Post: #1

I've been trying to up my social circle game in the past couple months, going out to concerts and events in the city each weekend that tend to attract the same regular crowd of people. Being the somewhat experienced player that I am, I do the things I've read here: find the "cool guys" who seem to have some status and engage with them, play the drama queens and losers to the left, and mostly ignore the girls.

Results have been pretty good and I've met a couple of guys I would legit consider friends where we'd probably come through for each other in a pinch, which is great as I've had trouble meeting people since I got back to this area (well, aside from flakey online dating sluts.)

I don't use it much, but unfortunately Facebook seems to have become a part of social circle game these days. But it seems my "relaxed cool mystery guy" game has paid off a bit there as well, as a few girls I seen around and maybe talked with once or twice have been stalking me down on the FB, sending me unsolicited friend requests and now solidly on team "like all the cool funny shit XPQ22 up to in his spare time, and who's that girl in the picture with him there, anyway? I've never seen her."

Not a whole lot, mind you, maybe three or four, but they're all solid WBs around ten years younger than I am. One cute thing in particular has been severely on my eDick in the past couple weeks, giving me the "+1" on every silly thing I post. Looks like she might have a little girl-oneitis.

It probably doesn't hurt that I've been in the best physical shape of my life recently and am dressing a lot better than I used to.

Like the good player that I am I've been ignoring it...at least for now. Scoped out her page and it looks like she's on the rebound from a crappy relationship. Some other chodes have been asking her out to dinner and shit on her wall but she's been blowing them out and still lists her status as "single." But we all know she's taking the D from someone when she's "single" for months. I don't see any reason it shouldn't be me.

Is the time ripe to "move on her like a bitch" as our fearless leader would say, and run my standard "Hey. I'm gonna be at xxx bar this weekend you should come" game on her, which has worked pretty well with many online randos? Well, I intend to give it a shot, anyway. I'd prefer to pitch the meet/venue change in person, but the few times I seen her out and about she's always with Team Orbiter and isolation is damn hard. I want to find out if she's down with the "secret society" as I've been doing my best to play the "chill non-judgemental drama-free guy" role in the circle, who lives far away, who's never going to tell off shit to her friends.

I plan on moving for it to set it up this weekend if she's down, any tips beyond what's to be found in the social circle game datasheet? She doesn't live anywhere near me, and I have little intel on what her logistics are like. Could be a problem, but nothing I haven't dealt with before. I wonder if the weekend after Thanksgiving is good or bad timing, I might want to wait until next. Will report back.

Oh, and I hope my main girl I met via online game doesn't find out - she'd probably be miffed (she gets miffed about a lot of things, including The Donald's election), but she knows we're not exclusive. Fortunately they're in completely different cliques, different areas of the city, and nobody knows each other. Scheduling issues, though.

Online game hitting up randos has really been in the fucking dumpster as of late. I'm definitely hoping to get some traction from my social circle efforts soon.

Post: #2

Good report, Seems That you are doing a great social circle game. I know You are one of the best contributors in online game, but in my case, A long time ago, i started to dedicate my facebook to my closed friends and family, i want to keep my privacy and I am just using Instagram or whatsapp to interact with Chicks who i am gaming.

Good luck with this chick and definitely, your opportunity will appear.

Post: #3

Talk to her very casually, even over facebook, whatever. Mention you're going here and there. Ask if what she's doing. Tell her to come to where you will be. If you want to be smart ass send her fake mass text like "hey guys, i'm gonna be at xyz, could you please rsvp if you're coming or not?". Then you hang out and game as usual.

If you meet up with her one on one then you have a clean shot, do what you gotta do, pull in the right time and that's it.

If there are other people there with her then do not escalate, do not isolate. DO NOT. It will only slow down your advances. Instead.. stay with them all. Pay more attention to her in general. Have some private/secret chit chat with her. You know, THAT talk with knowing glances where sexual tension is boiling. Set it straight that you both want to continue the night after people leave. Stick to the group and wait until people leave and split. Then you're with her all alone and now it's time to have some sexy time, escalate, pull and all that.

PS. The whole secret society is when certain people are "in" and nothing is defined between people. Which means you can be just friends with girls and talk to hang out etc and all of you still kind of know where it will lead to. It's invisible. But in order to have that kind of status you have to present yourself as, just like you say, nonjudgmental sexy dude that girls can let loose with, have fun and all will be fine afterwards. To maintain that everything has to be vague, social, fun. It's actually bad to invite a girl out for a date as that act changes the dynamic. So if by "make a move" you mean to go on a date then that might mess up what you intend to you. I'm just saying, I don't really know what you're planning.

Post: #4

(11-23-2016 07:47 AM)XXL Wrote:  Talk to her very casually, even over facebook, whatever. Mention you're going here and there. Ask if what she's doing. Tell her to come to where you will be. If you want to be smart ass send her fake mass text like "hey guys, i'm gonna be at xyz, could you please rsvp if you're coming or not?". Then you hang out and game as usual.

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To maintain that everything has to be vague, social, fun. It's actually bad to invite a girl out for a date as that act changes the dynamic. So if by "make a move" you mean to go on a date then that might mess up what you intend to you. I'm just saying, I don't really know what you're planning.

Good point. Not framing things as a "date" in situations like this seems like a good idea overall. That's how one is putting oneself in the "boyfriend/relationship man" bin right off the bat.

Post: #5

Basically Distant light game.
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Post: #6

A very short n sweet followup to this one: I pitched the "let's hang out" yesterday and she hit me back with a fairly lame text something like:

"Hey, it sounds like it would be fun but I'm not in a very good head space right now and blah

da blah blah

etc. etc."

Which I essentially interpreted as "next" within a few words. Oh well. She's still sitting around "liking" my stuff.

Into the "maybe try again in a couple months" bin ya go, if I don't see her around. Then again, this is Facebook we're talking about, which has always been a piss poor place for game. If I see her again in person I'll likely just try to see how she seems then and move forward if she's in a receptive mood, and throw my Internet-pitch down the memory hole.

Post: #7

(11-26-2016 03:00 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  A very short n sweet followup to this one: I pitched the "let's hang out" yesterday and she hit me back with a fairly lame text something like:

"Hey, it sounds like it would be fun but I'm not in a very good head space right now and blah

da blah blah

etc. etc."

Which I essentially interpreted as "next" within a few words. Oh well. She's still sitting around "liking" my stuff.

Into the "maybe try again in a couple months" bin ya go, if I don't see her around. Then again, this is Facebook we're talking about, which has always been a piss poor place for game. If I see her again in person I'll likely just try to see how she seems then and move forward if she's in a receptive mood, and throw my Internet-pitch down the memory hole.

You could wait, but personally I would push right on through that either immediately or after only a short delay.

"Unlike"

"no"

"what"

"Please put [her name] back on"

Fuck with her, get her joking/laughing, press on.

It's possible she's just a social media junkie but either way you have nothing to lose by pushing through it like a shit test of sorts.