Post: #26

(10-09-2016 07:24 AM)Ogunn Wrote:  

(10-09-2016 06:17 AM)oscarwalde Wrote:  Why on earth would you live in that dump when you could live in any other Eastern European country like Ukraine or Russia instead? It just blows my mind - all this information from Rooshv and others, and these people are still WASTING their lives with ugly and manly Western women.

I lived in Berlin for 7 months - Biggest regret of my life to say the least! My least favourite city. Will never go back.

Any people reading this, if you find yourself in Berlin, locate the nearest airport and fly to any Eastern European city, it is 1000X better than Berlin or any city in the Western World.

DON'T WASTE YOUR LIFE EATING MCDONALD'S IF YOU COULD EAT ORGANIC FOOD INSTEAD!!

oscarwalde I assume you didnt read my datasheet before leaving your comment.

When forum members travel we often have different experiences, this leads to different opinions about places to travel. This is due to several factors, bank roll, game level, looks, ethnicity, language skills, time of travel etc.

Instead of making the claim that Eastern European cities are 1000x better than Berlin. You should right up data sheets explaining what your experiences were in Berlin as well as the other cities you have traveled to. In those datasheets you can provide detailed information why you feel one city is better than another.

I lived for quite a while in Berlin. The quality of women is average, nothing special, but the amount of women living there increases the chances of finding an 8+. But it's undeniable that if you want, it's the best city in europe to have any kind of fun. and when I mean, any, it's really any. You can do everything overthere. Hell, you can even go to clubs and have a fucking orgy! Friend of mine told me he went to Berghaim and found a fisting party, another one told me he went to Kit Kat club and it was a dominatrix party. I saw a guy with a watermelon on his head, and a cape, screaming "I'M THE JUGGERNAUT BITCH!". You have several flea markets.
It is a great city to live, it's very cheap for American standards (and more or less the same price as Lisbon, which for me was very good), and you can have very good life quality over there.

IMO, the biggest problems are:
- Huge amount of Turkish guys (yes, guys. Not girls.)
- Too many foreigners living there.
- European gay hub. Guys will hit on you (I take it as a compliment).
- Recent increase in refugees (was in Berlin recently and did not see them in Wilmersdorfer).
- Dreadful online game. Had the worst and longest date of my life from POF or something like that. Ended up trying to ditch her to meet my friends, and the girl (and her friend) followed me. She was German. Did not use tinder.
- "Culture" of "Arm aber sexy" (poor but sexy). Dressing like a bum wields as good results (or even better) as dressing sharp. If you dress sharp you may be considered a "rich burgeois".
- Shitty weather (Lisbon spoils me)
- You will need German for documentation, etc. Be prepared for german bureocracy.

Pros:
- Cheap by European Standards (surely the cheapest civilized European capital)
- Great transportation system. Good connections to other cities in Germany
- Good proficiency of English among most the population
- Very close to Poland
- Huge amount of population means you have more probability of finding an 8+
- Shit load of different niches (if you like goths, punks, hipsters, barbiedolls or whatever there is a place in berlin where you will find them)
- Great offer of clubs
- Lots of tourists (good to meet new people)
- Very active couchsurfing community (even if it's mostly dudes, you can always do some activities and once in a while meet some girls. Couchsurfers are thirsty)
- Lots of people that go there to learn german. Most schools refresh their supply of students every two weeks. Some schools every month. (Got a couple of flags like this. Missed a Japanese one due to cultural differences, language barrier and a shitload of misunderstandings. Still had fun though.)
- Historically very rich
- Regardless of race I believe the average RVF member will stand out. Berlin is a no-limits open city.



If your purpose is to have fun, perhaps learn German, and eventually get a couple of flags, Berlin is a great place to for a medium-long term stay. (3+ months. The best place for different flags is probably a language school. Half the guys are clueless losers, the rest are either asian, muslim or married.
I did not get a German Flag in Berlin. Got it in another more western city. I confirm that they are kinky and some of them could open their own sex shop. (Funny sidestory, my first German flag liked me so much, she got a Portuguese boyfriend that looks like me).

To the OP, great post!

Post: #27

I used to go to Berlin 3-4 times per year for piss-trips. Just meeting up with friends abroad, getting fucked up and partying.
I have recently stopped visiting so much. But I went back about 3 weeks ago and tried to find my old stomping ground. But I was too drunk and couldn't remember exactly how to get there. Then when I was asking locals about this place, they didn't know what the fuck I was talking about. Which infuriated me, because I wanted to get to the bottom of this.
I eventually looked at Berlin on google maps and found it when I got home.

So my question for Berlin locals is: Does this place still exist and is it full of bars and clubs and is it still open?

The place I am talking about is.... Like an old abandoned train station, that they have turned into bars and clubs. You have to go to Fredrichshain-Kreuzberg Where Schleises tor U-Bahn is.
Then you walk over the bridge that goes over the river. And then you keep on going straight and over the next bridge which is going over train lines. And just as you get to the end of the bridge you go down to the right. It's all dark and rapey, full of drugged up people. But a good place to party.

Post: #28

Oh man.. I know exactly where you're talking about. Visited Berlin for a short trip when I was studying in Europe and went out in that area... Definitely want to go again when I go to Berlin

If it helps I remember there was a drum and bass party that night. Not sure if that area exactly

Post: #29

What are the drawbacks of having alot of foreign women? You listed it as a negative.

I live in a German city without a large amount of foreign women and for me thats a negative aspect of living here. I think more options are always better especially having women from different cultures and nationalities around.

What flags did you manage to get while there since you didn't get any German ones?

Seems German girls in-country are harder than ones out of country.. I had alot easier time with them in NYC than here... but again there are more German girls here.. However, I think my first deduction is right.

Like I always say if anyway wants to swing through Cologne/Düsseldorf and have a good time... Let me know. Im an expert around these parts.

Post: #30

(10-25-2016 04:33 AM)Wreckingball Wrote:  I did not get a German Flag in Berlin. Got it in another more western city. I confirm that they are kinky and some of them could open their own sex shop. (Funny sidestory, my first German flag liked me so much, she got a Portuguese boyfriend that looks like me).

To the OP, great post!

I got my German flag in Thessaloniki, Greece. She was from Berlin and wanted to see whether she still liked guys after a 2 year relationship with a lesbian. I took her back to my hotel room and banged her within an hour of meeting. As soon as she finished, she got up, dressed and left, without helping me to finish as well. Most weird ONS ever.

Post: #31

Allright, here is my experience with Berlin: during a couple of months I was working in Germany around Hannover (which is an ugly city with rude, narrow minded, uneducated and racist people, fuck this city), to survive I was going very often to Berlin.

Berlin is a very big city, it is by far the coolest european capital, you can find people from all over the world, there is indeed an important turkish community but I think many people on this forum should be more open minded and stop bitching on the turks. I didn't have any problem with them, actually the coolest shop keepers were turkish.

I stayed in different areas of the city, Kreuzberg, Mitte, Friedrischain, Prenzlauer berg, Neukolln...all these hoods were decent. I am not into nightgame but was relying on daygame and online game. Girls are extremely flakey, it is the national sport to flake so don't take it personally and have 2 or 3 back up dates, yes you gonna end up flaking yourself but it is the only way to make sure you'll have a date.

I was basically chatting up the girls during the week from my shithole and meeting them the weekend, some weekends all the girls were flaking and some other weekends I was ending up fucking a chick friday night and another one saturday...no bullshit.

It's a very liberal city, if you are into wild parties in unpretentious places and/or are into drugs and electro music then Berlin will be your paradise.

I am not into parties/drugs but the easy going atmosphere, cheap prices, countless bars in different neighborhoods totally seduced me.

Quality of girls isn't amazing and the hipsters are fucking it up imo (to a point that many locals became allergic to tourists) but there are so many foreigners that you will find girls you like, no matter what your tastes are.

Post: #32

(10-25-2016 01:35 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  Like I always say if anyone wants to swing through Cologne/Düsseldorf and have a good time... Let me know. Im an expert around these parts.

kirdiesel I will be Black in Berlin in July. I may take you up on that offer and swing by for a few days.

Post: #33

(10-25-2016 05:09 PM)Ogunn Wrote:  

(10-25-2016 01:35 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  Like I always say if anyone wants to swing through Cologne/Düsseldorf and have a good time... Let me know. Im an expert around these parts.

kirdiesel I will be Black in Berlin in July. I may take you up on that offer and swing by for a few days.

I should be here.

Post: #34

(10-25-2016 01:35 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  What are the drawbacks of having alot of foreign women? You listed it as a negative.

I live in a German city without a large amount of foreign women and for me thats a negative aspect of living here. I think more options are always better especially having women from different cultures and nationalities around.

What flags did you manage to get while there since you didn't get any German ones?

Seems German girls in-country are harder than ones out of country.. I had alot easier time with them in NYC than here... but again there are more German girls here.. However, I think my first deduction is right.

Like I always say if anyway wants to swing through Cologne/Düsseldorf and have a good time... Let me know. Im an expert around these parts.

I listed foreign people (including men), not women. The reason I listed it, is because I feel it kind of takes makes the place less "national" (its a weird feeling to describe), and it will be difficult for the german flag. Also with the amount of foreigners, your value as one decreases.
Flags: France, Venezuela, Argentina, Spain. I got some other bangs though from previously flagged countries.

I've also lived in that NRW area. Did not like a single bit. Too boring. No notches. I do admit I was less experienced. I'm pretty sure If I would have spent two or three more days I could have banged an EXTREMELY slutty latvian (and probably get some disease). She could not speak a word of english or a word of german, had two drinks and was in the train sucking my finger. Unfortunately she was with a friend of a colleague of mine who was (perhaps in good grace) cockblocking.

Post: #35

Have been living in Berlin now for over a few years. After visiting/living in EE so much, it's hard sometimes to see the positives, but I can mostly agree with the points in Wreckingball's post.

I've posted a few times before in the Meetups section, but if anyone is around in Berlin and wants to meet up, drop a PM.

Post: #36

Those of you who have read my Berlin datasheet, may recall this really cool German girl I met the last night I was there. She posted a pic of herself hanging out in Miami for her birthday on Thursday. I hit her up Friday and asked if she was in Miami which she confirmed. I was thinking "Dam why didnt she hit up?" I checked for logistics, she traveled to the US alone and is staying with a friend. I assume the "Friend" is probably guy. I let her know I will be hanging out partying, and she says we should stay in touch.

I hit her up Saturday evening around 6pm and let her know some friends and I are going to a comedy club later at 8pm. She says she cant make, but wants to know if I am doing anything afterwards. I tell her we will probably go to a bar later. She tells me to let her know where we will be so we can meet up later.

The comedy show ends at 10:30. My friends and I decide on which bar we are going to around 10:45pm. I hit her up and let her know what bar we will be at. She messages me back right away to let me know she is taking an Uber and will meet me there. My friends and I head to the bar. My boy gets distracted talking to this girl and I go to the bar with a female friend.

I am feeling the vibe at the bar but my female friend isnt. She asks me to walk her to another club around the corner. I let her know that my friend that I am meeting at this bar is European. Which means she probably does not have cell phone service. I told her I would hate for her to show up, not find me, and not be able to reach me and then leave. She suggests I check to see if the bar has free wifi which it does.

I walk my female friend around the corner to the club. At that time, 11:30pm I get a call from the German girl letting me know she is in front of the bar. She wants to know where I am. I tell I had to walk a friend around the corner and I will be there in 2 mins. As I am walking back to the bar. I am wondering if she is going to pull one of those, "I brought my male friend along I hope that was ok?" I get back to the bar. I see her outside with a dude talking to her. I can tell he is not with her he is just trying swoop in on her. I cant blame homie for try to swoop in because dam she looks better than the last time I saw her! She has even grown an ass! Dam she fine!

We both give each other a big hug, the guy she was talking tells me "man you lucky you got here now another two minutes you were going to lose her. I give him a pound, shoot him the player smile and walk into the bar with her.

We meet up with one of my male friends. I introduce her to him and freaks out when I tell him the story about how we met my last night in Berlin. We start dancing. She lets me pull her in close. Dam her body feels good pressed up to mine. I am reading her body language. Although we are dancing and having a good time. I dont escalate psychically. My friend is with us, and I know Germans are less into PDA than Americans. I chat her up while dancing. I am looking for signs she wants me to escalate or go for a kiss. I am getting nothing. She doesnt hold eye contact. Although we dancing close its more like were are just dancing. I am not getting a sexual vibe. I think maybe its just cause its early and she needs to get some alcohol to get into the mood. My boy gets me a drink and I get her a drink. I ask her if she wants a second drink which she declines but asks for water instead. Dam I guess she not trying to get tipsy tonight.

The music and vibe at the bar are on point. She seems to be having fun but not quite at high energy levels I remember when we last hung out. I ask her if she is having fun. She says yes but admits she is tired from being out late last night. We dance for a bit more then I ask if she wants to go for a walk. She says yes. I say goodbye to my male friend and we exit the bar. I take her by the hand, and I lead our way out of the bar. As we are walking out I feel her pulling her hand away. I release her hand soon as we exit the bar. I am thinking that bit of noncompliance is a problem. She was compliant with everything else up to this point. It is now 12:30.

My plan is to walk to a nearby park. There is some artwork and some benches where we can be alone sit down talk and see if I can escalate there. Her not being comfortable with me holding her hand when I was leading her out of the club made me think it was too early to go to the park. After walking a for few minutes I tell her lets go to this other club. Same club I walked my female friend to earlier. She is there with a couple of her female friends. Its a latin dance club. I am thinking seeing my female friend (she is hot, preselection switch will get flipped) and being in a higher energy environment will get her emotions spiking.

I text my friend on the way there asking if she is still there. I get no response. We go into the club. There are women dancers dressed up in Carnival gear dancing on the Bar. There is live band and they are throwing down!! Her energy picks up a lot! We are dancing and having fun. This last for about 20 - 30 mins. Then it starts to get super crowded. It is so crowded it becomes hard to dance. After another 20 -30 minutes we decide to leave. On the way out we see my female friend and I introduce her. My female friend stays in the club. On the way I try to take her in the hand and lead our way out this time. She pulls away and tells me she does not like to be pulled? I decide to change things up and put her in front of me as we walk out of the club. Its about 2:30am when we leave.

When we are out of the club she asks if there is any place nearby where we can get something to eat. There is a taco place a few stores down so we go there. She gets a few tacos and we have a really good convo. We reminisce about the night we met in Berlin. We catch up on what we have been doing since then. We discuss ideas for businesses that would be good ideas to open up in Germany. I express an interest in moving there. She also tells me the guy she is staying with is a guy she met in Israel while she was visiting. Maybe its wishful thinking but I get a beta vibe when she talks about him. Over all the convo is good and she stays engaged the whole time.

Instead of her taking an Uber I offer to drive her back to the place she is staying. On the way back I let her know I was not sure she would have come out tonight. When she asks why. I tell her its because I didnt think she liked me since she didnt let me know she was coming to Miami. She told me she had forgot that I lived in Miami and had thought I lived in NYC. I had told when we met that I was originally from Brooklyn NY. But we have chatted on FB over the past year about her visiting Miami, so I guess she forgot.?

We talk about meeting up again before she leaves on Tuesday. She says to contact her but really wants to do a couple of touristy things like airboating in the everglades before leaves. So things like that will take priority.

She gives me a nice hug then exits the vehicle. This is at 3:30am.

My question to the fellas especially the German expert Kirdiesel is..... What did I do wrong? Anyone think there is a good chance I can close this girl before she leaves? She is one of the few girls that I have met in the past couple years that really stand out, and that I really like, and I actually care about not messing up with. FYI she is actually Italian and lives in Hanover Germany. Her family moved there when she was in highschool. She is in her late 20s now. I dont know if that factors in but I thought I would mention it.

Post: #37

Thanks for this data sheet. Ive been to Germany maybe 30 times but never to Berlin. Mostly stayed in the Cologne, Dusselsorf area.. Planning to go over the Christmas holidays for a couple of weeks.

Any insight on the hip hop club scene? Like what type/race of women frequent them?

Post: #38

@Ogunn: mate I spent 7 months in Hannover in the past and was the happiest man on earth when I left that shithole, the highlight from my stay was that I was going to Berlin every weekend to survive.

Women there are very narrow minded and stuck up, I fucked 2 girls living there, all the others I had in Germany were in Berlin.
I feel that if she was from another city she would be more open to physical escalation.

Post: #39

(10-23-2017 12:47 PM)ag101 Wrote:  Thanks for this data sheet. Ive been to Germany maybe 30 times but never to Berlin. Mostly stayed in the Cologne, Dusselsorf area.. Planning to go over the Christmas holidays for a couple of weeks.

Any insight on the hip hop club scene? Like what type/race of women frequent them?

I went to Badhaus and Bricks. Badhuas was mostly white with a couple of turkish looking girls and a couple of black girls. They def seemed more open and friendly than the average girl you meet on the street. Bricks is more of an upscale club. Most of the girls there looked mixed black girls, some white and some Turkish looking girls. I didnt stay to long but it looked alright.

Next time I go I will hit up more of the hip hop clubs.

Post: #40

Berlin Trip- November 22-28...I will be Berlin for the next 7 days, I will add my report on the trip this week..

Another tip Ogunn is use Momondo.com for flights cheaper than Skyscanner.com, if you don't know about the site.

Post: #41

Good stuff ogunn. Been following your recs but so far I'm not feeling Berlin at all. Average is quite low. Maybe they aren't that bad but between their terrible style, weird walk and hipster vibe I'm not feeling like fucking 99 percent of the girls I meet.

Friday went to Odessa bar. Posted up at the bar and it was easy to open countless sets of girls coming to order drinks. Most were receptive and friendly but none were hot nor easy so didn't go anywhere. The only hot one was a Brazilian tourist leaving the next morning and couldn't make it happen.

Saturday daytime went to Friedrich strasse or whatever and there were some decent foot traffic. There's some kind of food place that had a lot of hot girls, will try to get the name tomorrow.

At night I went to sharlie cheen bar. For a bar with no doorman it had a very good ratio and lots of groups of girls. What sucks though is that everyone is seated in tables or at set seats at the bar so it's awkward to open if they're not next to you. Was solo at the bar and it doesn't get packed or anything so the logistics inside suck for opening even though ratios were good.

Sunday daytime went to Mauer Park and its just hell on Earth. Never seen so many ugly girls in one place in my life. How the fuck do these hipsters manage to gather thousands in that place and not have one attractive girl between them is beyond me.

At night i met a solo Asian tourist so hung out with her but yeah this place is killing my libido.

Gonna hit up Charlottenburg tomorrow and maybe the Pearl at night.

Post: #42

^this is a pretty standard Berlin experience I think Beirut. Its one of the worst places I've been in Europe for average attractiveness of women. Just so many with awful hipster looks, and awful hipster (and German on top of it) attitudes on top of it. Its good for historical museums and such, and its good for drugsy nightclubs if you're into that scene. And it is very cheap for a big European city. But its pretty terrible in general for game.

If you can get yourself down to Southern Germany its much better. More attractive, traditional looking girls who also drink more and have more fun. Munich is much better for gaming.

Post: #43

(04-29-2018 08:32 PM)Beirut Wrote:  Good stuff ogunn. Been following your recs but so far I'm not feeling Berlin at all.

Keep in mind I was there from late August to early September. IDK if the difference in timing affects the amount and quality of women that are out.

(04-29-2018 08:32 PM)Beirut Wrote:  Average is quite low. Maybe they aren't that bad but between their terrible style, weird walk and hipster vibe I'm not feeling like fucking 99 percent of the girls I meet.

Terrible style and Weird Walk? LOL.

I get you with being turned off the hipster style. But there are plenty of women there with style. Have you not seen any? Are you into fashion?
Have you been to Kdam? That place reminds me of 5th Ave in Manhattan or Lincoln RD in South Beach. Nothing but high end stores and ALOT of very fashionable ladies walking around, more so on the weekend than weekdays.

If I understand you correctly. You are saying that if you had met a young Charlize Theron look a like, that was obviously interested in you. You would not have pursued, because of her style of dress and had weird walk?

(04-29-2018 08:32 PM)Beirut Wrote:  Friday went to Odessa bar. Posted up at the bar and it was easy to open countless sets of girls coming to order drinks. Most were receptive and friendly but none were hot nor easy so didn't go anywhere. The only hot one was a Brazilian tourist leaving the next morning and couldn't make it happen.

Here is a tip. I think I mentioned this in the Datasheet. If you are at a venue with little to no action. Look for the coolest looking dude with the hottest chick/chicks. Ask him where can you go from here that has the best music, cool vibes, and the hottest ladies. 9 times out of 10 he will tell you where to go. Half of the time he may ask you to join his group and accompany you there.

(04-29-2018 08:32 PM)Beirut Wrote:  Saturday daytime went to Friedrich strasse or whatever and there were some decent foot traffic. There's some kind of food place that had a lot of hot girls, will try to get the name tomorrow.

Yes please post the name once you get it.

This supports the argument that there are hot girls in Berlin. I think a big part of finding them is knowing where to look and having the right timing.

FYI it seemed to me that half the women I encountered were either tourists, non ethnic Germans or Expats from all over Europe. With all that going on you are bound to find hot babes.

(04-29-2018 08:32 PM)Beirut Wrote:  At night I went to sharlie cheen bar. For a bar with no doorman it had a very good ratio and lots of groups of girls. What sucks though is that everyone is seated in tables or at set seats at the bar so it's awkward to open if they're not next to you. Was solo at the bar and it doesn't get packed or anything so the logistics inside suck for opening even though ratios were good.

Its only akward if you make it akward. If there are mixed groups approach one of the guys, preferably the leader. Ask him for directions / advice on where to go etc. Then make an observation about the group and ask how everyone knows each other. You should be able to handle it from there. If its an all girl group do the same, open the leader.

If you start talking to someone and they respond in German. Respond with "Ich bin Amerkaner, English Bitte." Berlin is so diverse most people will assume you live there. Once you let them know you are American or a tourist that will give you 3 min window of interest that you can build upon.

(04-29-2018 08:32 PM)Beirut Wrote:  Sunday daytime went to Mauer Park and its just hell on Earth. Never seen so many ugly girls in one place in my life. How the fuck do these hipsters manage to gather thousands in that place and not have one attractive girl between them is beyond me.

When I went I saw plenty of hotties. IDK if its the time of year or what. I will say this. When I was there, everyone I opened was a tourist.

(04-29-2018 08:32 PM)Beirut Wrote:  Gonna hit up Charlottenburg tomorrow and maybe the Pearl at night.

Cool, report back when you do.

IDK what your taste are as far as women goes, but I saw enough women that look like the image below to make me want to go back.

Post: #44

The main asset of Berlin is that it is a cheap european capital with a vibrant artistic scene. You don’t need to dress up to go out. There is an invasion of hipsters and locals aren’t happy with that as the prices are increasing because of them. When I was working in Germany ( in a shithole in lower Saxony), I was every weekend in Berlin. I got laid half the time ( black dutch, argentinian, some german...). The main problem is that women there are very flaky, apparently it’s a Berlin thing and everybody is flaky.

Mauer Park is very fun in summertime and that neighborhood in general (Prenzlauer berg) is really cool, lot of restaurants and bars.

I would pick Berlin anyday over London or Paris.

This being said, if you are into women who are into fashion and make up and who respond to money and social status, you won’t be happy in Berlin.

Post: #45

Ogunn I overrate a blond girl as much as a zulu warrioer from the Sahara but I haven't seen one girl like that in Berlin


Anyway I figured it out. You can guilt trip the 6-low 7s into you if you can pass as a minority.if you have some pride though it won't work. As for her higher quality i don't know coz havent seen them yet. Will update as it changes but German girls are so far naive as fuck and I'm not depraved enough to take advantage of it.

Post: #46

(04-30-2018 05:58 PM)Beirut Wrote:  Ogunn I overrate a blond girl as much as a zulu warrioer from the Sahara but I haven't seen one girl like that in Berlin


Anyway I figured it out. You can guilt trip the 6-low 7s into you if you can pass as a minority.if you have some pride though it won't work. As for her higher quality i don't know coz havent seen them yet. Will update as it changes but German girls are so far naive as fuck and I'm not depraved enough to take advantage of it.

Guilt trip? Huh?

I dont know what your background is. There is definitely a group of women in Germany and in many European countries that have a STRONG preference for Black and Latin guys.

No guilt trips necessary. Dont be put off by these German girls coldness\shyness at first. Strange guys walking up to talk to girls is not a thing there. Just explain you are American, let them know you are interested in them and that is how we roll US. It just takes a bit longer to break the ice with them. Also be on the look out for IOIs. ie if a girl smiles at you from across the room or on the metro. This is the German equivalent of a girl walking up and grabbing you dick in a club in the US. LOL Ok so I am exaggerating, but hopefully you get my point.

What is the weather like over there? Is it warm yet?

Post: #47

Weather is great. I'm Arabic btw, not American.

Anyway I'm jumping to conclusions based on limited experience but ime I feel that the girls want to play captain save a hoe with us being the 3rd world hoe.

It may sound harsh but I found that when I try to assert myself whether through dress or behavior I've been ignored and when I've been introduced through the back door I've been molested.

I've had a few meaningful nteractions and observations that have led me to believe as much as well. I cannot comment on the top tier of girls because like I said I haven't seen them. Didn't make it through to Pearl

Post: #48

(04-30-2018 09:14 PM)Beirut Wrote:  Weather is great. I'm Arabic btw, not American.

Anyway I'm jumping to conclusions based on limited experience but ime I feel that the girls want to play captain save a hoe with us being the 3rd world hoe.

It may sound harsh but I found that when I try to assert myself whether through dress or behavior I've been ignored and when I've been introduced through the back door I've been molested.

I've had a few meaningful nteractions and observations that have led me to believe as much as well. I cannot comment on the top tier of girls because like I said I haven't seen them. Didn't make it through to Pearl

Beirut, You are lebanese, and from the way you write english ( better than me?) I can tell you are an educated man.

Germany has been invaded by uneducated arabs, in the shithole where I was working, they were hundreds around the central station, staying around doing nothing night and day because the wifi was free. There is a growing racism because of them and stereotypes get stronger as they think all arabs are miserable and uneducated.

Don’t let them put you in that box, show them immediately strong signs that you are different, for instance tell them that you have a successfull company and are there to do business. Show them that you are successfull in life, show them your knowledge in food, art, travels...anything which sets you apart.

I hope you’ll have fun the rest of your trip.

Post: #49

Thanks Lino but so far I feel the opposite is working. I realised my live from the bar posts were incoherent. I'll try to explain now.

Based on observations the only guys who are dating UP are the total lost cases who would never get laid anywhere. They're getting average chicks which is awesome for them. I saw many couples like that.

Anyway yesterday I got more active and found that I had the best success when I played beta nice guy, basically acting as their nodding best friend and sticking around until comfort is established.

Any attempt to "game" or tease or be cocky before that led nowhere.

There was a first date next to me with an Indian dude and an average German chick. She was very cold, looking away, barely responding. He orders the check and insists on paying then his card doesn't work. Instantly she becomes affectionate.

I felt like a lot of them want you to have a sad story. I got ahead with a couple of girls and with both I was in gay best friend mode and they were going into social issues. I said I had a job interview and that's why I wore a shirt to try to look presentable. She jumps and hugs me while I secretly puke in my mouth. And it ended in a make out so u can still sexualize it eventually.

I realise what I'm saying applies only to the average chicks but they're 90 percent of Mitte so far. It's a small sample size but I'm seeing a pattern.

There's a lot of typical spoiled kids who either pretend to be extreme or overcompensate by wanting to constantly prove they're so open. They should just own up to the fact they live in a first tier city with amazing perks and enjoy it and STFU. Or I'm just a cynical old man.

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Anybody in Berlin? Recent arrival and looking for wings for day and night game