying.
Try to use an electric bread trimmer to man scape. It will reduce the chance of nicking yourself down there and reduce the chances of getting anything these dirty sluts are carrying.

Thanks man. You learn something new everyday

Post: #8

"Researchers concluded that correct and consistent use of condoms resulted in a 90% reduction in the risk of gonorrhea and a 60% reduction in the risk of Chlamydia. However, only use that was both consistent and correct was protective against infection. In fact, there was no difference in risk reduction between inconsistent condom use and no condom use among participants."
http://www.siecus.org/index.cfm?fuseacti...ureID=1045

The stats above are rather eye opening.

I'm gonna get shot of her , the sex will never be the same , as I'll always have that doubt in the back of my mind. Guess I just needed someone else to say it !
I could have been the carrier , and its just flared up. But from the way my doc phrased it thats more common in women , if you present symptoms it will be few days to weeks after contact in men anyway.

Post: #9

Text her "Bitch you need to get checked out, you just gave me chlamydia."

That's all.

Post: #10

Even if you try to say it in the most diplomatic way possible, it won't matter. She will deny it and insist that you didn't get it from her. If you protest that you haven't slept with any other women recently, she will simply accuse you of lying and continue to insist that you couldn't possibly have gotten it from her because she is clean. Then she will ghost you out of shame and you won't see her again.

Post: #11

If its too awkward then text it. I had a girl text me that she had clap and said I should get tested. I was neg but took the script anyway. It's one shot and done. Tests aren't 100% and men are often asymptomatic. If you did get it from her NEXT.

Post: #12

(07-19-2017 07:35 PM)scorpion Wrote:  Even if you try to say it in the most diplomatic way possible, it won't matter. She will deny it and insist that you didn't get it from her. If you protest that you haven't slept with any other women recently, she will simply accuse you of lying and continue to insist that you couldn't possibly have gotten it from her because she is clean. Then she will ghost you out of shame and you won't see her again.

This. 4 weeks isn't a long time invested. She will hamster or deny to flip it that you're the dirty one OP. If you don't want to have the awkward talk then next the broad or at least swerve the broad and try to weasel some of her friends.

If I understand correctly her symptoms should be more pronounced when yours? She should be feeling something down there herself.

Post: #13

Only let her blow you from now on...while you berate her filthy Pinay pussy.

Post: #14

Invite over some mutual friends and have an intervention. This works best if you can wrangle a few of her exes into participating.



Have folks write letters to her about how her chlamydia has affected them personally. They should cry while they read the letters out loud to her at the intervention.



It would be best to prepare some refreshments and have an intermission about half way through the letter reading. It's important to take good care of your guests.



And just to keep things from becoming too serious, it might be best to hire some entertainment as well.



Most importantly, be sure to let the little slut know that this isn't about who she is, it's about her choices and how they have affected you (and others) in deeply personal ways. Prep a token gift so that she'll know that she's still loved.



Other tips:

• There should be lots of hugging and lots of crying.
• A good group size is between 8 and 12 people.
• Antibiotics make for good door prizes.
  

Post: #15

(07-19-2017 09:07 PM)Travel Museums Wrote:  Only let her blow you from now on...while you berate her filthy Pinay pussy.

You can get STD's from blow jobs.

Oral gonorrhoea and oral chlamydia are things. More common in male homosexuals, but no reason a woman can't have it as well.

Post: #16

(07-19-2017 05:49 PM)cosworth Wrote:  Also she’s a cool girl , so I wouldn’t mind seeing her again. Have any of you stayed with a girl after both got treatment?

Why? There are millions of 'cool' girls out there. Cool and STD free. Snag you one of those.

Get treated. Tell her you think you contracted it from her, as she is the only person you've been with and the doc supports that theory. She'll probably deny it (like most women do) and claim you gave it to her. Her reaction isn't really important, though. You gave her the information so she can do as she pleases with it.

Next her.

Post: #17

(07-19-2017 07:35 PM)scorpion Wrote:  Even if you try to say it in the most diplomatic way possible, it won't matter. She will deny it and insist that you didn't get it from her. If you protest that you haven't slept with any other women recently, she will simply accuse you of lying and continue to insist that you couldn't possibly have gotten it from her because she is clean. Then she will ghost you out of shame and you won't see her again.

x2

Post: #18

So I told her , she was shocked but had an adult conversation about it .

Said said she got checked 4 months ago when she moved here , and had nothing. Apparently shes slept with 5 or 6 guys , one without condom hence the check.
She said do u think u got it from me , i just told her what Dr told me. These pinays , they sleep around , lie and have shit medical care so the warnings from the forum are valid.

Private medical care has cost me £440 GBP but SO worth it compared to NHS.

I've never NOT used a condom in 7 years , I've had one nightmare UTI from a Bj which took years to get over and one case of Chlamydia ! My fucking urinary system is wack , but to the guys who are doing raw dog its basically all good , until its not ! Russian roulette.

Post: #19

Filipinas are generally easy to bang. Their vaginas are hot like fire crackers. I'm average looking but once I become aggressive towards them, they melt in my hand. I would not trust her to admit that she gave you something.

In my Tom Leykis voice "Dump That Bitch".

Post: #20

Found a photo of OP's girl

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Post: #22

(07-19-2017 09:14 PM)Suits Wrote:  

• There should be lots of hugging and lots of crying.
• A good group size is between 8 and 12 people.
• Antibiotics make for good door prizes.
  

I was holding it together pretty well until the door prizes part.

Post: #23

This is the side effect of playing with a "box of assorted creams".

Post: #24

Like this

Post: #25

If you want to keep banging her, just get it treated and say nothing.

Though I'll warn you, a girl who carries that and doesn't take care of it might have worse things hiding in her "closet"