Post: #1

I've had an occurrence w these young girls. I'm 28, i met up w a 21 yr old Friday.

We'd went for drinks and got food. Seemed like she was into me, then at like 11 she had to meet up w her girlfriend bc she thought there was no plans for after our thing. We walk back to my car it was near my office. We're holding hands I'm holding her in my arm. I open the office to put my food in the fridge, wanted to bang her there and she knew it so she didn't stay in there long. We go out in the hallway and we start making out pretty heavy, I'm like lets go inside there's cameras out here and she's like no lets go in your car.

So I'm like ok. We go in my car continue the hooking up she's grabbing my junk I'm feeling her up, but I have to take her home bc her friend is coming to get her. I take her home end up feeling her V and everything seems good.

All she kept doing was apologizing to me "I'm so sorry I have to meet up w her I had no idea" blah blah blah

Anyway I'm thinking we'd meet up the next day bc she texted me when I left.

Anyway last night she goes out w her friends again bc I saw her snapchat. She ignored my texts from earlier in the day, she texted first. She replied at like 12am "sorry"

I hit her up today and like what's up she's like "recovering"

I just don't know what to do. I hate text bc it's so easy for them to not reply. I asked her
What happened last night and that I was still waiting on pics as a running semi joke.

Anyway I feel like she wants me to be real thirsty for her, which I get and which I don't have a problem doing, but I don't want to fuck it up and either have her think im creepy or have her think I'm weak.

Post: #2

Ignore for 3 days and let her initiate contact. Your time is worth more than this bullshit. If she's "sorry", then she should come to you; otherwise you show her your thirst.

Post: #3

(09-04-2016 02:31 PM)Matsufubu Wrote:  Ignore for 3 days and let her initiate contact. Your time is worth more than this bullshit. If she's "sorry", then she should come to you; otherwise you show her your thirst.

And what happens after 3 days?

I feel like the problem is I've done this before and then nothing ever comes of it, they don't usually "snap back" like they're supposed to.

To be fair the last one I did this too was like 30, this girl is now 21 so maybe she will.

After 3 days would you do anything like text her if you don't hear?

One of my problems is impatience... i like getting shit done you know, and that causes me to be anxious to figure out next steps w these girls.

Post: #4

She doesn't like you as much as you like her.

She partied with her friends because partying was more fun than fucking you.

She said she was recovering because she probably is recovering.

Find more options, she'll come back around to fuck when she is bored.

It's not always some sort of hidden meaning like you guys think. I've fucked a lot of girls in my day, and if I had four or five real good guy friends wanting to go out and party for the night, drink, smoke cigars, I would choose them over a girl also.

Because it provides a greater stimulus for me.

Post: #5

(09-04-2016 03:44 PM)LINUX Wrote:  She doesn't like you as much as you like her.

She partied with her friends because partying was more fun than fucking you.

She said she was recovering because she probably is recovering.

Find more options, she'll come back around to fuck when she is bored.

It's not always some sort of hidden meaning like you guys think. I've fucked a lot of girls in my day, and if I had four or five real good guy friends wanting to go out and party for the night, drink, smoke cigars, I would choose them over a girl also.

Because it provides a greater stimulus for me.

Fair enough, I don't like her I just wanted to fuck her and would still like to fuck her.

Solution is always to find more options so that's what I'm doing, I was just curious if I should spend any more time to it or not b/c it seemed like it could work.

Post: #6

(09-04-2016 01:32 PM)angryfuckface Wrote:  I've had an occurrence w these young girls. I'm 28, i met up w a 21 yr old Friday.

We'd went for drinks and got food. Seemed like she was into me, then at like 11 she had to meet up w her girlfriend bc she thought there was no plans for after our thing. We walk back to my car it was near my office. We're holding hands I'm holding her in my arm. I open the office to put my food in the fridge, wanted to bang her there and she knew it so she didn't stay in there long. We go out in the hallway and we start making out pretty heavy, I'm like lets go inside there's cameras out here and she's like no lets go in your car.

So I'm like ok. We go in my car continue the hooking up she's grabbing my junk I'm feeling her up, but I have to take her home bc her friend is coming to get her. I take her home end up feeling her V and everything seems good.

All she kept doing was apologizing to me "I'm so sorry I have to meet up w her I had no idea" blah blah blah

Anyway I'm thinking we'd meet up the next day bc she texted me when I left.

Anyway last night she goes out w her friends again bc I saw her snapchat. She ignored my texts from earlier in the day, she texted first. She replied at like 12am "sorry"

I hit her up today and like what's up she's like "recovering"

I just don't know what to do. I hate text bc it's so easy for them to not reply. I asked her
What happened last night and that I was still waiting on pics as a running semi joke.

Anyway I feel like she wants me to be real thirsty for her, which I get and which I don't have a problem doing, but I don't want to fuck it up and either have her think im creepy or have her think I'm weak.

She can sense your frame/inner game weaknesses. Your already coming off as thirsty and too available.

If you had pushed the right buttons the girl wouldn't have made plans to ditch you, or if she had made plans prior to the date she would have ditched her friends to spend the night with you.

Forget this one.

Post: #7

(09-04-2016 04:15 PM)aeroektar Wrote:  

(09-04-2016 01:32 PM)angryfuckface Wrote:  I've had an occurrence w these young girls. I'm 28, i met up w a 21 yr old Friday.

We'd went for drinks and got food. Seemed like she was into me, then at like 11 she had to meet up w her girlfriend bc she thought there was no plans for after our thing. We walk back to my car it was near my office. We're holding hands I'm holding her in my arm. I open the office to put my food in the fridge, wanted to bang her there and she knew it so she didn't stay in there long. We go out in the hallway and we start making out pretty heavy, I'm like lets go inside there's cameras out here and she's like no lets go in your car.

So I'm like ok. We go in my car continue the hooking up she's grabbing my junk I'm feeling her up, but I have to take her home bc her friend is coming to get her. I take her home end up feeling her V and everything seems good.

All she kept doing was apologizing to me "I'm so sorry I have to meet up w her I had no idea" blah blah blah

Anyway I'm thinking we'd meet up the next day bc she texted me when I left.

Anyway last night she goes out w her friends again bc I saw her snapchat. She ignored my texts from earlier in the day, she texted first. She replied at like 12am "sorry"

I hit her up today and like what's up she's like "recovering"

I just don't know what to do. I hate text bc it's so easy for them to not reply. I asked her
What happened last night and that I was still waiting on pics as a running semi joke.

Anyway I feel like she wants me to be real thirsty for her, which I get and which I don't have a problem doing, but I don't want to fuck it up and either have her think im creepy or have her think I'm weak.

She can sense your frame/inner game weaknesses. Your already coming off as thirsty and too available.

If you had pushed the right buttons the girl wouldn't have made plans to ditch you, or if she had made plans prior to the date she would have ditched her friends to spend the night with you.

Forget this one.

This is basically what I thought, and it might be right.

BUT, why would she be all touchy feely w/ me an make out with me and touch me and let me play with her? Just to be nice and let me down easy?

That's what's throwing me off.

Post: #8

(09-04-2016 03:17 PM)angryfuckface Wrote:  And what happens after 3 days?

I feel like the problem is I've done this before and then nothing ever comes of it, they don't usually "snap back" like they're supposed to.

To be fair the last one I did this too was like 30, this girl is now 21 so maybe she will.

After 3 days would you do anything like text her if you don't hear?

One of my problems is impatience... i like getting shit done you know, and that causes me to be anxious to figure out next steps w these girls.

I don't mean spend three days watching your phone and fretting about what might happen; I mean forget her for 3 days, get on with your life, chat to other girls. The idea is to establish your ZFG frame towards her and her behaviour. That tells her that you're worth following up on. She's testing you to see where you stand on the ladder, and being needy for an answer/outcome tells her that the ball is in her court and she can play you how she likes.

If she doesn't get back in contact, so what, move on to the next one. In fact, move on to the next one NOW. ZFG comes from options, and if you wait for her to play you how she wants you in her own good time, you're fucked anyway. Either way it turns out you have an answer.

If she doesn't get back in contact, write her off. She's just a standard young woman, nothing to chase, easy to replace. Even the best PUAs are going to get blown off most of the time, that's why it's a numbers game. You don't apply for one job and wait weeks for a reply one way or the other, do you? No, you send out dozens of resumes, make dozens of phone calls and maybe you'll get a couple of interviews.

What she has to offer, the market is flooded with. Believe that you are the prize and all else will follow.

Post: #9

This is basically what I thought, and it might be right.

BUT, why would she be all touchy feely w/ me an make out with me and touch me and let me play with her? Just to be nice and let me down easy?

That's what's throwing me off.
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To see if you blow her away with wild lust and feelings for her to give in to. Girls want you to ace the test, not pass it. You didn't flunk it but she's not going to throw herself at you. Move on, and if she gets back to you then try again with more forcefulness to show her that you're the alpha fuck she wants. Also understand that this one's probably lost, so if she flakes again write her off completely.

Post: #10

The way I see it you made a mistake by escalating things in your office, although you knew very well she had plans. You should've just kissed her for a minute, no tongue and no funny business in your car, then set up another meeting.

Anyway the meeting was sketchy from the beginning. Girls dont usually make plans to see their friends when going on a date unless they have second thoughts about you.

Your best bet now is to move on. Do text her in a few days but don't expect much. She has buyer's remorse right now.

Post: #11

(09-05-2016 03:43 PM)Pointer Wrote:  The way I see it you made a mistake by escalating things in your office, although you knew very well she had plans. You should've just kissed her for a minute, no tongue and no funny business in your car, then set up another meeting.

Anyway the meeting was sketchy from the beginning. Girls dont usually make plans to see their friends when going on a date unless they have second thoughts about you.

Your best bet now is to move on. Do text her in a few days but don't expect much. She has buyer's remorse right now.

I've seen her snapchat a few days since then and I've seen her out both nights. She's an airhead. Drinking every night, i heard her friends call her a tease, she posted a pic out w/ some guy and said "out with this bitch".

She must just be a huge cock tease and young and knows it. I guess she was in 2 LTRs during highschool but she's probably a huge whore too.

I escalated b/c I wanted to see if I could get her to forget about her friends. And yea I agree maybe she wasn't into me so she went w/ her friends.

Either way I'm not gunna hit her up until MAYBE later this week.

I hate getting played so much, especially b/c I thought I had this one in the bag so I kind of crashed from my high and let myself down.

It sucks but w/e.

Post: #12

This is what happens when you dont have atleast two kitty in the bag. Meet one more woman and you will stop thinking about this one. And when you stop caring, they sense it, and throw themselves at you.

Post: #13

Lol You thirsty. She can tell, gave you a little tease so she can leave. You wanted go inside smash, she said let's go in the car, you said okay. Power is in her hands... She has somewhere to be you don't, she got options.

The woman has to want sex as much as the man or it ain't happening. The signals wasn't there indicate that.

Post: #14

Just tell her you can't find the time to talk because your Gulfstream 5 broke down and it's going to cost you $800,000 for a new engine.

She'll come around.