Post: #1

My other threads so you can know more about me:

Hiring a hooker to break the ice?

Picking up girls while being overweight

Continuing from my last post, which was:

konkerer Wrote:joehoya...

I followed your advice and I approached 5 women in 1 day without any luck. I know I should approach more but I didn't have any confidence left. Anyway, a couple of days ago I met a girl at my gym who I am interested in and she keeps showing IOI's, like looking around, making eye contact and smiling. I always ask how she is doing when I enter my gym but I don't stop and talk to her for longer for some strange reason. What do you think I should do? I do not want this to end like the time in high school where girls showed obvious attention to me but I didn't do shit about it because I was too scared.

The thing is that I want to find a girl to get over this virginity hurdle. I obviously want to do it with a girl I like but I am too afraid of making mistakes or doing silly things... Which is why I think a hooker is the best, she won't care about anything and she won't tell her friends (she won't know my name, etc) unlike this girl. It also doesn't help that I live in a small town.

Today I went to the gym again and saw the girl. I was going to approach her this time but out of the blue I saw her talking to 2 other guys who were standing by her side helping her with the exercise machines constantly. I saw no way to get into the group as the guys were obviously trying to play her and we all know cockblocking sucks.

In myself I was laughing at these guys because they pampered the girl with everything in the gym and the guys didn't even get to train. But at the end I noticed the girl was laughing and gave them her number. When I saw that I immediately thought of one of roosh's posts on that when you seek advice on how to get girl, you already lost her. I should have talked to her the first time I saw her instead of waiting like a beta. What should I do? I am planning on just talkign to her tomorrow and act like I didn't even see the guys talking to her Yesterday.

Post: #2

Goto OkCupid and POF. Fill up your profile, put up 3-4 decent pics and start messaging atleast 50 girls everyday. Dont focus on quality. At the very worst, 3-4 should reply and atleast 1-2 should be down for meeting. Escalate and Fuck.

How old are you, btw?

Post: #3

Don't be picky about the girl, situation or even if you work with them and can get something going. At all.

Post: #4

I don't think you needed to create another thread, a follow up in the other would have been sufficient.

(01-05-2012 12:06 PM)ersatz Wrote:  Don't be picky about the girl

Agreed

Post: #5

Forget bars and clubs, this is way out of your reach. Best place is university, book stores, etc. Start with an ugly girl who will be patient. Make her your gf for a while, no need to introduce her to your friends and family (hide her).