Post: #5651

(05-29-2017 02:56 PM)Iso Wrote:  Question for black guys here on this situation. I'm black, but rarely ever hit on black women because I didn't grow around many.


I'm at a mostly white bar (90-95% white). I'm waiting in a crowded line for drinks at the bar. A black girl stands next to me. 5' 8", nice dark skin, fat ass, but not fat. She pushes the left side of my face with her hands. When I turn to her to try to talk to her, she doesn't acknowledge. I quit after 1 sentence.

My thinking was that was her way of trying to flirt with me. I didn't step her to right, so she didn't let me game.

What are your thoughts?

Black lizards do that a lot. Either touch you, hit you or insult you suddenly when they like you. It's how many of them flirt. I went on a date a while ago with a black Jamaican one. The cinema (movies) was our first date. As soon as I arrived there, she started punching me as we approached the confectionery stand and kept saying 'I'm not that muscular'. I never stated that I was 'that' muscular or anything of that sort. However, I knew this was her way of flirting. I told her if she doesn't stop that I will have to reciprocate all this contact in a very immediate time frame. She said she doesn't get down like that but continued to strike me.
I felt her up in the cinema (we watched Children of Narnia) and then I piped her a few days later.

Black lizards in the West can exhibit a more aggressive flirt pattern from my experience and observation and it can seem out of sync with her body language if you are used to other racial dating experiences but you can treat it as a green light for escalation.

Post: #5652

Yeh but ISO hadn't even said a word yet and she already put her hands on his face? This ain't no friendly punch in the arm.

If it was me then I would of have her a look of disgust and walked away.

Was this a legit face shove or was she 'gently' touching your face with her hands?

Post: #5653

(05-30-2017 02:22 PM)Mentavious Wrote:  Yeh but ISO hadn't even said a word yet and she already put her hands on his face? This ain't no friendly punch in the arm.

If it was me then I would of have her a look of disgust and walked away.

Was this a legit face shove or was she 'gently' touching your face with her hands?

First of all, I've had white girls flirt with me like this, so let's not stereotype our own by saying that black women are this way exclusively, etc., so forth...

If you get a flirty/disrespectful touch, then give a flirty/disrespectful touch. Basically, any shit like this gives you carte blanche to grab a handful of ass. No need to split hairs about it. I would grab a handful of boob cuz I'm a boob guy.

Post: #5654

Kris has hit the nail on the head. Don't take the lizard seriously. Just reciprocate her behaviour. Seasoned playas don't care what the lizard has to say, he is just trying to accomplish his goals. Some of us (myself included) who were raised the old fashioned way make the mistake of taking a lizard's actions too literally.

Post: #5655

I agree about that being Black girls way to flirt, but now that I've aged and branched out to different races, that shit is more annoying to me now.

Post: #5656

I believe that is a real "thing"

In my experience some black women are afraid to show a certain feminine vulnerability around us so many times they appear to send mixed signals or do something off putting. I agree with Moma the more aggressive the environment she was raised in the more liberties a lizard may take. Especially if she senses a weakness.

Once that hard shell is broken though, that gooey center starts oozing out which is what I love about black women.

Although I wouldn't allow a chick to touch my face all willy-nilly without chastising her or dismissively spanking.

Post: #5657

The silver lining is that after dealing with Black girls for so long, when non-Black women throw shit tests at you, it's like playing the game on the easiest settings.

EDIT: I always remember something Patrice O'neal once said on Black women vs White women: White women are easy on the front end but hard on the back end whereas Black women are harder on the front end but easier on the back end. I can't really do his words justice but he talks about it in this video:

Post: #5658

(05-30-2017 02:22 PM)Mentavious Wrote:  Yeh but ISO hadn't even said a word yet and she already put her hands on his face? This ain't no friendly punch in the arm.

If it was me then I would of have her a look of disgust and walked away.

Was this a legit face shove or was she 'gently' touching your face with her hands?

It was halfway in between legit shove and a tap on the face. I was kinda stunned so I didn't know what to do in that situation.

Post: #5659

(05-30-2017 03:15 PM)Moma Wrote:  Kris has hit the nail on the head. Don't take the lizard seriously. Just reciprocate her behaviour. Seasoned playas don't care what the lizard has to say, he is just trying to accomplish his goals. Some of us (myself included) who were raised the old fashioned way make the mistake of taking a lizard's actions too literally.

I take their actions about as seriously as I take a child. and like a child women they need guidance and need to be punished when they behave poorly. This chick needs to know who her daddy is pronto.

At what point does she cross the line for you? I really cant see a woman putting her hands on my face in public in an aggressive manner and me not reprimanding her. Even if it was some crazy sexual BDSM shit.

I just had a white girl I'm fucking pull this shit two weeks ago. she was gently slapping my face in a bar and shit was irritating so I slapped her a little harder and she slapped a little harder back. I looked her in the eyes, told her that she just ended this date and that this night was over. I turned about face and walked out the bar immediately...she chased me down across busy ass west 6th street (ATX) and was super apologetic and has been via txt and snapchat since.

"I'm sorry I offended you last night. I like you and have a good time with you and wasn't ever trying to make you mad. Just hope you know I'm sorry for disrespecting you feel bad for making you angry"

Post: #5660

^Oh damn, she wanted you to knock her out.

Slap the bitch nah. lol

Post: #5661

(05-30-2017 03:03 PM)KrisGLWorldwide Wrote:  

(05-30-2017 02:22 PM)Mentavious Wrote:  Yeh but ISO hadn't even said a word yet and she already put her hands on his face? This ain't no friendly punch in the arm.

If it was me then I would of have her a look of disgust and walked away.

Was this a legit face shove or was she 'gently' touching your face with her hands?

First of all, I've had white girls flirt with me like this, so let's not stereotype our own by saying that black women are this way exclusively, etc., so forth...

If you get a flirty/disrespectful touch, then give a flirty/disrespectful touch. Basically, any shit like this gives you carte blanche to grab a handful of ass. No need to split hairs about it. I would grab a handful of boob cuz I'm a boob guy.

I never in my post mentioned black or white.

I've had girls touch my face or pull my cheeks but a face push or slap without even speaking a word to her? I guess that's flirting for some black girls then. For me personally, it's just better to walk away.

Post: #5662

Damn someone just sprayed the N-Word on LeBron James' house....

Ah good ol' US of A!

From the article:

"Just shows that racism will always be a part of the world, part of America. Hate in America especially for African-Americans is living every day. It is hidden most days. It is alive every single day. I think back to Emmett Till's mom and the reason she had an open casket, she wanted to show the world what her son went through in terms of a hate crime in America. No matter how much money you have, how famous you are, how much people admire you, being in black in America is tough."

And people keep asking me why I left?

It sure as fuck isn't perfect over here in Germany but at least over here as soon as I speak I am treated as an American first and a black man second.

Post: #5663

^^ I'm right behind you brother. Trying to build my income streams up to support a move abroad. The stress of being black is literally killing us here in the US.

Post: #5664

(05-31-2017 04:48 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  ^^ I'm right behind you brother. Trying to build my income streams up to support a move abroad. The stress of being black is literally killing us here in the US.

I can only imagine. I was driving through the border this past weekend. Immigration officers were waving white families/singles through like they had a express pass. Me on the other hand.....I had to pull over to the side and they spent 25 minutes doing an extensive search of my rental while i watched on. I had to answer a myriad of damned stupid questions as well.

Where would you think of relocating to?

I live in Toronto. Ideally for me is to live some sort of lifestyle that allows me to spend a large portion of winter overseas (preferably in Brazil) somewhere warm for like 3 months from like Jan to March

I'm still scratching my head how to do this.

Post: #5665

Summer getting me aggravated.
Caged up like some lion in a zoo.

All the usual stuff ain't getting me through this.

Restless

WIA

Post: #5666

(05-31-2017 04:36 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  Damn someone just sprayed the N-Word on LeBron James' house....

Ah good ol' US of A!

From the article:

"Just shows that racism will always be a part of the world, part of America. Hate in America especially for African-Americans is living every day. It is hidden most days. It is alive every single day. I think back to Emmett Till's mom and the reason she had an open casket, she wanted to show the world what her son went through in terms of a hate crime in America. No matter how much money you have, how famous you are, how much people admire you, being in black in America is tough."

And people keep asking me why I left?

It sure as fuck isn't perfect over here in Germany but at least over here as soon as I speak I am treated as an American first and a black man second.

I'm tired of the bullshit here as well and I'm putting all pistons on overdrive so I can get the fuck out. Gotta make sacrifices.

It's becoming really bad for my mental health. I might just pop over to Germany to come cool with ya.

Post: #5667

(05-31-2017 06:01 PM)Banna Wrote:  I live in Toronto. Ideally for me is to live some sort of lifestyle that allows me to spend a large portion of winter overseas (preferably in Brazil) somewhere warm for like 3 months from like Jan to March

I'm still scratching my head how to do this.

Do you have Internet business streams goin? I have accomplished the goal of having the American dollar follow me wherever I go and I'd love to have a discussion with black people to share knowledge and help FREE MAH PPL lol

Post: #5668

(05-31-2017 06:45 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Summer getting me aggravated.
Caged up like some lion in a zoo.

All the usual stuff ain't getting me through this.

Restless

WIA

Elaborate more, Mr Archie. Hash it out, bro.

Post: #5669

(06-01-2017 08:18 AM)KrisGLWorldwide Wrote:  

(05-31-2017 06:01 PM)Banna Wrote:  I live in Toronto. Ideally for me is to live some sort of lifestyle that allows me to spend a large portion of winter overseas (preferably in Brazil) somewhere warm for like 3 months from like Jan to March

I'm still scratching my head how to do this.

Do you have Internet business streams goin? I have accomplished the goal of having the American dollar follow me wherever I go and I'd love to have a discussion with black people to share knowledge and help FREE MAH PPL lol

What do you do? i'm very interested in hearing how you accomplished this.

Post: #5670

So are you guys telling me it's better in Europe than the US for a black man?

Post: #5671

^Better in what sense?

Women - hell yeah.

Other stuff is up for debate.

Post: #5672

(05-31-2017 06:59 PM)Il Bersagliere Wrote:  

(05-31-2017 04:36 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  Damn someone just sprayed the N-Word on LeBron James' house....

Ah good ol' US of A!

From the article:

"Just shows that racism will always be a part of the world, part of America. Hate in America especially for African-Americans is living every day. It is hidden most days. It is alive every single day. I think back to Emmett Till's mom and the reason she had an open casket, she wanted to show the world what her son went through in terms of a hate crime in America. No matter how much money you have, how famous you are, how much people admire you, being in black in America is tough."

And people keep asking me why I left?

It sure as fuck isn't perfect over here in Germany but at least over here as soon as I speak I am treated as an American first and a black man second.

I'm tired of the bullshit here as well and I'm putting all pistons on overdrive so I can get the fuck out. Gotta make sacrifices.

It's becoming really bad for my mental health. I might just pop over to Germany to come cool with ya.

Come on down. I have always welcome anyone to come hang out with me here. If anyone comes to visit I can promise a good time.

Can't guarantee you a lay but I will make sure you are at the right place at the right time.

(06-01-2017 10:46 AM)Chowder Head Wrote:  So are you guys telling me it's better in Europe than the US for a black man?

In my opinion it is.

(06-01-2017 10:51 AM)rudebwoy Wrote:  ^Better in what sense?

Women - hell yeah.

Other stuff is up for debate.

For women WITHOUT A DOUBT! I have gamed women in 3 European countries now and all of them beat my experiences in the US.

You should read Fury's posts. Hes a dark skinned brother of average height and is still getting laid in the country known for the tallest girls in Europe. I mean damn!

I am also starting to have success with those women as well.

Life quality and career wise I think the US is better. Not that the life quality and jobs here suck but it is a downgrade from the US. How big of a downgrade depends on where you are from and how much you were earning in the US of course.

Post: #5673

(06-01-2017 10:51 AM)rudebwoy Wrote:  ^Better in what sense?

Women - hell yeah.

Other stuff is up for debate.

What about this notion that in most places you're considered an American (assuming you're from the US) instead of a Black man? Surely this is categorically better than purse clutchers and American Gestapo (read US police) here.

Post: #5674

(06-01-2017 11:23 AM)DimeBait Wrote:  

(06-01-2017 10:51 AM)rudebwoy Wrote:  ^Better in what sense?

Women - hell yeah.

Other stuff is up for debate.

What about this notion that in most places you're considered an American (assuming you're from the US) instead of a Black man? Surely this is categorically better than purse clutchers and American Gestapo (read US police) here.

Hmmm...yeah there is no heavy handed anti-black police sanctioned racism in Europe in my experiences in West, Central and Eastern Europe. The reasons why are complicated and could be it's own thread if you wish or may be better discussed offline.

The short version of it is...there arent that many blacks in Europe, although thats changing throughtout the continent. European cities with long established black populations like Paris and London are not without their issues with the police. A black man was forcebly sodomized by a police officer while in custody, in Paris in 2017!
Paris Police sodomy
A similar event happened in N.Y.C in the mid 2000s.
NYPD brutality

Post: #5675

Guys I'm starting to think that collecting numbers is no longer the move for contacting a woman for a date in nite game...
I was talking to this white glamazon last night and I gave her a piece of paper to right her number on (her cock blockers were on high alert). She wrote down her IG instead. I laughed at her for that shit and she said "its easier to reach me here look at my text messages (140+ unread) I just don't read them anymore."

Thinking about it this morning on several occasions I've had texts get no response but messaging via snapchat will lead to a date. Shit all makes sense now looking back at a lot of failed text messages.