Post: #9126

(12-11-2016 03:13 PM)kaotic Wrote:  To the newbies-

You can read my thread about ending that LTR here:

/thread-52295.html

Just...damn

You did the right thing. Handled it very well.

Post: #9127

I need to move to a warmer climate, the weather here in London saps all of my energy.

Did a bit of Xmas shopping Friday, went into Lush (soap and shit store) to try and find something for my cousin.

There was a 6.5 Asian chick working behind the counter who I could see was staring in my direction, I approached her and asked if she could help me pick something as my cousin is pretty specific on smells she likes.

Asked her where she was from, she told me originally Kyoto but has been living here for the last 4 years, she had an accent but her English was better than some people I know who were born here.

I told her a few stories about when I was out there, the overall vibe was great. She asked me a bunch of questions and we spent a good 10-15 minutes just enjoying the banter.

I said we should kick it sometime, give me your number. Handed her my phone and she promptly put her number in it. Ended up spending another 10 minutes in there actually trying to find a soap that didn't smell terrible then left.

I sent her a text a few hours later with my name and a follow up to a joke that we shared during the interaction, I'm going to send her a text mid-week and try set something up for the weekend.

Saturday me and Asian Chick 1 hit a local arcade.

I let her beat me at pool, we had a few drinks then bounced back to her place.

Stopped at a Korean food store before so she could grab all the ingredients for a meal she was cooking for us. The food was great, I must have eaten around 3-4 servings.

She passed me a new cook book she purchased and asked me to pick a few that I want to try so she can cook them for me.

We watched a movie, smashed and went to sleep.

In the morning she mentioned she would like to go on holiday to her home country with me, I can get cheap tickets through a friend but the last time I went on holiday with a chick it was boring as hell.

Sunday Asian Chick 2 (post-virgin) kept asking me to come by.

Since AC1's look is more to my taste and shes giving me everything I want I've been neglecting AC2.

I've had this happen before and it always ends badly with me ghosting on the ones I'm not as into, I've made it my mission this time to not let this happen.

I turned up pretty late so we just had a catch-up, smashed and went to sleep.

I left early while she was still asleep and sent her a text for when she wakes up.

Both of them are trying pretty hard to impress me with gifts / food / compliments.

It wont last forever but I'm sure as hell enjoying it at the moment.

Post: #9128

(12-08-2016 01:37 PM)kaotic Wrote:  The second girl I ran into (technically) was this girl I fucked last year. Short thick latina with some fat ass titties and a pretty face. If she got toned she'd be a banger for sure.

Anyways I'm at venue 1 with the drunk Korean girl, I see this old high school friends little brother I know - he's tall jacked has some tats - think Chad Thundercock with some acne on his face and short hair and was in the Navy.

I hear a familiar voice next to him and realize that it's the chick I banged - they seem friendly probably a date. I had already closed my tab out and me and the Korean girl left - I didn't say hi to the couple.

At venue 4 "Chad" walks by and says what's up - asks what I'm drinking and he gets a round for him the girl I banged - we chat up about his older bro - getting fat and almost married.

He says that he's with some girl I know, I play it cool and say "small world man, yeah she's cool, you guys on a date?"

Chad, "Nah we're just hanging out, I guess she's got a boyfriend"

I smile knowingly, because I fucked her a few times, even after I found out she had a boyfriend in the Marines.



Yes I was "Jody" - sorry Devil Dogs.

Chad was unsure about what was going on with her, and I knew full well you can fuck her and bat down all her shit tests.

I smirk and say, "Just because there's a goalie, doesn't mean you can't score" - we have a laugh - all the while my Korean date is sitting next to me.



We shake hands and he bounces back to his date - I hope he fucked her !

I saw my buddy "Chad" this weekend, turns out he did indeed end up fucking her that night I saw them !

#eskimobros




I also nexted milf teacher last night - jesus fucking christ she wouldn't shut the fuck up and kept talking over the movie.

I don't understand how the hell she's a teacher, she mumbles, talks about the stupidest shit, and overall was annoying.

She showed up with hair in a bun and sweats (I was just chilling) she looked even more like shit that I suspected. Kept trying to fish for compliments or that I should be "nice" and "this is where you compliment me" that got really annoying.

After an hour I told her I was tired and she should leave:

"You're so boring"

She kept sitting back on the bed, "Ugh you're boring"

READ: "Ugh drove all the way to you and you won't fuck me!?"

No bitch, you're fucking annoying, and a waste of time.

She also didn't pass the boner test. NEXT.

Post: #9129

That face when a girl you were banging is complaining about a guy totally out of her league being too short with the wrong hair color. Who is also probably a virgin.

So many good looking men with zero game!

To be honest I used to be very intimidated by guys I perceived that were more attractive than me. Like they would swoop my girls. Then I keep getting reports from girls like this.

Post: #9130

(12-11-2016 07:05 PM)augen sehen Wrote:  

(12-11-2016 06:13 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Why not approach and open her ? Sounds like you're making excuses for yourself.

It sounds like you have approach anxiety and hamster reasons why you shouldn't go and talk to her, we're all guilty of doing it.

Bingo. Leaving aside cold approach, this happens too often in social circle or work where two factors come in - the girl likes me more after seeing I'm social, plus I'm not keen to be rejected or can't put my sexual being out there so to speak. How do you do "simmer game" where you talk to the chick in like a secret society way and then smash in private?

If you get 2-3 IOIs invite her out for drinks or over to your pad sometime.

Post: #9131

I do enjoy my main girl a lot. I just rescheduled plans with a girl who was coming over specifically for me to fuck her in the ass so that I could spend the night with my main girl before I leave town for the week.

EDIT: Also, I dunno about the rest of you but I do not like rough sex. I'll slap a girl's ass, choke her a bit, slap her around and jackhammer fuck a bit just because I know the girl is into it, but it does nothing for me. If a girl wants me to be rougher than typical shit that is actually a turn off. I think girls who like it especially rough are girls that have been in long LTRs so they had to get a bit more edgy and creative to keep things interesting/exciting (for her).

Post: #9132

Japanese chick came over again Friday night and made me a hot soup dish from her home town. She remembered my dietary restrictions, and even asked if there was anything else I didn't like to make sure. I hung on the couch and watched her cook, whereas just 3 and a half years ago my ex-wife used to sit downstairs and watch tv while I cooked. Progress...
The dish was excellent. We ate, and shortly afterwards I spent about two hours fucking the shit of her. She's been very dedicated to deepthroating, to the point where her eyes get tears and she's coughing.
She is really putting in the effort.

Meanwhile, the other girl (half Latina, been seeing her much longer) keeps trying to get me to hang out with her friends and go to their birthday parties and shit. I don't have the energy. And so I'm getting annoyed even though she just wants to see me, and really hasn't done anything wrong. She's just not providing enough value. at a certain point I felt like she was shaping up a bit- making breakfast and such, but lately she's really been dropping the ball.

Post: #9133

Summertime here in Australia and all the girls are out of LTR-mode and trying to ride that carousel hard. Lots of old lays hitting me up

I've also been experimenting with viagra the last couple of months with good results. Works well for first bangs or after a couple of drinks. Been pretty fucking satisfying when those aforementioned old lays in the rotation now won't leave you alone because you beat their pussy into a pulp #WhateverItTakes

Still haven't banged an international chick this summer. 3 lays in 3 nights since I took a couple of months off night-game so I like my chances at a backpacker bar when I go out next

Post: #9134

(12-11-2016 03:13 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(12-11-2016 03:24 AM)LeoneVolpe Wrote:  Several months ago, I was browsing through RVF and I stumbled across that thread, the one you were discussing what you were going through in your relationship with your now ex. I read it in its entirety, and I'm not ashamed to admit it was an emotional read for me. In fact, it's stuck with me ever since.

If anyone ever needed proof of the love, camaraderie and sense of brotherhood this forum inspires, they needn't look any further than that thread.

It still is a tough read for me, I'm not afraid to say she was the closest girl that I've been that deeply intimate with.

I think the worst part was her getting a new dude right after we broke, which even harder to swallow than me dumping her.

Some women will just touch your soul.

I hear you on that man. My 7.5 year LTR got a new guy two weeks after we broke up. Even though I ended it, it still hurt.
They got engaged the other day which felt weird. I'm happy for her but it still felt strange to see someone I'd spent so much of my life with, signing up to spend the rest of theirs with someone else.
She was my first love and I guess that never entirely leaves you.

(12-11-2016 03:13 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(12-11-2016 03:24 AM)LeoneVolpe Wrote:  kaotic had the balls to take the road less traveled. As I see it, he could've chosen to keep his girl to himself, although he didn't share her same vision for the future. In time, he could've probably gotten her to see things his way and forgo her own dreams of marriage and children in the process. But he didn't. Nor did he compromise what he wanted from his own life by giving into what she wanted for hers. In his own way, by walking away, he showed in one fell swoop that he had more love for her than she probably ever knew, and more respect for himself than he ever realized.

You're right I could've strung it out, maybe made her forget about our conversation, but deep down I knew this woman loved me that much she wanted my children and a family her dying father could see.

This is true meaning of "if you love her, you have to let her go" - she may realize it someday, maybe she realized it that afternoon, but I've got guns that I stuck too and it was the right call in the end.

You did the right thing. I've done the wrong thing and strung it out with a girl who was way more into me than I was into her because I didn't want to hurt her but it ended badly and was just a waste of both our time. If you don't feel the same way as the other person you need to own up to that and end it. It's the best thing for both parties in the long run.

Post: #9135

Had a fine South African chick over fresh direct last night (27, mocha skin, petite, fit body). Some wine and fun banter. Talked about her sexual kinks. Sounds like she has never been with a guy who knows what the hell he's doing.

Didn't bang but she wants to 'party' and go for drinks. Clock is ticking- she's only in town for the week. Might meet her at local bar and pull her back tomorrow night.

Post: #9136

(12-12-2016 08:04 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  I do enjoy my main girl a lot. I just rescheduled plans with a girl who was coming over specifically for me to fuck her in the ass so that I could spend the night with my main girl before I leave town for the week.

EDIT: Also, I dunno about the rest of you but I do not like rough sex. I'll slap a girl's ass, choke her a bit, slap her around and jackhammer fuck a bit just because I know the girl is into it, but it does nothing for me. If a girl wants me to be rougher than typical shit that is actually a turn off. I think girls who like it especially rough are girls that have been in long LTRs so they had to get a bit more edgy and creative to keep things interesting/exciting (for her).

Every girl I've met the past 3-4 years likes rough sex, about half like really rough or bondage at a minimum. I like rough sex as long as they're into it, particularly impact play and light choking [to start with]. More than half have been into degrading dirty talk.

Many of them have never had an LTR. I was banging one girl in college that had only dated one guy previously, and she wanted it rougher than the rest I've met.

Some girls consider anal rough, others think nothing of it, that bit all depends on her.

I agree with your point about spending more time with a main girl to resked the girl who wants to try anal for later time.

Have a new girl coming to town next week who needs to be dominated, bound and spanked to get her orgasms flowing. Junior in college.
Gave a similar girl 20+ orgasms one night with the same treatment last year - she definitely gets the credit I just put in the mood, she was screaming me to stop/slow down but then she'd come 3 seconds later. It was pretty amazing to watch, when I stopped she just continued shaking and twitching and moaning how good it was.

Post: #9137

The girl I had met at whole foods follow up story that happened tonite:

I had deleted her number weeks ago and she would text me at random hours during the week with pointless shit about how she can't meet up; I would respond and she would take days to respond.
Today she texts me out of the blue; I've got two girls on the roster so I'm ready to take an L tonite...



Like I always say, "if you don't like the hand you're delt flip the table over and see what happens next..."

Me: Im not interested in getting to know you anymore since she can't respond punctually. I just want to fuck you. yes or no
She responds promptly
She's on some she's busy and that she's a lady bull shit.

Im not letting her off the hook...

not today....

I call her on how it took this to get a response--not lady like. and tell her she's just mad because I rejected her; she's a brackish bitch if this is what it takes to get a response from her.

she says some shit about how the guy she's with thinks she's a lady

I call her on giving me her number and contemplating hanging with me when she has a man--not lady like. I tell her she just wants to be treated like a lady without putting in the work to be lady. sign it with a "gn gl hope you find what you're looking for"

She just can't take the L tonight. Comes back with how I don't get that she's busy and that she hopes I find what I'm looking for...a hussy.



me:k
Fin

Post: #9138

^What's the point in calling out her bull shit... kinds sounds too try hard.... and a waste of time. Especially if you haven't slept with her yet

Post: #9139

I had something similar happen yesterday afternoon.

This cute mom and I had texted back and forth I'd say almost 6 months ago.

She messaged me, saying hey good morning how are you.

Responded a few hours later, "Busy, who is this?"

"It's Felicia" -sends unsolicited selfie

"mmm not sure, have we hungout ?"

"Nevermind, it doesn't matter"


I laughed at the gym seeing this, awww someone got butthurt because they weren't a special snowflake and wasn't remembered.




In other news, Monday hung out with biker girl, which was nice, I dig being around her. Last night I was on date 2 with semi basic bitch.

I realized she doesn't wear much make up, anyways, we had 2 drinks, she came back to my pad, but jesus christ she had alot of LMR, even with choking, pulling hear, macking her down, even got a titty out.

She wanted it, her body did, but her hamster still was driving her.

I was too tired to even care, after all, she's the one who drove 45 minutes to my pad, so I went straight to bed.

I give this one more date before I next her - juice won't be worth the squeeze after that.

I got a few options for Weds, I'll line something up Thursday as well.

Then Friday I'm debating on flaking on - this chick is a christian church going tatted up gal who goes to shows. She's only available weekends - and I'm usually busy then.

Not sure if its even worth it since there's plenty of other options, we'll see.

Post: #9140

Today I had the end-of-year teacher's party. Besides some flirting with a PhD student (future Uni teacher as well), I saw a superb waitress: tall (about 6 ft), brunette and with a nice makeup. Got many IOIs, most of them being small or large smiles.

1. The best way to get over a girl is to find a new one;
2. I'll soon return to the place, to get to know the tall waitress.

Wish me good skill.

Post: #9141

(12-14-2016 12:47 PM)kaotic Wrote:  I had something similar happen yesterday afternoon.

This cute mom and I had texted back and forth I'd say almost 6 months ago.

She messaged me, saying hey good morning how are you.

Responded a few hours later, "Busy, who is this?"

"It's Felicia" -sends unsolicited selfie

"mmm not sure, have we hungout ?"

"Nevermind, it doesn't matter"

This is the best response to flakey girls, and my personal favorite. Make them feel unspecial and entirely forgettable. That's what happens when you ghost; you get treated like one. I've had this happen twice in the past few months. Girl that was flighty with me a while back hits me up out of the blue.

Girl #1:
Her: How is your mom doing
Me: Whos this
Her: xxxx
Me: xxxx who?
Her: Nevermind
<no response>

Girl #2:
Her: Were you the one who told me they have no happy hour in boston?
Me: Happy hour was banned in MA in the 80s
Her: Banned!? Wow well they just passed weed here!
Me: Cool whos this
Her: It's not important
Me: k
Her: I'll give you three guess... GO!
<no response>

Post: #9142

(12-14-2016 05:44 AM)ballsyamog Wrote:  ^What's the point in calling out her bull shit... kinds sounds too try hard.... and a waste of time. Especially if you haven't slept with her yet

Oh you're very right, it was a waste of time. But this bitch was totally on some "every guy bows down to me I treat them how I want to make myself feel attractive but I'm not as hot as i think i am" type shit. And like I said...
Not Today....
TBH if she had just said no that woulda been it. But she wanted a fight and what type of gentleman would I be to deny her that?! not a very good one...

Post: #9143

I've been banging a married girl for the last 4 months constantly. Recently its making me feel uneasy because she's been acting real careless of getting caught, I feel she is acting indiscreet on purpose.
For example she never awnsered his calls when she was with me now she picks up and says she's "with a friend" in a tone that anyone would be suspicious. She's also been taking a lot of pictures of us but I've been deleting them as soon as she hands me her phone.
I'm fixing to break it off asap. But I want to cover some of my tracks just in case she goes psycho on me. Those married girls, easy yet so complicated.

Post: #9144

I find it quite full-circle that Kaotic used to rag on others for fucking older women and preached younger women but now fucks older women as well.

Post: #9145

Lesson learned on holding frame and being clear.

So many girls at the moment looking for boyfriends, trying to sound casual and non needy but at the same time selling you the boyfriend dream on the DL.

Two girls recently stand out.

First one a 26 yr old single mom first date, a few slut tells admittedly but she was a very pretty size 6.

Initially got pissed off with me whennabout 30 mins in I flat out told her I am in no way looking for any kind of relationship.
Asked me what is the point of being here then? Just to fuck me?

Said I'm just looking to meet people and see what happens but don't want a relationship.

Really good chemistry otherwise, she tested hard with all night but she was enjoying me shooting them down.

One line of hers that stood out was "you are fucking brutal! You're not even allowing me any hope of anything! I'm just here blowing bubbles and your just there just popping them one by one!

Took her back and fucked her.
(Was also my first ever squirter but 3 damn times drenched my bed worse than if I'd pissed it!)



More recently, a first date with a 36 year old divorcee mum, looks 10 years younger.

Openly trying to sell me thd boyfriend dream and remembering the previous girl, I say I'm not after anything serious but don't shoot her down as quick, allow her a bit of hope even though she lives 45 mins away.

Good chemistry, her apologising for acting like a giggly school girl saying I make her feel nervous, and she's not used to it, she normally gets bored on dates with guys trying to sell themselves to her blah blah.

Got her back to my place, on my bed, making out hard but LMR kicks in and she stops and goes before she "does something she regrets"

No problem.

2nd date straight to my place and after some suggestive texts prior, I assume it's on.
She again talking about how good a gf she would be but also saying shes not looking for anything heavy.
I just allow and ignore thinking it's on anyway.

Should have nipped this in the bud but in hindsight it was already too late and she had me down as bf material.

Get her onto my bed and she says "this is a bad idea, your making me look like a cocktease because I have rules and can't have sex with someone I LIKE so soon"

Believe it or not actually says "if I didn't like you so much I probably would because it wouldn't hurt me if you just never saw me again"

I basically say I have rules too and mine is that someone who won't fuck me when they're saying they want to, is playing the long game for a relationship, which I remind her we both said we're not looking for.

It's a bit of a tense convo and I'm slightly pissed off now so I just say look, we're obviously looking for different things after all, I have my rules, you have yours, you're gonna go soon, no harm done.

She looks genuinely upset and reluctantly gets her things together and goes home.

I will carry on shooting shit down from now on and leaving no room for doubt as I may have been able to fuck her anyway if I had been more clear up front.

Post: #9146

In the process of lining up a possible threesome tonight. Two girls, who don't know each other, are both down for coming over this evening to party. I've sent both of them pictures of the other and they both think each other is cute. May the poon gods smile upon me

Post: #9147

Setting up dates for the weekend, one for Sat, one for Sunday. I'm going to be hungover on Sat anyways, let's see what happens.

Post: #9148

(12-15-2016 06:18 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  I find it quite full-circle that Kaotic used to rag on others for fucking older women and preached younger women but now fucks older women as well.

Now now, I will always prefer younger women, BUT, if a woman is cute and older, of course I'll take her down.

Tastes change, I've got no shame in the game.


I ended meeting up with a Chinese 26 year old from Bumble last night.

Funny part was, she wasn't gong to give me her number, until after we met, I called her on her BS and how it takes 2 taps on a screen to delete a number. How I'm not some thirsty dude whose going to send her dick pics

We met at a venue near my work, she was petite, face was a 6, if she had long hair she'd be cuter.

She was intelligent, works in medical field, overall she was pleasant, body language was comfortable, and was rather surprised.

We walk outside for a bit I give her a hug, then start making out with her.

I'm telling you dude, that first kiss is always the best for a girl, you hear that -SIGH- then sometimes a soft moan, following by deep breaths, and her body coming towards you.

She doesn't seem like an experienced kisser, but she enjoyed what I was giving her.

I stopped kissing her, smiled, told her text me when she gets home, she did, and said she had alot of fun.

I think I'll hangout with her again.


Not sure what girl I'll hangout with today, and I've narrowed it down to 2 options for Friday.


I didn't text biker girl all day yesterday, she didn't either, I let it be. We aren't the people who call each other or text each other constantly.

Gave her a ring this morning, no response, ball is in her court.

Post: #9149

All the girls I fuck with these days are older than me or my age. This isn't on purpose but it just happens to be what I'm hooking these days. It's fine by me. They are attractive, no fuss, and in some ways their older age is a bonus because they have money and life experience that make doing things sometimes more enjoyable.

Out of town on business currently and spending a few days with one of my plates-abroad. I love fucking this girl. She is so thin, tall, and squirts like a geyser. She's 30 and has a decent job, so we got a $200 dinner last night that she paid for. A prime example of her older age being a perk.

Tastes do change. I wrote an article for ROK years ago about how younger women are better than older women. I still agree when it comes to long-term mother-of-my-children type of prospects, but in general for just hanging and banging, I think they both have equal pros and cons.

Post: #9150

Raw dogged a girl for the first time a few nights ago. Can't say I was a big fan.