Post: #1

I've been going out to bar/club locations in New England recently, and I've actually seen this sort of thing happen twice now in two weeks. Wondering how common it is...I'm sure it's always been an occurrence but it was rare when I used to club regularly 15 years ago or so.

For example this happened over the weekend:

Mixed group of late 20s men and women, drunk. Some kind of argument starts and chick starts screaming then throwing kicks at this guy. Guy tries to walk away, and she follows screaming incoherently and throws a few more sucker kicks from behind right at his balls. He turns around and grabs her, and she belts him right in the face.

Now, in a normal world with normal people I might say to him "hey, do you plan on pressing charges against her? I witnessed that whole thing."

But...

After she throws the final punch, she collapses down in a heap on the sidewalk, sobbing. And everyone in the group, including the guy she was assaulting, kneels down to talk to her, rub her shoulder, and comfort her.

Post: #2

I witnessed a similar situation in the UK, with chavs and chavettes.. sad to hear that this kind of people are also to be found in New England!

Post: #3

(12-21-2015 12:22 AM)Direct or subtle Wrote:  I witnessed a similar situation in the UK, with chavs and chavettes.. sad to hear that this kind of people are also to be found in New England!

Yeah, Boston and Providence have a lot of decent, intelligent people, but also a lot of trash, both the native and imported variety. I might have two or three beers when I go out on a weekend, but since the bars and taverns generally close at 2 AM (and that's only on the weekends), a lot of these cats seem to just go out to get wasted as fast as possible and be annoying and belligerent

Post: #4

Consider it a physical way of saying "I hate my wacko fucked up bitch life, so I'll find a target guy, maybe my BF at the time, and take it all out on him in a drunken sloppy rage."

That's why they always break down at the end. The ghetto cunts keep the fight going longer because they've been more masculinized, and hide the tears for alone time with the hens.

There's so many standing martial arts and defensive holds you can put a girl into that would snap her it's ridiculous. Just apply one telling her to stop but don't snap her, if a white knight or other hens come to attack, literally throw the bitch at them and scoot. Fire up your phone in transit and expect vandalization to your car, or other belongings, get on video, move out of sight but don't leave the scene, call the cops, show the video. Done.

Post: #5

Just more reason not to spend money in anglo bars or hit on anglo women. I don't know how some of you still do it.
Between the bouncers, staff, and women acting like cunts, there's 0 regard for you as a man there (even though you spend all the $$). It took me many years to accept this.

Several occasions I had girls try to get another guy to fight me, like literally begging and convincing him. I can't even fathom a mindset like that. They really believe they can snap their fingers and some guy will fight for them. The behavior of drunk women has greatly aided my 14 month sobriety, because I know I'm not missing anything but shit behavior from women.

Disrespect from doormen is not acceptable. Bartenders too stupid to recognize you're spending all the coin is not acceptable. I conditioned myself to put up with this shit for a long time, thinking it was normal. I have no desire to go to any bar in America anymore.

Post: #6

^ The doormen and bouncers at the places I've been going to I actually get along with pretty well - several of them are ex military, and even though I never served my father and some other relatives did so there's that. They really have a distaste for a lot of the clientele as well.

Yeah, I've always been sort of surprised at what big shots some of the bartenders around here think they are, and the attitude that I get from them - I wonder if they realize that every time they give me an exasperated glance that any chance of their receiving a big thank you tip at the end of the night is flatlining. Maybe they just don't care to take the effort, as they're getting at least a buck on every drink and the place is crowded.

Why would someone play "let's you and him fight" for some girl? I don't get it...