Post: #1

I share an apartment with three guys down the road from my school. I was originally supposed to just share with them, but then two of my roommates girlfriends have pretty much moved in with us, so now it's more like 5 roommates. We all are pretty much friends, and I'm not scared of them intentionally cockblocking me, but I am concerned it may make things harder if I bring a girl back (she may get extra anti slut defence, because of other people being around, especially other girls). Have any of you found this to be the case, or am I worrying too much? It's too much to ask that they ALL make themselves scarce, all though I'm sure they would hang out in their rooms mostly.

Post: #2

It can serve as a problem, nastier lizards like privacy to operate. However, every circumstance is different and you won't know until you try. Keep us posted.

Post: #3

Gotcha, thanks.

Post: #4

Depends on your age, etc. If your a college kid having a roommate probably isn't an issue. If your post college, have a real job, etc. Get your own damn place.

Post: #5

I've never had a problem with housemates at my place, but I have when it was at a girls, obviously they don't want to be judged by them especially if they're not good friends. One time I drove a girl back to hers at the end of the night and she wouldn't let me in even though she wanted to because she was living with 5 other chicks. So she sucked me off in my backseat instead. Tried to nail her there but she wasn't happy with a backseat, it didn't help she was really tall.

Maybe don't mention at first that their girlfriend's moved in, and don't let girls run into them at the house before you smash. Young girls are perfectly used to fucking guys with roommates. You just have to keep it out of sight out of mind.

Post: #6

I had a roommate end an LTR with my ex and me. She didn't get good vibes from me and my arguments with my ex and blackballed me from the house.

Post: #7

Depends on the roommate. I've had a few in college and some are more ok with the fucking around in the room than others.

Post: #8

Only issue I've had with roommates is when the girls start getting to know each other, it makes it more difficult to continuously bring new ones into the mix (read: "spin plates") unless they all know the deal.

Post: #9

I don't know if it's ego or what, but nowadays unless you own your own baller bachelor pad in a great logistical area, it's almost always a better option to go to the chick's place than your place. If you consider your logistics to be bad then I can guarantee her logistics are almost always going to be better.

I own my own place and I still don't want to bring girls I don't know well back to it! Have you tried pulling girls to their own place? It's not hard!

IMO your own place should be an option of last resort, not of first resort.

Do I need to write a "bad logistics" datasheet? It might help...

Post: #10

Way easier to fuck a girl at her house, almost always.

Post: #11

Why did you let your roommates move their girlfriends in with you without a discussion?

Sounds to me like you should be living nearly rent-free and/or the girls should be cleaning the whole place/cooking/etc to pay their share.

You're now living with DOUBLE the amount of people you agreed to.

As for girls, talk to your roommates, tell them that you didn't agree to their gf's moving in, but you'll be bringing girls around and it won't be cool if their gf's cause problems. They need to be the cock helpers, not the cock blockers.

Post: #12

(01-18-2017 12:44 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:  I don't know if it's ego or what, but nowadays unless you own your own baller bachelor pad in a great logistical area, it's almost always a better option to go to the chick's place than your place. If you consider your logistics to be bad then I can guarantee her logistics are almost always going to be better.

I own my own place and I still don't want to bring girls I don't know well back to it! Have you tried pulling girls to their own place? It's not hard!

IMO your own place should be an option of last resort, not of first resort.

Do I need to write a "bad logistics" datasheet? It might help...

It is harder to convince a girl to go back to hers at the end of the 1st date then to make up some excuse to bring her to yours instead. Not impossible for sure I've done it many times while living with bad logistics, but it's making things unnecessarily more difficult for you if you have your own place.

Better to take her to yours and have a nice atmosphere ready to go. Dim lights, mood music, red wine... At your place you have complete control to create a setting conductive to seduction.

Post: #13

(01-18-2017 06:54 AM)Deluge Wrote:  

(01-18-2017 12:44 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:  I don't know if it's ego or what, but nowadays unless you own your own baller bachelor pad in a great logistical area, it's almost always a better option to go to the chick's place than your place. If you consider your logistics to be bad then I can guarantee her logistics are almost always going to be better.

I own my own place and I still don't want to bring girls I don't know well back to it! Have you tried pulling girls to their own place? It's not hard!

IMO your own place should be an option of last resort, not of first resort.

Do I need to write a "bad logistics" datasheet? It might help...

It is harder to convince a girl to go back to hers at the end of the 1st date then to make up some excuse to bring her to yours instead. Not impossible for sure I've done it many times while living with bad logistics, but it's making things unnecessarily more difficult for you if you have your own place.

Better to take her to yours and have a nice atmosphere ready to go. Dim lights, mood music, red wine... At your place you have complete control to create a setting conductive to seduction.

I'm with Deluge.

And to be honest I don't get your point XPQ - why wouldn't you want to bring the chick to your spot? To retain anonimity? To not have a crazy bitch know your place?

Pulling girls to your spot is easier because you can control more variables. Set the date to take place nearby, walk or drive towards your place with her until suddenly "Oh, my crib is just around the corner". If you are doing it right, is should be cheaper and easier than going to the girl's spot.

If you go to the girl's, you don't know the vibe, you don't know if she has roommates or family, if it's far away, if her place is a shithole, and so on.

I have a flatmate but I always tell him ahead of time (either a few days before if I have a date or just a quick SMS if I'm dragging a girl home) and he never gets in the way. Although I would much prefer to live by myself, it sometimes actually helps that he's on the living room or asleep in his room, because then I have a great excuse to take the chick straight to the bedroom.

The only downside of bringing them over is finding a way to kick them out when you're done.

Post: #14

Thanks for the responses guys. I kind of assumed I would at least initially be asking girls to come back to my place, since I feel like going back to theirs would be harder.

Post: #15

My logistics right now is pretty bad. So I usually always go back to the girls place. I have access to a car so I always let them know I'll pick them up. Then weasel myself into their place at the end of the night