Lizard King
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Tumblr blog where women submit anon essays on their orgasms
I'm not the right person to make this thread, as some of the material requires dissection and analysis. All I see is a bunch of women thinking they're unique because of their sexuality. So hopefully some of you can pull out some gems.
Here is the blog:
http://howtomakemecome.tumblr.com/
Quote:This is a collection of anonymous essays by women talking about female orgasm.
One possible prompt was: Imagine you could give this essay to a past or future sexual partner, free of judgment or repercussion. What would you want them to know?
A more general approach was to simply speak about your relationship to orgasm, whatever that means to you, in whatever way you wanted.
The female orgasm can sometimes be challenging to achieve and/or talk about, but it goes beyond that. When we talk about female orgasm, something deeper is at play—for one, the societal assessment and conversation of female sexuality; the consequences of which bleed into the areas of our lives far outside the bedroom.
We wanted to start a dialogue about how women achieve sexual pleasure; something that is often ignored, devalued, or misunderstood.
We reached out to some friends. They reached out to some friends. They reached out to some friends…We slowly began to build a collective of women who had something to say. People began to immediately respond with intense affirmation and stories of their own. We felt such a rush from seeing a group of women opening up. It confirmed that this is something a lot of women are itching to talk about.
Here is our look into the spectrum of desire. Of frustration. Of experiences that have left an impact.
Getting to see this range of opinions and preferences and fears and fantasies has profoundly moved us. In making it public, we hope to offer that feeling to others and to encourage them to keep the discussion going in their own lives.
This is just the beginning. Let’s start talking…
It has recently been getting a lot of coverage in the media because people are interested in the female orgasm, and it is still seen as a sensational topic.
I briefly read a couple of entries, one was from a 17-18 year old, who was pissed at her boyfriend because he didn't make her come. From what I can gather it is very common for young girls to have difficulty in having an orgasm, so not entirely the fault of her boyfriend.
I find the blog and its essays banal, as I realise all women are different and orgasm in different ways(more or less), so I don't see the big deal in documenting the personal account.
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RE: Tumblr blog where women submit anon essays on their orgasms
I never take any of this shit seriously. Women always want to make an orgasm out to be something way more than it really ought to be. A lot of this comes from feminist lies, and is further proof that more than anything feminism hates females. A female orgasm is intended to aid in procreation which is why woman who are mentally healthy will almost always have one when they feel a guy's jizz hit their cervix. If a woman can't have an orgasm from having a dick inside, then I assume she's a fucked out slut, or has some issues. I don't stick around too long.
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| 09-20-2015 02:30 AM |
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RE: Tumblr blog where women submit anon essays on their orgasms
I read a few of them and damn they were annoying.
Back in my beta days I actually listened and cared about giving a girl an orgasm and would make all sorts of efforts which often resulted in her saying"it's ok" and patting me when I failed, which I usually did.
So after years I got tired of trying and learned game and really stopped consciously caring or trying. All I do now is fuck her anyway I want and do whatever else I want to her. The result is that most women now come frequently and hard with me, and often just from vaginal fucking, which most articles on the subject claim is difficult.
My conclusion is that the female orgasm has much less to do with the specific physical stimulation than with how she feels about the man fucking her and how he arouses her. So forget all those exact steps that each special snowflake says she needs to cum; maybe she does when she's diddling herself, but that has nothing to do with you. The more you dominate her and use her for your pleasure, and the more she feels herself to be an object of your desire, the more likely she is to orgasm.
The one exception to this is if you want to make a girl squirt, it does help to use the spiderman hand technique and put pressure on the G-spot, although I have had girls who are already prone to squirting squirt as I was fucking them plenty of times.
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RE: Tumblr blog where women submit anon essays on their orgasms
(09-20-2015 12:19 PM)MrXY Wrote: I read a few of them and damn they were annoying.
Back in my beta days I actually listened and cared about giving a girl an orgasm and would make all sorts of efforts which often resulted in her saying"it's ok" and patting me when I failed, which I usually did.
So after years I got tired of trying and learned game and really stopped consciously caring or trying. All I do now is fuck her anyway I want and do whatever else I want to her. The result is that most women now come frequently and hard with me, and often just from vaginal fucking, which most articles on the subject claim is difficult.
My conclusion is that the female orgasm has much less to do with the specific physical stimulation than with how she feels about the man fucking her and how he arouses her. So forget all those exact steps that each special snowflake says she needs to cum; maybe she does when she's diddling herself, but that has nothing to do with you. The more you dominate her and use her for your pleasure, and the more she feels herself to be an object of your desire, the more likely she is to orgasm.
The one exception to this is if you want to make a girl squirt, it does help to use the spiderman hand technique and put pressure on the G-spot, although I have had girls who are already prone to squirting squirt as I was fucking them plenty of times.
Women are very chemically influenced. If they pop a bunch of tylenol I doubt they can cum. On the other hand, red wine or tequila will bring it on. They have to get warmed up. When women are warmed up they can cum anywhere. I have had many women cum just sitting on my lap. Some can come from breast stimulation.
If men could reach multiple orgasms like a women we would have all ripped our dicks off by age 14!
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