Post: #1

Hey guys, I did search around the threads for anything that was similiar to my situation and I couldn't really find anything so I'm going to start a new thread.

So about a month ago, I met a guy from the Simple Pickup forum and we agreed to go daygaming at a nearby college campus.

He was the same age as me and we had a lot of things in common so I was pretty excited that I had finally met a cool wingman my age. We talked for a while and by the time we got to the campus, I was in a social/talkative state. As a result, I was able to approach and engage in conversations with girls naturally and I was able to get 2 numbers. Now my wing froze up around girls but I didn't really care since engaging in a conversation with him got me into a pumped up social state and alllowed me to have a successful day.

My question for you veteran gamers is: How can I get into this type of social state without a having wingman?

I know Roosh recommends watching Seinfeld before going out and although doing that helped me a little bit, it isn't the same as having someone who you can talk to and get you into the fun/social state. Thanks!

Post: #2

I usually have a playlist that I listen to before I go out. So by the time I get into the club, I'm mad turnt. Or in a very fluid social state.

I would recommend some hardcore electronic, drum 'n' bass, etc.

Post: #3

(10-25-2015 07:23 AM)Il Bersagliere Wrote:  I usually have a playlist that I listen to before I go out. So by the time I get into the club, I'm mad turnt. Or in a very fluid social state.

This is a great tip for getting into an energetic, pumped up and fun party vibe. I do this myself and it works great to get me into that 'life of the party' state!

But, as I found out again when I went clubbing this weekend, it doesn't help me to get into a social and chatty mood. The result is that I'm having a blast in the club, girls see this and react to it; they pinch my ass, smile at me and even start dancing with me, but when it's time to open them verbally I draw a blank...

I do know how to cure this though. Proper warm up. Start talking to everyone e.g. 'open all'. Just shoot the shit with everybody and anybody. Comment on someone's shoes, ask for directions, ask what time a specific place opens/closes or even talk about the weather. Talking to random strangers get's you in the zone very fast.

It's a technique I've used before and it worked wonders. For some reason I've been neglecting it. I definitely need to pick it up again though and I suggest you do the same OP.