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Douche Point – The point during gaming a woman when she determines that you’re a total douche and refuses anymore attempts at gaming her. ie …the point of no return.

So you’re at the bar drinking your beer and you and your wing open a girl or group of girls near you. You get past the initial pleasantries and introductions and you kick it into game mode. You start cracking jokes and telling stories and playfully throwing the occasionally neg at your target. All is going well until you say something she finds a little off-putting and suddenly she goes cold on you. “What the hell happened?” you say to yourself. You crossed the girl’s Douche Point.

Establishing a Baseline
I try to determine if a girl is a lefty(liberal ie…party girl) or a righty(conservative ie…nice girl) and I tailor my game to match her demeanor.

Lefties
The lefties are easy because they are usually the unrepentant sluts anyway. The key to gaming lefties is to be the cool guy that’s unable to be phased by anything she says. Ohh you smoke crack and have been in a few threesomes? That’s cool. Did you like it the first time? Lefties could care less about what people think about them. They have no problem rolling dolo to the bar but usually travel in pairs.

Righties
The righties however are a little harder to crack due to the good girl image and vibe they put out there. Righties tend to be a little more sensitive to negging and liberal topics so proceed with caution. Their Douche points are very low and easy to trip over. They’re also very sensitive to the opinions of their herd and tend to congregate in larger groups.

I believe most women are somewhere in the middle and are gameable regardless of their views, upbringing or whatever hang-ups they may have and are usually swayable to the left. The problem that I and most guys have is determining a woman’s Douche Point. I like to push her all the way up to the line then take the pressure off by changing the mood up a little and making her laugh. If you’re able to stay in control of the situation and gently shift her emotions around without pushing her over the line you should be home free.

Can I ask you guys for some of your insight and examples on how you avoid crossing the Douche Point? I’d like to fine tune this topic and use it for my blog. Thanks in advance.

Post: #2

(01-12-2012 04:05 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  Can I ask you guys for some of your insight and examples on how you avoid crossing the Douche Point?

Don't talk about politics before the initial bang.

Don't talk about shit that can only get you screened out but can't increase intimacy before the initial bang.

Go back to personality tests, astrology, the cube, and other chick-crack.

Buy a couple women's magazines. They've paid for a whole research team to determine content that is popular with women. You'll see zero political articles. The farthest they'll go is what shoes Michelle Obama's wearing.

I don't think of girls as left or right. I think of them on a scale of 1-10. With occasional exceptions needing two digits like a 9 body butter face is a 6.

Why come up with a specialized system dependent on your blind guessing correctly their political leaning? There already exists systems that don't require talking about politics at all.

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I didn't mean it in terms of politics. It was an analogy. Left means slutty and right means nice girls. And I don't really use the 1-10 scale. I like to think of women as either doable or dateable. Dateable girls are ones you'd be proud to be seen in public with.

Post: #4

(01-12-2012 04:05 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  So you’re at the bar drinking your beer and you and your wing open a girl or group of girls near you. You get past the initial pleasantries and introductions and you kick it into game mode. You start cracking jokes and telling stories and playfully throwing the occasionally neg at your target. All is going well until you say something she finds a little off-putting and suddenly she goes cold on you. “What the hell happened?” you say to yourself. You crossed the girl’s Douche Point.

I never start with "pleasantries and introductions." Those come way later. I start in "game mode," somewhere in the middle, in terms of "gamey-ness." The game is pretty invisible at this point, but is definitely present for the discerning eye. If she's bitchy or fancies herself as high-value or "clever," I turn up the heat. If she's shy and reclusive, I soften my hand.