Post: #1

Let's assume the following scenario:
I've already met her at a bar, got her number, met her a few days later for drinks, and made out with her but no sex. Now this will be the 2nd meetup.

When walking around should I try to hold her hand for an extended amount to help increase the intimacy? Usually I'll do it when directing her someplace, crossing the street, going through a crowd. It's never for a prolonged amount of time though.

Post: #2

(12-15-2011 09:10 PM)Thug Muffin Wrote:  Let's assume the following scenario:
I've already met her at a bar, got her number, met her a few days later for drinks, and made out with her but no sex. Now this will be the 2nd meetup.

When walking around should I try to hold her hand for an extended amount to help increase the intimacy? Usually I'll do it when directing her someplace, crossing the street, going through a crowd. It's never for a prolonged amount of time though.

Push and pull. Don't do anything out of any neediness habit- make sure all your actions and touching have intention. There are times when it is awkward or forced to hold her hand, and other times when it is try-hard or weird not to.

Post: #3

Try this : when you are crossing a street take her hand and say " just to be safe" This will revert her back to the days in grade school when someone older would take her hand for her safty. And from there just contintue to hold her hand

Post: #4

Do not hold her hand before banging her. If anything you can walk with your arms interlocked at the elbows but that's about it... trust me on this

Post: #5

I hold out my elbow as a cue for her to hold my arm. Its classier and easier to guage her reactions when she squeezes up next to you. It starts with one hand at the elbow and eventually she'll have both her arms around yours.

Be careful cuz sometimes they try to inadverantly guide you into the street.

Post: #6

(12-16-2011 12:39 AM)Virgle Kent Wrote:  Do not hold her hand before banging her. If anything you can walk with your arms interlocked at the elbows but that's about it... trust me on this

I've scored holding hands before the bang. But that's only with chicks that are obviously DTF.

Post: #7

before the bang I like to grab her hand when I'm leading her someplace or crossing the street, then hold it for a bit longer and then let go by using the hand as part of a hand motion as I'm talking or by pointing at something or something subtle. Or you can just let go slowly. Holding it too much before the bang as if you were her boyfriend is needy but I like holding it a bit as if its not really a big deal for you.

Post: #8

It depends.

If I pull a girl out of a club with some dance floor game, I will be holding hands all the time. The reason is to keep up the kino: while dancing, your kino is at an all time high - going from super kino dance to zero kino is just weird. Additionally, during a dance, you are leading her everywhere, so by holding her hand outside of the club you are leading her to where you want to go (your car/apt/her apt). Works very well, has never cause me any problems. Nearly every dance floor lay I have involves hand holding outside of the club.



For any other type of lay, OUTSIDE of dance floor game, there's no hand holding going on. This includes girls I gamed with dancing but meet up on a separate day. It makes you look needy for her acceptance and attention.

Post: #9

I never hold hands with chicks unless i have fucked her a couple of times..but even when i have fucked her, i hardly want to hold hands so other bitches wont know that im fucking her.

Holding hands can be a bad move on the first date, specially with a black chick. But anyway, i believe that when the bitch wants to fuck, she will fuck, regardless if you are holding hands or if you are not holding hands, although sometimes little things can mess up but if you are an advanced player you should be fine.

Post: #10

(12-16-2011 12:52 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  I hold out my elbow as a cue for her to hold my arm. Its classier and easier to guage her reactions when she squeezes up next to you. It starts with one hand at the elbow and eventually she'll have both her arms around yours.

Be careful cuz sometimes they try to inadverantly guide you into the street.

i like this move. has never failed me, especially when meeting new girls and taking them back to their place.