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Dating someone much younger
What would you think of a guy in his early 30s who looks like he’s in his early 20s and has a decent paying job and a college degree who was dating a 19 year old girl going to a community college to get a nursing certification? How old are you (just curious about what people of different ages think)?

Is it normal? Weird? Creepy? Is there a general consensus on what people think of this type of dating situation?

How common is it? Have you see something like this before? How does it usually turn out?

What are pros and cons? What are problems that could arise?

Also, if the guy tells the girl he’s in his early 30s but she initially thought he was in his early 20s, would she lose interest in him?

This is assuming that it’s just casual dating (either short or long term); not a situation where either is looking for someone to settle down with.
10-30-2016 11:11 AM
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I don't think there is anything wrong with it, and no one except a few dried-up feminist hags would have issue with it. Just relax and don't make an issue of it, or you really will cause a problem - not because of age, but because of worrying about stupid things.

As for you lying about your age to her, have you told her already? I think Giovonny might have some advice regarding that. If you've already done that, then there is also nothing to worry about.

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As long as she doesn't act like a ditsy teenager, I don't see an issue with it. If you are in your early 30s, you are in your 'prime' for attracting women.

I have always been of the mindset that a guy should be 5 to 15 years older than his girlfriend / wife. It is just the reality of biology: women physically go down faster than men when it comes to fertility.
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I see no problem in this scenario.
This dude should go for the bang, without any hesitation.
10-30-2016 12:04 PM
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Hm.....a 30's man dating a 19 year old going to community college to be a nurse.

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10-30-2016 12:10 PM
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I dated a 19yr old when I was 30, met her whole family, didn't get shot.

They were actually very nice and accommodating.

10-30-2016 12:26 PM
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The girl isn't underage. You're not abusing a position of authority. Go ahead & enjoy the experience.

I was 32 when I met an 18 year old. Started dating her a year later after close correspondence. She was an architecture student.
I brushed off questions about my age playfully for awhile. When she found out my age, she found it more of a turn on.
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RE: Dating someone much younger
you get better age gaps than that in the poorer parts of the UK.

Watch an episode of Jeremy Kyle, and you're bound to see a guy in his late 40's banging a 16 year old (age of consent in England)
10-30-2016 01:16 PM
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RE: Dating someone much younger
I'm also dating a 19-year-old, and I'm in my 40s. We get along great and have talked about having a kid together. I could give a shit what other people think. I know girls who married men in their 50s when they were 18-19, and they were happy with them (until they died - obviously there is that aspect to consider, in the long term).

Virtually any sane, normal man wants to bang girls in the 18-24 age bracket. There is nothing wrong with that, except in the minds of the world's deranged feminists who have sublimated their own bitterness and jealousy into an ideology of "creepy old men." Fuck that, and fuck them. Take the red pill and tell "society" to fuck off.
10-30-2016 01:40 PM
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RE: Dating someone much younger
(10-30-2016 11:11 AM)h5757 Wrote:  What would you think of a guy in his early 30s who looks like he’s in his early 20s and has a decent paying job and a college degree who was dating a 19 year old girl going to a community college to get a nursing certification?

I'd think that's...great!

In fact, I believe we need a datasheet on dating younger women. Cattle Rustler wrote one on cougars, it would be great if you experienced gentlemen could write one for younger chicks.
10-30-2016 02:55 PM
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RE: Dating someone much younger
(10-30-2016 02:55 PM)Khan Wrote:  
(10-30-2016 11:11 AM)h5757 Wrote:  What would you think of a guy in his early 30s who looks like he’s in his early 20s and has a decent paying job and a college degree who was dating a 19 year old girl going to a community college to get a nursing certification?

I'd think that's...great!

In fact, I believe we need a datasheet on dating younger women. Cattle Rustler wrote one on cougars, it would be great if you experienced gentlemen could write one for younger chicks.

Gio is probably the master on this. I think he's got threads and posts full of good stuff. Even using 1/10 of what he's put out there will put you in the top percent of men.

10-30-2016 03:00 PM
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I dated a 19y for 7 months when I was 41. I don't think I even saw one dirty look. Of course, I looked early 30s but she definitely looked u21.
10-30-2016 05:29 PM
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(10-30-2016 05:29 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  I dated a 19y for 7 months when I was 41. I don't think I even saw one dirty look. Of course, I looked early 30s but she definitely looked u21.

Especially when the two of you have good chemistry. Other people just smile at you like they'd smile at any couple.

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The guideline that will be applied to you by bitterbitches and jealous men is that you're too old if she's under 1/2 your age, plus 7. A common rule among millennial women seems to be "over 35" is too old if you're around that age.

For everyone else, they'll pretty much be high-fiving you. Really, don't stress it. Have fun and live your life.
10-30-2016 06:20 PM
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(10-30-2016 06:20 PM)Lance Blastoff Wrote:  The guideline that will be applied to you by bitterbitches and jealous men is that you're too old if she's under 1/2 your age, plus 7. A common rule among millennial women seems to be "over 35" is too old if you're around that age.

For everyone else, they'll pretty much be high-fiving you. Really, don't stress it. Have fun and live your life.


My dating equation:

A=MyAge
x=her age

x= ((A / 2) +7)*0) + 18

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RE: Dating someone much younger
In half the world, it's NORMAL for men to date women much younger than them.

People tend to forget, the US, Australia, Canada, etc are NOT the whole world! There are 7 continents on this planet.....what's normal for one is strange for the other.

Also, for most of humanities existence, women were married/paired off VERY young, as in as soon as they started bleeding (their first period) they were given to an older man, sometimes in his 30s or 40s. This is written about in the Bible, which most historians date the earliest written accounts occurring over 6000 years ago.
10-30-2016 06:46 PM
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(10-30-2016 06:37 PM)SpiderKing Wrote:  My dating equation:

A=MyAge
x=her age

x= ((A / 2) +7)*0) + 18

Took me a minute to get that. When I did:

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RE: Dating someone much younger
(10-30-2016 06:37 PM)SpiderKing Wrote:  
(10-30-2016 06:20 PM)Lance Blastoff Wrote:  The guideline that will be applied to you by bitterbitches and jealous men is that you're too old if she's under 1/2 your age, plus 7. A common rule among millennial women seems to be "over 35" is too old if you're around that age.

For everyone else, they'll pretty much be high-fiving you. Really, don't stress it. Have fun and live your life.


My dating equation:

A=MyAge
x=her age

x= ((A / 2) +7)*0) + 18

I think everyone here is smart enough to understand it. But for the lurkers, the feminists-----those who aren't intelligent, essentially---I want to explain this.

Anything multiplied by 0 is 0. Therefore the equation ends up being 0 + 18. The answer is ALWAYS 18, no matter the value of "A" or "x".
10-30-2016 07:29 PM
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RE: Dating someone much younger
Stop caring what other people think.

They certainly don't care what you think, and if they're not paying your bills, then what right do they have to dictate how you live your life?

Some guy is on a yacht off the coast of Greece right now enjoying the sunshine and the gently flowing waves with a beautiful woman 20 years younger than him, while his employees back in America sit for 8 hours a day in drab 4' by 4' cubicles under fluorescent lighting, getting screamed at by customers, call after call.

You think the guy on the yacht cares what the guy in the cubicle thinks?

No, he doesn't care.

You think the guy in the cubicle cares what the guy in the yacht thinks?

Yes, he has to, because if he doesn't, he can get fired and suffer financial and personal ruin.

Be the guy on the yacht, metaphorically speaking.

Be your own master.
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RE: Dating someone much younger
(10-30-2016 06:37 PM)SpiderKing Wrote:  
(10-30-2016 06:20 PM)Lance Blastoff Wrote:  The guideline that will be applied to you by bitterbitches and jealous men is that you're too old if she's under 1/2 your age, plus 7. A common rule among millennial women seems to be "over 35" is too old if you're around that age.

For everyone else, they'll pretty much be high-fiving you. Really, don't stress it. Have fun and live your life.


My dating equation:

A=MyAge
x=her age

x= ((A / 2) +7)*0) + 18

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@OP, when I dated and fucked a 19 year old four years ago the age gap was 13 years. I didn't give a fuck. She was in her absolute prime as far as appearance and physique are concerned. Me fucking a teen was what nature intended.
It's your blue pill socialisation (programming) and other people that will make you feel weird about this. Live your life on your terms.
As soon as you bang her she won't care about your age anymore. I assume you have? If not, do it ASAP.
10-31-2016 10:38 AM
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RE: Dating someone much younger
Looking at threads like this makes my blood boil, to be honest.



OP, if that what you saying is true, I can say one thing...do not give a flying fuck what what the rest of society thinks. If a society which encourages deviant behavior such as same sex marriages (and much worse things than that) has a issue with you dating a girl much younger that you, then screw them!! Screw. Them!



It does not matter what women at the wrong side of the Wall and still waiting for Mr. Big think about that.... .

It does not matter what male feminists and pussy whipped men think about that...




The only thing that matters is that there is chemistry between you two, and that you are doing nothing illegal. That's it, pure and simple!




You got where you are by hard work, and all that certainly deserves a reward, such as a hot piece of ass. Carry on, and again, screw what the rest of society thinks. You live your life ON YOUR terms, and not theirs.



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Women in their 30s won't like it one bit.

Sez one 30-something plate to me: "I just couldn't see myself dating a guy in his mid-20s or earlier. That age just seems so immature now. It'd be like dating a kid, you know?"

Me: "..."

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Anyhow. Now that that minor issue is out of the way...
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Dudes on here have it right, don't give a fuck what society tells you especially when some old used up cock carousel riding woman gives you shit for it.

I just took an 18 year olds virginity a few months ago.

I had a 19 year old plate for over a year, I've banged younger and been on dates with them plenty.


ENJOY that shit and have fun !

Quote:Also, if the guy tells the girl he’s in his early 30s but she initially thought he was in his early 20s, would she lose interest in him?

This is assuming that it’s just casual dating (either short or long term); not a situation where either is looking for someone to settle down with.

We've had threads on threads about this exact question, no the chick won't give a shit, it won't matter, and you could tell a girl straight up and she wouldn't have an issue with it.

YOU have to sell that idea to her, not to mention girls always love older men.

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RE: Dating someone much younger
" What are pros and cons? What are problems that could arise?"

1) After the sex, there is usually not much more to the chick. This can happen no matter what her age is, but young chicks more so.

2) If you have a job and she is in school
- different schedules
- different directions

3) her peer group - she'll want to hang, and you won't

4) she thinks young.
She might have daddy issues, but you don't want the responsibility of her father

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