Post: #26

(10-24-2016 04:39 PM)Merenguero Wrote:  

(10-24-2016 04:34 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

(10-24-2016 12:46 PM)Kona Wrote:  Find a Long John Silvers open late.

Oh man, I am pretty sure my gut still hates me from the last time I ate at a Long John Silvers nearly a decade ago. Trash in trash out!

The last time I walked into a Red Lobster, exactly two years ago, I threw up twice and couldn't get out of bed for two days and I think Red Lobster is at least a step up from Long John Silvers.

Wow, you just walked into the place and threw up twice? You didn't even have to eat the food to get sick?

That sounds awful.

Post: #27

(10-24-2016 01:37 AM)Burzat Wrote:  You should not spend one cent on bitches that you randomly met on the street or for that matter any other. My approach is simple. If they ask you to buy something. Ask them straight out whats in it for you.

If a poke is on the cards then ask to sample the goodies. If its not forthcoming then they can take a hike. If you get the poke, even then kick them out. Dont spend a cent.

Dont be that guy to buy them shit. The moment you buy them something they got one over you. You going to get nothing.

As your story says. The only person who got his dirty water taken out was the guy whose car they jumped into after you bought them something.

Simple : Dont be that guy. ( who buys bitches stuff).

Haha, thanks bud.

So even on a date, you don't pay for their meal or drink?

It seems like spending money doesn't increase your odds whatsoever at having sex so I may just totally refuse to spend any money, even a cent, as you said.

Post: #28

(10-24-2016 02:03 AM)Balkan Wrote:  No offense OP but this is clickbait. You didn't get robbed you voluntarily bought them food. Girls not down but suddenly would be down if you buy them food=massive red flag. Sounds like you had a weak frame for them to even attempt this and/or they were absolute trash girls.

They were ratchet, dirty hoes, partner.

Post: #29

(10-24-2016 02:06 AM)GlobalMan Wrote:  

(10-24-2016 12:48 AM)Naughty By Nature Wrote:  So my question is: When is it wise to buy a girl food/drink and not be robbed?

When she isn't a hooker and you're not a dupe.

Haha, gotcha.

Post: #30

(10-24-2016 04:03 AM)H1N1 Wrote:  

(10-24-2016 03:02 AM)Merenguero Wrote:  

(10-24-2016 02:08 AM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  ^
^
^What's your notch count there, Scrooge... err Burzat.

Should have told them you'd order food once you got to their place. Ask them if they've ever seen one of those movies with a pizza delivery man in it.

I seriously question any guy who advocates not spending money on girls or not buying girls drinks' notch count. I also seriously question how many places those same guys have locked down and if they even understand the concept of locking places down.

I think this is one of those areas where congruence is important. I always buy the drinks/pay for stuff, but then I dress and act like a successful guy who's got it made (whether true or not, my social background would make any contrary impression pretty incongruous). If you are going to pay for stuff, then I think it is wise to have a demeanour which suggests that you could do this three times-a-night, seven days a week, and it wouldn't even register as a loss. But the impression must be that you are happy to spend money to ensure you have a good time.

If I take a girl out, I always pay. My vibe is that I want to enjoy myself, and a conversation about splitting a bill or how much to tip would be boring for me. It's not necessarily the case - all my money goes back into my business, so I am actually incredibly skint - it would be great if a girl insisted on paying! They don't though, because life has been kind to me and I appear to have it made. I couldn't begin to pull off the struggling artist, or the tortured bad boy. I get told 'you're basically Christian Grey' a lot (until they see my dick ).

lol, I appreciate the candor.

Post: #31

(10-24-2016 06:23 AM)Beirut Wrote:  Nothing wrong with buying a girl food/drink but not when she blatantly suggests it and definitely not when she frames it as a condition to take her home

What non ghetto hooker girl would say that anyway

True, man.

Post: #32

(10-24-2016 10:06 AM)DJ-Matt Wrote:  I'm not down with OP

(hint it's a music joke)

Great tune!

Post: #33

(10-24-2016 10:31 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

(10-24-2016 01:37 AM)Burzat Wrote:  You should not spend one cent on bitches that you randomly met on the street or for that matter any other. My approach is simple. If they ask you to buy something. Ask them straight out whats in it for you.

I'd probably never buy random girls I met on the street anything. But it's situational. If I pull a girl from Tinder or OKC, sometimes I've paid for a drink or a froyo on the first meet.

To my statistical recollection, it's never made a dime of difference as to whether it's worked out or not. If she agreed to meet you, likes your game, and is DTF throwing some eat and drink her way simply won't change her impression one bit. Conversely, if she's not feeling you fairly rapidly from the get-go, it won't matter how many hamburgers you buy her.

In general I think worrying about who pays for what on a date is worrying about what color the bike shed is going to be before the foundation is even laid. The red flag here is that OP was pressured into doing it. Not the actual act of purchase.

Do whatever you feel like, but don't do it if she's behaving like a beggar, or, well, a hoe. At the first indication a girl's looking for some kind of quid pro quo, even if it's just a McDonalds large fry, the only viable response is:

Excellent post, mang.

Will keep this in mind moving forward. It really does have no bearing on a potential lay/lack of lay.

Post: #34

(10-24-2016 04:45 PM)JohnKreese Wrote:  If only the title of the thread was "I got robbed by 2 hoes in Zanesville" expectations wouldn't have been NEARLY as high!

Haha

Post: #35

(10-24-2016 06:25 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  

(10-24-2016 04:03 AM)H1N1 Wrote:  

(10-24-2016 03:02 AM)Merenguero Wrote:  

(10-24-2016 02:08 AM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  ^
^
^What's your notch count there, Scrooge... err Burzat.

Should have told them you'd order food once you got to their place. Ask them if they've ever seen one of those movies with a pizza delivery man in it.

I seriously question any guy who advocates not spending money on girls or not buying girls drinks' notch count. I also seriously question how many places those same guys have locked down and if they even understand the concept of locking places down.

I think this is one of those areas where congruence is important. I always buy the drinks/pay for stuff, but then I dress and act like a successful guy who's got it made (whether true or not, my social background would make any contrary impression pretty incongruous). If you are going to pay for stuff, then I think it is wise to have a demeanour which suggests that you could do this three times-a-night, seven days a week, and it wouldn't even register as a loss. But the impression must be that you are happy to spend money to ensure you have a good time.

If I take a girl out, I always pay. My vibe is that I want to enjoy myself, and a conversation about splitting a bill or how much to tip would be boring for me. It's not necessarily the case - all my money goes back into my business, so I am actually incredibly skint - it would be great if a girl insisted on paying! They don't though, because life has been kind to me and I appear to have it made. I couldn't begin to pull off the struggling artist, or the tortured bad boy. I get told 'you're basically Christian Grey' a lot (until they see my dick ).

Cannot like this post enough. Girls don't want anything involving meeting/sleeping with you to be 'difficult.' Everything in her head about you should scream 'easy to be with.' You buy the drinks, you always have condoms, you pay for the cab back to your crib.

Don't be penny-wise and pound-foolish. And some of the hot girls from super-rich families don't have a dime of cash to their name or even a credit card.

Interesting insight.

Post: #36

(10-25-2016 05:08 AM)Tayo Wrote:  Did you really think buying them food would make them instantly attracted to you and willing to fuck?...

I thought they already were.

Post: #37

This thread reads like a dupe of the Appetizers thread.....

Post: #38

Those are some high quality 10 posts in a row.

"Haha"

"True, man. "

"Haha, gotcha. "

Post: #39

That strange car you saw is probably nutting on their faces.

Post: #40

(10-26-2016 11:32 AM)kaotic Wrote:  This thread reads like a dupe of the Appetizers thread.....

This thread doesn't even sit in that glorious thread's shadow.