Moma switched over to the vanilla!!# *heart attack*
Even more shocking was Gangsta Moma! Gold chains, fronts! *dead*
I think the line of the podcast goes to Rudebwoy,
The 9 to 5 is the biggest cockblock.
Truer words...
Both of you have offline jobs and careers, but you guys said you knew brothers who have managed to kick the 9 to 5 habit, that's.what I need to hear about.
Only name I can think of is Jubril Agoro. I just don't know if he's doing more than building a lifestyle brand.
Archie - To meet certain girls, you have to think outside the box.
Girls are addicted to Starbucks, I have spent a few days as of late doing "work" in a few and have been shocked how many cute girls roll through these places during the daytime.
These aren't office girls or career chicks, a few of them granted seem to be doing work on their laptops.
As we mentioned on the podcast, partying on weekends is mainly for out of town people and people from the burbs. The good nights tend to be from Sunday to Thursday.
Most 9 to 5 jobs now are stressful and the good paying ones you have to take your work home at nights. Corporate jobs come and they go, so working for yourself is becoming more of a necessity of survival. The million dollar question is what to do, consulting or I.T seems to be the most popular answer.
We have been recording quite a few podcasts to say the least and Rudebwoy and I have built up a rapport in our style.
The time has come to establish an identity a feel and get more of feedback from listeners as to where they feel this should go.
- What areas do you feel you would like more detail on a weekly basis?
Specific techniques, mindsets on game?
Defensive game for the more established males who are working at not being burnt by gold diggers etc? Defensive game spans beyond race, in my opinion.
Corporate game
- Are you content with the length of the podcasts or should we shorten the material and push them out bi-weekly (by recording an initial long episode and segmenting it into two)?
- A few listeners do not have the ability to access youtube/ Do you think it's worth pushing it to soundcloud and possibly itunes?
- Should this accompanied by a blog of some sort to gather further information and insights and just discuss certain things and then voice the more popular events on the podcast?
- What would the strongest marketing platforms be to get this out there? Facebook? We are already on twitter? What else, pinterest?
Again, thank you for your listenership, we aim to please.
I laughed when you talked your experience with the Kenyan girl since a lot of my family has said similar things. I noticed Africans from all over have to. Why do you think the Naija rep is so bad on the continent?
(08-27-2015 11:37 PM)Joga Bonito Wrote: I laughed when you talked your experience with the Kenyan girl since a lot of my family has said similar things. I noticed Africans from all over have to. Why do you think the Naija rep is so bad on the continent?
Dude, 419 and Boko lends HUGELY to that bad rep! But I think that now Buhari is president and he's a Northerner so that shyt should die down.
(09-04-2015 01:08 AM)Moma Wrote: First part of latest podcast with London's thedarkknight..enjoy!
Great to have a fellow Londoner on your podcast. But a bit eerie using the picture of Meredith Kercher, the woman Amanda Knox was accused of Killing, as your video image. But enjoyed the podcast none the less.
When you guys are referring to "dating", are you exclusively referring to long-term relationships? Or are you also including ONS? Does anyone feel like being black makes it significantly more difficult to get an ONS?
(09-10-2015 10:29 PM)Agastya Wrote: When you guys are referring to "dating", are you exclusively referring to long-term relationships? Or are you also including ONS? Does anyone feel like being black makes it significantly more difficult to get an ONS?
I am not sure about everyone else in this thread, but I find it exceptionally difficult to get a ONS, at least via social circle. Long term stuff typically isn't an issue. Usually I'll get invited to house parties with good female talent, many of whom know my friends. The "black" parties often run overnight and make it very difficult to pull because competition is steep and AMOGing is rampant. Combine alcohol with that and it's usually anti-game from there.
Mixed parties/events/groups are even more difficult because you don't know the 'rules' per se or who will attempt to blindside you.
A few months ago, I was at a small event with my then social circle. Mostly all white. A new girl was introduced to the group. Pretty sexy. My game was not that yet developed, but I still gave it a go. However, before I could even talk to the girl, her best friend introduced all of us, during which she mentioned my background to her. It was a disqualifier. The reason I say this is because she introduced everyone else differently with no regard to where they were from. I called it out, which in hindsight I should have left it alone, but it was too late. All my other attempts to game her were jettisoned.
I have many other similar stories like this, where I would get cockblocked for the same reasons. My response is making radical changes to my social circle and gaming alone. I started making changes to my circle when I started to realize they had a very blase view of me would always attempt to pull the wool over my eyes in a social situation that involved me trying to get laid. I have no time or stomach for that.
It's evident that my game is not that versatile yet, either. I do better when I roll solo, when I don't know anyone in a group, when I take girls to smaller venues, when no one is trying to be a spectator or interject while I'm running my rap. When I do the above, it helps tremendously.
(09-10-2015 10:29 PM)Agastya Wrote: When you guys are referring to "dating", are you exclusively referring to long-term relationships? Or are you also including ONS? Does anyone feel like being black makes it significantly more difficult to get an ONS?
I am not sure about everyone else in this thread, but I find it exceptionally difficult to get a ONS, at least via social circle. Long term stuff typically isn't an issue. Usually I'll get invited to house parties with good female talent, many of whom know my friends. The "black" parties often run overnight and make it very difficult to pull because competition is steep and AMOGing is rampant. Combine alcohol with that and it's usually anti-game from there.
Mixed parties/events/groups are even more difficult because you don't know the 'rules' per se or who will attempt to blindside you.
A few months ago, I was at a small event with my then social circle. Mostly all white. A new girl was introduced to the group. Pretty sexy. My game was not that yet developed, but I still gave it a go. However, before I could even talk to the girl, her best friend introduced all of us, during which she mentioned my background to her. It was a disqualifier. The reason I say this is because she introduced everyone else differently with no regard to where they were from. I called it out, which in hindsight I should have left it alone, but it was too late. All my other attempts to game her were jettisoned.
I have many other similar stories like this, where I would get cockblocked for the same reasons. My response is making radical changes to my social circle and gaming alone. I started making changes to my circle when I started to realize they had a very blase view of me would always attempt to pull the wool over my eyes in a social situation that involved me trying to get laid. I have no time or stomach for that.
It's evident that my game is not that versatile yet, either. I do better when I roll solo, when I don't know anyone in a group, when I take girls to smaller venues, when no one is trying to be a spectator or interject while I'm running my rap. When I do the above, it helps tremendously.
Hi. What do you mean by the bold? WHat is your background? How did she introduce you differently? What is the blase view they have of you?
(09-10-2015 10:29 PM)Agastya Wrote: When you guys are referring to "dating", are you exclusively referring to long-term relationships? Or are you also including ONS? Does anyone feel like being black makes it significantly more difficult to get an ONS?
I think this has more to do with personality than skin color. If a chick wants to fuck she wants to fuck, if she wants to wait she is going to wait. I don't see a chick saying hmm I was going to let him bang tonight, but because he is black we need to date first.
@Il Bersagliere: You just have some haters in your social circle. Usually i am the only black guy when I go out with my social circle/classmates, they don't pull any of this shit. If anyone did they would be called out by the rest of the group immediately. Behind close doors we shit talk, make racist remarks to each other etc, but in front of other people no way. In fact I notice more drama/cockblocking between non blacks in my social circle than myself. It's pretty funny to hear people shit talk one another and argue while I stand on the sidelines spectating.
(09-11-2015 12:36 AM)thedarkknight Wrote: Hi. What do you mean by the bold? WHat is your background? How did she introduce you differently? What is the blase view they have of you?
I probably should have given some context. That particular scenario, along with many others, are in the Deep South, so it's not surprising. Part of my family is from Africa, so I typically tell people that. I've stopped doing this because it often gets me a LOT of negative attention. She introduced me in a way that communicated that she was beneath me, so I called her out on it.
It's as if she was trying to establish a pecking order within the group, if that makes sense. This has happened too many times. And for some reason, I kept doing it. Maybe I'm just proud of where I'm from.
(09-11-2015 10:15 AM)coverdoc Wrote: @Il Bersagliere: You just have some haters in your social circle. Usually i am the only black guy when I go out with my social circle/classmates, they don't pull any of this shit. If anyone did they would be called out by the rest of the group immediately. Behind close doors we shit talk, make racist remarks to each other etc, but in front of other people no way. In fact I notice more drama/cockblocking between non blacks in my social circle than myself. It's pretty funny to hear people shit talk one another and argue while I stand on the sidelines spectating.
-CD
Yeah. They are. A lot of this was before red pill, but when I slowly started gaining awareness, I'd call them out on their shit and the issues just magnified. I'm in a weird transitional period right now, but I'm slowly fading away and trying to get a more international group of people into my circle. That seems to be more my vibe.
A lot of it has to do with your vibe, mine is more serious and laidback. Girls want to put me in that LTR bracket, which I find annoying. Also being an older dude I have a different frame and a different energy.
If you are that party guy, life of the party guy then girls will want to have fun with you. (i.e Distant Light)
(09-11-2015 12:36 AM)thedarkknight Wrote: Hi. What do you mean by the bold? WHat is your background? How did she introduce you differently? What is the blase view they have of you?
I probably should have given some context. That particular scenario, along with many others, are in the Deep South, so it's not surprising. Part of my family is from Africa, so I typically tell people that. I've stopped doing this because it often gets me a LOT of negative attention. She introduced me in a way that communicated that she was beneath me, so I called her out on it.
It's as if she was trying to establish a pecking order within the group, if that makes sense. This has happened too many times. And for some reason, I kept doing it. Maybe I'm just proud of where I'm from.
(09-11-2015 10:15 AM)coverdoc Wrote: @Il Bersagliere: You just have some haters in your social circle. Usually i am the only black guy when I go out with my social circle/classmates, they don't pull any of this shit. If anyone did they would be called out by the rest of the group immediately. Behind close doors we shit talk, make racist remarks to each other etc, but in front of other people no way. In fact I notice more drama/cockblocking between non blacks in my social circle than myself. It's pretty funny to hear people shit talk one another and argue while I stand on the sidelines spectating.
-CD
Yeah. They are. A lot of this was before red pill, but when I slowly started gaining awareness, I'd call them out on their shit and the issues just magnified. I'm in a weird transitional period right now, but I'm slowly fading away and trying to get a more international group of people into my circle. That seems to be more my vibe.
I'm in the deep south too, but haven't experienced anything like this in terms of social circle. You definitely need to get a new crew. calling people out down here will always turn into a "you only see race" "you are sensitive" pulling the black card bull shit.
Il Bersagliere, you say you find it extremely hard to pull off ONS, my question is, do you push for them and if so, how hard? I don't mean forcing your penis down a lizard's throat but by the end of the interaction at a venue, you should make it certain to your target that you have sexual intent with her and you are capable of carrying through with them.
If you have done that EVERY time with each prospective client, you should find that eventually one is down to fcuk. It's a matter of screening the lizards for those who aren't looking for dates and sticking to the program of displaying intent and projecting intensity onto your lizards.
I've gotten ONS's, of course and I think it's even easier with white lizards.
I'm not a ONS expert as my style is quite laidback but I'm trying to change it more because some lizards bore the tits off of me having to listen to their rubbish on dates.
Social circle personally makes it even easier for me to get the slams because one is being qualified by being part of that 'group'.
^I will admit that I could do a much better job with screening prospective girls, but I find that when I am alone in a venue, it's much easier to pull if I roll without my circle or even with a wing.