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RE: Girl left heartbroken after people comment about her prom photos
She's not heart broken because of the comments. It's because her heart is working quadruple time to keep up with her. Probably should use a whale or manatee heart. They will atleast be used to handling such a huge load.
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RE: Girl left heartbroken after people comment about her prom photos
(05-03-2016 01:19 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote: No humor in this post, it is not like she reads RVF but I joke a lot and I would like to be serious for one second. I do not like the fact she was bullied online where she could see it( Facebook, instagram ). She knows she is fat and honestly she is so far gone she will likely never lose it. Women like her who are not attractive to begin with, born poor as hell, and also fat do not need the Internet piling on them. She is under no illusions, she knows she is fat and undesirable -no need to rub it in. She is likely depressed, and doing poorly without the Internet pile on.
At least fat white girls can get a somewhat attractive (poor and ghetto) black dude to make them rationalize their situation, this chick doesn't even have that- believe me , her life sucks, then it swallows.
Sometimes actions have unintended consequences. Not everyone's going to like her photos. She posted it, people wrote their opinions on it. Her choice to post it led to a torrent of hilarious comments.
Like you said, she's got no illusions about her weight, no way she's gone her whole life without hearing about it: Her dress size is probably Escalade she should've known she was going to get clowned.
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RE: Girl left heartbroken after people comment about her prom photos
As much as I hate laughing at anyone's misfortune, I pains me to not want to assist with fatshaming. I struggle with this alot because it does not feel very Christian at all. I support Roosh and other's shaming methods but I personally would prefer to get into "coach-mode" and attempt to start life coaching them out of that mess instead of shaming them. That said, some of them talk back with snark and of course I bust them over the head and get mean about it back.
Black women need shaming. 4 out of 5 black women are overweight/obese. Looking for one to date alot of times comes down to how much fat are you willing to tolerate. When 75% of those same 4 out of 5 are single mothers, it makes it even worse. My wife's OBGYN told me that most of her black patients are high risk pregnancies especially with gestational diabetes. She said my wife's delivery and a black couple that she delivered after us (They both looked like professional models) were the easiest deliveries she had in a long time. Her point was that obesity is hurting our people big time. The wheelchairs in the hospital itself were way too big for my wife to sit in and they did not have any smaller ones when I asked them. The delivery beds are massive but adjustable. America used to not be like this.
This country is fucked culturally and fucked health wise. Arguably alot of the high healthcare costs are due to the obesity in this country. Diabetes is completely out of control and is very preventable.
My own grandmother who just turned 85 went on a mega rant about some of my obese cousins after the cake was served. All the healthy members had to run out of the house just to cover up the laughs. She is sick of it. All of us are. They will never get married like this and nothing else is working. Our family on that side was notoriously skinny before and now in one generation, we are starting to reflect that ugly 4 out of 5 statistic. Grandmother has been a great grandmother for a while and she understands that being politically correct will not change anything. She had 10 kids of her own. She knows it takes a village to raise children.
Black Americans need to step up and do more within their own families and get their shit together. Whole bloodlines are going to die out eventually. A Tavis Smiley Black Symposium cannot address this publicly. What is obviously selfish behavior is turning into generational curses. Something far more sinister than our mere shaming and goading.
Black people as a whole need tougher skin in general if they want to live well in this world, especially in this country. A proper father would have told that fat girl a long time ago that life is not fair and the importance of appearance for a female. Brainwashed liberal black men are no better than having no father at all.
These generations of black females are largely lost. Only the best of the 1 out of 5 will prosper in the future. American people are stubborn and largely reliant on "Break/Fix" healthcare. Feminism indoctrinated women are even more defiant than that. Typical black women are even more hard headed than this. None of this shaming will make them stop eating like hippos. When they see a good looking brotha with a skinny bitch, they eat more. When they see one with a white, Latina, Asian, or foreign chick, they probably eat double. In some ways, it may be more merciful to let them die in peace.
I don't have a good answer for any of this and I don't see anyone else with one. My ultimate best guess would be for men to drop the ass thirst, chubby chasing, etc. and stop approaching them. That's the same strategy the Manosphere is using. I hope the rest of mankind takes a stand on fat women and ignore them, but it does not look good in the near term.
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RE: Girl left heartbroken after people comment about her prom photos
(05-03-2016 08:35 PM)StrikeBack Wrote: Why would Christians have problems with fat shaming? Gluttony is a sin, just like hubris, adultery, murder etc. and Christians have no problem shaming others for those. Fat shaming is what a good Christian should do, I reckon.
Encouragement and assistance would be priority over shaming. Shaming should always be on the table, but constructive criticism should be first. Just my opinion though. If you would witness to a gay person and try to help them see the problems with that lifestyle instead of calling them names like faggot and sneering at them, you could just as easily do that with the obesity. No one is perfect and just like many others, and I cannot always keep a composure like that all the time either. That is why I am not a pastor, but I digress...
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RE: Girl left heartbroken after people comment about her prom photos
(05-03-2016 09:08 PM)Mentavious Wrote: I'm amazed to how her body is able to function and keep her alive. The human body is such a marvelous thing
She is on borrowed time. Her body's true age is in the 70s very likely. Her organs are stressed to the max under all that weight. Men with denser bones via testosterone can carry more weight than a woman, so her skeletal frame is even under alot of duress. Her thyroid and adrenal glands are probably near shutdown levels. There is a reason heart disease kills more women than anything else, this is part of it. If she does not make adjustments she won't make 65 maybe not even 55.
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RE: Girl left heartbroken after people comment about her prom photos
(05-03-2016 08:02 PM)TravelerKai Wrote: A proper father would have told that fat girl a long time ago that life is not fair and the importance of appearance for a female.
In the video accompanying the story, the girl's mother is seen & makes some comments. Both the girl and her mother appear afterward for a (patronizing) in-studio interview.
Naturally, we hear from the girl's mother, not her parents. I didn't watch the whole thing, but I didn't hear any mention of a father.
Oh, and the mom is a big fat slob too.
So often, when a black teen is arrested or in some other type of trouble, you'll notice that the news reports mention the mother, rarely the father.
In another thread, there was discussion about a black father who beat up his son boxing style and filmed it, posting it online to punish & humiliate his son. I found his actions wrong, but I did say I was at least happy that a black youth knew who his father is.
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RE: Girl left heartbroken after people comment about her prom photos
There is a big difference between walking up to a fat girl who is just standing there minding her own business and one who is bringing the fight to you.
I am nice by default to everyone. They have respect on the most basic level until they do something to lose it. I don't believe all levels of respect have to be earned. The most rudimentary, everyday respect I will give to everyone; it is theirs to lose.
It is when you have some raucous beastie blocking the doorway, yelling, giving you dismissive looks or condescending attitudes, acting like she is the most important person in the world and basically daring anyone to set her straight, well, all bets are off then.
I will probably call her out on her attitude or her rudeness first, and if she doubles down, and we know she will, calling out her grotesque girth is not out of the question.
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