Post: #26

(10-13-2011 03:50 PM)Richie Wrote:  She doesn't want a good rogering from the likes of you. She wants a nice Beta to bang. I dont buy all this 'all girls are sluts' business^^^.

thing is.. it's not that "all girls are sluts". look a girl is only HUMAN. she likes sex. she likes adventures, likes intimacy, likes touch, likes hooking up. she's only human just like you and me. so don't view her as something that she's not. cause that girl already has sex life. she might tell you that she doesn't but she does. and she's not gonna wait for months for that perfect white knight who will rescue her like a princess. and because you're kind of like white knight she treats you differently than she treats some badass who just does what works

(10-13-2011 03:50 PM)Richie Wrote:  I always try to date 'nice' girls. That is my thing. In order to date nice girls you need to be a nice boy. Turn on the pressure and you will scare her away.

that's right. if you want to DATE a girl then yeah play it safe move slow and treat her with utmost respect. however if you want to
thing is.. for the most part YOU decide how she gonna treat you based on your behaviour towards her. cause women adapt and that's how they survive (you can do research on that). this is big realization cause now you get it that no girl is only conservative or only slutty. she got BOTH sides in her. and she shows them only to people who appreciate it. so basically it's like this.. "oh this is good guy who want to date me and treat me like a princess.. ok so i have to be nice and innocent now" and after the date she wants to bang so she goes "oh this fucking scumbag fucks like a champ and he makes my pussy wet when he shamelessly kiss me right away.. ok let's get slutty.. ring ring hello asshole me and my pussy is missing you..". she can't be like that with the dating guy cause he will judge her. also she can't go on a date with a scumbag cause he will leave after 10 minutes of too much pleasanties

(10-13-2011 03:50 PM)Richie Wrote:  Nice guy game is also required to game those mid-upper class girls who dont go to nightclubs. I am in the process of writing a bunch of scripted day game openers for those occasions where a much more tactical approach is required to get her attention. These girls do not need your cock. You need to come in under the radar and make them believe you are cool guy not the needy one. It takes time and patience. But if you are like me I'd rather bang and hold on to 1 hot nice girl than bang 50 sluts.

well obviously it's lame to jump on a girl like that dry humping her to make her horny. it's just important to go hard and move fast when opportunity comes. that's just masculine to dominate. classy or no classy girls.. wahtever.. afte rall girls just want to be taken by the man who knows what he's doing

(10-19-2011 03:27 AM)boxwino Wrote:  Seriously just tonight I hooked up with my ex, who is one of these so called labeled nice girls to the 8th degree, and she hates (loves) my ass and doesn't trust me for shit (even said over text literally 24 hours ago she can't fuck me 'because until she feels I see and respect her fully as a person and not some nameless girl of many I fuck'), and she has a guy around she really likes she is dating who has the exact same above attitude who is logically the better choice for her in every way and she just sent me a text thanking me..

and that's what it happens. i bet that as long as boxwino doesn't react to her bullshit he can fuck the shit out of her again again and again even thogh she's dating guy who throws cash at her. it's so obvious that she just wanted to put him in a role to control him. logic vs emotions war in her head is big : ))))

Post: #27

(10-19-2011 07:49 AM)XXL Wrote:  

(10-19-2011 03:27 AM)boxwino Wrote:  Seriously just tonight I hooked up with my ex, who is one of these so called labeled nice girls to the 8th degree, and she hates (loves) my ass and doesn't trust me for shit (even said over text literally 24 hours ago she can't fuck me 'because until she feels I see and respect her fully as a person and not some nameless girl of many I fuck'), and she has a guy around she really likes she is dating who has the exact same above attitude who is logically the better choice for her in every way and she just sent me a text thanking me..

and that's what it happens. i bet that as long as boxwino doesn't react to her bullshit he can fuck the shit out of her again again and again even thogh she's dating guy who throws cash at her. it's so obvious that she just wanted to put him in a role to control him. logic vs emotions war in her head is big : ))))

Very true. Reacting to her emotions or being too understanding (as I had been reading a lot about how to communicate well in a relationship) is what kept me from hooking up with her throughout the break up and probably kept things from progressing to where I wanted them to be. Now that I am back in don't give a crap mode and going for what I want because I do have desire for her and not playing it delicate now it's like playing with fire for her. Things will progress from her or she will leave but Im willing to lose it if it means being myself and going after what I want (which is what I know what she wants when you get past her logic). When it comes to her reactions now, sometimes I validate what she feels, other times I agree and amplify or agree and change topics or just shut it down.

Post: #28

yeah to this day i don't really get it what's going on there that the guys who are the best choice for the girl like the best guys in her eyes often finish last getting left getting lame kiss on the cheek while she submits to total badasses or scumbags who move fast and go hard unapologetically and fuck her on the regular. like.. what the hell these girl really think? hahahaha. the only thing that comes up to my mind is that a girl gets dominated emotionally so much that she's hipnotyzed like trapped in trance and can't escape.

i can't complain cause to me it's all fun and games but sometimes it's really sad to watch how some of my buddies get treated like shit. what.. i can't just tell them "it's cause you actually like her dude so then you go into scarcity and it always sucks". no wonder that relationships sucks most of the time when guys are so uneducated about this

Post: #29

This is true. I believe in connection and having a great time with each other but the biggest thing I have gotten confirmation on lately is to never ever dial yourself down sexually or otherwise to make Someone else comfortable. Girls know what I'm all about often I'll even tell them my intentions verbally and if they don't accept that fine. I find if you dial Ypurself down they will either resent you or do whatever they wish. Lead, do what you want honestly and they come with you, ad sometimes they don't. With the ex she tried to be friends at first I told her I'm not that guy, that's not me, I'm not content to just look at you, I'll be friendly but you know my intentions and I'm not going to change what I want so Ypure more comfortable, if you can't accept that I'll miss you, we would have had a lot of fun. And you know what, she was a little sad later about what happened but she thanked me for making her feel wanted in that moment and the only reason t happened is because the other guy wasn't there how she wanted him to be.

Assume she's interested and never dial yourself down into the friend zone.

Post: #30

(10-19-2011 06:33 PM)boxwino Wrote:  ... the biggest thing I have gotten confirmation on lately is to never ever dial yourself down sexually or otherwise to make Someone else comfortable.

i learned that the hard way. i remember how i used to go hard initially only to crumble a little later just because i felt a girl would be down then. what a mistake! of course it never worked cause a girl was just testing me how congruent i was. deep down i knew i was doing something wrong (not satying tru to myself) but still i thought i'd be better to make it super comfortable for her (aka handing her my balls) to sleepwith me.

then i was pissed and ditched that shit

and only then when i was pissed and honest at the same time i remember i talked to some girl i really liked her hahahah and she was fucking with me saying "you're great friend blablal" and i responded very firmly "i will never be your friend cause i find you very attractive so any kind of friendship with you is out of question.." then she asked me more questions i answered in the same fashion and after 5 mins she said "come to me now" and what do you know fun time in the night