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Texting a girl after a failed hook-up?
Ok, so Sunday night I ended up bringing a girl home but ended up getting way too drunk and passed out on her. This is how our conversation went in the morning:

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Would it be unwise to tell her I want to see her again? Look, I'm aware that I'm not supposed to get caught up on one chick and that there's plenty of other ones out there, but this girl is English and I've got a huge thing for English girls, so I was hoping I could still be able to close her in the future.
02-09-2012 11:58 AM
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RE: Texting a girl after a failed hook-up?
Same shit, different smell.

I don't have an iPhone. Took me a while to figure out the girl is the one writing the white parts. Guess what that means? Generally, your texting is pretty beta, but I don't see why you can't give it a shot again in a few days.

Rate your chances at less than 30%, but definitely worth sending a text. I wouldn't call - that'd be too weird. Just a text.

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Banter a bit back on forth, let her send the last message, don't reply, wait 24 hours. Then hit her up again to set up a date. Should be something you're doing anyways (errands or something - but something kinda fun, as well, so there's something in it for her) and tell her she can tag along. Say "You should come. I need someone to carry the bags." or something like that.

But... don't count on it.

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02-09-2012 12:12 PM
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RE: Texting a girl after a failed hook-up?
(02-09-2012 12:12 PM)ElJefe Wrote:  I don't have an iPhone. Took me a while to figure out the girl is the one writing the white parts. Guess what that means? Generally, your texting is pretty beta, but I don't see why you can't give it a shot again in a few days.

Yeah, well I didn't exactly know what I should have texted the morning after, since the last thing I remember doing was making out with her[/quote]

Quote:Banter a bit back on forth, let her send the last message, don't reply, wait 24 hours. Then hit her up again to set up a date. Should be something you're doing anyways (errands or something - but something kinda fun, as well, so there's something in it for her) and tell her she can tag along. Say "You should come. I need someone to carry the bags." or something like that.

But... don't count on it.

Well yeah, I figured I'd tell her to meet up with me next time I go out drinking with my friends. But should I at least text her a few times and build up some rapport and comfort before I tell her to meet me again?
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02-09-2012 12:34 PM
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I'd act like it never happened, just strike that from the record and move on if you fail you're where you assumed were already.

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02-09-2012 03:15 PM
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RE: Texting a girl after a failed hook-up?
first of all, stop telling girls you're "sorry" about anything.

Just wait a few days then restart without referencing the incident- just be funny and a little cocky in the texts you send and keep the texting to a minimum.

Ask her to do something casual with you and proceed from there

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02-09-2012 03:25 PM
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RE: Texting a girl after a failed hook-up?
(02-09-2012 03:25 PM)MrXY Wrote:  first of all, stop telling girls you're "sorry" about anything.

How should I have handled it instead then?

Quote:Just wait a few days then restart without referencing the incident- just be funny and a little cocky in the texts you send and keep the texting to a minimum.

Alright, so what's a good way to start a new conversation next time?
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02-09-2012 03:30 PM
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RE: Texting a girl after a failed hook-up?
I dont think texting stuff like kk Smile is good

or Haha

if you really want to say sorry (I think its ok say sorry I passed out on you last night)
02-10-2012 09:23 AM
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