Post: #1

I just did a search and everyone said to move on to the next girl. I have 2 other girls in my rotation but this one girl I would like to bang again.

After first bang, I waited a day to messaged her where we texted a little.

It's been a week with no contact so I messaged her "hi, how are you" where she hasn't replied.

If I don't hear from her again, I will bait her in 1-2 week BUT what should I say? Should I keep it simple and say "hi, how are you?" or "it was a fun night, lets do it again." ???

What's the best thing to say to get another bang?

Post: #2

(07-07-2015 04:12 AM)Fitnesspm Wrote:  I just did a search and everyone said to move on to the next girl. I have 2 other girls in my rotation but this one girl I would like to bang again.

After first bang, I waited a day to messaged her where we texted a little.

It's been a week with no contact so I messaged her "hi, how are you" where she hasn't replied.

If I don't hear from her again, I will bait her in 1-2 week BUT what should I say? Should I keep it simple and say "hi, how are you?" or "it was a fun night, lets do it again." ???

What's the best thing to say to get another bang?

Don't message her stuff like `Hi, how are you?'. Try something that will pique her interest `I had a dream of you last night'. Most girls will then ask what the dream was about. Continue by telling her vague things regarding your dream `Oh we were lost in this empty building and were trying to find a way out'. Once you got the convo started you can then come up with an idea for a date.

Another option would be to send her a cool picture that will make her ask something about it.

Post: #3

(07-07-2015 04:12 AM)Fitnesspm Wrote:  I just did a search and everyone said to move on to the next girl. I have 2 other girls in my rotation but this one girl I would like to bang again.

After first bang, I waited a day to messaged her where we texted a little.

It's been a week with no contact so I messaged her "hi, how are you" where she hasn't replied.

If I don't hear from her again, I will bait her in 1-2 week BUT what should I say? Should I keep it simple and say "hi, how are you?" or "it was a fun night, lets do it again." ???

What's the best thing to say to get another bang?

You're hung up on one girl, go get another, rinse and repeat. You've already initiated courtship and banged her, now the ball is in her court. she might come back for more she might not it happens to everyone. I repeat DO NOT text her anything, bait or otherwise.

Your focus should only be building a little black book and getting girls on rotation. You'll be amazed at the amount of girls that reach out after a bang when you don't bother texting or calling them, hell I flat out refuse to friend them on facebook unless they go on regular rotation. apparently you are not caring as much about the other two girls you have on rotation (and that's why they are on rotation)

Post: #4

(07-07-2015 04:12 AM)Fitnesspm Wrote:  I just did a search and everyone said to move on to the next girl. I have 2 other girls in my rotation but this one girl I would like to bang again.

After first bang, I waited a day to messaged her where we texted a little.

It's been a week with no contact so I messaged her "hi, how are you" where she hasn't replied.

If I don't hear from her again, I will bait her in 1-2 week BUT what should I say? Should I keep it simple and say "hi, how are you?" or "it was a fun night, lets do it again." ???

What's the best thing to say to get another bang?

Was it ONS? Lets assume it was, so if you want not to hear from her again, then I suggest texting her "it was a fun night, lets do it again.". She now feels like a slut (did you do any damage control? like "whoa, never expected to happen so fast") and after the text she will likely block you.

If you really wanna chase her, then ask something like blackaldr mentioned. Or follow on something that you have discussed prior to the bang.

In my opinion you already killed it with the "hi, how are you?" text. I personally made that mistake a couple of times - no dmg control&lame post-sex text message few days later.

You will not hear from her again. next.

Post: #5

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Post: #6

Basically, 3 things could be to blame here:

1) You committed Fool's Mate [Mystery - ONS] and slept with her too fast. She feels like a slut or that she shouldn't have let you overcome LMR and either way is ashamed of her actions, she ain't coming back.

2) You were bad at sex. Sorry, see above. Most young guys are, I freely admit I was terrible at it back then.

3) Sex was too vanilla for her. Of course, you may find this hard to tell ahead of time, but most girls like being dominated.

and of course, she may have found someone else. Move onwards and upwards.

Post: #7

(07-08-2015 08:05 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  Basically, 3 things could be to blame here:

1) You committed Fool's Mate [Mystery - ONS] and slept with her too fast. She feels like a slut or that she shouldn't have let you overcome LMR and either way is ashamed of her actions, she ain't coming back.

2) You were bad at sex. Sorry, see above. Most young guys are, I freely admit I was terrible at it back then.

3) Sex was too vanilla for her. Of course, you may find this hard to tell ahead of time, but most girls like being dominated.

and of course, she may have found someone else. Move onwards and upwards.

I'll add a number four and five, two things which are often ignored by the forum.
4) She used you for sex. This happens to me in a fairly high percentage of my notches. A girl doesn't care about me, doesn't want to get to know me, but is physically attracted to me and is is in the mood for sex the time that I meet her.
5) This one happens all the time when I travel. You happened to catch her the night before her one day off of the week. She only goes out or thinks about hooking up with guys that one night a week. Every other night, she goes to bed early, because she has to wake up early for work.

Post: #8

(07-08-2015 08:16 PM)Merenguero Wrote:  4) She used you for sex. This happens to me in a fairly high percentage of my notches. A girl doesn't care about me, doesn't want to get to know me, but is physically attracted to me and is is in the mood for sex the time that I meet her.

I agree this happens a lot more than is acknowledged. Guys , especially players, like to think they are setting the agenda and overestimate how much power they have. Many times when the girl goes no contact after a bang it's because she wanted nothing more than to pump and dump them.

The others reasons cited are possibilities as well, of course.

Post: #9

Merenguero ' Wrote:  4) She used you for sex. This happens to me in a fairly high percentage of my notches. A girl doesn't care about me, doesn't want to get to know me, but is physically attracted to me and is is in the mood for sex the time that I meet her.

I feel so violated all of a sudden!!!

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Post: #10

(07-08-2015 08:05 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  Basically, 3 things could be to blame here:

1) You committed Fool's Mate [Mystery - ONS] and slept with her too fast. She feels like a slut or that she shouldn't have let you overcome LMR and either way is ashamed of her actions, she ain't coming back.

2) You were bad at sex. Sorry, see above. Most young guys are, I freely admit I was terrible at it back then.

3) Sex was too vanilla for her. Of course, you may find this hard to tell ahead of time, but most girls like being dominated.

and of course, she may have found someone else. Move onwards and upwards.

2&3, no way, i'm 35 y/o and have had enough experience I believe. Been following the PUAs for over 10 years now.

I'm leaning to number 1 cause i did no 'damage control'

I'm in Thailand and she is a Thai girl i meet on Thaifriendly.com. On the first date, she brought her cousin (it's kind of normal here, she is a country girl and was to shy to come out on her own, just moved from country to tourist location) so I only got a peak on the lips a couple times where kino was very good. She was always trying to touch me. I showed 2/3 of my attention to her cousin and 1/3 to her. Her cousin was very into me where I could tell by body language they both liked me! At the end of the night, I tried to get her to leave her cousin but I had no luck! I can tell she was into me tho!

She message me before I got home and wanted to see me again (Sunday). I didn't reply to the next day where I organised to caught up on Tuesday. She wanted to be picked up early so I did where she wanted to see my room. Banged her hard about 4 times that night. In the bedroom, she was very shy tho. Felt like I was with a virgin!

I messaged her the next night where she was angry cause she had to go to the doctor cause her womb was hurting. Blame me where I said she going to be ok but she didn't reply.

So I left it for a week where it's been two days now and i haven't received a reply.

She said she hasn't been with a guy in 2 years and just joined Thailfriendly a couple months ago. She brought her cousin cause she was shy and I was the first guy she met. I don't believe a word a woman says where this she is petite and small and it felt like I was banging a virgin. That's why I want to see her again, it felt so good cause she was so tight!

She is an attention seeking hoe and was always on her phone on the second date. First date she hardly touched it. Very petite and attractive, 22-23 years old, only 40kg. It took a bit of work to game her over a month.

I believe she is pissed off with me and yes I know she is getting allot of attention from guys on social media. I remember some advise from David Deangelo back in the day, bad emotion is just as good as good emotion (ex. negative hit). So I believe I can get another bang or two! I just need some good bait after 2-4 weeks maybe??

Post: #11

Thailand! That's the problem. She's probably hooking up with more foreign dudes. Just get another one off TF or Tinder or whatever.