Post: #26

More travel and meeting foreign women.

Aside from that, less focus on getting notches and more focus on simply spending quality time with attractive women I enjoy.

Changing up my lifestyle and financial situation to allow more freedom.

Post: #27

My major goals in 2017 have little to do with women lol. 2016 kicked my fucking ass I need to regroup by January, have a strategy, and exercise my tactics.

I need a consistent fuck buddy or a girlfriend for the first half of 2016. I don't wanna waste time chasing pussy.

As far as game goes though I'm feeling better than ever. Ever since I turned 25 my confidence and trust in myself has increased. In the redpill community they say women hit the wall in their late 20s and early 30s.

Well in my opinion the MALE wall is any male below the age of 25. I feel like an actual "man" if that makes sense. The years in the gym, the life experience, the ability to grow a full beard, and the hundreds of approaches and nights out have culminated into something beautiful. I can go out on any given weekend and just walk down the street from my apartment to a local bar/club and have a chance of taking a girl home. I've spit game at two 9s (I don't believe in dimes) and one of which I fucked in addition to the other 4-5 chicks I've banged during the year.

I recently started my career, I'm a military veteran as of a week ago, and I started my career 2 months ago in my desired industry/field so I'm pretty much taking steps towards how I see myself in the future. I still stumble a lot but I'm slowly heading in the right direction.

My goals for next year

-Kick ass at work (sales so the better I do the more money I make)
-Finish my bachelor's (I have like 20 or 24 units left)
-Get out of debt
-Start an online business

I'm already buff as fuck from 5 years of natural bodybuilding and I have pretty good style so it's interesting to be almost "maxed out" for my physical SMV. Only thing now is to build up my lifestyle and I'll soon be in my golden age of pussy.

I wanna get a girlfriend or a super down fuck buddy next year cuz I wanna focus on school and work. Also I've never had a real relationship even though I'm 25 with 30+ notches.

Post: #28

2016 was a good year for me but. . . there are a few things I should've done differently.

For 2017 my goals would be:

- Get closer to finishing my degree (19 credits left).
- Spend more time traveling, I need to see more of the world.
- Worry less about women and more about where my life will be in ten years.
- Commit to more gym time and quit being so damn lazy.
- Clean the bed of my truck out. Seriously. It's been a mess since 2015.

I'm more than sure 2017 will be a good year for me.

Post: #29

I'm new here and I just started to play the game, I'm just 18 so I'm not really freaking out about LTR and I want to focus this year in my military career and studies.
-My expectation to girls is to bang at least 40 this year and built a friendship with some after the bang.
-My body is fairly normal and I'm doing my best to create that fitness aspect by the end of the year
-I have a problem of anxiety,I need to control my mind better,not for the women but everytime I do something unusual I start to sweat (if anyone has any tips on how to control that I would be grateful btw)
-AAAAAND hopefully make some friends in this forum,but first I want to make some stories to share with you guys (I barely started,just banged 4 girls)

Post: #30

(12-21-2015 08:43 AM)redbeard Wrote:  As of Thanksgiving, I hit my 2015 goal = 12 notches.

I'm renewing the goal for 2016.

One new girl per month strikes strong balance between game/fitness/hustle.

2015 I ended up getting 13 bangs which was cool. For 2016, I'm only at 11 notches. I'm fairly confident I'll round the bases before the end of the year, so I will be renewing my goal of 12 girls/year.

I'm telling you, this is the best rate for new pussy. It keeps you motivated to stay in the game and stay approaching, but not so much that it interferes with your life. April to July I had some medical issues and wasn't going out at all. I only banged a FWB I had, yet once I had my issue resolved and my bankroll right, I could go out, have fun, and play catch-up.

My game focus for 2016 was to bang hotter girls. I definitely accomplished that, but like MikeCF says, "the work is never done." Once I started getting hotter women, I became bored with their behavior or personality.

WIA broke it down in a thread that he rates women on the 40 scale: 10 body, 10 face, 10 personality, 10 behavior. The few gorgeous women I banged this year were higher on the body/face scale, but LOWER on the personality/behavior scale. I've found that I often prefer banging cute girls who are enjoyable, well-behaved, and fuck like rabbits, over hot girls who are annoying.

So my goal for 2017 is to take it to another level...stay on the grind, stay expanding, and always chasing new tail. I think I've reached the pussy ceiling with my current lifestyle, so to break into the next level I'll have to escape corporate hell. The hustle continues...

EDIT: WestCoast post I always enjoy

(03-20-2014 03:54 PM)WestCoast Wrote:  As I noted I took game "seriously" one year and got in the 30s. I also had a chick on the side "LTR game" or whatever you want to call it.

That was the dumbest mistake of my life. Too much time wasted, I'll never get it back.

Post: #31

If I can get one bang i'll be happy as a sandboy!

Post: #32

Oh so many big plans for 2017... As for girls though, I just pretty much want to bang as many hot ones as possible, without them taking up too much of my valuable time. Simple as that, no bells and whistles.

Post: #33

(12-04-2016 03:29 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  1. Get my high-quality harem up to 6
2. Weed out the 2 least fun/hot
3. Repeat for 12 months.

4. Take plate 1 to Miami next month.
5. Take plate 2 to Vegas following month.
6. Take girls 3 or 4 or 5 or new girls to Miami in the spring. Or ask 3 to 5 girls to come at the same time. With my miles it's free anyway. [yeah, 5 is too many though]

All plates are bisexual/bi-curious which is why they get to come. And superfun to be with.

Post: #34

(12-13-2016 06:43 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  

(12-04-2016 03:29 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  1. Get my high-quality harem up to 6
2. Weed out the 2 least fun/hot
3. Repeat for 12 months.

4. Take plate 1 to Miami next month.
5. Take plate 2 to Vegas following month.
6. Take girls 3 or 4 or 5 or new girls to Miami in the spring. Or ask 3 to 5 girls to come at the same time. With my miles it's free anyway. [yeah, 5 is too many though]

All plates are bisexual/bi-curious which is why they get to come. And superfun to be with.

Donny pimping through 2017:

Post: #35

1. Get 1 asian flag
2. Get 1 western flag
3. Get at least 4 notches
4. Get to 9% body fat
5. Finish college

It's not a lot for the standards of this forum, but then again I was not approaching any girl less than one year ago. Just recently I'm getting over approach anxiety and becoming an approach machine, so I'm expecting a lot of improvement in my game in 2017.

Post: #36

My goal was to bang 1 woman for free this year. Almost managed to have had that happen but was having erection problems. Managed to get a blowjob though for free, but no bang. It’s an improvement despite the many hookers I’ve banged over the past decade. So my goal remains the same for next year as well. Bang 1 woman for free. Of course, I’d love many more and a real high genuine notch count. But I have to start with the basics at this point. You’d think at age 30 this would have been done, but nope. Oh well, I suppose I have my whole life to sleep around still and improve.

Post: #37

(12-15-2016 03:13 PM)Atavistic Wrote:  My goal was to bang 1 woman for free this year. Almost managed to have had that happen but was having erection problems. Managed to get a blowjob though for free, but no bang. It’s an improvement despite the many hookers I’ve banged over the past decade. So my goal remains the same for next year as well. Bang 1 woman for free. Of course, I’d love many more and a real high genuine notch count. But I have to start with the basics at this point. You’d think at age 30 this would have been done, but nope. Oh well, I suppose I have my whole life to sleep around still and improve.

Good luck! We're in a similar boat!

Similar age. I did manage to get one bang this year, but i've made hundreds and hundreds of approaches. I've read all the books and am putting in the practice, so other than expensive 'coaching' there's not much more I can do but carry on!

All of my friends get laid all the time, but only from tinder. Never ever cold approach.

Like you, my goal it to get 1 bang for free next year, too!!

Post: #38

(12-15-2016 04:31 PM)subterfuge Wrote:  Good luck! We're in a similar boat!

Similar age. I did manage to get one bang this year, but i've made hundreds and hundreds of approaches. I've read all the books and am putting in the practice, so other than expensive 'coaching' there's not much more I can do but carry on!

All of my friends get laid all the time, but only from tinder. Never ever cold approach.

Like you, my goal it to get 1 bang for free next year, too!!

I am here with you guys. I have made 30+ approaches in the last 4 weeks.

I guess my thing is get one through day game. I have been successful abroad with going to bars, and social circle. But I have been approaching at malls and book stores. I have gotten one number with a 5. Date is on Monday, will see if I can make it happen before the new year.

Post: #39

Not all of this is game related but I'd like to post to this thread anyway.

2016 was a major turning point in my life. I've been shy, lacked confidence, and never took the steps I knew I needed to take to change my life for pretty much all my life. That's not to say I've ever been depressed or that I've been wholly dissatisfied with life, it's to say I've been coasting for a good long while and I finally got fed up with it.

I first heard of Roosh way back when from Slubu's article: http://www.returnofkings.com/16728/russi...ll-whores. I'm pretty sure I was looking up Russian porn or something like that, ha. A little while later, I saw Roosh's interview with Slubu that linked to RVF and I've been lurking ever since. For a bit over 3 years I've read Roosh and others like Mike Cernovich, Quintus, and religiously read the forum.

I've had all the information for those 3 yeras, I've had all the knowledge and stories laid out in front of me on a platter, but I never truly acted. I never took any goddamn risk to start the road onto what I truly wanted. In some ways, I felt I was reading these things so I must have been doing something right. And it's not like I was a failure or anything, I got into a good college, I was recruited to play college ball, and I had a good family life.

But, like I'm sure someone reading this might have felt at some point in their life, I always knew I was never truly doing my best, I was never allowing myself to be rejected, and I could be so much better if I all did was fucking act. My relationships with others were not as deep as I wanted them to be, I was nowhere near where I wanted to be with girls, and I felt lonely. I was living in quiet desperation.

This fall, at 19 years old, I broke up with my girlfriend, my first one. It fucking wrecked me. Though I knew it was the right choice, I was an emotional mess and I felt like the rug had been ripped out from under me. I routinely laid down on my bed and cried all while carrying myself like half of my family died. My whole identity I had formed around myself had been shattered and I needed to do something or I would drown in my own wallowing. I needed a total reevaluation of my life in order figure out my own identity.

2 weeks in, I decided enough was enough: I started the path to figuring out what the fuck I could accomplish and to see what the hell I was made of. I read like a madman. I targeted the biggest obstacle I've had my whole life: my shyness and how I talked with others. And what I soon learned was the key to opening that potential you have inside of yourself, was to get past your own mental blocks and barriers.

I read: How to Make Friends and Influence Others, Gorilla Mindset, What Every-Body is Saying, and The Charisma Myth. But good lord what I did most of all was act. I took what I read and did the best I could to apply it in my life. What happened is something that can never be taken back from me because its become a part of who I am.

After 1 month's time, my relationships changed: I was an active participant in the groups I was in, people sought me out, my ties grew with everyone I knew, and most of all I was having fun. I was enjoying the challenge of life. My god it was wonderful. Two of the supremely emerging themes that came out of my success were this: living in the moment and gaining a genuine interest in the lives of others. I'm gonna post more about this soon.

I grinded and grinded and just tried to experience life. As the days went on I learned more and more that there isn't a single fucking secret on this earth. Experience and action reign true above all information and thought. You've got to live it to be it.

But I hit a speedbump. In the back of the mind, my breakup loomed over me and didn't allow me to reach true peace of mind. So I came to a conclusion after some more wallowing that popped up after the greatest win of the 21st century on November 8th. I allowed myself to let go of her and I allowed myself to move on. And I also thought to myself: if I'm gonna live, why in the hell would I live life feeling sorry for myself and sitting in quiet desperation? In 5 years I'll be 24, will I be a man with what I want? Or will I be the man who waited for the "right" moment like I've been doing for the past three years?

Some words Ed Latimore (if you don't follow him on Twitter you should) said struck a cord with me: It's one thing to not care about what others think, it's another to know they were never thinking about you in the first place. Another phrase I read somewhere online that's part of Mike's Gorilla Mindset book and A Guide to Rational Living (which I've yet to finish): There is no good or bad, only thinking that makes it so. I've been more comfortable with myself than I've ever been with those two ideas in mind.

But so much remains and I'm so excited to see what else I can do. Especially in respect to girls (I haven't had sex with any girls after my breakup). I really needed to figure out who I was before diving head on into the dating/hookup scene. I know the base I've laid will pay dividends, but only once I act. And so help me God, I will succeed.

Sorry for the book but I've always wanted to write this out. I want to thank each and every last one of you on this forum. I do not know where I'd be without you. My goal is to give back to the place that's given me so much.

Because I've almost completely ignored this thread's purpose in the first part of my post, my 'game' goals for 2017:
- Get with 5 girls
- Take action consistently and get some experience
- Get outside of my comfort zone

Post: #40

#1 Asian flag
#2 Another Jewish flag
#3 Bang a girl in NYC
#4 Convince a plate to have a 3-some with a girl she picks.

If I accomplish one or two of these I will be very happy.

I know at least one Jewish girl was into my VIKING TECHNOLOGY this past year, so far not much luck with Asian women.

Post: #41

(12-15-2016 09:02 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  #1 Asian flag
#2 Another Jewish flag
#3 Bang a girl in NYC
#4 Convince a plate to have a 3-some with a girl she picks.

If I accomplish one or two of these I will be very happy.

I know at least one Jewish girl was into my VIKING TECHNOLOGY this past year, so far not much luck with Asian women.

^ It's funny, I have the opposite issue. I'm not sure why, but for some reason Asians seem to be drawn to me more than any other group. I've even been dubbed the "Asian magnet" by a few of my buddies who've witnessed it happen. Unfortunately, I've yet to pipe a "Juicy Jewess."

Post: #42

20 bangs.
And a proper girlfriend.

Post: #43

I'm just going to get in the best shape of my life.

Given that I'm already spoken for, my goal will be to better my rapport with women (read: highly positive flirting experiences that, if single, would be a precursor to a good shot at a notch).

Can't let my game go to shit just because I'm married.

Post: #44

I'm new here and this forum opened my eyes in many aspects.
My goals are not related about game at all and maybe some of these must be written on the LifeStyle subforum but here they are:

-Get my degree by January-February
-Find a full time job meanwhile i work on a sidejob
-Finance situation is a bit mess so i'm making my best to fix it
-Learn a new skill with great ROI (programming) and master my Excel skill
-Keep improving english as my second language, learn french (i've already started)
-Travel for the first time overseas and make my first datasheet for this forum

About my body/apparence:
-Upgrade my wardrobe/stick with my skin care routine/stick with my clean diet(no soda,fast food,sugar)
-I was very inconsistent working out so far. For this 2017 i'll be clean-bulking.

Game:
- Take more action than just reading about game.

I have more goals but i want to make it simple and realistic.

This is a message for my own self:
"When i come back to this thread by the end of Dec-17 and if i won't see at least the half of these goals done, i swear i'll eat horseshit"

Post: #45

To not need women to feel good about myself.

Post: #46

(12-15-2016 04:31 PM)subterfuge Wrote:  

(12-15-2016 03:13 PM)Atavistic Wrote:  My goal was to bang 1 woman for free this year. Almost managed to have had that happen but was having erection problems. Managed to get a blowjob though for free, but no bang. It’s an improvement despite the many hookers I’ve banged over the past decade. So my goal remains the same for next year as well. Bang 1 woman for free. Of course, I’d love many more and a real high genuine notch count. But I have to start with the basics at this point. You’d think at age 30 this would have been done, but nope. Oh well, I suppose I have my whole life to sleep around still and improve.

Good luck! We're in a similar boat!

Similar age. I did manage to get one bang this year, but i've made hundreds and hundreds of approaches. I've read all the books and am putting in the practice, so other than expensive 'coaching' there's not much more I can do but carry on!

All of my friends get laid all the time, but only from tinder. Never ever cold approach.

Like you, my goal it to get 1 bang for free next year, too!!

subterfuge,

With all due respect, but I think we are in an entirely different boat.

I’ve literally banged hundreds of prostitutes over the past decade of my life, not a single unpaid lay my entire life. Yes, I know I should have stopped long ago before it got to that many. I just wanted to get laid a lot at the time and have pleasure. I also thought this would help me on normal girls, but I really don’t think any of this has helped me honestly. I’m saying this as what I did is in my mind, a negative attribute towards a developing young adults sexual and emotional growth. I think we are in a completely different situation as you seem to have had a few successful emotionally satisfying unpaid lays in the past.

Our situation is not exactly the same, but I am trying to improve everything right now to start getting laid with emotional intelligence. One I’ve worked on is going back to the gym and exercising. I am not fat by any means, but I lack being jacked or built. I know even that is also not an automatic guarantee for one to get laid, but it should help my confidence levels in the meantime. I have been working on training myself to have the right mindset for successful lays. I was happy though for my success this year bringing a girl home from a bar, even though I had 100% of an opportunity to get laid in bed with this girl if not for my drunken limp dick, but at least I got a blowjob. Had it not been for that limp dick incident, I would have achieved that victoriously satisfying lay that I yearned for all this time and been quite happy. The girl in question, got quite upset and I fully understand her. Now, had I pumped myself with large amounts of Viagra I definitely would have gotten laid (I know there was some sarcasm there on my part).

I would just think at age 30 for me at least, it’s “time” for a change. You can’t change the past, but at the very least one can strive to better oneself current situation.

As far as Tinder goes, I would not mind getting laid from that all the time, despite it and online dating being viewed by some as an artificial, rather unnatural means of getting laid. In the way there’s a point, because we obviously never evolved with online dating. However, I have not had any success with any online dating. In my situation, I would not mind having a ‘niche’ I stumble upon where I completely rely on whatever that niche may be until that market changes. I just care about getting laid with decent to attractive women that are attracted to my personality and are in their early to late 20s without shoveling out lots of money. I’d imagine I’d also be having great sex with some of them as well.

Going to SE Asia is also not an option since I am mainly attracted to white women, particularly western and eastern European, but Anglo-speaking women I don’t mind either. I am white as well. I have on occasion found women from Asia attractive and elsewhere, but my overall preference lies for the European look. Of course, that’s a simple generalization but one gets the point. This is also kind of a problem for me as more work needs to be put in, but it’s doable.

I’m a pretty simple guy, that really never cared much about ‘the chase’ or mastering the art of the cold approach. You could argue that I think that way because I never had any success / multiple success from the cold approach artistry and internalized the ‘trance like’ state I’d imagine after approaching many and being ‘on fire’ with it when put in practice. You could also argue that many of the skills one needs for online dating success are actually learned through real life interactions by trial and error. That’s just my hypothetical assumption though as I obviously have no concrete experience with any of them.

But even then I think at times, it might even potentially boil down to a particular personality type (of course that can be tweaked as well to an extent, whether one is an extrovert or introvert) because when I was a virgin, I never saw the interest in going up to many women approaching them to try and get laid. I always thought well if I can just pay them for lots of sex I should be fine? Well, the problem is the diminishing returns factor and realizing they really don’t want to fuck you for your personality as you grow older and keep living that degenerate lifestyle. The money is also an issue as well. I’ve tried accepting this lifestyle in the past as some sort of permanent fixture, but every time it’s failed me with the same result over and over and over. Nowadays, I just want to find that ‘niche’ so that speak. It seems like kind of an anomalous wiring of my brain sometimes, but it is what it is.

I realize this is going to be a lifelong battle my whole life at times regarding women. I’m fine with accepting that. As long as I make incremental improvements I know this journey should become easier. I’ve essentially shot myself in the foot many times, knowing that even if I did manage to have 1 woman to have consistent sex with and be satisfied. I know I’ll never be truly satisfied, because I ruined myself banging all those whores. Although, I suppose it was always a contradiction with my neural wiring as well as me wanting to bang many women, probably as a result of over-emphasized sexualization in our current modern day society by our media outlets, in addition to adopting a completely futile wrong mindset to begin with. It’s just this media is open out there to the public now that causes struggles for lazy betas (I hate to say this, but for social stability we probably need them, it’s just I don’t want to be one of them), whereas before media became prevalent, this type of varied sex with many women was more than likely out there in practice to varying degrees depending on the historical time period obviously, but less bombarding and profound on ones daily life, say if one in theory was a blacksmith, warrior or farmer. Needless to say, I’ve chosen to live the life of an eternal childless bachelor at this point. It’s just more practical given all my extensive baggage and would be a disservice to teach this lifestyle to a son or something given that western women are already damaged to a great degree.

In the ancient past, I feel it was a much simpler satisfying approach to getting laid. Though I feel, I could very well be romanticizing periods in history. However, having 1 woman whether one’s wife getting laid and so forth raising the next of kin was a practical noble task, with only some of the kings, few peasant casanovas and royals entitled to as much varied hedonistic sex as possible. Realistically, I think this is balanced and makes sense for stable families over the centuries, as I feel everyone having one massive swapping partner party would ruin humanity, especially when agriculture became introduced and altered our (still current day) innately animalistic minds, separate from our caveman heydays. This is all my speculative opinion though. Although, what I wrote is a total contradiction altogether because despite the media contributing to an over sexualization process, it seems to only heighten and bring aware our already fixed animalistic desires, but our evolved intelligence resulting in agriculture has provided some social stability I feel.

I just think it’s probably going to get worse the sexual dating market for guys like us that our simple, but at the same time want large amounts of varied sex from different women. Once again the value of damaged women goes up, which is fine for me since I am ok with that type of lifestyle given my own programmed travesties. I just don’t want to pay for sex when they don’t have any personal attraction to me. Unless, you happen to find that ‘niche’ it’s just the amount of agonizing struggle to get what one wants. That reeks of negativity I understand that, and I’ve been trying to stop myself at times from being pessimistic, but if you think about it the whole act of prostitution is a negative endeavor so it retrains the developing mind to something pessimistic and unsuccessful in life. Correcting my mindset should be my #1 goal, along with getting that lay.

Good luck on your goals next year and for everyone in this thread as well. I realized with this long response and run-on sentences, the thread got derailed with this and I should probably start a new thread if this discussion continues for too long.

Post: #47

Well, this has been my best year so far when it comes to game, traveled to 7 countries... (I don't game in my town)
Next year I need to come up with new activities that provide me cashflow and time to continue. I have couple of ideas.
So far in January I'll be tied to my office schedule

Post: #48

In no particular order, here's my plan for 2017:
- Up my fitness. I not in bad shape, but I want to take it to the next level over the winter so I'll be looking beach-worthy by May in Ios. I have trips planned to 26 countries this year, so I need to stay on it even while travelling.
- Beginning learning Russian
- Up my game with Latin chicks, the winter in South America I'll have lots of time to work on this. Salsa lessons will be included.
- Make more daytime approaches. I'm happy with how the ones I did this year went, but they were so few and far between.

Post: #49

Lose weight/fat, make more money and be more social to get next years notch-count up to 24.

Post: #50

1) See where it goes with the girlfriend, while still being in a win-win position no matter what,
2) Stop wasting time in Everything Else and Politics & War, since I have nothing to show for my time there,
3) Keep lifting heavier weights at the gym while keeping body fat between ten and fifteen percent.