Opened this cute black makeup artist sitting down waiting for the bus today. Conversation isn't great after a few minutes, but she hooks and ask where I work so I keep it going. I finally say I have to run and "you should give me her number" but she says she can't. I ask why not. Lifts up her left hand to reveal a HUGE rock. "I'm engaged."

Me: "Dafuk? You're like 22."
Her: "20, actually."

Then she reveals it's actually a "promise ring" and not really an engagement ring. I laugh and tell her to give me her number anyway just in case. She wouldn't so, I smiled and ejected.

How do you guys covertly check for rings? I almost never check, but if I did it seems like it's hard to do it without leering at a girl's left ring finger.

Ensam, you fucked up comrade. If I weren't on my phone and too lazy to work for it I'd be embedding one hell of a head shake GIF right now.

I just had skrillex hair girl over again. 2nd night in a row after the first date player sin I know. She gave me a back massage and we banged a couple times. We have a fair amount in common and she's fun in bed. Willing to bet she is down with butt stuff. If she sticks in the roster that's a solid trifecta of plates I got.

Good god coming back to the US from Brazil is depressing.

Girls at the bars all 21+... Saw more fatties in two days than in one month...this in Denver, which about one month ago I thought was really good.

Just getting back from a date with a Chinese girl from daygame a couple weeks ago. It's truly amazing how well Asian women age. She's 37 and has less lines on her face than a 30 year old Caucasian would. When we met she had on a loose fitting dress which usually indicates some extra padding, I almost didnt follow through because of this but tonight she wore a tight dress and looked damn good in it. Cool chick too, some of our discussion would've fit right in here. Early work day tomorrow - make out and groping but no bang. Maybe tomorrow, if this other 18yo island girl from the street today flakes as I suspect she might. Keep coming back here to clear my back leads and keep ending up with more...fucking love this city.

And as I hit post Island girl finally texts me back. Not sure how I'm going to pull all these off.

Had a girl show up at my house uninvited tonight when I was lying naked on a huge beanbag with another girl I just got done fucking...

Her and I heard my door bell ring a few times while we were laying there chatting but I honestly thought it was a neighbor coming to complain because we started fucking right in my front foye with the door open for the world to see... and it's a screen door. So I ignored it and after a few minutes they went away. Bout 20 min later I go check my phone and a girl asks if she can come over. Then the next message is "I'm outside"

I respond a while later with something dismissive like "what you were at my house? I had people over earlier" she responded with pissed off messages telling me to never message her again and that I'm a coward yadda yadda. She surely saw my clothes and this girl's clothes on the floor right in front of my door... And she maybe even heard us talking.

I tried a little damage control but I don't think it's happening. Deny till I die but whatever she shouldn't be fucking popping over my place uninvited. First world manwhore problems

Is it a sign of bad game when a guy has his profile picture set with a girl he's seeing, and she does not do the same on hers?

Maybe not necessarily a sign of bad game, but perhaps it shows he values her more than she values him, even if she likes him.

As we know the one less invested is in charge of the relationship. I'm struggling to find examples from my FB friends list where it's the girl that has him in her profile and he's got a pic by himself.

I recently found out that my first oneitis from high school just popped out a kid at the ripe age of 21.

The dude that was fucking her must have been careless or just plain stupid. A player could tell that she had always been baby crazy and would have never left condoms around for that bitch to poke holes in.

(08-12-2016 02:30 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  I tried a little damage control but I don't think it's happening. Deny till I die but whatever she shouldn't be fucking popping over my place uninvited. First world manwhore problems

She did you a favor, showed her psycho side early.

Even better is, she didn't ruin things with the other girl in harem.

Fuck it, next. She'll be texting you soon of course.

(08-12-2016 09:07 AM)Nascimento Wrote:  Is it a sign of bad game when a guy has his profile picture set with a girl he's seeing, and she does not do the same on hers?

Maybe not necessarily a sign of bad game, but perhaps it shows he values her more than she values him, even if she likes him.

As we know the one less invested is in charge of the relationship. I'm struggling to find examples from my FB friends list where it's the girl that has him in her profile and he's got a pic by himself.

Absolutely it is, it means his value is low.

It always cracks me up when a dude has a photo of him and his girl as a profile pic, but she doesn't.

OR

When the dude has "In a Relationship with Dumb Whore) on his profile bio and she hides her relationship status. Sad !

If a girl doesn't adore you and worship you, she ain't worth keeping around, and you aren't doing a good job of fucking her mind.

When you see a Facebook couple where the girl's profile pic is her and her guy and all her pics are of them together and posts are all tagged with him but the guy's profile is a fucking ghost town and you wouldn't even know he was with anyone by looking at it - that's a working relationship (at a glance).

Other way around the dude looks weak as fuck and is pedistalizing his girl into the stratosphere. She is cheating on, or will soon be cheating on him, or at best on the path to dumping him.

It's important to remember the sort "natural order": it's the woman's role to get excited about he relationship, be all giddy about having a boyfriend/husband, and show it off to everyone wearing her "taken" status as a badge of honor. It's a man's role to be a man and not be affected by such things. Of course you should be appreciative of your woman, but your not the child-like one in the relationship. If you need to confess your undying love for a woman you are with to other people, then you do it among close friends over a few drinks with a simple "man she's a great woman and I love her" or you do it the classic way and make some art to personally express your feelings.

At least that's my take.

I'm in full agreement with you guys.

Worst is that two cases in point I have coming to mind right now are guys that look alpha on the exterior.

One of them is a 6'5 athlete that had more than his share of pussy in college. But now he's thrown it all away for one girl. I could have sworn he was going down a red pill path with girls but looks like I might be mistaken.

I'm all for mini-relationships and being with one girl at a time. But only in the right circumstances. Being more interested in my girl than she is into me will never be part of the deal.

Some guys play the field, get tired, and want to settle down, that's how it is.

Granted the chick he's settling for doesn't pass half the check boxes on forum standards of women.

Nascimento's right, a man being more interested in his girl than she is him, isn't ideal.

The one who cares less, has the power. This is drilled into my core and should be standard for any player looking at mini LTR's, or LTR's.

Think of it as 80/20 or 60/40 - girl caring/guy caring.

As I get older the less an less I care, the more pickier I'm getting (as far as what I want), but I still love the chase, the hunt, the close.

I've had a lot of thoughts on game lately. The main thing I've noticed is that a lot men(especially newbies) on this site think getting laid a lot is the end all of advanced game.

I feel thats a more intermediate level and understanding of game.

I imagine it like this. The intermediate guy is a role player on a team and the girl is the star opponent. Role player does very well when he's in the game. May beat the star opponent on a couple plays(getting laid) but in the end the star play has a whole game plan built around them just to win. The role player is putting 5 times the effort to win some battles here and there.

To reach that advanced level of game I think you have to be the star player that they(Women) build their game plan around. They are sucked into your world because of how dominating your game and you are. They jump through your hoops and pass your shit tests. Once you do that you can reign in a chick so hard that she would probably do just about anything to a chick and get her to do anything for you.

(08-12-2016 08:18 PM)realologist Wrote:  To reach that advanced level of game I think you have to be the star player that they(Women) build their game plan around. They are sucked into your world because of how dominating your game and you are. They jump through your hoops and pass your shit tests. Once you do that you can reign in a chick so hard that she would probably do just about anything to a chick and get her to do anything for you.

I'm definitely a fan of getting laid a lot. Without fame, realistically there's only so far the average guy is going to get. If we want to bang new, younger pussy on a regular basis, we have to put in a lot of work and take a lot of rejection to get it. I prefer not to have chicks reigned in tight, because it makes the breakup that much worse. If a relationship is the goal it's another matter. When I was in an LTR I wanted new young pussy, now that I'm getting that I have a nagging feeling that I'll regret not having an LTR there for me in my old age. The grass is always greener on the other side.

Wifey wife calls and says her friends were asking about me. They were all out (married couple plus other singles chicks) doing drinks dinner etc after work. All profesionals, finance types.

As in on the phone with wifey the married chick grabs the phone from wifey and starts talking to me "come out i haven't seen you in a while. How long will it take you to get here blsh blah." I had met up with them weeks ago.

Im out and not far so I roll on by.
I get there and the married chicks sniffs me and says I smell good. Tells my wife she wants to take me out back behind the dumpsters and fuck me real quick. Says she'll bring me back in one piece and asks if that's ok.
Wifey ignored her. She says she was joking ....as all the chicks got real silent .....and just in time her husband got back from the latrine.

At the end of the night she says she got my wife drunk so I better go home and take advantage of that. My kinda girl.

Id love to isolate that ass but it's close to near impossible. Asian 7/8 and all in that crowd are hot.

Husband picked up the tab. Better him than me.

I haven't done shit tonight - stone cold sober.

I did the 10x10 volume squat training again - I'm raging with test and horny as fuck.

I had the wildest sex dream last night and I'm refusing to do anything but have sex with a girl to satiate it.

I'm going insane on apps getting a decent amount of numbers on all them.

I gotta get off soon or I'll go crazy.

I usually bang 1 or 2 girls a week - (I just banged the virgin earlier this week)

I can't imagine not having sex for a month - fuck.

I had to a girl off today.
* Known since middle school
* She had a kid by some other dude
* Pretty much she's trying to put me in the "Rent a Dad" role

So she called me after 3 years of us not speaking. And then she's like "Oh let's get married."
Me:
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So then after a few days, I realize she's texting my mother. My mom is hating on me because she thinks I smell bad. So then this chick pretty much thought she could correspond with my mom. I will never let a thot talk to me like she's my mother. My mother is the only person who can shittalk me like that.

And because of all of that fuck shit, I blocked her.

Not letting these thots try to fuck me over.

Was talking to a cute, thin, punky girl in Starbucks yesterday, she was in town from a couple hours away to see a metal band I'm also a fan of. Didn't get the number then because there were a ton of people around and she had a backpack and looked young. So that night I'm headed out with a whiskey bar in mind - got flaked on by Island girl which I saw coming and was delaying getting back to another who wanted to hang out to see if I could rustle up anything new - I passed this girl on the street a block from the place I'm staying, alone, quiet street, walking from the show to a bar. Turns out she's 21. Spent the night and we fooled around but was allegedly that time of month; didn't get too far anyway. Talk about a coincidence, it's funny how small a city of 700,000 people can feel.

I met an Ukrainian, she works in different department in my company. She's cool as fuck, beautiful, down to earth and has conservative values as well as good upbringing, a girl you'd like to get and keep.

I made a big impression on her really fast so she's hooked. She's also in fresh long distance relationship [few weeks]. I already told her it's up to her what she's gonna do but I know what I want and I am not backing off only because another guy came before me, I will stand up to anyone [including him] who will challenge my will blahblahblah... all that spiel, you know what I mean. She seems very flattered that I'm interested in her. So basically she's really into me but has objections. I actually like it that she objects cause it means she can resist good game and her emotional impulses to hold on to her values. I find that quality trait.

I'm not butthurt or discouraged. Game is on but it requires some strategic approach. So.. if anybody has something to say about how to outgame competition and go after such girl who probably needs more comfort I'm all ears. Thx

Met two cutish 20 year olds at a friends party.

One confessed she is a virgin and the other to fucking 21 men, a bunch of them older married dudes, so lets say about 60 dicks shes had in.

Both where cute with nice asses, but that only because they are still young and not yet SJW fat. A couple of lazy asses that would have been really really hot if they had just hit the threadmill a couple of times a week. I dont see that happening. They are both in women studies by the way.

Ive got the virgins phone and she seemed eager to go out sometime. I know I could fuck the other one with daddy issues with very little game but I didnt get her number. Perhaps I just need to game the virgin friend to get the slutty one going after me.

But perhaps Im just getting ahead of myself.

The girl I was moping about a couple months back was there, as we where introduced by the host. For some reason I believed that my friend wouldnt have invited her. Played it cool though. She looked way, way less hot than the way I remembered her. She even seemed a bit bloated, perhaps a hormonal thing. Felt good taking the virgins number right in front of her.

Im not mad at her, I like being around her as she is one of those rare specimens that are both smart and mature. Im just not going to play her games. She tried to flirt with some dude but the guy was so beta she had to avoid him the rest of the evening.

At the end I was too drunk to request an Uber so I walked about a mile back to the nearest subway station. 5am on a sunday I peed right in the middle of the street and nobody gave a fuck.

Something funny happened. Set up a tinder date for today with a german language course visitor, got flaked. Saw a bunch of kites from where I was at the battlements facing the sea and went to take a look. Some sort of kite festival, one of the coolest things I've seen in a while here in the UK. Some of these things were ridiculously big. Turns out, that chick flaking actually made my day better!

(08-14-2016 10:19 AM)Merris Wrote:  Something funny happened. Set up a tinder date for today with a german language course visitor, got flaked. Saw a bunch of kites from where I was at the battlements facing the sea and went to take a look. Some sort of kite festival, one of the coolest things I've seen in a while here in the UK. Some of these things were ridiculously big. Turns out, that chick flaking actually made my day better!

The best way to deal with flakes is to always have a backup.

If a girl flakes in the evening I'll just go right to the gym.

One time I even invited another girl out.

Yeah, always have a plan B and you're right - you should thank that girl. You had a great day and now you know she's a flake. Stop giving her attention and see how she responds [or she's already forgotten you] either way you gained some valuable insight.

So I was at a family friends BBQ last night and one of his friends daughters was coming, who was actually pretty hot last time I saw her (2 years ago ish), she had a tight body back then and was a solid 8....... fast forward to yesterday and add 40-50 lbs, short hair, tattoos and she's now a lesbian.

What a fucking waste of a cute girl.

I was doing my usual trying to eat healthy dinner meal so I went and got some cheap sushi in the small town i'm in. As i'm waiting for my to go order. This older gentleman, like 80 or so, says to me:

Old man:Young man those are some nice running shoes you have there. Where did you get them from i'd like to get a pair for my grandson.
Me: Ha thanks, but I got these in Mexico City. (thinking this old country hick wouldn't even know where DF is)
Old man: Oh okay i won't be going that south to get them
Me: yeah I figured as much (laughing to myself)
Old man: Yeah I use to go down to mexico in my younger days.....Went down there with the goal of picking up women. (he says this with like 5 other customers around)
*proceeds to smirk, shake his head in reminiscent*
Old man: Had a lot of fun too!
Me:

Old Player: well take care youngster

I was literally in awe, this dude was spitting game across the border before my parents were even conceived. I couldn't help, but feel like I was meeting an old and wise shaolin monk. Made my fucking night.

-CD

Gotta be careful of oneitis creeping in...

I have been working 6/7 days per week the past month and will be until late September. As a result I have not been out trying to meet women. I have one plate and I have been kind of blowing her off. lol

I spent a week with this Venezuelan girl in May and I am going to be meeting up with her in Mexico in October. She is 17 years younger than me and without a doubt one of the best looking women I have ever been with. The sex with her was amazing and she just radiated femininity.

I have found myself looking forward to her Whatsapp messages a bit too much and being a little bothered when I don't receive anything from her for a few days.

Behold the power of the pussy!!