Bomb explodes in Thailand right after I walked there. I wake up and see it is front page news.

Come back to Philippines, go to Davao and a front page news bomb blast hits steps from where I stayed just after I depart to Manila. Seems like the front page-making terrorist attacks in this world want to follow my footsteps in Asia!

On another note, I always feel like there is one thing that is really different between Philippines and latan. In Latam, it seems I impress the girls most by being best possible in Spanish and they want me to be the kind that sticks around. In the Philippines it seems that any hint that I lurk around the Philippines turns them off and I put in too much effort just to make myself look brand new to the country. I think latam game is more meant for me. When sendig messages in my good Spanish on latin cupid, I dont even worry about the rate of response, I enjoy amazing responce rate. In Philippines I worry too much about my messages getting ignored and hot to prevent this. A handful of messages to latam cupid gets me a hand full of replies. Seems like a truckload of messages on Phil cupid is needed for my handful of replies. I think that my Spanish ability is drawing chicks in latam while my young age is repelling them in Phil. So this reinforces the plan that I prettty much have to ditch this country at least for the next 10 years and I might get more results in countries around Colombia. I will probably do better in the Philippines as I hit age 35 or have the ability to lie and put that age once I am at least somewhere into my 30s. This country is so poor and the girls dont even wanna bother with young men whereas the other countries have some that would love to meet me. I think being young makes it good for daygame yes, but online game seems like not enough girls want to give time to young men. Some are, but many are not. Or maybe it IS the young age that is lower my chances and making myself look new was not as important. Either way, ltam is officially the way to go for my plan and higher success online in latam might have to do with age and language proficiency so I better go ahead and begin there pronto! Only thing holding me back here now is that I have deposits on rent and I need to manage my finances well just to be able to make my transition out of this country and eventually to latam.
update: and I sent more than 20 messages on fc and still not really moving. When I got a short 1 hour trial on latam cupid, just a quick testing out with a few girls got me replies and requests for facebook. So yep, after this 3 months I aint wasting more time in Manila with NWern S America and Central America waiting for me! That short free trial period in latam cupid sure was a success and they earned themselves another upcoming subscriber who wanna ditch the Philippines! Anyone else with good Spanish notice that latam had more amazing response rate online than Philippines? And any young people find girls seemingly ignoring you because you are young? I dont think I am doing anything wrong because latam is working so well online, but Philippines not as well.
I am stuck here till end of Nov then im FREEEE!!!!!!

(09-02-2016 12:15 PM)erikak Wrote:  Thanks for the link. I'll pass on Davao... Luzon's treating me nice enough anyway

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Very very nice

She looks half-white, could pass for a high quality Korean/Japanese. Did you meet her during the day? I love this type of filipina but they're a lot more scarce than the brown types.

It's been a tiring 4 days here between the jetlag and the dating. Just had a really cute and young college girl tonight. A little spinner with that bubbly, cute kind of personality I adore. Her English could use some work though. I started pipelining her on FC a few weeks ago and it wasn't long before she was saying "I love you". I would say it back because I was 9,000 miles away and thought I was being trolled anyways because her profile was one of the better ones I've seen on FC, for me anyways. Turns out she was real and we had a really good time tonight. Perfect cuddler and great in the sack. She says she's only had one previous guy and just lost her virginity earlier this year (which is a common theme I've found among FC girls ), but I have my doubts because she gave really great head.

I like her a lot, but it's very much like "Hey Nineteen". There's not a lot of conversation except the romantic kissing, teasing, playfulness with each other which is fantastic and what I've been longing for. I just wish she came with the deep convo package as well. It was only the first night though, maybe that will get better.

I felt awkward walking and holding hands with her to the Jeepney stop which was a hike. Everyone was staring at us and I felt very self-conscious. Nobody really stares at me when I'm walking alone, but when I have a girl with me it's all eyes. It's annoying.

She's pretty attached as always and coming over again tomorrow. I also have the other girl from a couple nights ago who I like who is pushing to come over again and she's a 2 hour bus ride away. She's been calling, and texting, asking if I have another girl. These damn girls get so possessive. Then I have some girls in Cebu and Mindanao pressing me, I just don't have the bandwidth to juggle them all, but I want explore more without losing the two I have and of course, up the quality.

How do I maintain a harem here? In the States girls don't push for attention like these Pinay's! I also don't want to break the hearts of girls who have been good to me, but I guess that's life, everyone knows what they're getting into.

I've thought about using the "have to go back to the States for business" excuse and then pop back in a month later or something.

I've also thought about being up front and saying, "I really like you, but I'm not ready to commit to one girl yet. I think that would backfire though.

Or just keep juggling until one falls out of the rotation. I've been using the jetlag excuse pretty well, but that won't last forever. Right now I only have two, but I want to keep them and add.

I know, third world problems.
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All that rambling above aside I've noticed some things that have me perplexed. Maybe the more experienced members can shed some light on it.

1) 2/3 girls have not wanted me to go down on them or even look at their pussy. They cover it with their hand! This naturally worries me, as if something is wrong, but when I can finally get a quick visual/sniff test all seems fine.

Is this a common shyness thing with less-experienced girls or just Pinay's in general?

2) The girl from tonight is so lovey dovey in her texts it gets to be too much. Every text has "I love you so much sweetie" nestled in somewhere's. Anybody come across a girl like that before? Is it a game? Or is she so childlike that's its real?

If any members are around in Makati and want to meetup, it would be great to catch a break from all of this and enjoy some real conversation again.

About it being better to be older in the Philippines, there's some truth to it but more with sub 8 girls. If a girl is really beautiful-- over 5'3" , lovely China doll or total jungle sex kitten face (big lips nice teeth) , under 24, elegant model proportions, lighter skin-- she tends to be angling for a young korean or Aussie, she has already been spoiled by a younger sexpat and thinks they will keep coming and paying. She's probably not to bright

Glad to hear your having a good time Onto. Most of the women I was with on my trips didn't want me seeing them naked or looking at there pussies either. After sex they would wrap a towel or blanket around them and hurry to the bathroom to shower.

Your comment about you feeling awkward about walking with a woman was funny. When I was in Cebu in April. I hooked up with a beautiful pinay. Probably the best looking girl I have ever had. We were walking in I.T park and a bunch of construction workers were standing on the corner staring at her and heckling the two of us. I could just feel their hatred for me. Lol

As far as maintaining a harem. I never lied to any of the women. I told all the girls I was there for 3 or 4 weeks on vacation. Usually after about 2 weeks I was so over sexed I didn't even care about a harem anymore. Just picked my favorite girl and spent the remaining time with her.

I know your in Manila. So, I'm not sure if there are places to do this. But, if you get a chance checkout the whale shark diving tour. It is well worth it. One of the best experiences of my life.

(09-03-2016 10:35 AM)Schlep Wrote:  Glad to hear your having a good time Onto. Most of the women I was with on my trips didn't want me seeing them naked or looking at there pussies either. After sex they would wrap a towel or blanket around them and hurry to the bathroom to shower.

Thanks man, that puts my mind at ease.

(09-03-2016 10:19 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:  About it being better to be older in the Philippines, there's some truth to it but more with sub 8 girls. If a girl is really beautiful-- over 5'3" , lovely China doll or total jungle sex kitten face (big lips nice teeth) , under 24, elegant model proportions, lighter skin-- she tends to be angling for a young korean or Aussie, she has already been spoiled by a younger sexpat and thinks they will keep coming and paying. She's probably not to bright

And it is pretty much sub 8 girls I will say. They have said before on the forum, age was an asset. I think it is safe to confirm that young age alone has cost me countless easy chicks. I can smell the "Dude is too young, why bother with him" spinning in their head. These girls are SO EASY, but the prospect of a quality relation is what brings them over so my young age is keeping a bunch of easy women out. The ones that are simply just horny as fuck do come. Those that are really into fun and want to enjoy being with an american, will come for sure. The majority though, want this prospect of a relationship outta this which is the cause for them ignoring the young one. Seems that those that want a relationship are still so easy to fuck right away but again won't come if they see no decent prospects for relationship like due to age. Im so sick of the "Have a safe trip" and quick coming "take care" with the stench of a dead end road in the chat. What often becomes "HAve a safe trip!" for me in Phil becomes more like "Tienes facebook?" in latam. I prefer the latter!

The way these women are, I think I will be having a fuck fest if I hold off till, as I said earlier, maybe at least I am old enough to lie and put 35. But honestly, it seems like any city outside Manila might be different. Even if you are young, they all still want to meet you. I think the people that said Davao was the best, must have been younger age. 2nd/3rd tier city girls actually like you regardless of age. Go to Cebu, Dipolog, Iligan, Malaybalay, Pagadian, Zamboanga, Tagum, even Cagayan de oro, you will notice that rejection for young age is non existent! If you are older, you wont need those cities. But if you are in Manila, are young and feel rejected for it, go to another island! Im sure Cebu is really good if you feel too young for huge attention in Manila. They attack you for attention, even if you are young! Just in Manila more picky about age it seems.

Vietnam, Thailand, and most of latam will have better results until I am old enough to take full advantage of the Philippines so I should enjoy great girls in DR, Mexico, and most of south america where the latinas actually more value a young male. I am a standard member and more inactive on latam cupid and DR is a country with also over 10 times fewer population than Phil and yet that country alone gets me more messages in my inbox. I am wasting my time not being in latam. This forum had advised that those far from being old will benefit from doing these other countries first and saving Philippines till you get older and I didnt listen!

Let this post be a lesson to other young users on this site before they consider picking here over latam/Thailand etc.

(09-03-2016 10:43 AM)Onto Wrote:  

(09-03-2016 10:35 AM)Schlep Wrote:  Glad to hear your having a good time Onto. Most of the women I was with on my trips didn't want me seeing them naked or looking at there pussies either. After sex they would wrap a towel or blanket around them and hurry to the bathroom to shower.

Thanks man, that puts my mind at ease.

I spent enough time to learn how it was. When I was new to everything, having them cover themselves up made me think that for sure there would be no sex! I thought if they are shy about that, then no way you could penetrate it! Turns out, they are not shy to have you fuck it, but are shy if you eye fuck it LOL!

(09-03-2016 07:00 PM)Cogon Wrote:  2nd/3rd tier city girls actually like you regardless of age. Go to Cebu, Dipolog, Iligan, Malaybalay, Pagadian, Zamboanga, Tagum, even Cagayan de oro

Have you been to those cities? Around when, and what were they like?

I was going to travel to a few on that list, but I think now is a bad time for it with the recent Abu Sayyaf conflict. I imagine an escalation of kidnapping's in those areas will be next. In the past it was for money, some say orchestrated by politicians around election time to gain the funds needed to buy votes.

This time it just might be for destabilizing the economy in those areas.

I'd say avoid islands in Mindanao for now to be safe. Luzon, Visayas and Negros should keep you busy for a few lifetimes.

I was just in Cebu for most of August and went to Bohol and passed through Tagbilaran, a city with 4 universities. Good potential there. I only stayed there for a day but saw good talent who were quite intrigued and open from the looks I was getting. I was there with a sexy rich girl but made a mental note to come back next time solo.

I've also heard good things about Iloilo, tough haven't been there. The key with any of these smaller cities is to stay there for a a few weeks to really get to the top talent as these are small places with everyone knowing everyone. Once you build some local social circle let the word out that you're looking for a nice girl for a serious relationship and you'd be introduced to quality girls. Sure you can always pipeline online or day game but the real good girls are best found through introductions as they have a lot to lose if they're seen with sex tourists.

So it depends what you're after. Are you after easy sexy girls? Online and day game it is. Are you after a sweet, sexy and educated good girl from a middle class background? Then introductions by locals is the way to go.

All the best my friend and keep me posted! I'll be following your adventures with great curiosity!

(09-03-2016 08:03 PM)Onto Wrote:  

(09-03-2016 07:00 PM)Cogon Wrote:  2nd/3rd tier city girls actually like you regardless of age. Go to Cebu, Dipolog, Iligan, Malaybalay, Pagadian, Zamboanga, Tagum, even Cagayan de oro

Have you been to those cities? Around when, and what were they like?

I was going to travel to a few on that list, but I think now is a bad time for it with the recent Abu Sayyaf conflict. I imagine an escalation of kidnapping's in those areas will be next. In the past it was for money, some say orchestrated by politicians around election time to gain the funds needed to buy votes.

This time it just might be for destabilizing the economy in those areas.

The cities especially the ones you bolded, I did not do myself yet. And yes, With what abu sayaf has said about planned attacks, I say forget this for now. Abu sayaf said this attack was the start of a series of attacks they will do. And that these attacks will be the norm until Duterte switches the Philippines to islam. This is practically like saying "till the cows come home" So looks like violence is here to stay. Forget those cities for now. Seems like things are getting worse under Duterte instead of better.

(09-03-2016 08:27 PM)Vacancier Permanent Wrote:  I'd say avoid islands in Mindanao for now to be safe. Luzon, Visayas and Negros should keep you busy for a few lifetimes.

I was just in Cebu for most of August and went to Bohol and passed through Tagbilaran, a city with 4 universities. Good potential there. I only stayed there for a day but saw good talent who were quite intrigued and open from the looks I was getting. I was there with a sexy rich girl but made a mental note to come back next time solo.

I've also heard good things about Iloilo, tough haven't been there. The key with any of these smaller cities is to stay there for a a few weeks to really get to the top talent as these are small places with everyone knowing everyone. Once you build some local social circle let the word out that you're looking for a nice girl for a serious relationship and you'd be introduced to quality girls. Sure you can always pipeline online or day game but the real good girls are best found through introductions as they have a lot to lose if they're seen with sex tourists.

So it depends what you're after. Are you after easy sexy girls? Online and day game it is. Are you after a sweet, sexy and educated good girl from a middle class background? Then introductions by locals is the way to go.

All the best my friend and keep me posted! I'll be following your adventures with great curiosity!

I am going to enjoy my 20s and just look for bangs of course because younger males are certainly not looking for marriage. Actually even smaller cities are not really an issue about people knowing each other. I was in Ozamiz, a tiny city and each time I get new faces and I am new to them too. It seems like word really does not go around at all unless you attack unwanted kinds of attention. Otherwise they meet you and dont spread anything about it. You even said people might notwant to be 'caught with sex tourists' so it is evident they dont just go talking about who they met all the time. If you are very discreet about your presence, you won't run into these issues. I carefully slipped from hotel to palenke to get my food and back to my hotel in Ozamiz. If I go back again, I know again, noone will know me. Bigger cities like Bacolod, Iloilo, it is even easier to avoid this everyone-knows-everyone phenomena. Either way, I have this idea that the smaller the city, the shorter the stay for sure. Cagayan de oro is not much more people than Iloilo, I lived there for over 3 months and still not a soul knows me at all! Medium cities like Cagayan, Iloilo, Iligan, Butuan, Tagum, you can be in for several months each and move on among each one before ever experiencing this crossing paths stuff. I can say this from experience. If you have too much time on your hands, you can be rotating among these cities, switching to the next every 2, 3 months. If ever you get back again, like a year or more later, you are just a new person again!

^ As they say, "eat quietly, eat twice". My favorite idiom of all times.

Here is a tip of the day. The girls are watching the time in the US and they will be questioning you about why you are online when it is 3 am in the US! If you are pipelining the Philippines while in it, it is best to lie and say you are coming like say a week from now. But say you are in another country nearby. Taiwan always works for me. Every single girl believes it if you lie and say you are in Taiwan. Hong Kong could be good to lie about too! Just be prepared for it because they will wonder about the time and the most astute might start seeing its a lie if you say you are in the US. If you started by saying you were till in the US working in an office, they will suspect about why you are up all niight! I hate when they talk about the time so I have long since switched the the Taiwan lie.

Only saying this because people already suggested that you lie about the flight date since girls want to the first to meet you and so you should have an arrival date. But need the Taiwan lie too.

The whole thing has been about lies to maximize results.
I dont even know how pipelining works in the Philippines if you say you are already staying here in Manila. Do people even do that and it still works fine?
I get the feeling that having a fictitious flight date for each girl helps cement in place all the planned dates.

Wow, I'm finally unbanned for posting that pic. She's half-Taiwanese.

(09-06-2016 09:57 AM)erikak Wrote:  Wow, I'm finally unbanned for posting that pic. She's half-Taiwanese.

How did you meet her?

what pic Erikak?

(09-06-2016 12:36 PM)Vacancier Permanent Wrote:  what pic Erikak?

erikak had posted a link to a picture of a (very) cute Filipina (half-Filipina?), but maybe she was, like, 17 or 18, hard to tell... probably the reason why said pic was deleted?...

Anyway, talking about pics... Your hi-society Filipina was indeed very sexy and fun-looking, VP, so: congratulations, you obviously had lot of fun in the Phils! How would you compare Filipina and Chinese women by the way (just out of curiosity)? I guess they're very different, in many aspects?

I met her online. She's 18. A mod banned me as we apparently cannot post pictures of girls on here. ;(

(09-07-2016 01:10 AM)erikak Wrote:  I met her online. She's 18. A mod banned me as we apparently cannot post pictures of girls on here. ;(

She is cute, but being half-Taiwanese is not common. I like lighter-skinned Asians, and you can find them in the Philippines, but you do have to be lucky.

Yes she is fun, smart, sweet and super spicy sexy! But as expected with that kind of girls, a tad too crazy for my tastes. I dumped her a couple of days before I left, she didn't take it lightly as she's got guys falling over themselves for her and offering her crazy amounts of money to be with her. I've seen it while I was with her, she'd get guys calling her on skype or straight up some losers approaching her and asking her they'd give her everything she wants to be with them. Again, I witnessed it myself while being with her. Not the kind of girl to have anything serious with for obvious reasons, but for a short vacation, a hell of fun for sure!

Despite telling her we can't be together, she contacted me again and we've been chatting again on Viber. Looks like my return in Cebu will be as fun as this one!

Comparing Pinays vs Chinese women:

Pinays are more fun, a lot sweeter, and more fun to be with. They're more sexy both physically and personality wise, very easy going, can be funny and overall more bubbly especially the ones with an education and from a middle class background. They are very possessive, jealous and easier to bed than the Chinese girls.

Chinese girls are more pragmatic, more down to earth, loyal and if you get a good one, can be an asset especially in China. China girls in general have their own money which is not the case with the majority of Pinays.

As a rule of thumb, I personally stay away from dirt poor girls in the Philippines as they are more trouble than worth the easy peasy bang. I stick with the middle class girls who have a degree, education and a job. They are not only more fun, have manners and know how to behave and are equally as sexy than the poorer ones. Oh and they are very adventurous tigresses in bed.

Chinese girls in bed can be hit or miss. Some can be absolute sluts (my first girl in China gave me one of the top 5 BJ's ever)! While others are more the prude kind who only like it missionary and with lights off. (Had that too! ).

The ideal Chin-Pinay girl would be one with the playfulness, bubbly personality, sexy curvy body and fluent English of a Pinay with the smart business savviness, elegance, fashion sense and the great ageing of a Chinese woman. Once I find a woman like that, I would consider marrying her!

(09-06-2016 05:09 PM)Going strong Wrote:  

(09-06-2016 12:36 PM)Vacancier Permanent Wrote:  what pic Erikak?

erikak had posted a link to a picture of a (very) cute Filipina (half-Filipina?), but maybe she was, like, 17 or 18, hard to tell... probably the reason why said pic was deleted?...

Anyway, talking about pics... Your hi-society Filipina was indeed very sexy and fun-looking, VP, so: congratulations, you obviously had lot of fun in the Phils! How would you compare Filipina and Chinese women by the way (just out of curiosity)? I guess they're very different, in many aspects?

(08-19-2016 07:48 PM)Schlep Wrote:  @ Dow Jones

Do not trust these women for a second. They all have multiple boyfriends. They are searching for the idiots. Men to take them out to expensive restaurants and shopping. Then when you leave expect you to send them money.

Enjoy the Philippines for what it is. Do not feel bad about what your doing. Just be smart about it.

I agree. I usually steer clear of the ones over 25. The are more seasoned and see past most guys bullshit. The ones under 25 are usually easier to game.

Will anyone be in Manila or Cebu early October?

(09-03-2016 09:57 AM)Onto Wrote:  It's been a tiring 4 days here between the jetlag and the dating. Just had a really cute and young college girl tonight. A little spinner with that bubbly, cute kind of personality I adore. Her English could use some work though. I started pipelining her on FC a few weeks ago and it wasn't long before she was saying "I love you". I would say it back because I was 9,000 miles away and thought I was being trolled anyways because her profile was one of the better ones I've seen on FC, for me anyways. Turns out she was real and we had a really good time tonight. Perfect cuddler and great in the sack. She says she's only had one previous guy and just lost her virginity earlier this year (which is a common theme I've found among FC girls ), but I have my doubts because she gave really great head.

I like her a lot, but it's very much like "Hey Nineteen". There's not a lot of conversation except the romantic kissing, teasing, playfulness with each other which is fantastic and what I've been longing for. I just wish she came with the deep convo package as well. It was only the first night though, maybe that will get better.

I felt awkward walking and holding hands with her to the Jeepney stop which was a hike. Everyone was staring at us and I felt very self-conscious. Nobody really stares at me when I'm walking alone, but when I have a girl with me it's all eyes. It's annoying.

She's pretty attached as always and coming over again tomorrow. I also have the other girl from a couple nights ago who I like who is pushing to come over again and she's a 2 hour bus ride away. She's been calling, and texting, asking if I have another girl. These damn girls get so possessive. Then I have some girls in Cebu and Mindanao pressing me, I just don't have the bandwidth to juggle them all, but I want explore more without losing the two I have and of course, up the quality.

How do I maintain a harem here? In the States girls don't push for attention like these Pinay's! I also don't want to break the hearts of girls who have been good to me, but I guess that's life, everyone knows what they're getting into.

I've thought about using the "have to go back to the States for business" excuse and then pop back in a month later or something.

I've also thought about being up front and saying, "I really like you, but I'm not ready to commit to one girl yet. I think that would backfire though.

Or just keep juggling until one falls out of the rotation. I've been using the jetlag excuse pretty well, but that won't last forever. Right now I only have two, but I want to keep them and add.

I know, third world problems.
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All that rambling above aside I've noticed some things that have me perplexed. Maybe the more experienced members can shed some light on it.

1) 2/3 girls have not wanted me to go down on them or even look at their pussy. They cover it with their hand! This naturally worries me, as if something is wrong, but when I can finally get a quick visual/sniff test all seems fine.

Is this a common shyness thing with less-experienced girls or just Pinay's in general?

2) The girl from tonight is so lovey dovey in her texts it gets to be too much. Every text has "I love you so much sweetie" nestled in somewhere's. Anybody come across a girl like that before? Is it a game? Or is she so childlike that's its real?

If any members are around in Makati and want to meetup, it would be great to catch a break from all of this and enjoy some real conversation again.

Hey, I will be there the first week of October if your still around.