Post: #3301

(04-13-2017 07:18 PM)Naughty By Nature Wrote:  Why are you guys using Tinder rather than approaching IRL? I've yet to meet a single dude who's experienced an iota of success on there. You'll hear of a friend of a friend of a friend of a friend of the mayor of Stillwater, Oklahoma who porked a supermodel on there but 99.99% of guys will tell you it takes hundreds and hundreds (if not thousands) of swipes to get ONE date with a girl who looks like an 8 on the app but is a 3 IRL, if not a full-blown catfish or a tranny or a bot.

Yea, I don't know where you go tthat "rather than" stuff from, guy. I'm thinkin you just made it up, lol. Anyway, back to STRATEGY --

So what I'm hearing is reset works, make sure pictures are good, and start like 1-2 weeks in advance. The thing is, if you're going to reset like every week, then Tinder Plus becomes impossible to use. They have GPS spoofing apps that work just as well, just in case anybody doesn't want to spend that $9.99.

Post: #3302

If you are referring to 1 -2 weeks in advance to "pipelining" its too far out. Girls will lose interest. I found the best to be 4 to 5 days out before you land in the location and not mentioning you are visiting at all.

I have had a few scenarios where girls lose interest or unmatched me when they realized I wasn't sticking around. So just make some shit up.

Post: #3303

I'm with Naughty. I haven't used Tinder or any online dating in years and can get hotter women from cold approach and/or social circle. Online is a fucking joke to me here in LA. I vowed to never waste time getting rejected by uggos and fatties when I could just approach women at the bars, coffee shops, gym etc.

But I also won't hate on what works for other guys. I might consider online if I was traveling overseas but would never use it in the US unless my Instagram game was on point and set up to reflect high status and pretty much tailored for it.

Whatever works for y'all keep doing it.

Post: #3304

I've been using online dating in Manila, and I don't think I can go back to using it in America. Having to reset my profile every few days just to match with a few decent looking girls is such a pain in the ass.

Post: #3305

(04-13-2017 07:54 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  

(04-13-2017 05:24 PM)Fury Wrote:  I'm getting bored of Western Europe and have considered Milan, Italy as one of the destinations to pursue my MBA. Has anyone been there recently? If so, how did you like it?

(Hearsay) I heard that Italy is not good for brothers and very very very social circle dependent and you are better off going somewhere else. (/hearsay)

You do have a point on Western Europe getting boring.

Not to split hairs but Italy especially the extreme Northern part like Milan is still Western Europe. I agree though, Western Europe is boring compared to Eastern Europe. I havent spent any real time in Milan but I was in Italy this year and from a game perspective things seemed pretty rough.

The average Italian girl looked worse than the average Italian american girl for comparison's sake. Italian dudes were dating down with almost no exception. Local dudes are on the shorter side but have their fashion game at the highest levels, are very outgoing and deep into their social circles. They still struggle and there is a serious m/f demographic imbalance, so guys are thirsty and will approach anything. Outside of the tourist industry Italian English levels are very low.

Im not trying to dissuade you, just giving you a picture of the Italian dating scene. Milan is the easiest Italian city to score...if you can consider any Italian city easy. Obviously the black(american/candian/british)factor may help but there are quite a lot of poor African immigrants in every Italian city, even more so in the North where all the money is. Italians have proven themselves to be less p.c. to this group than some of the other Western Euro countries as they are literally arriving by the boatload on their Mediterranean coast and islands.

Post: #3306

(04-14-2017 04:17 AM)azulsombra Wrote:  

(04-13-2017 07:54 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  

(04-13-2017 05:24 PM)Fury Wrote:  I'm getting bored of Western Europe and have considered Milan, Italy as one of the destinations to pursue my MBA. Has anyone been there recently? If so, how did you like it?

(Hearsay) I heard that Italy is not good for brothers and very very very social circle dependent and you are better off going somewhere else. (/hearsay)

You do have a point on Western Europe getting boring.

Not to split hairs but Italy especially the extreme Northern part like Milan is still Western Europe. I agree though, Western Europe is boring compared to Eastern Europe. I havent spent any real time in Milan but I was in Italy this year and from a game perspective things seemed pretty rough.

The average Italian girl looked worse than the average Italian american girl for comparison's sake. Italian dudes were dating down with almost no exception. Local dudes are on the shorter side but have their fashion game at the highest levels, are very outgoing and deep into their social circles. They still struggle and there is a serious m/f demographic imbalance, so guys are thirsty and will approach anything. Outside of the tourist industry Italian English levels are very low.

Im not trying to dissuade you, just giving you a picture of the Italian dating scene. Milan is the easiest Italian city to score...if you can consider any Italian city easy. Obviously the black(american/candian/british)factor may help but there are quite a lot of poor African immigrants in every Italian city, even more so in the North where all the money is. Italians have proven themselves to be less p.c. to this group than some of the other Western Euro countries as they are literally arriving by the boatload on their Mediterranean coast and islands.

I'm not black, but...

I'm kidding. Melinated and loving it. But I'm definitely going to be trying Eastern Europe first. I have been to Tenerife, and the girls there were very receptive to me (a good looking, tall, light skinned guy with 0 game) This was before I ever discovered Tinder. I was getting a great reception at the bar my local friends took me to from great looking blondes. One even opened me - a 5'9" stunner who was a songwriter. Tenerife locals are also very nice in general.

Post: #3307

Kirdiesel, KrisGL, and azulsombra,

Thanks for the replies gents. I appreciate the various perspectives. Although studying in Milan may not be a far departure from living in Western Europe, it is still a welcome change. I now going to Eastern Europe would be better but I am looking to get my MBA and then work in Europe. Unfortunately, I just didn't find any respectable MBA programs I liked in EE.

I've heard that Italy can be tough to game, especially so for me since I'm very dark skinned. I imagine I would be seen as an African immigrant. I was in Italy last summer and my only lay was a Swedish girl (although I didn't really game at all). I haven't been to Milan so I'm not sure if I would fare better there.

What's funny is I've done quite well with Italian girls recently, however I met them all outside of Italy. I think I read somewhere here that Italian girls are quite closed but open up when they are away from the homeland.

In Ibiza last summer I met a couple Italians girls who were both keen. The first one opened me but she didn't speak a word of English so it didn't go far. The second one was from night game and led to a lay.

I'll most likely make a quick stop to Milan this summer to check it out and see how I feel.

Post: #3308

I'm not trying to dissuade you at all but there's a couple thing to keep in mind:

1. When in Italy you will most likely be written off as an African immigrant/refugee which could be detrimental to getting inside nightclubs/bars and even approaching girls. (But I think you are aware of that). You'll have to be constantly proving who you are. (Like i have to do here to some extent)

2. DO NOT compare experiences with girls in-country and out of country. I have found that these are two different personalities within the same person. I learned that German girls in NYC were not the same German girls that ive been meeting here. I was fucking dumbfounded! EVEN IF you meet them again here they dont act the same as they did when they were out of country.

I even noticed this trend with American girls that I meet here. Everyone knows that American girls abroad are easier than American girls in America. All in a sudden now we are in Germany together now you are feeling me? Yeah right. Ive almost gone 3 for 3 on the American girls that Ive had a date with here. Those numbers are unattainable at home.

If they are anything like German girls...When these Italian girls are around Italian men, family and friends you are gonna see a whole nother side of these lizards you didn't think existed.

Thats just my guess.

Check it and do your research! When I move from here. I am moving to a place of better standing and not lower.. thats for motherfuckin sure!

Post: #3309

Kirdiesel raises a great point.

These females exhibit different behavior when they get outside their country. I smashed my first Italian girl last year and it was beyond easy but this was outside of Italy. Same with my first Spanish Catalan girl, super easy and down for the D but we didnt meet in Spain.

By the way Fury, how is your Spanish? I gamed the Italian and the Spanish girl using only Spanish...their English was beyond bad.

Post: #3310

I have a couple of questions about black men in Eastern Europe:

1. "hip hop spots"
2. army guys

Brothers only, please. Thanks.

1. Do you guys have to go to "hip hop spots" in Eastern European countries because you can't get in/racism at so called "high level" clubs?

2. All of the crazy stories on this forum seem to be associated with army guys. I'm not in the army. How much of your Eastern European success is based on the uniform?

Post: #3311

Azul, Kirdiesel,

I totally agree with you guys on how people interact in their home country as opposed to when they are traveling abroad, I actually mentioned in my original post. I wonder how pronounced that would be in a metropolitan city such as Milan... Maybe since it is more international, they wouldn't be as apprehensive towards dating a black man. Either way, I don't know if I will study in Milan but I am still interested in visiting.

I don't speak Spanish so no luck in that department. The first Italian that approached me at the beach did not speak a word of English so it was slightly difficult trying to set up something with her. Honestly though, Google Translate works wonders in that regard. If logistics were better, I could have got her back to my villa but she was with a group and group planning can be quite complicated.




@KrisGL,

I don't visit EE frequently enough to have go to hip hop spots so I can't answer your question exactly. However, whenever I am somewhere I usually just search a hip hop spot and just rock up to the place to check it out. To be honest, I have never faced any racism at the door of clubs in EE. I went to some good clubs but not any "high end" places, so I can't speak on how we are treated in those clubs. It usually boils down to how you present yourself, if you come correct, you can get into most places. I was in Stockholm (notorious for face control) and I did notice that it is difficult to get into the higher end places one night. The next night I wore fancier clothes and really nice shoes and noticed they were more lenient at the door because I presented myself better.

It's not about the uniform itself. It's more that military guys tend to travel more than most since we are usually sent all over the world, plus we have steady income. If you measuring success in EE based on the experiences of Black members on this forum, remember that brothas don't really travel much. So when you see one travelling abroad off the beaten path, it's almost safe to assume they are more than likely affiliated with the military.

So I wouldn't say its the physical uniform itself (although it can be an interesting conversation topic), especially since we don't wear it when we go out. It's just that we travel more than most, plus there are some bases in the region so it is easier to get around due to proximity.

Post: #3312

(04-16-2017 10:31 AM)KrisGLWorldwide Wrote:  I have a couple of questions about black men in Eastern Europe:

1. "hip hop spots"
2. army guys

Brothers only, please. Thanks.

1. Do you guys have to go to "hip hop spots" in Eastern European countries because you can't get in/racism at so called "high level" clubs?

2. All of the crazy stories on this forum seem to be associated with army guys. I'm not in the army. How much of your Eastern European success is based on the uniform?

I can only speak for Germany and Belgium (I know its not EE but more info out there the better)

Germany has a problem with racism at the door if you are going outside of the hip hop clubs or "alternative" areas. I have so far not had too much of a problem in Belgium but I was suited up at the "high end" spot I went to in Belgium and that always gets me in anywhere.

I have met 1 Army guy in the 6.5 years I have been here and the base is only a few hours away but for some reason they never seem to venture out of their area and come north to where I am.

So no idea what effect the Uniform would have but I am betting they would destroy if they did wear it out. (at least in my area)

Post: #3313

(04-16-2017 11:40 AM)Fury Wrote:  Azul, Kirdiesel,

I totally agree with you guys on how people interact in their home country as opposed to when they are traveling abroad, I actually mentioned in my original post. I wonder how pronounced that would be in a metropolitan city such as Milan... Maybe since it is more international, they wouldn't be as apprehensive towards dating a black man. Either way, I don't know if I will study in Milan but I am still interested in visiting.

I don't speak Spanish so no luck in that department. The first Italian that approached me at the beach did not speak a word of English so it was slightly difficult trying to set up something with her. Honestly though, Google Translate works wonders in that regard. If logistics were better, I could have got her back to my villa but she was with a group and group planning can be quite complicated.

I mean I am in a pretty big city Milan is 1.1 mil and Cologne is 1 mil and theres lots of black guys here and barely anyone is doing well or killing it even. From what i hear theres more resentment from Italians against immigrants than with Germans.. Sounds like a recipe for disaster to me.

I will be very much looking forward to this report.

BTW I am planning to be in your area again from April 28th to May 1st. Its looking like Antwerp again but I haven't pulled the trigger on booking the Airbnb. Maybe I will commit to it tonight.

Post: #3314

My good friend, African but dresses very well.

He was in Milan last year, he pulled two young hotties in a threesome and they followed him to Ibiza to party.

There is another city in Italy that he raves about, I don't want to mention it yet.

He has tight game and a serious IDGAF attitude.

So some black guys make it work.

Post: #3315

1st off Army guys aren't allowed to wear there uniform off base in Germany unless on missions or driving home.

2ndly, Rudeboy stop with the hearsay it's annoying.

3rdly, just got back from my second trip to Budapest in the past few months. If you're black and aren't afraid of the initial harsh attitudes of Hungarian women it's a pussy paradise without a doubt. 2 Lays in 4 nights, all night game. Skip the tourist spots and just hit the Hungarian main clubs while exhibiting a good vibe and style.

Post: #3316

Its Rudebwoy not Rudeboy.

Is it hearsay if I have seen the pics and the videos.

Hungarian gals are pretty down for the black men, I dealt with a few in the UK and I have been to Budapest a few times. I think it is a bit over-rated for women, the city is beautiful and has a certain charm.

I have a young Hungarian coming to Canada this summer to visit me, not bad for a first date meeting.

Post: #3317

I think its hearsay if you dont have get data yourself. I only report directly on what I know, experienced and seen with my own two eyes.

Before I started posting there was so much BS about Germany here it was unreal. Its one of the things that prompted me to write my datasheet.

I think everyone is tired of the "my boy Akiwande visited XYZ city and slayed mad ass and black guys kill it out there y0" posts.

Anyone can show you what you want to see.

Post: #3318

Ok, no more hearsay and I will only report on my experiences.

Europe is way easier than North America, that has been my experience.

If it weren't for my comfortable lifestyle in Canada, I would probably move back seeing I have a EU passport.

Who knows, I may change my mind

Post: #3319

I've been to Milan and I had s good time, there's always tourist chicks around looking to have a good time. Italian women aren't an easy nut to crack in Italy but if you catch them outside of their home turf it's a completely different ball game as previously mentioned in the thread. Italians over all are prejudice as fuck more so than a lot of other places in Europe, so getting into clubs etc isn't so easy not matter how well you dress if you're black. Hell getting into a shoe store can be a problem at times they don't care where you're from, or how much money you have to spend. A lot just don't want you there if you're black, definitely worst than any EE country I've personally visited atleast in my experiencez

Post: #3320

(04-17-2017 03:12 PM)ElJefe1 Wrote:  I've been to Milan and I had s good time, there's always tourist chicks around looking to have a good time. Italian women aren't an easy nut to crack in Italy but if you catch them outside of their home turf it's a completely different ball game as previously mentioned in the thread. Italians over all are prejudice as fuck more so than a lot of other places in Europe, so getting into clubs etc isn't so easy not matter how well you dress if you're black. Hell getting into a shoe store can be a problem at times they don't care where you're from, or how much money you have to spend. A lot just don't want you there if you're black, definitely worst than any EE country I've personally visited atleast in my experiencez

This is the right way to report!

Thanks Jefe

Post: #3321

My ticket buying day draws near. I'm still in love with this entire thread...I keep reading it for info.

Is there any updated info on Latvia for black guys? I thought I saw one post, but it was like a few years old. Things change with politics. Any brothers got any info on Latvia for a black tourist?

Just to be sure...Brothers only, please. Thanks. I should make that "I'm not black, but..." thing my sig... LULZ

UPDATE: I just found a Stormfront post where the user Icepinkgirl was "making it his business" to tell black people that Latvia was a crappy place to visit. So yea, I DEFINITELY only want the opinions of brothers who know the area.
https://www.blockedurl.org/forum/t1137534/

Post: #3322

@Rudebwoy seems you know your shit bro,what European countries do black guys get the most play? Bear in mind im a 20yr old 6'2 dude in excellent shape with slightly above average looks and rookie game. Where would you suggest to go where I can improve my game and bang hunnies with (relative) ease in (relative) safety. Time and funds aren't really a constraint......

Post: #3323

I think stormfront is pretty much a site where no-pussy-getting skinheads gather and complain about how non whites are banging all "their" girls.
I personally avoid the site but for some reason whenever I google: "how to bang........girls" stormfront is on the first page of my results. Lol

Post: #3324

Why would anyone concern themselves with stormfront!!!

Post: #3325

(04-22-2017 03:59 PM)raynman Wrote:  @Rudebwoy seems you know your shit bro,what European countries do black guys get the most play? Bear in mind im a 20yr old 6'2 dude in excellent shape with slightly above average looks and rookie game. Where would you suggest to go where I can improve my game and bang hunnies with (relative) ease in (relative) safety. Time and funds aren't really a constraint......

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