Post: #151

(11-01-2011 06:22 AM)jariel Wrote:  You have to understand though that most girls are terrible at choosing men correctly, and they rule you out before they ever know anything about you because of what you are.

It's very important that men in general re-frame the game.

Most chicks are wack. We don't give a fuck about their degrees -- what use do most of their degrees have and what did they actually learn while obtaining them? -- especially when most of them don't know how to do laundry, prepare a decent meal, or give a proper blowjob.

You need to get out of the mindset that you have to DHV for these women. Women are much more in tune with that shit than men are, they know a tight dude when they see and hear one, but the thing is, when you are that dude, most of these women will run away from you, because they know underneath it all, they're just not that bitch who can keep you.

Ultimately, they rather have you believe that you can't obtain from them that of what doesn't actually exist than have you find out the aforementioned reality and move on to greener pastures, which concretely confirms their unworthiness and furthers their inherent insecurities.

Keep preaching, some dudes hear need schooling.

Being educated is great but women don't really give a hoot about what degree you have. They care about what you are doing and where you are going.

For those who say they would marry a Canadian/Australian chick instead of an American, keep dreaming there is not much difference between them. They ALL feel entitled to Mr Big.

Post: #152

(11-03-2011 10:53 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  For those who say they would marry a Canadian/Australian chick instead of an American, keep dreaming there is not much difference between them. They ALL feel entitled to Mr Big.

They're no angels, but for me it is a simple choice between two evils (both being highly westernized women with the problems that can entail). They seem to clearly be the lesser one (and, importantly to me being a black male, seem to see IR relations as less of an evil than do average white american girls), so if you're going to force me to pick a white, English speaking woman (in a hypothetical), they'll come out ahead most of the time.

Just my two cents.

Post: #153

Moma and rudebwoyare somewhat right. Not much difference from my (very limited) travels in the US midwest and my experience in Canada for women. Hot women in both opened me, in fact Toronto women are far colder than girls in Michigan.

Also I hope people didn't misread my post about racism in Canada, it exists very much, just not on the structural level that it does in the USA.

However I don't agree about black men in Canada only get fat girls. That's completely wrong. Although many Caribbean blacks do chase grotesquely fat girls, many Africans, and Euro-Blacks living in Canada are paired with some gorgeous skinny 8s and 9s.

I always quip a little joke before I go out with my buddy:

"You know that white guy with the blue eyes, 6'2 frame, tight shirt and perfect body athletic body structure?, yeah, I'm getting the hot girls that turn him down, that's how good we have it!, Bro the world has changed".

Shit is no joke. Play your cards right and if white pussy is what you want, white pussy is what you'll get.

Post: #154

Why do black women hate?

Post: #155

(11-04-2011 08:43 PM)JayMillz Wrote:  Why do black women hate?

This looks totally fake and staged. That black woman is an actress as well as Kim K.

Post: #156

(11-05-2011 11:57 AM)Jason Zee Wrote:  

(11-04-2011 08:43 PM)JayMillz Wrote:  Why do black women hate?

This looks totally fake and staged. That black woman is an actress as well as Kim K.

I read that in the comments. I thought is was strange that a decent looking babe would be hatin so strong. That said, there are probably babes that feel this way when they see non black women getting with brothas.

Post: #157

(11-04-2011 10:02 AM)DjembaDjemba Wrote:  Moma and rudebwoyare somewhat right. Not much difference from my (very limited) travels in the US midwest and my experience in Canada for women. Hot women in both opened me, in fact Toronto women are far colder than girls in Michigan.

Also I hope people didn't misread my post about racism in Canada, it exists very much, just not on the structural level that it does in the USA.

However I don't agree about black men in Canada only get fat girls. That's completely wrong. Although many Caribbean blacks do chase grotesquely fat girls, many Africans, and Euro-Blacks living in Canada are paired with some gorgeous skinny 8s and 9s.

I always quip a little joke before I go out with my buddy:

"You know that white guy with the blue eyes, 6'2 frame, tight shirt and perfect body athletic body structure?, yeah, I'm getting the hot girls that turn him down, that's how good we have it!, Bro the world has changed".

Shit is no joke. Play your cards right and if white pussy is what you want, white pussy is what you'll get.

You have made more than one comment about "African" dudes getting hot girls and Caribbean dudes dating fat chicks. I have lived in Europe and don't recall too many African dudes with hot chicks, in fact in some countries African men get a bad rep (e.g - Sweden).
I personally know Africans in Canada who are dating fat girls, yes it usually is for the same reason Caribbean guys date them (to get papers).

I have never experienced racism in Canada on the level that I have in America, I can safely say no one is going to physically harm me for dating a hot white girl in Canada.

Have you been outside of Toronto? Yes, I agree it is a tough as nails city to game girls but shit Western Canada seems like a different country for gaming girls altogether. Man you can even drive an hour west of Toronto and girls will holla at you.

Post: #158

(11-05-2011 03:19 PM)JayMillz Wrote:  

(11-05-2011 11:57 AM)Jason Zee Wrote:  

(11-04-2011 08:43 PM)JayMillz Wrote:  Why do black women hate?

This looks totally fake and staged. That black woman is an actress as well as Kim K.

I read that in the comments. I thought is was strange that a decent looking babe would be hatin so strong. That said, there are probably babes that feel this way when they see non black women getting with brothas.

Oh please enough already with this Kim K chick.

WHO CARES!!!!

Post: #159

I love the whole "I've been to Africa, therefore..." bullshit. I have no issue with Kim being attracted to black men. People are attracted to whoever they're attracted to. I can't hate anyone for feeling that black men are attractive. Hating on her for that is bullshit, but having been to the continent doesn't validate shit. That's like someone saying they're not a racist because they had a black friend once (when it really wasn't a friend at all...it was more like someone they worked with and might have spoken to a couple of times...HA HA!).

Post: #160

(11-05-2011 04:30 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

(11-04-2011 10:02 AM)DjembaDjemba Wrote:  Moma and rudebwoyare somewhat right. Not much difference from my (very limited) travels in the US midwest and my experience in Canada for women. Hot women in both opened me, in fact Toronto women are far colder than girls in Michigan.

Also I hope people didn't misread my post about racism in Canada, it exists very much, just not on the structural level that it does in the USA.

However I don't agree about black men in Canada only get fat girls. That's completely wrong. Although many Caribbean blacks do chase grotesquely fat girls, many Africans, and Euro-Blacks living in Canada are paired with some gorgeous skinny 8s and 9s.

I always quip a little joke before I go out with my buddy:

"You know that white guy with the blue eyes, 6'2 frame, tight shirt and perfect body athletic body structure?, yeah, I'm getting the hot girls that turn him down, that's how good we have it!, Bro the world has changed".

Shit is no joke. Play your cards right and if white pussy is what you want, white pussy is what you'll get.

You have made more than one comment about "African" dudes getting hot girls and Caribbean dudes dating fat chicks. I have lived in Europe and don't recall too many African dudes with hot chicks, in fact in some countries African men get a bad rep (e.g - Sweden).
I personally know Africans in Canada who are dating fat girls, yes it usually is for the same reason Caribbean guys date them (to get papers).

I have never experienced racism in Canada on the level that I have in America, I can safely say no one is going to physically harm me for dating a hot white girl in Canada.

Have you been outside of Toronto? Yes, I agree it is a tough as nails city to game girls but shit Western Canada seems like a different country for gaming girls altogether. Man you can even drive an hour west of Toronto and girls will holla at you.

I'm speaking from experience, and in Toronto, I see many blacks with sexy white girls. There's definitely chubby chasers, but they're not all all the black guy/white girl pairings that so many posters (black and white) insinuate.

Plenty of blacks, mostly fully integrated Africans and Euro blacks who date/fuck sexy white girls. The whole "blacks get the white girls white men don't want" is complete bullshit, it's the hateful jealous white beta male rationalization hamster spinning in useless circles.

West of Toronto (Kitchener/Waterloo/Cambridge/London) is also good for chasing white girls, they're pretty receptive there.

The gaming of broads from Toronto is tough no matter the race, 6'4 blonde dudes bitch about Toronto girls too. I don't know if its a race specific problem; I doubt it, most likely snobby bitches problem.

Also I'm not talking about "Europe". I'm strictly discussing Canada.

Although from my (limited) experience in London UK, I can't recall any hostilities from whites, in fact I'd say judging from observation (mind you not the best method of statistical gathering), black men there seem to score even higher quality girls than the average white male. Light skin blacks are a hot commodity there among the white girls. London has always been good times when discussing white girls, alcohol, and sex. And we're talking city of London girls too.

But I digress, back to Canada, gotta kill the whole black men/fat ugly white women myth, because it's just that, a fucking myth.

Post: #161

(11-05-2011 07:53 PM)DjembaDjemba Wrote:  

(11-05-2011 04:30 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

(11-04-2011 10:02 AM)DjembaDjemba Wrote:  Moma and rudebwoyare somewhat right. Not much difference from my (very limited) travels in the US midwest and my experience in Canada for women. Hot women in both opened me, in fact Toronto women are far colder than girls in Michigan.

Also I hope people didn't misread my post about racism in Canada, it exists very much, just not on the structural level that it does in the USA.

However I don't agree about black men in Canada only get fat girls. That's completely wrong. Although many Caribbean blacks do chase grotesquely fat girls, many Africans, and Euro-Blacks living in Canada are paired with some gorgeous skinny 8s and 9s.

I always quip a little joke before I go out with my buddy:

"You know that white guy with the blue eyes, 6'2 frame, tight shirt and perfect body athletic body structure?, yeah, I'm getting the hot girls that turn him down, that's how good we have it!, Bro the world has changed".

Shit is no joke. Play your cards right and if white pussy is what you want, white pussy is what you'll get.

You have made more than one comment about "African" dudes getting hot girls and Caribbean dudes dating fat chicks. I have lived in Europe and don't recall too many African dudes with hot chicks, in fact in some countries African men get a bad rep (e.g - Sweden).
I personally know Africans in Canada who are dating fat girls, yes it usually is for the same reason Caribbean guys date them (to get papers).

I have never experienced racism in Canada on the level that I have in America, I can safely say no one is going to physically harm me for dating a hot white girl in Canada.

Have you been outside of Toronto? Yes, I agree it is a tough as nails city to game girls but shit Western Canada seems like a different country for gaming girls altogether. Man you can even drive an hour west of Toronto and girls will holla at you.

I'm speaking from experience, and in Toronto, I see many blacks with sexy white girls. There's definitely chubby chasers, but they're not all all the black guy/white girl pairings that so many posters (black and white) insinuate.

Plenty of blacks, mostly fully integrated Africans and Euro blacks who date/fuck sexy white girls. The whole "blacks get the white girls white men don't want" is complete bullshit, it's the hateful jealous white beta male rationalization hamster spinning in useless circles.

West of Toronto (Kitchener/Waterloo/Cambridge/London) is also good for chasing white girls, they're pretty receptive there.

The gaming of broads from Toronto is tough no matter the race, 6'4 blonde dudes bitch about Toronto girls too. I don't know if its a race specific problem; I doubt it, most likely snobby bitches problem.

Also I'm not talking about "Europe". I'm strictly discussing Canada.

Although from my (limited) experience in London UK, I can't recall any hostilities from whites, in fact I'd say judging from observation (mind you not the best method of statistical gathering), black men there seem to score even higher quality girls than the average white male. Light skin blacks are a hot commodity there among the white girls. London has always been good times when discussing white girls, alcohol, and sex. And we're talking city of London girls too.

But I digress, back to Canada, gotta kill the whole black men/fat ugly white women myth, because it's just that, a fucking myth.

Preach! Outside of the super-racist cities that are ran by and for beta white males like SF, Boston, and DC, I only see black dudes hooking up and dating with white chicks who are, at worst, doable 6s and 7s. As for blacks who date fat white women, most of the time, the black guy was just as fat (which in perspective would make them no different than your average Wal-Mart shopping middle American couple).

Now if you can tell the whiny Roissy crowd that! You know, the same people who talk about how "white women aren't shit" but when the same women go after black dudes, they put on the white knight role and "defend their white princesses against the negroes."

Post: #162

Skin-color is not a substitute for proper game skills.

So drop the race-gives-you-a-leg-up shit. If you've got your shit together on multiple levels, ie. grooming, inner game, outer game... then your race should be unimportant.

Post: #163

The black men get white women that white guys don't want originates from predominately black inner cities in America where it is completely true. It is really not true that much at all in Europe or even most predominately white areas in America.

But here in America, if you see a black guy wearing Gunit or Rocawear with a white girl, 99% change shes a fatty. If he's wearing a respectable clothing brand and carries himself accordingly, sky is the limit. Like with any women, its all in how you carry yourself.

For example, as a white guy I have fucked some beautiful black women, but for the most part only the classy educated express wearing type, the hood ones probably don't want me and I don't want them. But if I dressed and acted like a wigger I'm sure I could bag them. Like I would ever want to do that.

Post: #164

(11-06-2011 03:20 PM)that guy Wrote:  The black men get white women that white guys don't want originates from predominately black inner cities in America where it is completely true. It is really not true that much at all in Europe or even most predominately white areas in America.

But here in America, if you see a black guy wearing Gunit or Rocawear with a white girl, 99% change shes a fatty. If he's wearing a respectable clothing brand and carries himself accordingly, sky is the limit. Like with any women, its all in how you carry yourself.

For example, as a white guy I have fucked some beautiful black women, but for the most part only the classy educated express wearing type, the hood ones probably don't want me and I don't want them. But if I dressed and acted like a wigger I'm sure I could bag them. Like I would ever want to do that.

This is complete nonsense on so many levels.

Post: #165

This discussion went better than I thought it would.

Post: #166

There is a study out there the states that 90% of college age Black men prefer light skinned over dark skinned Black women. I believe the study was done in 2008 at an HBCU. I don't have the link though, however I believe it fairly accurate.

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These studies seem are ridiculous. Maybe people need to get their head out of charts, and actually open their eyes. To what is actually occurring in real life.

I'm sure if there was a study asking men. Would they prefer their model wife to give them Blow Jobs on command. I'm sure most men would say yes. But I still see a lot of guys walking around with average women. Not getting any blow jobs.

Post: #167

I have only ever dated Black women. I have had sex with White, and Puerto Rican women. But my preference is for Black women.

But to sum all of this up. I think men should go after the hottest woman. That his game will allow him to get. It is perfectly fine to have a preference. But if you aren't getting notches. Maybe you should open your eyes, and see who is giving you the best signals.

Post: #168

Post: #169

Quote:Preach! Outside of the super-racist cities that are ran by and for beta white males like SF, Boston, and DC, I only see black dudes hooking up and dating with white chicks who are, at worst, doable 6s and 7s. As for blacks who date fat white women, most of the time, the black guy was just as fat (which in perspective would make them no different than your average Wal-Mart shopping middle American couple).

Now if you can tell the whiny Roissy crowd that! You know, the same people who talk about how "white women aren't shit" but when the same women go after black dudes, they put on the white knight role and "defend their white princesses against the negroes."

Racism is sexual in nature. That's why this is such fiery topic. Read "100 Years of Lynchings" by Ralph Ginzburg. During lynchings the victim's penis remove as while he was alive. Read "Sexual Racism" by Charles Stember. It was written in the 70's and it's out of print but it maybe the most eye opening book you could read in understanding why there so hatred of Black males.

Post: #170

These are the facts:

1. Black men don't prefer white women. We are just more open to dating outside of our race than a lot of other races. But generally speaking, black men don't prefer white women over their own.

2. SOME black guys do indeed prefer white women, ANY white woman, and will even date a fat one as long as she is white. But trust me, that is definitely not the norm.

3. Light skin is relative. The truth is that African americans don't get much darker than the girl on the 1st page of this thread. Anything darker than her is an anomaly and PLENTY regular black dudes would be happy to meet her on a blind date. African Americans just come in so many different shades that your bound to hear tons of different opinions on what any black guy may find attractive in reference to the color of black women.

4. When it comes to black women in Hollywood and pop culture, there are all types of variations of complexions that have been shown throughtout the years. Pam Grier is a mix between chocolate and caramel. Beyonce is caramel. Whitney Houston is barely lighter than chocolate. Gabrielle Union is all chocolate. Rhianna is yellow and so is Alicia Keys. Nia Long is right between chocolate and caramel. I can go back and forth all night long.

Bottom line, black men just want the finest woman they can get. But we don't inherently prefer white women.

Post: #171

(11-07-2011 03:19 PM)The Lesser Evil Wrote:  

Quote:Preach! Outside of the super-racist cities that are ran by and for beta white males like SF, Boston, and DC, I only see black dudes hooking up and dating with white chicks who are, at worst, doable 6s and 7s. As for blacks who date fat white women, most of the time, the black guy was just as fat (which in perspective would make them no different than your average Wal-Mart shopping middle American couple).

Now if you can tell the whiny Roissy crowd that! You know, the same people who talk about how "white women aren't shit" but when the same women go after black dudes, they put on the white knight role and "defend their white princesses against the negroes."

Racism is sexual in nature. That's why this is such fiery topic. Read "100 Years of Lynchings" by Ralph Ginzburg. During lynchings the victim's penis remove as while he was alive. Read "Sexual Racism" by Charles Stember. It was written in the 70's and it's out of print but it maybe the most eye opening book you could read in understanding why there so hatred of Black males.

Both Rosewood, FL and the black community of Tulsa, OK were looted and burned down by whites as a result of false rape claims by a white women. White men were resentful of the fact that these all-black towns were thriving, and they were actually living BETTER than some whites. They used the fear of black sexuality as an excuse to destroy what they had built.

Post: #172

(11-07-2011 09:00 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  

(11-07-2011 03:19 PM)The Lesser Evil Wrote:  

Quote:Preach! Outside of the super-racist cities that are ran by and for beta white males like SF, Boston, and DC, I only see black dudes hooking up and dating with white chicks who are, at worst, doable 6s and 7s. As for blacks who date fat white women, most of the time, the black guy was just as fat (which in perspective would make them no different than your average Wal-Mart shopping middle American couple).

Now if you can tell the whiny Roissy crowd that! You know, the same people who talk about how "white women aren't shit" but when the same women go after black dudes, they put on the white knight role and "defend their white princesses against the negroes."

Racism is sexual in nature. That's why this is such fiery topic. Read "100 Years of Lynchings" by Ralph Ginzburg. During lynchings the victim's penis remove as while he was alive. Read "Sexual Racism" by Charles Stember. It was written in the 70's and it's out of print but it maybe the most eye opening book you could read in understanding why there so hatred of Black males.

They used the fear of black sexuality as an excuse to destroy what they had built.

Sexual fear was the excuse used. Which makes my point, simply the idea of a Black with a White woman has to horrific violence and terroirsm. The violence( lynching, burnings, castration etc.) is just an emotional response.

Post: #173

Don't we all prefer Brazilian women?

Post: #174

Ya, I think Adriana Lima is one of the nicest models, but I don't know if that is common or if it is an outlier for brazil. Many of the girls I seen posted on here are not nice in terms of pretty face. I think that black men are open minded in dating and since white is 75% of the population and black 10%, Mexican 10%, and asian and other 5% they are just more likely to pick a non black female or be successful in getting with a non black female. I've seen youtube post of a black man who was fairly attractive saying black women were just harder to pick up. So given that they are 1/7th the amount of white women and black guys say they are easier it is not any super complex reason.

Post: #175

(10-21-2011 07:01 PM)UrbanNerd Wrote:  You can click on my profile on this site and my travels have a slant to the Caribbean, Central America and South America. I will admit that I am biased to women of color and usually of mostly-African descent. Now will I bang that fine white chick?....Ya damn right, but I may not pursue her as hard as a non-white chick (I will admit that).

I am the exact opposite in that, I am Black With a Bias for white but will I bang a hot black chick? ...FUCK YEAH!! but like you I won't pursue her as hard as a white chick and I make no apologies for it.


Those who have an issue (black or not), need to get the fuck over it. There are 7 billion people on the planet after you break that number down for gender, and other factors, like age, location and "would ya?", no sane, honest man should be left with any valid reason for having the scarcity mentality required to say "why don't you stick to your own?!".

(10-21-2011 03:19 PM)Jason Zee Wrote:  It sucks to be a black woman.

Bullshit...

Even in the EXTREME scenario that has been implied at points throughout this thread and summarized by your comment. The only reason an attractive and otherwise eligible black woman would be hard pressed to find a "date" is if she was closed of to advances from non-black men. I know SEVERAL non-black men who think I'm nuts for my preference and would gladly take a sistah out any day of the week.

(10-21-2011 08:04 PM)blurb Wrote:  I'm tired of all these race threads.

So what if you do prefer lighter-skinned women?

Stop caring what other people think, get rid of that insecure self-consciousness, and go after what you want. Stop rationalizing, apologizing, or making excuses for your desires and actions.

Some guys need a backbone and go after what they like and makes them happy, whether it be lighter-skinned women. Life is short. People need to start realizing that most people don't care about you. Get rid of that insecurity.

If you prefer light-skinned women, then go after them without excuse or apology.

A-FUCKING-MEN