Post: #26

Shit I move to Seoul next month I will keep an eye haha

(01-23-2016 01:20 AM)booshala Wrote:  Guy I know who gets laid the most is a late 30's 5'9" decent looking Korean guy in Seoul. He's extremely manipulative and is very good at convincing women to see him as a sleazeball that only they can reform. Makes decent money as a legal consultant and I admit he does sometimes sacrifice quality for a sure thing. Still, I've seen him bag 5-8's on a regular basis. Has an Excel worksheet with the number of bangs he's gotten and I had to scroll down on the mouse wheel 6-7x before it ended. Definitely 300+ notches.

Post: #27

Friend who gets laid the easiest is not model-looking but above average looks. Also above average height. He bangs anywhere from 6s to 10s but sticks to the higher end of that most of the time. He's a surfer and has a decent number of tattoos. Well traveled and has a diverse group of friends. He also knows how to wrench and keeps cars/motorcycle in great shape. He also has a great sense of style, he keeps his place looking sweet.

His biggest asset by far, though? He has the gift of gab. He can chat about a wide variety of topics and has zero approach issues. He'll talk to anyone and everyone easily. Very disarming and has a solid sense of humor.

He's managed to maintain all this despite a huge accident that practically left him for dead, multiple surgeries over the years to put him back together, and his gf leaving him when he was in the hospital.

Sort of a non-threatening bad boy vibe about him has drawn so much fucking pussy his way. I doubt he has an accurate count but I'd expect it to be easily 300+ notches. He's been killing it on tinder/bumble/okcupid. I've learned a lot from him about game and life.

Post: #28

I knew two players from back in the day. Worked with both of them. One was a short ugly Mexican. One was a tall, handsome Mexican. Both approached like crazy during night game. Both lied like crazy and had wives they were always cheating on. One of them stole money from a male friend. Bottom line, what gets you laid constantly isn't always the most honest or honorable person around. I don't consider these guys friends, because they chase pussy more than they value male friendship.

Post: #29

The dude I roll with most of the time.

- He is 6'3, handsome, mixed race (black and white), thug look
- No approach anxiety, dude approaches everywhere and anywhere. If you rolled with me and you think I approach a lot, wait until you meet this dude.
- He is funny like a motherfucker, when I am hanging out with him, you just can't stop laughing. He is aggressive and has that bad boy vibe with a good sense of humour.
- His game is very sexual. Soon as he meets a girl and gets her number, he is already whatsapping her sexual images and telling her how he is gonna bang her like crazy. He does not waste time, no dates, no dinner, none of that shit.
- His sexual life here in London makes you think that he is in Thailand. He usually bangs girls really well and they tend to always go back to him. Some girls even offer him money just to be banging him on the regular.
- We ran a train on 15 to 20 girls. While most of the girls were my girls, I still recognize that he gets laid more than I do.
- He is fluent in 3 european languages (english, portuguese and spanish)
- He never read anything about game, I have tried to make him come on this forum but he just can't be bothered.
- He has been living with this girl for 2 years and he is still getting laid as if he was single.
- He talks about women all the time.Fuck, I enjoy talking about women a lot but this guy is too much, life to him equals women. Recently I have been pushing him to start focus more on making money and he is getting there now.
- The other day we saw a girl that he knew coming out of the cinema with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend left her and she came to talk to him and he took her to one of the shopping centre bathrooms, he fucked her there and filmed her then sent it to our whatsapp group.

Never met anybody in the western world that gets laid more than he does and I am sure I never will. We lived together for 2 years and my numbers during that time went up like crazy. Years ago I used to give up on girls really quick, like delete their number if they don't seem eager to meet up, he would be like, keep on calling her man, don't give up just yet and that usually used to work really well. His philosophy was really up there.

If it wasn't for him, my game wouldn't be as good as it is today. While I have always been a ladies man, I confess that this guy really made my game reach another level.

Post: #30

Not sure if genes themselves are a huge player in it, I bet testosterone is though, and some guys probably produce more T naturally.

On the flip side though you have a lot of guys not working out, eating unhealthy, using feminine hygiene products, or worse yet getting overweight, all of which kill testosterone and probably harm sex drive and confidence. Not to mention people tend to imitate those there around, so a lot of guys who probably could be players but grow up with single moms, probably end up imitating their mom too much and acting or sounding like a woman, which kills their game without them even realizing it.

I'm sure being in a bigger city helps too just because of the sheer variety of options - not that my game is great but I live in a fairly small town, and at some of the bars it's so slow on some nights that it's rare to even see a girl who isn't there with another guy (even in spite of the desolation though I still manage to score with some hotties).

And just for the record, I really thing body language has as lot more to do with it than conversational ability - I'm a great writer but in public I get tongue tied and sometimes even make a fool of myself, and I've still scored with some hot girls by barely talking about anything, just keeping a confident tone and posture.

There's a lot of books out there on the importance of body language and posture; keep in mind that body language, tone of voice, etc is the universal language evolution-wise, and that spoken languages are pretty recent on the evolutionary timeframe.

The times I've scored or gotten attention with the hottest girls I was always in a confident mood and had confident posture; even though I'm good looking the times when I was worst on my game is when I was in a shitty mood and had a weak posture.

Post: #31

Quote:Guy I know who gets laid the most is a late 30's 5'9" decent looking Korean guy in Seoul. He's extremely manipulative and is very good at convincing women to see him as a sleazeball that only they can reform. Makes decent money as a legal consultant and I admit he does sometimes sacrifice quality for a sure thing. Still, I've seen him bag 5-8's on a regular basis. Has an Excel worksheet with the number of bangs he's gotten and I had to scroll down on the mouse wheel 6-7x before it ended. Definitely 300+ notches.

Pretty sure I know who this guy is based on this description alone. I see him out pretty much every time I'm in itaewon. Considering his age and how much he goes out, 300+ would be a minimum.

Post: #32

I have a few 'swordsman' in my inner work circle and social circle. One dude stands out though - at near 50, married, kids, with a 3/4 head of grey hair, little bit overweight, this guy consistently notches girls 20-25 years younger. Not a lot of 7's and 8's mind you, but a healthy population of 6s and low 7s.

The guy has two things going for him - confidence and zero approach anxiety. He's not a bad looking guy but not memorable. Women just say yes usually because he is so 'fun'. The funny thing is he does better with the younger 20 something's than the older women (the fun factor). His game is basically chatting up a bunch of women, dancing, drinking and asking to head to their place. It seems to work about 70 percent of the time.

He's an inspiration. My own wife hates him lol!

Post: #33

Anyway, my friend who gets laid the most has the following qualities:

-Fairly tall, 6 feet or so.
-Handsome but not overly good looking
-Hits on girls shamelessly at any time. In the street, in the coffee shop, in the restaurant, basically anywhere he goes when he feels like it.
-Has no AA whatsoever. Can turn it on and off like a switch and approach when he is attracted.
-Only approaches hot girls or 7s and up. Quality over quantity guy.
-He's been hitting on chicks since he was a kid. Said that was the best way to fit in since he always moved around a lot growing up. When I told him about PUA/game he was like "what the hell is that for? That's just everyday life bro lol."
-Super persistent. Re-approaches girls throughout the night. One time he got rejected by a girl six times in a night before she finally gave him into him, ended up banging that night. Also texts girls multiple times (think 10 or 20 times) without a response but continues to text anyway, some of them eventually respond and this has led to bangs/meetups as well.
-Super extroverted and a funny guy in general. Makes every interaction fun and silly with the girl.
-Banged 300+ and 74 in a single year (went out basically 7 days a week that year).

I know some other dudes who have put up similar numbers and the common thread behind all of them is that most of them have not had many long/serious relationships and they put in tons of volume and consistency in terms of how often they go out and how much they approach. IMO, as long as you are decent looking and willing to put in the effort like this, it is not that hard to put up these kinds of numbers over a long period of time.

Post: #34

Ha, easy.

Is 23, on the same intellectual plane as women + has a cute blond haired 3 year old girl to an ex he hates + has a house paid for by his parents + is young enough to party Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights while not giving a single fuck about anything at all.

Sometimes I dream about being a shallow pool at the spa.

EDIT: if you detected a slight hint of envy you would be right. Caring is a curse.

Post: #35

Best friend is 6'5, good looking, young and has money (his dad actually). Married recently but continues to bang young girls constantly. He has no game at all. When going out, girls practically throw themselves at him.

It shows how unfair the world is and how I should take advantage of that to improve my game.

Post: #36

Best Friend, his he loves them dutch ladies and has notch count of 14 or more , do not quite remember and he is only 18.

He is very direct with a girl and not afaird to show his sexultiy and he gets very sexual with words. He has very high standards in girl and he aims for quality.

The style of his game is that he is very direct while I am indirect. He is not on the fourm but i have tried to get him on here and I will try again. He has also helped me get over approach anxiety something I had a problem with.

Post: #37

6'6, bean pole body, extreme douche. He's an athletic legend in my city. Everyone says he has a tiny dick, and he even jokes about it. He will bang anything above a 5. No idea how he does it, because he seems very stupid, never makes the girls laugh, no job/money, and is not handsome. I imagine it has to do with his status, not game.

Post: #38

Personally haven't met any guys who I'd say are "real players"; the guy's I've met who seem to get laid the most tend to be arrogant and have a go-getter mindset but a lot of them just settle for unattractive girls because it's more of a contest for them over who can "get laid" the most.

Post: #39

Hes a natural, around 40 years old, salt and pepper hair with a 3 day beard and blue eyes, owns a nightclub, pretty direct but also runs on looks alot.

Post: #40

(05-29-2016 07:32 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  Hes a natural, around 40 years old, salt and pepper hair with a 3 day beard and blue eyes, owns a nightclub, pretty direct but also runs on looks alot.

How is owing a nightclub helping him get laid? Does he also "works" there so women knows that he owns the club? How does he do it? I don't know much about nightlife culture.

Post: #41

The one I know who fits that description (lately) is a 36 year old white guy who pretty much runs on social circle game. He's about average height, decent looks, makes above average money as an independent consultant. He's got an active outdoor life, but does not lift or exercise one bit. That last part is starting to catch up with him now, appearance wise.

He's also very active on social media, adding to the fun/mystery factor for girls who might know him or want to know him thru friends. Generally he's a pretty friendly and gregarious guy who mixes easily. Does not play asshole game either. Goes out with friends a lot but does not strictly do the club scene as a place to grab notches, just keeps an open abundance mentality wherever he goes. There isn't much noteworthy in the way of approaches, really; he's just the kind of guy to let things happen and roll it into an opportunity - nothing artificial or rehearsed, just a natural flow.

He travels a lot and currently has three plates spinning: one is an ex he still hooks up with once in a while (who still thinks she has a chance to be with him for good), the other is a solid regular GF, and a third is an overseas girl who deals with him being a long distance relationship but probably doesn't care about long term plans. All the while, he's running Tinder game wherever he goes. His stable is typically 6-7s, but he's pulled higher. That said, he shamelessly scrapes the bottom of the barrel on occasion.

He's kinda careless, recently picking up an STD from a Tinder bang - one he admits wasn't even good looking once he met her, but he still did her anyway (without wrapping up - he says he never does). When he passed the surprise on to one of his plates, she found out and obviously got pissed, but he was able to flip the script and get her doubting herself as to how she got it. Epic recovery.

I wonder a bit about him though - he's been involved in the swinging scene before, something in my opinion a bit pointless for a guy with so many options, not to mention unnecessarily risky and in all likelihood, full of mediocre women. I don't know if I would classify him as a sex addict, but I wouldn't at all be surprised if there's something psychologically warped going on. Nevertheless, he seems to be enjoying life, if a bit on the sociopathic side.

Post: #42

(01-23-2016 10:52 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  Anyone noticing a pattern here?

The most common patterns I see are:

1. They are really tall.

2. They are very social and have good social skills

3. They conform to some stereotype that women already find attractive

4. They approach often

5. They don’t mind banging average women

6. They are fit

7. They tend to be good looking

8. They are really persistent

9. They are sexual with women

10. They are described as “fun”

11. They have a “I don’t care” demeanor

Post: #43

(05-29-2016 08:14 PM)Minfh Wrote:  

(05-29-2016 07:32 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  Hes a natural, around 40 years old, salt and pepper hair with a 3 day beard and blue eyes, owns a nightclub, pretty direct but also runs on looks alot.

How is owing a nightclub helping him get laid? Does he also "works" there so women knows that he owns the club? How does he do it? I don't know much about nightlife culture.

Yes he also "works" there as a bartender i think partly to meet women. So he works a bit and since hes good looking the girls naturally find him attractive.. he then proceeds to flirt and smile from across the bar and can jump to the front or side whenever he feels it is necessary and then its game on.

He doesn't really chase at all.

Post: #44

(05-30-2016 07:43 AM)therealpoder Wrote:  

(01-23-2016 10:52 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  Anyone noticing a pattern here?

The most common patterns I see are:

1. They are really tall.

2. They are very social and have good social skills

3. They conform to some stereotype that women already find attractive

4. They approach often

5. They don’t mind banging average women

6. They are fit

7. They tend to be good looking

8. They are really persistent

9. They are sexual with women

10. They are described as “fun”

11. They have a “I don’t care” demeanor

Much of this can be summed up with: They are masculine.

Post: #45

My mentor and almost like a second father to me banged alot of chicks, records a great deal of his bangs and only fuck hotties now. Im gald to have him as a life coach to say and one line that I barely starting to understand at the age of 22 is "always make her cum first". I remember I was fucking this girl for 3 months last year and one day I felt a fierce desire to make her cum that I continued to fuck while busting. It was painful but my desire to make her cum was stronger and eventually I did and It was an amazing accomplishment for me. Ive never done it since ,since i've been so selfish but I notice his relationship with women is that there always coming back, one main reason being is that he ALWAYS makes them cum everytime he sleeps with them, he even says sometimes he doesnt cum and I think what a selfless person although he doesnt come off that way his actions reflect it. This I believe is a key factor in how he continues to have so many women pester him daily when hes fucked them already. I hope to do the same this year, teaching my self to be selfless and a master of fucking women just as he is.