One advantage of the MRAs and MGTOWs is that they're perhaps the only part of the manosphere that doesn't shit on divorced men.
Divorced guys go through the wringer thrice. First they have to deal with the shock of the divorce itself (a situation that their blue pill conditioning did not prepare them for). Then they deal with the fact that feminist-influenced society blames it all on them and sides with the woman (which usually severely fucks with their heads, because they reason, based on what everyone is telling them, (1) this was a good woman; (2) a good woman doesn't dump her husband and break up the family without good reason; (3) therefore, since she dumped me and broke up the family, I must have done something very wrong). Then when they finally do come into a knowledge of the truth, they find the manosphere too thinks that they're beta, whiny, and at fault for the breakup.* ** ***
Well, we know this much -- women who hit the wall and then go looking for a beta know damn well that he's beta. That's the whole point of choosing him. They're looking for a guy who's bluepilled enough to accept a post-carousel, post-wall woman. Then they marry him, and dump him and take the kids; and with the help of society and his own bluepill conditioning, also mindfuck him into getting distraught about what happened, so he can be further manipulated.
How is she in the right, though, if she picks him for being beta (because that's what makes him willing to make a life commitment to her), and then dumps him for being beta? How is society in the right for supporting her decision in doing that? How are red pillers in the right for saying, "You should've taken your cues on how to act from this obscure Internet community of men who are regarded as misogynists by most of those who have even heard of them; rather than from what family, friends, church, school, and countless other cultural influences etc. taught you about what was the proper way to deal with women"?
How are men supposed to know not to be bluepill? Everything they see around them is explained away by the blue pill. Oh, the divorce rate is high? To the blue piller, that's just because those husbands were assholes, or because those women weren't SPECIAL women, like the woman who has just declared her love for him and is ready to walk down the aisle with him. The blue piller's mom probably told him, "I left your father because he wasn't kind and respectful enough. Yeah, some young women go for assholes who try to act dominant, but they're going to leave those men once they get older and smarter. QUALITY women know a good man when they see one, so just be your sweet and loving self and you'll eventually meet The One and have a happy marriage!"
Why wouldn't he believe her? It sounds totally logical. If you want wisdom about what women want, why wouldn't you ask the female friends, relatives, etc. in your life? Plus there are plenty of men out there who say stuff like, "Hey man, my philosophy is happy wife, happy life!" So from the perspective of the average guy, society seems to be unanimously bluepill, aside from a few Internet shitlords who get written off as being rapists, virgins, abusers, cads, etc.
How could this grand civilization, including one's own social and familial circle, propagate a lie without being corrected somehow? It seems nonsensical. There are too many checks and balances for that to happen. We have the press, we have NGOs, we have the universities. If feminism were wrong, someone would've sounded the alarm, right? Don't the authors at AskMen.com practice blue pill principles in their relationships and verify that the results are good? HOW COULD THEY BE WRONG??!! WHAT DO YOU MEAN, THAT WAS JUST TO ATTRACT CLICKS AND SELL MAGAZINES??!!
The fairy tales, the movies, the schools, the media, etc. drum into our heads from a very early age, "Don't listen to the bad boys who will lead you to astray. Listen to authority figures, like your mom, teachers, major newspapers, the President, etc. Unless of course the President is a shitlord who only got elected because Hillary didn't run an effective campaign; then don't listen to him."
The result is that men don't discover the truth except through experimentation. The bad boys who refuse to patiently wait for women their age to hit the wall and want to marry them, and instead become "players," learn firsthand about the nature of women. The men who pat themselves on the back throughout their 20s about what good boys they're being by remaining virginal, and then wife up a post-carousel woman thinking they've just mated for life and set up their kids to grow up in a stable household, learn the hard way, and are left to wonder, "Hey wait, I thought my piano teacher said that Every Good Boy Does Fine? What happened??"
If you were a bad boy and didn't do what society told you, and therefore avoided getting played, does that make you superior? Only because we're in degenerate times.
I guess people say, "Oh, you can be an alpha provider and thereby get a woman to stick by you, and have a successful marriage." That's probably true. Society isn't really set up in a way that makes it all that easy to become alpha, though. This is mostly an Internet-based community; most of us don't have red pill friends we can hang out with in real life, who would say, "Okay, let me teach you more specifically how to be a man." For many of us, there's a lack of good male role models to follow.
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* The manosphere doesn't seem to have reached consensus on whether betas are to be considered the hard-working backbone of society who need to be accommodated and protected by pro-monogamy laws and cultural expectations; or pathetic losers who deserve their fate.
** The manosphere also doesn't seem to have reached consensus on whether EVERY man can become alpha, or whether some betas are that way because it's just part of their personality that isn't very susceptible to a dramatic change.
*** The manosphere also doesn't seem to have reached consensus on whether (1) individual men are at fault for what the women in their lives do; (2) women are at fault for what they do to their husbands and children; or (3) society is at fault for what it lets women get away with.